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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by mixratio(m): 10:22pm On Mar 28, 2020
Last bus stop eh?
Do you even know the full destination?
If you love yourself, please desist from making promises especially to ladies.
It can make or MAR you.
Note: Mar in capital letters above
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by bukatyne(f): 10:23pm On Mar 28, 2020
Unserious:
He is not my kid!
grin
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Mar 28, 2020
post=87801368:
Mid 20's quoting us all over Nairaland saying rubbish!
Wetin person no go see for dis Nairaland sef huh
Orisirisi something.

No advice for you today sha.
Maybe next time!
He is still growing..you know.

You are around 40 and you still senseless. Let's talk about that.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by idonhammer: 10:24pm On Mar 28, 2020
Your picture to see how fresh you are or I don't believe it


OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by shamsin6300(m): 10:24pm On Mar 28, 2020
CallMeGrace:
Jugding from your profile picture,omo you are not bad oh...well, seems she is into you already, just start with friendship and when time goes on,she might consider you...just don't rush it
Y de luk @ his profile pic
Its obvious u dnt fall also
Lolz grin
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by JAWBONE(m): 10:26pm On Mar 28, 2020
Give me her number, let me help you talk to her
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:28pm On Mar 28, 2020
Funny but lemme be factual...there are girls like these...they sees a guy's neatness,handsomeness and being jocular among other ladies as hinderances..but to me,that excuse isn't enough unless she's a kinda dirty girl.


atleast,this thread should be able to clear the fears of covid19 from my head a little bit.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Draught: 10:28pm On Mar 28, 2020
Don't chase girls/ladies/women please my brother, they should chase you and they will.

Be disciplined, focus on your passion or work and try and excel in it, believe me bro all this relationship things na scam especially with Nigerian women that feel A man has to do and be everything..

I don't blame the women either, they grew up in a society that's man dominated and frowns on women freedom of will and choice..
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Mar 28, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always
Scenting nice always is good business...
If you don't mind Sir, you can check out the thread on my signature, we also have 'mind-blowing' fragrances

I guess your bae is just scared that you may demand so much from her in terms of cleanliness...just make her feel secured, not like she is going to be doing so much chores

And she could also step up her game too except there is something she is hiding, lol...it's not too late for her to look cleaner too

But then, it's just an opinion, the choice lies with you...
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by idonhammer: 10:29pm On Mar 28, 2020
Ok, I believe you. Can you give me her WhatsApp number let me help you talk to her.

OluwasureGig:
lol girl wey I wan marry? grin
I'm only appreciating God's creation. this girl is just way too fine. even her walking steps reeks of complete elegance. you should see this girl Bro
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by jahbiz: 10:29pm On Mar 28, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because....
be careful bro... this lady may eventually dump you in the long run cox i see you trying hard to please and satisfy her ... and this will make you a weak man. Women dont like a weak man nor the type that will always try to please them at all cost.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by rex444(m): 10:29pm On Mar 28, 2020
zimdante:
Yea OP what is the business? believe it or not your answer will go a long way.
the same thing wey one geh wan use pick fight with me oo
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Brunicekid(m): 10:30pm On Mar 28, 2020
bigt2:
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.


If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.


I have spoken.
You make a good point here, man.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by blasted12: 10:31pm On Mar 28, 2020
post=87801368:
Mid 20's quoting us all over Nairaland saying rubbish!
Wetin person no go see for dis Nairaland sef huh
Orisirisi something.

No advice for you today sha.
Maybe next time!
Don't mind the fool. They all hate you cos of your love and support for our president. Keep up with the good work jare
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:32pm On Mar 28, 2020
Rasmega:
He is still growing..you know.

You are around 40 and you still senseless. Let's talk about that.
But chebi you know the mallam's comment is right abi?

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by obibob2020(m): 10:32pm On Mar 28, 2020
Basically, beautiful girls hardly play along with handsome dudes.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Mar 28, 2020
So because this is a Forum.U just wake up and Post whatever amuses u? Nonsense.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Prudency045: 10:33pm On Mar 28, 2020
Free her
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Brunicekid(m): 10:33pm On Mar 28, 2020
Rasmega:
He is still growing..you know.

You are around 40 and you still senseless. Let's talk about that.
Aaaaahh
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by rex444(m): 10:34pm On Mar 28, 2020
ujizzy:
You should have mentioned the business you are into that you were able to cash out ASAP within 1 year huh huh
Abi ooo
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by naijaschoolguru(m):
Rasmega:
He is still growing..you know.

You are around 40 and you still senseless. Let's talk about that.
Saying somebody is senseless, just because of his opinion says a lot about you. Sorry to say, with due respect, your level of reason is not up to standard. We all have diff opinions you know. " Gbogbo wa o le sun ka dari si bikan nau "
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by DavidTariq96(m): 10:35pm On Mar 28, 2020
bigt2:
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.


If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.


I have spoken. Omoh u be relationship ancestor in ooo...I respek u walahi..
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by faceland: 10:36pm On Mar 28, 2020
Run for your life.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by ndcide(m): 10:37pm On Mar 28, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
Do you even know this girl?

Why don't you take time to know her before asking her out.

People just invites terrible things into their lives in the name of relationships
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by BluntTheApostle(m): 10:37pm On Mar 28, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
She doesn't like you.

Skikena!!!
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by wisdomkid: 10:38pm On Mar 28, 2020
OluwasureGig:
lol. girls ehh. their wahala just too much. especially the fine ones
I tire oh.. Small time, they will start saying fine girls are always single wink wink Na them be this.

But come to think of it, do you think she has a low self-esteem and actually sees you as the one "beautiful" or she's actually not thatttttttttt tidy?

Bros, you want to get married? Do you think marriage is all about $ex and them all? No, it's compatibility, character and understanding. The $ex will tire you, but you see that compatibility, where you guys can laugh at any sh!t together, that there is marriage. If you want $ex, say so.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by omotowo2: 10:39pm On Mar 28, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
your last bus stop? We actually said more than this before we settle down. I mean we had over 20 last bus stops before we calm down. Yeyenatu
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Julietlove95(f): 10:39pm On Mar 28, 2020
I don't know what is wrong with some guys sef. Is obvious she doesn't want you yet you still begging for her love dam. Even if you like roll yourself in a muddy water she still won't value you and might even dump you for someone better tomorrow. My advice ignore cut any form off communication with her give her levels show her she is nothing and watch her die for and stop been a pussy man.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by nnaeyes6: 10:42pm On Mar 28, 2020
Stupid boy
U never Bleep, u want to marry.

Anyway, u are too fascinated on this so called queen of south to the extent u have not even known her character disposal and u are thinking about marriage because she goes to same church with u and must be a Christian. OGA. Pack well. The girl u are dying like this will use u! Reuse u! Use u again! Reuse u! If u aren't careful, IKWUO UDO!
Thanks
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Mimi572(m): 10:42pm On Mar 28, 2020
Bro let me tell you, na shakara she dey, just try and face your feature and let marriage be the last thing in your mind, good luck.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Agugbadin: 10:43pm On Mar 28, 2020
Be careful black female are possessed by evil spirits
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by joefelin2345: 10:48pm On Mar 28, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
. My brother be careful pls. Look very well before you take a leap. Meanwhile what type of business do you do that is booming? Remember me in your kingdom. 08023001226.
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