What happen after providing the need of a girlfriend and you end up not marrying her.it is waste of resources.So it wife need that needs to be provided for not girlfriend

Thread wey dey so useless say e die since 2017, one mod go dig am up.

To the mod that pushed this to fp, any girl you meet will bill you.

If you ban me, they will increase the billing till you go into extreme poverty.
Nonsense

Rubbish go make love to your dad hoe!

One among legion reasons men die earlier than women

The poster is an advanced simp.

Excuse excuse me are you speaking for yourself or all the young ladies

But Am no saying girls r gold d

Some negroes will not sleep well this night o.
Bitter pill to swallow.

streetpaddy:
Hmm

Na u dig this thread out, lol

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

You re right to an extent, some gals ask for cash just to weigh the guys. Some do not ask for same reason why others ask for their selfish reason. Guys should be able to differentiate gold diggers from others.

My Observation/Opinion

Op, are you drunk?

MissRaine69:
BS

Thank you

But he's right nah... If I weigh your impact in my life and you can't even offer what Nigerian men take as their Number sign of affection (MONEY) then you can be easily dismissed.

Painful but bitter truth

Honestly you have a point. Traditionally, men have been seen as the providers since the dawn of mankind.
Nevertheless women are coming up, but that does not absolve the man of his role in being the main provider.
Problem is some guys date ladies that are out of their reach. You're earning 50000 and dating a girl who spends 10k on a dress, 15 on a shoe, and half these monies are coming from you.
Go for your size, you don't want. That girl with mammy water skin spents 20k for a spa session. Go for a girl who you give 5k and she spends judiciously but no, because she's not flashy.
Carry your cross biko.

This one is just a bimbo. I'm dating you to spend my own hard earned money on your vain requests? Truth is these are things I'll do casually but don't you dare say it's a "responsibility". If my girl isn't hustling herself to make good money then she should know how hard is it to come by hard earned money. These guys really have to drop this entitlement mentality mehn. It sickens me

this thread was created by a lady forget the 'M' ..

This is the opinion of a myopic personality


When you date a productive lady like the NDA Female Cadets, you will know that they don't need your money but they "need functional and productive" boyfriend to motivate them towards becoming great.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Stay off that thing wey you dey smoke..

OP, your mother will be very disappointed! She raised a fool!

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Buhari, see what you have caused..
Hardship is real.

Your definition of relationship is as skewed as it could possibly be greenbullet

Trash...not logical at all.

I dated a guy and didnt ask for a dime and guess what? He never also raised a finger to give' not even recharge cards.it didnt take long till the love died a natural death.Guys,u see that woman who doesnt ask for a pin from you...

That should be the one you should buy the world for .but if u think becos she doesnt ask then you feel u can fold ur arms and ignore her thinking she's cheap? I pity u.them go collect her from your hand.

Gold diggers at not, they ain't my mother, if you ask I'll give you if I'm willing to!

It is well.

pansophist:
The poster is an advanced simp.

He’s a simp of the highest order.

It's been almost 3 years, even the op must have gotten some wisdom now, so there's no need to add anything.

Mumu op, these are the type of guys that made ladies think by dating you they are doing you a favour.

I strongly believe that this guy is under concuction,

2017 post made FP?

Now, @OP, your analysis is on point. Love is portrayed by giving. A man that can't provide for Hus family is worse than an infidel... She tests your "infidelity" by asking... Even without asking prove your worth....

But go dey do pass yourself

Obinrin t'oba mo owo gba, dandan ni ko mo oko do.




a woman who knows how to collect money (from a man), must know how to ride the dick.



50/50 shiit.



no time.

No crime in a lady spending her own money

Wetin Musa no go see for gate.

Throwback on Sunday.

As for the Op. Continue with your mumu responsibility, I believe your eyes go Don clear now because this post na 3 years ago.