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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by STREETSAN(m): 1:19am On Mar 29, 2020
Freelane33:
Broz,how una dey, see ehn , from my own perspective, your description of the girl shows that she’s every man’s dream girl. But pls and pls ( my perspective) stay back , I think this girl likes you and she was talking in parables. My perspective ( she might have one or two probs hidden in her ) .She didn’t want to infect you with the problems . Nothing good come easy , your God is with you that was reason she has been rejecting you . You said you’re okay financially , you can take care of all her needs and wants , so why is she still rejecting you i think lots of reasons are attached which is unknown to us and you “the crush “.Study her for weeks , visit her and take note of all her movements . You’ll definitely come out with something meaningful .If you’re smart you will come and with something meaningful and see the reason why she has been rejecting you but don’t spill it out . She don’t wanna cast . If she infect a church member with her problems , the whole church will be in chaos and she will cast . MAY D LORD GOD BE WITH US . My perspective don’t judge me �✅

Best advice so far but the OP is too desperate to listen
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Sirmuel1(m): 1:33am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.






In case? Me I'm not ready to die oh, anybody that wants to die, should die. I don't care
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by translux(m): 1:34am On Mar 29, 2020
Then gets dirty
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Geo4646: 1:37am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks




She doesn't knw wat she wants, in essence she doesn't love u, if u force her, she will frustrate ur life, make u a broke as nigga. and tell u dat ur too dirty and she can't married u. I will advice u 2 luk for someone else.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by CoronaVirusPros: 1:49am On Mar 29, 2020
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CoronaVirusPro:
Spend some few days in a pig sty and go back to her.
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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by shineeye1: 1:50am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks


You don spot another one wey you wan lay! Ashawo man! Na so you profess love for the last one before this. Olosho papa!
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by alakhumeorobo: 1:50am On Mar 29, 2020
My friend go and unclean your cleanliness thank me soon not later
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by CJ310(m): 1:56am On Mar 29, 2020
Una never start yet she don dey get insecurity issues. There’s more to it than that bro, but dont give up since say she be your dream girl. Just keep assuring her.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by atmstyle: 1:59am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
Maybe you should get a bit dirty, then grin
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by MrNipplesLover(m): 2:02am On Mar 29, 2020
it is so so surprising that lady could complain because a guy is clean and fresh, cos I believe that's what almost all girls like in men (cleanliness).

well, I won't blame her, though. cos if a man looks to clean and attractive, some women might see him as a potential womanizer.

I myself don't like a woman who's too fine. I can't deal. cos im damn sure more men would be on her case and I'm not safe if we are dating.

so, cos of this, if a woman is too beautiful, I won't approach her. it is a turn off for me though. I mean for me.

that's why beautiful doesn't even move me a bit.


just be good looking, tall and neat. that's all I need.

too cute, pretty or beautiful, I'm sorry, I'm out.



so, I won't blame the girl, op.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Breastfeed: 2:29am On Mar 29, 2020
Move on and look for a clean babe like you
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nigeriapen(m): 2:37am On Mar 29, 2020
Senate President Lawan Urges Buhari To Provide Relief For Poor Nigerian


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmcN1mFSbk8
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nigerfine3: 2:41am On Mar 29, 2020
I couldn’t read that stuff ; the title tells you it’s a very simple demand, just go breed pigs come back home don’t get to bath; you win her
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by darediamond(m): 2:41am On Mar 29, 2020
Bros, if what you narrated is true, then you are getting it wrong by thinking once you a Man is financially stable then na to they look for a girl, or lady or woman.

Yes you need a WOMAN as a Man but please let it be a RESPONSIBLE woman.

That girl you are after now, Is she herself FINANCIALLY STABLE?

Is she the type that if you as a boyfriend or fiancee or Husband provides 60% she can add the remaining 40%??

Whether she as big backside and or nice boobs and she smells nice too bla bla bla, Please remember Owo lose pataki.

No go de call for a Liability. Use your brain oo.

