Fastestmanalive:


He meant most women

Oga calm down..men cheat the most...

Jodha:


Why do people cheat sef.... if yhure not comfortable with yhur partner....

Take a bow and leave nah....Shu o

If you marry me, I can let you cheat on me for free.

eni4real:
Hypothesis

Laws...

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.

How can I pay ur bills and still let you cheat on me Think na

The useless wife is just angry because she was caught I can bet all my life savings that she would even have done it after the wedding

And I bet she's also angry because no more England for her

I salute the man he has sense I'm abundance

My only advice for that failure of a wife is to jump into the lagoon

healthserve:
If its true,blame it on this generation. The normalisation of being a prostitute

the bride just unknowingly walked out of a disaster and instead of her to be celebrating and thanking God,she's Wailing.the man cheated on you too and you forgave him but when you did the same thing he wasn't ready to forgive you and the next thing is to be lamenting?


O puleaseee wipe your tears and thank God you didn't marry an unforgiving man that will be plotting to disgrace you on your day of celebration

even the lady is not serious u no u have wedding coming up in less than 2months and u are still cheating? u cheat within ur area na wao.

Jodha:


Laws...

Bill

Babara1994:

If you marry me, I can let you cheat on me for free.

Lool....Noted

Best news of the year

Women who forgive cheating men are fools. 90% of abroad guys 9ja babes are been slept with in nigeria while they are away

eni4real:
Bill

Objectives...

Please someone should give that guy some accolades. He deserve a big one.

Avoidable nonsense..I will avoid comment

Jodha:


Objectives...

Multiple Choice

Hypocrite kee u there

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.

Oga run ooo before she go another 1 dem go drug am chuk am again wen una don marry..

The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong. EPIC REPLY FOR A POKENOSER
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Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook has got many people angry and slamming the man for humiliating his wife and her family, read the details posted below by Sandra Ibeh and lets know your opinion, was the man right?
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Sandra Ibeh Posted :

Tomorrow is 31st December 2019 and the last day of this decade. While some are in celebration mood, a man has decided to humiliate a whole family by pulling out of his church and traditional wedding scheduled for tomorrow somewhere in Anambra because his bride to be cheated on him 2 months back.
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In as much as I am not in support of what the bride did, I equally condemned the groom's last-minute decision. He knew that his bride cheated on his since October and didn't confront her. He went along with the marriage preparation putting the lady through so many stress while he remained in England hatching his evil plan.
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He came back to Abuja on the 28th and told his mother this morning that he's not going ahead with the wedding.
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The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.
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Bride to be has been crying uncontrollably in the village. She admitted that she made a mistake and she regrets her action. She had more to drink during her friend's birthday and ended up sleeping with one of their mutual friends (action she greatly regrets) without knowing that it was a setup. The next day pictures were sent to her fiance and he held on to it and acted normal until today.
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I asked him why he kept quiet and continued with the preparation, he said that he wants the girl to feel the kind of pain he felt when he saw the pictures.
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I honestly think that what he's doing is wrong and insulting to both his family and the bride's family because both families have been preparing for this wedding and are ready until he called this morning to cancel.
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Every other person is against his decision except his older brother but he's not ready to change his stance.
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This is not the kind of news one should be hearing at the end of the year. It's painful and annoying.

Meanwhile, the girl said that he had cheated on her before and she forgave him.
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My question is, why can't he forgive her too and call it even? Why grandstand? asked the poster..
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https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10219109943432415&id=1021399118&refid=17&_ft_=mf_story_key.10219109943432415%3Atop_level_post_id.10219109943432415%3Atl_objid.10219109943432415%3Acontent_owner_id_new.1021399118%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10219109943432415%3Astory_location.4%3Athid.1021399118%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1577865599%3A-5882944422975432997&__tn__=%2AW-R

Fastestmanalive:
The useless wife is just angry because she was caught I can bet all my life savings that she would even have done it after the wedding

And I bet she's also angry because no more England for her

I salute the man he has sense I'm abundance

helooo please think again.

