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Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by rex444(m): 3:45pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
yea it's quite a way to categorise homophobia n racism ...how are they related ? say no to homophobia say no to homophobia before U know it becomes a norm ...it is not our thing 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Nelsonnwagbo(m): 3:51pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
when i was in secondary school , there was one rich man in my area , everybody respects the man becoz he is a politician . . so it happened that one day when i took my young brother to school while coming back i heard someone calling me by my english , i was surprised bcoz only few pipul knw my english name in my area , so when i turned it was the man . . . i was shocked coz me nd d man neva talked before . . . infact to cut the whole story short the man asked 4 my number whch i gave him as time goes on he started calling me nd wheneva he see me he will gve me 1k . . nd always tell me to visit him for hauz i was so happy that the man is always given me money nd decided to tell my classmate who happened to live in the same strt with me when my friend revealed what shocked me to the bones he told me that the man is a homosexual he also told me hw the man has been sleeping with some guys in my area i was shocked and immediately deleted the man number frm my phone nd started ignoring him thank GOD i never visited him in his house those days he was asking me to 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by odubayor(m): 4:09pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Seandisputed(m): 4:56pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Godfullsam:I almost puked. Maybe he wasn't sure about his sexuality then. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by NwaforIgbo: 8:06pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Ningen: Hmmmm. Like seriously?? That guy must me dare devil, he is lucky he did not meet extreme homophobic fellows. He would've been history. U get chill sha.. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Lamanii22(f): 8:20pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
toniblacman: Mhen! You're really calm ooo.... This should reach out to more audience I'd love to hear more real life stories... |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by 2dice01: 10:56pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
NwaforIgbo:ladies are secretive so dont expect much comment from them 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Joshforeal: 11:09pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Tolubigyansh:Tolu where is the big yansh Tolubigyansh:Tolu where is the big yansh |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by NwaforIgbo: 12:03am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Ladies... We dey wait for una oh... 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Nobody: 4:00am On Apr 19, 2020 |
a gay dude will only hit on u if u dress like a gay or act like one.For example some guys think its cool wearing skinny pink trousers but then this is a gay badge.what about guys who use lipsticks on their lips and eye liners with the hope of being more handsome..now thats a gayish act as far as i am concerned .why wont a gay dude hit on u when u are wearing skinny pink trousers and wearing lipstick like a woman cos u want to have pink lips . 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Nobody: 4:05am On Apr 19, 2020 |
toniblacman:so a guy just pulled down ur zipper and pulled out ur pingolo and put it in his mouth and u just sat dere looking .maybe u look gay for him to have that confidence to do such to u .u sure u not gay? 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Bellotelli: 6:37am On Apr 19, 2020 |
I have when i was still a teenager. If not that i escaped i don't think i would have recovered from the trauma. The thought of that man forcing my lips to his always wanna make puke each time i think of it. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Brunicekid(m): 6:39am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Ningen:Aaaahh...God help us all. |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Fheelzz(m): 7:02am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Nobody: 8:07am On Apr 19, 2020 |
lefulefu:maybe |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by KellyGay(m): 8:23am On Apr 19, 2020 |
What is wrong with being gay? Let us live our lives the way we want. Just the way you didn't choose to be a Nigerian is the way they didn't choose to be gay. Live and let's live! 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Jflex07(m): 8:46am On Apr 19, 2020 |
KellyGay:Were you born gay? or you mastered the act? I get literally perplexed at times on this issue. |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Jflex07(m): 8:57am On Apr 19, 2020 |
On few occasions OP, one of the times was when I was schooling in uniport years back, there was this guy who said he's name is Humphrey, he was very masculine then, I've always felt that gay men are feminine in nature but this guy was totally different .He approached me and said he likes me, the way I act and all the rest, he said he will love to be a close pal, I didnt object cos I never imagined he will have an ulterior motive,he asked for my number which I gave him and bared him farewell. This happened during the time MTN normally gives free calls I think from 12am to 5am, so most times whenever I'm on call with my girlfriend then, I always see his calls as call waiting, most times I ask my girl to chill while I pick his calls, there's nothing this guy didn't tell me to convince me, he even promised to put on monthly stipends and also take me to places that's i've never been to before. The thing is I was never rude to him, I just try to let him know that I am straight and I can never do my fellow man, at a point he got tired and stopped calling. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by KellyGay(m): 8:59am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Jflex07: I was born gay. I grew up that way and there was nothing I could about it. Though some mastered it, some for financial or material reasons but personally speaking, I was born gay. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Jflex07(m): 9:10am On Apr 19, 2020 |
