Omar09:


Smh

Biafrareform:


Yea. I have always done that . I am willing to stand by her and correct her . I sees it as her past.

I just realised it takes a second for someone to change . I wasn't expecting her to remain the same after I left .

My issue is, will things remain the same after I told her my findings ?

fulaniHERDSman:
You are dealing with an audacious whorre. Flee now and spare your future kids the agony of a harrlot mom.

successful35:


Your problem is ignorance that's all. If i open your eyes about astrology, cold go enter your body. Na astrology most pastors take dey oreach dey scam people. I'm very deep into this stuff, nit those ordinary ones you read on google search.

Biafrareform:


Yea. I have always done that . I am willing to stand by her and correct her . I sees it as her past.

I just realised it takes a second for someone to change . I wasn't expecting her to remain the same after I left .

My issue is, will things remain the same after I told her my findings ?

bluefilm:
Someone should please tell this nigga that you should never make a hoe a housewife.

After marriage, the hoe will go into low-key hoe-ing.

Because once a hoe; always a hoe.

Dasal.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

fulaniHERDSman:
You are dealing with an audacious whorre. Flee now and spare your future kids the agony of a harrlot mom.

Biafrareform:


Yea. I have always done that . I am willing to stand by her and correct her . I sees it as her past.

I just realised it takes a second for someone to change . I wasn't expecting her to remain the same after I left .

My issue is, will things remain the same after I told her my findings ?

Biafrareform:


Okay, she doesn't send me money . I do the sending . She just sent that 6k after she received her allawee to help sort some stuff.

Well I get your point . I want to move past this, bit also want to make it right if is possible for her . Cos to me , everyone deserve a second chance

Biafrareform:


I read most comments here and laugh . I wasnt expecting anything different . I know Nairalanders , they can define one future in just a minute .

I am not even after while she dated a married man, but issue is what happens now that we are together.

I noticed she has cut tiers with the other guy she sent her pics too, from their last chats and call history .

Even the married guy, the chats is just scanty. That doesn't mean I am okay with it. I have told her to severe tiers and she promised to .

I know she love me . I know that, but u know love isn't enough. I will watch her closely and see what come out of it then will make my decision. She is a friend and the best I can do is see how to solve the issue

I don't think I should just cut lose immediately. I am fine bro. Thanks

Biafrareform:
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I believed we all have past. Even myself have got a past. Same as you .

I believe everyone deserves a chance . A willing heart ready to change though.

And I also believed no one is perfect . The only bad girl out there is the one you have discovered her past .
There are many who we see as good , but undiscovered bad side .

Biafrareform:
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I believed we all have past. Even myself have got a past. Same as you .

I believe everyone deserves a chance . A willing heart ready to change though.

And I also believed no one is perfect . The only bad girl out there is the one you have discovered her past .
There are many who we see as good , but undiscovered bad side .

DivineTurnAroun:
what is okafor's law

Ibrahiimo:
Wetin HIV no go see for VAGINA

op, take it easy things will get better
what will be will be

Ibrahiimo:
Wetin HIV no go see for VAGINA

op, take it easy things will get better
what will be will be

safarigirl:
this is a bullshit thing to say

Nobody is perfect, we all have a past, but not everyone's past is this bad and not everyone is an unrepentant prostitute, however, if this personality appeals to you, go ahead with the marriage.

Stop justifying rubbish with "We all have a past, not everyone is perfect". There are still good people out there, but most of you are too lazy to find them and you settle for nonsense, believing the one you have is the closest to perfect you will ever have, when all you have is recycled trash.

If that is what you think you deserve; a cheating spouse, without any scruples, then go ahead and marry her, but don't disturb the peace of the internet with your nonsense.

All of you will be marrying reformed ashawo, as if there aren't decent human beings in the world anymore.

Ibrahiimo:
Wetin HIV no go see for VAGINA

op, take it easy things will get better
what will be will be

Mutemenot:
You have time to build the relationship . You guys haven't really come together, prove to her you are willing and ready for the relationship . Women always have options most especially when dealing with men they think can t meet their demand .
..knowing that she has everything you want in a woman, I suggest you give her more room for repentance ...

RisenPhoenix:


Of course there is a prime; biological as well as psychological. For women above 21, their sexual value is diminished the longer they age, they have likely had multiple sexual partners, from secondary school mate through park tout to sugar daddy. Most would have had at least one abortion, sometimes more. Their multiple sexual exposure would have eradicated any modicum of honesty, modesty or contentment with one man. And they would have perfected the art of pretence and emotional manipulation which all women seem to be born with. And their ease of manipulating men for money would have given them an attitude of disrespect towards all men. Plus they will be more confident in using gutter language indiscriminately. Plus they have a higher risk of giving birth to unhealthier children as they approach their 30s. Yet the amount of food they will eat among other expense outlay to their husbands remains the same.

How can those women still retain their worth and value to a man who wants to marry them? It is like contemplating between buying a 2020 brand new high spec model of vehicle and a 1980s overused model at the same price. Which would you buy, honestly?

Mutemenot:
You have time to build the relationship . You guys haven't really come together, prove to her you are willing and ready for the relationship . Women always have options most especially when dealing with men they think can t meet their demand .
..knowing that she has everything you want in a woman, I suggest you give her more room for repentance ...