He cheated initially,she forgave him,she cheated,he can't forgive?

Of what use is marriage without forgiveness.so it's only 1 party that should be doing the forgiveness? Mshewwwww

Miss bride Go and thank God for making you escape a bullet.england or no England, you didn't enter into a life of regret and only you in the marriage.thank God.you don't know how God has delivered your body and soul from destruction

Moreover if it's England that is paining you, you can tell your parents to sponsor your trip to England

It shows she was about to enter a marriage where the man will show only conditional love (,traits of a narcisst) as if he's perfect and not guilty of the Same thing he cannot forgive his wife for

God of Abraham Issac and Jacob, please bless this man on our behalf. My own cheated on me when I was dating her. Because of that, I purposely give her belle and sent her to her village. Any other news of cheating from her, I will fix wedding and a day to the wedding, I will book flight ticket to Dubai. Thunder fire devil

This one is strong! It takes the grace of God for a man to forgive a cheating spouse!

Twale to that brave nigger. It's the girl dat humiliated her family and ancestors. Ashawos everywhere.

She will never co fess on her own if not caught. Its always the first time. Just like after dating mine for many years only to remember her iPhone password one night and read her messages. My heart sunk...she could not say it was first time cos I read it all..

When they get caught its the first time.

Girls should be more careful with what they do the moment you have accepted to marry a man. Society will over look such action if it were the man that did it, but not so with ladies. It's quite unfortunate, his decision is his business.

First of all, Thunder faya the woman who wrote this story.

That done, I’d love to salute the young man for refusing to be joined in Holy Matrimony with someone who betrayed his trust, and kept quiet about it, planning to sneak into the marriage with such a vile secret. He has done well. Money is not his problem that’s why he didn’t call the engagement off much sooner.

Let the entire clan behold the hôe they were billing the young man for. Is she worth the yams and kegs of palm wine? You people should be grateful the guy still went ahead with the arrangement up to this point. You can at least entertain yourselves with the gifts. New year party is in full swing wherever the guy is. I wish I could send him a bottle of fine wine to celebrate the new year.



A king!

When I moved to the east to serve I was mocked and called all sorts of names just because I refused to take alcohol.
Many years later one of the babes who mocked me ran to me crying...she had taken a little more than normal and fell into sex...now she's pregnant! I only asked if I was a doctor!
Once again alcohol has put someone into trouble!
This bride will never forget the content of the glass that brought this to her...
Just for pity sake I shan't say CHEERS.

Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook has got many people angry and slamming the man for humiliating his wife and her family, read the details posted below by Sandra Ibeh and lets know your opinion, was the man right?
.
Sandra Ibeh Posted :

Tomorrow is 31st December 2019 and the last day of this decade. While some are in celebration mood, a man has decided to humiliate a whole family by pulling out of his church and traditional wedding scheduled for tomorrow somewhere in Anambra because his bride to be cheated on him 2 months back.
.
In as much as I am not in support of what the bride did, I equally condemned the groom's last-minute decision. He knew that his bride cheated on his since October and didn't confront her. He went along with the marriage preparation putting the lady through so many stress while he remained in England hatching his evil plan.
.
He came back to Abuja on the 28th and told his mother this morning that he's not going ahead with the wedding.
.
The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.
.
Bride to be has been crying uncontrollably in the village. She admitted that she made a mistake and she regrets her action. She had more to drink during her friend's birthday and ended up sleeping with one of their mutual friends (action she greatly regrets) without knowing that it was a setup. The next day pictures were sent to her fiance and he held on to it and acted normal until today.
.
I asked him why he kept quiet and continued with the preparation, he said that he wants the girl to feel the kind of pain he felt when he saw the pictures.
.
I honestly think that what he's doing is wrong and insulting to both his family and the bride's family because both families have been preparing for this wedding and are ready until he called this morning to cancel.
.
Every other person is against his decision except his older brother but he's not ready to change his stance.
.
This is not the kind of news one should be hearing at the end of the year. It's painful and annoying.

