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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Hypnotise: 7:58am On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

It basically means that she doesn't trust you at some level. You have to earn her trust and prove to her that loyalty is at your core value as a human being. If you happen to get into a relationship, demand undiluted loyalty from her as well.

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig(op): 8:12am On Mar 27, 2020

FunkyAlhaji2015:
You have seen her boobs without bra already to know its perky??

Little boys just come here to write rubbish.

so of all the things I wrote that's the only part you saw to talk on. joke's on you Bro

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig(op): 8:22am On Mar 27, 2020

post=87801368:
Mid 20's quoting us all over Nairaland saying rubbish!
Wetin person no go see for dis Nairaland sef
Orisirisi something.

No advice for you today sha.
Maybe next time!

not my fault you're hated on here bro you caused it yourself by incessantly asslicking and worshipping the worst president the world has ever seen. your life needs a revolution Bro

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by femi4: 8:35am On Mar 27, 2020

Perky boobs kill you there....you are after her body and she knows. You are objectifying her

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig(op): 8:37am On Mar 27, 2020

femi4:
Perky boobs kill you there....you are after her body and she knows.

lol girl wey I wan marry? grin

I'm only appreciating God's creation. this girl is just way too fine. even her walking steps reeks of complete elegance. you should see this girl Bro

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by nazablossom(f): 8:38am On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

Take your own advice. Dating should be the last thing on your mind right now. There are other important things to think about right now than your relationship wahala

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Npower: 8:46am On Mar 27, 2020

Sexytincoll:
Don't pressure her if she doesn't want you.

A little pressure will do the magic

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by negga4al(m): 8:53am On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

Keep living in Disney world. You know nothing.

OluwasureGig:
The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

She's decently telling you she don't want you. You may try a couple times and move on. She's not the only fish in the river.

Or just buy am car, she go rush you but you dan enter one chance be that

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by franchasng: 8:56am On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

egungu be careful na express you de go oh

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 9:04am On Mar 27, 2020

PrimadonnaO:
I get her drift. He’s probably a pretty boy who comes off as paying way too much attention to his appearance.

I wouldn’t date a guy like that, too. Dress well, smell nice, look tidy... but without it seeming like OCD.

What do u girls really want sef.. so looking good and smelling nice is now a problem? U prefer ur man smelling of sweat, rusty musk, grease, and not well dressed huh

Abeg explain.

How can we ever understand u people sef sad

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Peacefullove: 9:06am On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

She doesn't like you . that's just an excuse to discharge you... Work more on building friendship first that's if you have good intentions for her.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Peacefullove: 9:09am On Mar 27, 2020

femi4:
Perky boobs kill you there....you are after her body and she knows. You are objectifying her

Exactly my thoughts . may be wrong though but all indication says this fellow is just after her body. She read the signs and discharge him

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Peacefullove: 9:11am On Mar 27, 2020

negga4al:
Keep living in Disney world. You know nothing.

She's decently telling you she don't want you . You may try a couple times and move on. She's not the only fish in the river.

Or just buy am car, she go rush you but you dan enter one chance be that

Thank you. Some fellows don't just get the clues

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by femi4: 9:16am On Mar 27, 2020

Peacefullove:
Exactly my thoughts . may be wrong though but all indication says this fellow is just after her body. She read the signs and discharge him

When you objectify a woman, she ll see you as a hit and run guy

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Chibaby224(f): 9:45am On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

she can’t date you because you’re too clean? She’s not serious. She probably has another reason

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Chibaby224(f): 9:47am On Mar 27, 2020

Don’t pressure her .. just let her be for now. She might change her mind

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig(op): 9:56am On Mar 27, 2020

Chibaby224:
she can’t date you because you’re too clean? She’s not serious. She probably has another reason

that's right so what other reasons do you think she might have chichi

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by mablie(m): 10:08am On Mar 27, 2020

If a lady is interested/attracted to a guy,she will never make things difficult in meeting/getting together with the guy.The OP should move on because the more he tries to change her mind,the more he comes across as needy/desperate.You will surely meet another pretty lady even prettier than her

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Ballary(m): 10:46am On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

here is my take on this, she feels you are a Bleep boy, with intentions to hit and run.

were there any signs of she given you any green light, because women are confused creatures, you might think you look clean and attractive, but she might not be attractive towards you.

as ubanja usually say no greenlight no approach, get close to her and avoid any relationship talk's for now.

try not to look needy and desperate, always be naughty and funny, be very unpredictable and let's see how it goes.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 12:03pm On Mar 27, 2020

dairykidd:
What do u girls really want sef.. so looking good and smelling nice is now a problem? U prefer ur man smelling of sweat, rusty musk, grease, and not well dressed Abeg explain.

How can we ever understand u people sef

Lol. Nothing of that sort.

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by aimuan(m): 3:28pm On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

a Nigeria girl I met in Ghana last year also told me she can't date me because she think I will cheat on her.I asked why and she said I am handsome, that even if I don't go for girls the girls will come for me..though we had sex that day but true to her word she refused dating me after that day. I don't know why many girls have this mentality.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by fredopareto(m): 3:35pm On Mar 27, 2020

Take her to a shrine and do blood oath..tnk me later..u don't nid to tell us she is ur last bus stop..

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Skmoda360(m): 3:47pm On Mar 27, 2020

bigt2:
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.

If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.

I have spoken.

Gbam!!! Over to you op.....

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Budline1(m): 4:58pm On Mar 27, 2020

Those we choose don't choose us. Ignore her.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Budline1(m): 5:07pm On Mar 27, 2020

Zannx:
You should be worrying on improving your life and future..time ain't at your side..
That girl has definitely nothing to offer to you..
Hustle hard and stay safe bro

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by CallMeGrace(f): 5:16pm On Mar 27, 2020

Jugding from your profile picture,omo you are not bad oh...well, seems she is into you already, just start with friendship and when time goes on,she might consider you...just don't rush it

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Tlaw01(m): 5:35pm On Mar 27, 2020

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

She would come along if she is for you, saying you are too clean is just a cheap excuse

What business are you into?

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:52pm On Mar 27, 2020

bigt2:
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.

If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.

I have spoken.

''All rise.''

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