No RESPONSIBLE MAN MARRIES A LADY THAT CAN'T BE ON 40% Provision level in conjunction to his Hubby's 60% provision.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by IbrahimSkiba(f): 2:44am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:

I should buy her a Benz?

lalasticlala help my ministry and push this to front-page. who knows I might be the next to post my pre-wedding pictures here on nairalandgrin



And may God answer your prayers, Amen. lipsrsealed
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by sholay2011(m): 2:51am On Mar 29, 2020
Both of you are not serious.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 3:00am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

She's deceiving you.
She's politely saying you're dirty!
Deal with body odour, mouth odour and see her fall for you.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by kazhk: 3:12am On Mar 29, 2020
Lol, learn not to make a woman you really want know you are desperate to have her, you end up not getting her. You have done the right thing by making your intentions known. Now take it slow and act mature, she will play along and be yours with time....
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by babstunero: 3:27am On Mar 29, 2020
Mr Man, walk away, change church if you cant seize to behold her first lust. Work hard for your parent first before taking one girl serious. U can imagine worried over her and later spending time and money over one person with initial complain of too clean.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by CeterisXVII: 3:33am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

You are just being carried away by your hormones. Go and look for a girl, who likes you for who you are. Don't come here to lament. End of story.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Juliearth(f): 3:33am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks




All these features are tempting and a plus too,but is she a wife material?
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Uzomajane: 3:41am On Mar 29, 2020
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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by moonraker(m): 3:46am On Mar 29, 2020
sounds like you dodged a bullet right there...

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Peacefullove: 3:49am On Mar 29, 2020
angelfallz:

I agree with your first and second sentences. Your third sentence is wrong, because that is a first class ticket to the friend zone. A man should make his intentions clear to a woman from the onset, not hiding behind friendship.

There is a way to make Your intention known without needing to follow the bold, by the bold you mean ask her out. ? If she accept ... You risk entering a one sided Love .most men are victims, that's why you hear stories like She only flash whole I do the calling , She always tell me she is busy etc... And if she Reject , you will still end up in that same friend zone, You are no longer a mystery .. She know u have feelings for her , she can easily tamper with your emotions . what I mean is before asking her out,make her want you.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by idesylvester(m): 3:53am On Mar 29, 2020
You actually spoke well, but sorry to ask ooo... Shey na u sit down fold leg so? hahhahah... na my mama tell me to ask you oooo... just kidding though
bigt2:
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.


If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.


I have spoken.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by DedeNkem: 3:54am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

I don't understand why kids nowadays don't take NO for an answer anymore in their dating lives!

This girl has clearly refused dating you by giving you a flimsy excuse and yet you are persistent!

She judged you by your "clean" looks instead of your character. Moreover, I've never met any human being who doesn't want their partner to look "clean". She just wants you to get lost with that nonsense excuse.

Move the f*uck on! There are many beautiful ladies out there that have better attitude and personality, who would want and appreciate you the way you're.

She may stupidly come seeking you when she realizes the attention has stopped and you've moved on. By then, you would tell her to GET LOST because she's too pretty, impulsive and may cheat on you!

And don't change your mind to date her, she's NOT good for you!

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by MrFly(m): 4:21am On Mar 29, 2020
ignore her for 3weeks then restart from the scratch
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Angelou(m): 4:21am On Mar 29, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


I get her drift. He’s probably a pretty boy who comes off as paying way too much attention to his appearance.

I wouldn’t date a guy like that, too. Dress well, smell nice, look tidy... but without it seeming like OCD.
Does the fact that he looks attractive makes u feel insecure?
So you really want to remain the delectable one in the pair as an advantage?
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by nairalanduseles: 4:26am On Mar 29, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


I get her drift. He’s probably a pretty boy who comes off as paying way too much attention to his appearance.

I wouldn’t date a guy like that, too. Dress well, smell nice, look tidy... but without it seeming like OCD.


I am the opposite of that

Ugly

Smell bad


And poor


Give me your number let's talk

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by assetman(m): 4:26am On Mar 29, 2020
Maybe she is an epileptic patient you never can tell, try and move close to her
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by friday2011(m): 4:28am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

You need to start getting dirty or you look elsewhere.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by tallerSSS: 4:53am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
she is trying to tell you that you are to attractive and very good choice for many ladies which scares her to think that you might subsequently cheat on her.. you just need to do the needful and proof her wrong..

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