Meanwhile, the girl said that he had cheated on her before and she forgave him.
.
My question is, why can't he forgive her too and call it even? Why grandstand? asked the poster..
.

https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10219109943432415&id=1021399118&refid=17&_ft_=mf_story_key.10219109943432415%3Atop_level_post_id.10219109943432415%3Atl_objid.10219109943432415%3Acontent_owner_id_new.1021399118%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10219109943432415%3Astory_location.4%3Athid.1021399118%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1577865599%3A-5882944422975432997&__tn__=%2AW-R

Forgiveness isn't by force ....it's a man's world

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.

It depends on when he cheated on her. Maybe, it happened at the time they were not so into each other.

But she cheated on him 2 months to their wedding.

Moreover, the lady might be lying to get some sympathy. Maybe his cheating was not even sexual. In today's world, cheating can be anything from flirting to sexual intercourse. And trust women to blow things out of proportion especially when looking for sympathy to lessen the shame from an embarrassing situation. It would be that moment that she would remember how Ade cheated on her when in fact she only caught Ade hugging a lady.

Mind you, I don't tolerate cheating of any kind even if we have not talked marriage. Cheating breaks trust and trust is hard to build.

Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook has got many people angry and slamming the man for humiliating his wife and her family, read the details posted below by Sandra Ibeh and lets know your opinion, was the man right?
.
Sandra Ibeh Posted :

Tomorrow is 31st December 2019 and the last day of this decade. While some are in celebration mood, a man has decided to humiliate a whole family by pulling out of his church and traditional wedding scheduled for tomorrow somewhere in Anambra because his bride to be cheated on him 2 months back.
.
In as much as I am not in support of what the bride did, I equally condemned the groom's last-minute decision. He knew that his bride cheated on his since October and didn't confront her. He went along with the marriage preparation putting the lady through so many stress while he remained in England hatching his evil plan.
.
He came back to Abuja on the 28th and told his mother this morning that he's not going ahead with the wedding.
.
The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.
.
Bride to be has been crying uncontrollably in the village. She admitted that she made a mistake and she regrets her action. She had more to drink during her friend's birthday and ended up sleeping with one of their mutual friends (action she greatly regrets) without knowing that it was a setup. The next day pictures were sent to her fiance and he held on to it and acted normal until today.
.
I asked him why he kept quiet and continued with the preparation, he said that he wants the girl to feel the kind of pain he felt when he saw the pictures.
.
I honestly think that what he's doing is wrong and insulting to both his family and the bride's family because both families have been preparing for this wedding and are ready until he called this morning to cancel.
.
Every other person is against his decision except his older brother but he's not ready to change his stance.
.
This is not the kind of news one should be hearing at the end of the year. It's painful and annoying.

Meanwhile, the girl said that he had cheated on her before and she forgave him.
.
My question is, why can't he forgive her too and call it even? Why grandstand? asked the poster..
.

https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10219109943432415&id=1021399118&refid=17&_ft_=mf_story_key.10219109943432415%3Atop_level_post_id.10219109943432415%3Atl_objid.10219109943432415%3Acontent_owner_id_new.1021399118%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10219109943432415%3Astory_location.4%3Athid.1021399118%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1577865599%3A-5882944422975432997&__tn__=%2AW-R

I need to correct a notation. Men don’t cheat. They have side chicks or when married have concubines. Only women cheat. So never use the word cheat for MEN.

Girls note that and change the notation. It will help you in future.

I can't blame the guy for not marrying the lady for her misdeed. Even if the guy marries her, the trust and love might not be in the relationship.

Notwithstanding, the guy shouldn't have kept it long before blowing the whistle that he no more has interest in the marriage. No one is perfect in life. The more you pay back evil with evil, the more your heart grows evil.

The trauma will always linger in the heart of the bride, her family, groom's family and even the groom.

Blame it on the alcohol!