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Filmewell:
Am not sugarcoating anything don't be surprised that if you ask him to give a brief explanation about whether they relationship is at a good place you will not blame the poor girl.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Goldiano:
The op has no sense really... asking silly questions...if he like he should go beg her and marry her still...weak men...they can't think well

Futureyahooboi:
When a man is quiet you think he is wise until he speaks, dont just type sh*t out here just because you want to comment. How will you advice someone to go and drink sniper...

Jewessgratitude:
Imagin what is coming from a future mother.
Its this same mindset and mentality you have that is some parents have that is making them relax and watch their girl child go rotten.

My girl child will not spoil. No be mouth. I'll make sure of that by Gods grace. Even you! If I handle you, you will change your mentality.
So annoying.

Elxandre:
Which do you speak better?
Ghanaian or Nigerian Pidgin? Just curious.

Roheemah04:
You be mumu man

Any girl here can fall for this sh*t!

She told you she has a boyfriend buh doesn't stay in town..
What more duyyu want?
She might just be friendly with the guyl!

If she had prank you with a beautiful and endowed friend of her ...to seduce you won't you fall for it too?

If truly you love her ..tell her you're wrong and don't play such prank on her again...

Forget negative comments here..

Wish you best of luck�

soobaba:
Hahahaha, bro the bashing dey clear my eyes like pass hypo

pocohantas:
Lol. You are just not okay, sis.

franchasng:
A girlfriend or a boyfriend does not owe each other fidelity because there is no legal binding, any party can decide to walk away anytime they wish without any legal implication or backing.


If you are a lady dating any guy, please for your own future, give other potential guys a chance of friendship, you are not his wife, if he wants you to be faithful and answerable to him, he should go and pay your dowry and do the necessary things.

A boyfriend can walk away from you anytime he so wishes and there is nothing you can do about it.


If your girlfriend decides to be completely faithful to you, its her decision, its not your right so don't persuade any girlfriend or boyfriend to remain faithful to you when you can change your mind and leave them tomorrow or anytime you pleases!!

soobaba:
Very true, I was so quick to open up, I regretted coming up to early because right now it's like I have no evidence. But for she to say such things to me after all we've been through really got me, I was about calling but as I got those replies I just had to stay off. I was even expecting her to block me but she hasn't, guess I'll just ignore everything for now

Gofwane:
I hate guys like this OP. Always making hoes feel like they are tractors or caterpillars

Just imagine. Even after what happened, you are here asking us to tell you what to do. Please go and drink sniper and rid the world of one Mumu

Prec1ous:
You can. She did not change, she is only pretending and bidding her time. That woman will hurt you big time especially when you become vulnerable.

She is going to really hurt you. Run away now. Blank her.

vincentjk:
I recall when my friend wouldn't agree with me that his so called "trusted & special" babe could cheat on him so we both agreed to put her to test.

He gave me her number. I called and kept on explaining to her how we once met some months back but I wasn't able to tell her what I felt for her bla bla bla (all lies but she bought all of them as most girls would if you play your cards well)

I'd call her everyday to keep her company then along the line, I chipped in the question we planned on asking her "do you have a boyfriend "?

She replied "I used to but we're no longer together" meanwhile all calls were recorded and sent to my guy through WhatsApp after each conversation

We fixed a date to meet and I convinced her not to wear trousers while coming, she didn't ask why only responded hmmm on phone lol

I won't tell what happened when she arrived buy kasala burst sha

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

makydebbie:
Lol, you go learn. You're not open minded and you think it's by Iron hands. Go and ask pastors children.




Aunty you cannot handle me, I'll handle you and you'll leave me alone, you never reach.

[s]No be my mouth, no be by iron hands, if pikin wan spoil pikin go spoil. How is that hard to understand lol.
You should just be praying for your kids and 2ho they associate with, that's all. [/s]

Ugmama:
Op I will advise you but before then answer my question?

If the table was turned, what would you do (reaction?) or say?

Iampearly:
When did it become a crime for someone to be polite?
Personally, I feel she was just being that,polite. Atleast she didn't lie about having a boyfriend.
I would have done same not to hurt anyone's feelings.
You persuaded her to have sex with you on the 1st date or just to see her?
I feel the op is just insecure and really needs to grow up.

Wait ooo am I the only one that noticed the op didn't share his chat with her here but shared hers?
For any sane person, which I feel the op's girlfriend is, to reply that way when she obviously didn't do anything wrong shows that He must have said some horrible things to her.

How sure are we he hasn't done such and even worse to her for her to sound so upset.

Op got what he was looking for. He was probably tired of the relationship or is suffering from severe self esteem issues and wanted to pin the breakup on her.

Anyways, what do I know sef?

AFONJACOW:
I wish I can, but to be honest this girl has become part of me , 3yrs is not 3days , if I go on with the marriage I will always suspect her and I cut it short I will feel guilty of betraying her , I fought so hard in this 3yrs to steady the relationship , I wish she can just tell me the honest truth once in her life if she have ever cheated, maybe I will forgive or walk away. But she keep denying and lying despite uncountable evidence I have against her

Jewessgratitude:
Who's your aunty? Abeg go look for your blood group.

At the stroked. . Speaks volume of your upbringing. You obvioulsy know nothing about good upbringing. So I won't blame you for sounding off.

A child that is well trained from infancy will never turn out badly. Then for those whose parents didn't arrest in time and have grown thick skin, they go humble am. You prolly didnt hear about lion building, guard rooms and all those places. You go humble by force if you say na body dey scratch you. See you.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...