KellyGay:But I don't think there's a gay gene that determines whether some one has same sex partners,scientist have never found a gay gene or any genetic cause for being gay, however I feel you may be wrong on this feeling that you were born gay, environment, friends and other vices might have played a role. look, I respect your decision and i can never be homophobic towards gay people. |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by KellyGay(m): 9:18am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Jflex07: Thank you, Sir, for respecting my decision, just the way I do respect yours. Nevertheless, I wouldn't want to speak of it scientifically or otherwise but I do know I am not affected by those factors you mentioned. More so, I know who I am and I can say I was born that way. It is a man that wears a shoe that knows where it pinches. Thanks and do have a splendid Sunday. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Jflex07(m): 9:25am On Apr 19, 2020 |
KellyGay:Take care bro |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by ehmmy11(m): 9:35am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Lamanii22:tell us your own story i will like to hear |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by ehmmy11(m): 9:42am On Apr 19, 2020 |
KellyGay:just as you were born gay some people were also born homophobic they didn't choose it let us live our lives the way we want... 13 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:56am On Apr 19, 2020 |
One time when I was still in high school. My sister is in the army, so we lived in an army town, but in a flat off base. There were these new recruits that lived in the barracks not very far from where we were staying. My sister befriended some of them because they were from our hometown. So anyway, they'd come over with their friends from the barracks on weekends. One took a liking to me. At 1st I thought she was just being nice because she'd always take me out with her to go shopping. Over time it escalated to a point where things got a little uncomfortable between us. She never out rightly asked me for sex though. She'd just be touchy feely & the way she'd look at me kinda gave away what her intentions were. Finally she said something to my sister about it. I don't know what her exact words were because I wasn't there, but the conversation obviously disgusted my sister because she abruptly cut ties with the whole group & told me to never spend time with that woman, in particular, again. She still have never told me what she had said, only that she was "a very sick individual". Today she's married to another woman that works at the same base with my sister & they've been married for over 10 years, I believe. My cousin still makes jokes about it, calling her "My GF". LOL! 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Lamanii22(f): 9:58am On Apr 19, 2020 |
ehmmy11: No I haven't had any experience of that... You know I never believed there can be gay/lesbian in Nigeria until now.... With all these stories lol 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by ehmmy11(m): 10:24am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Lamanii22:they exist and may be closer than you think.. Personally i have dated a bisexual girl tho i didn't know then until we were separated cos of distance, she told me herself that she alternates between boys and girls but prefers girls...looking back it makes sense to me cos she has uncountable female friends i mean very hot girls If you see her herself fine face very big ynash 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Lamanii22(f): 10:26am On Apr 19, 2020 |
ehmmy11: Mad o... So there can be gay/lesbians around me that I don't know of hmmmm.... That's why I wanna hear more real life stories.... 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Jaqenhghar: 10:56am On Apr 19, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Hehehehe. Thay sister of yours seems like a colourful character. She must have been an influence in yer life 1 Like |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 19, 2020 |
NwaforIgbo:They don't. He might be bisexual. |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:23am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: She certainly is not easy to live with. I can only take her in very small doses & I'm sure she feels the same way about me I know I'm NOT the problem, she is! I get along with most people, except her. She's very explosive & it doesn't take long for us (when under the same roof) to start butting heads. But I had to live with her for a while, so yeah, in a sense, she did have an influence on me...mostly negative That's why now I have a very low tolerance for things that disturb my inner peace. |
Re: Have You Had Any Sexual Advances From A Lesbian Or Gay? by Jaqenhghar: 11:26am On Apr 19, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Well you sound like a version 2 of her. 2 Likes |
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