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[color=#006600][/color] Age is nothing but numbers, . love,trust and respect are the core principles of a good relationship

paulolee:
worried for what...mine was 18yrs older and even sweeter than the young gals i previously had...would av married her bt she was already married and didnt kno from the start because she hid it from me...

You get mind

Yes

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

nickvanilla:
I understand the awkwardness in this sha, as I have had a similar experience. In my case, the babe was even 3 years older.

Truth is, many guys would not mind dating/marrying older girls if not that many ladies don't know how to control their toungues in the heat of an argument.

Imagine having a little fight with your babe and she goes like, "I never knew you could be this childish" "stop acting immature" etc. How would you as a guy feel.

Ladies have this nasty habit of using the weakness/disadvantage of their partners against them when things go south. And even if they don't do it intentionally, they will still hurt you because whenever they are angry with their partners, they always talk before they think.

So except the babe is constantly loyal, down to earth, sensible and respectful, there are going to be issues.

Interesting


But I'll tell you what

I've seen
Not that I was told

A woman call her hubby almost 9 years older than her "useless man".
As well as other unprintable names


So I dont really think Age is the factor really

Joycekkh:
Well it depends on the guy's orientation, I have met a couple of guys that dont mind dating and getting married to ladies older than them, I have a friend that I'm older than, though its a year difference, he asked me out and doesn't see anything wrong with us being together but I brushed him off 'cause I prefer older men.

Love doesn't choose

All these fake stories, sha. Yes, it should concern her. On the final day of judgement women who turn out older than their significant others are automatically sent to hell. I know because God showed it to me in a vision.

I am a victim of such and I can tell u am enjoying my home 100%. The way u handle issues will tell if u can control d respect it entails.

Atteraino:
me self my Babe senior me for 3years oh. I be 27 my Babe na 30+...

Modified: Why is the lady trying to withdraw from the relationship, is she not in love with him again... Sometimes we guys, we just talk anyhow... May the guy never meant what he said cause he was thinking he is her senior

Woman senior you with 3 years and you dey proud of that.... When you know they age faster.
I pity you

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

you must be stupid. Tell her to join NL if you want our advise

If the guy is cool with it, let her stay.
Good luck to them.

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

That your friend is you.

See how much emotion you are showing over what is supposed to be another person's dilemma.

Nonsense.

Serious matter.

Atteraino:
me self my Babe senior me for 3years oh. I be 27 my Babe na 30+...

Modified: Why is the lady trying to withdraw from the relationship, is she not in love with him again... Sometimes we guys, we just talk anyhow... May the guy never meant what he said cause he was thinking he is her senior

You're a gold digger then

Muhylonaire:
Ẹ no mean na.
When some women are 3,4,5 years older than their husband.

How much is 1year

50 naira

Phosphorus666:
My fiancée is two years older than me and we're good. At first, she couldn't believe she was older because she saw me as one too mature to be young. This has caused me a peculiar issue as I've dated virtually only girls who are older than me. Well, my fiancée was worried and even cried. But I had to talk to her and reassured her about my utmost commitment to the relationship and my disposition to respect her, like every other person. We are good today and no one who knows us can believe she's older. Love doesn't consider age. O

Same here bro.

As long as the connection and happiness is there, she can always go ahead with the relationship. Who knows what she will encounter when she goes for someone older. The bond she has shared with this younger man may not be there with the new man.

so connection , bonding and happiness are the keys.

AfroKnight:
Did you brush him off nicely or did you brush him like danfo brushes lastma that wants to collect bribe?

Lmfao I did it nicely, we are still good friends.

Nothing to be worry about, Humility is the key.

My question is does age command respect, it's only money that commands respect

Dr. Kayode Fayemi 1965
Mrs Bisi Fayemi 1963
Love conquers all

youngtizzy55:
I am a victim of such and I can tell u am enjoying my home 100%. The way u handle issues will tell if u can control d respect it entails.

u are enjoying it and yet u are a victim hmm

So if you marry a lady who is younger than you by say, 5 years, how strong will she be when she is 80 and you are 85??

You're not making any sense man.

NockMedia:
Age ain't nothing but a number, but when you grow old as a man, you will understand the advantage of marrying a younger woman.
When you become weak and frail and your wife is also weak and frail because she is older than you...how do you cope if you don't have money to hire a nanny or your kids are gone?

Petyprincess:
Wow!! The truth is most ladies like being younger to their partner which I'm inclusive.
I can't date a guy I'm 1 day older than him so i do understand how she feels.

As long as the guy will respect her there shouldn't be a problem bt I'm doubting because most Nigerian horseband always want to feel superior nd authoritative.

All this will go into dust bin if you find love and you won't even notice

0taPiaPia:
50 naira

hahaha .when I first saw it I pretended that I didn't see it

Kingscee:
You're a gold digger then

hmmmm

You sef you go far, let her look at Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, Rotimi Akeredolu and David Beckham.

MoodyQueen:
Lol. She's a myopic one.

There are lots of succesful couples out there with huge age difference; female being older.

Tell her to check up on Megan Markle, Brigitte Macron, Shakira, etc who cared not about age.

Do you know that the governor of Ekiti state is younger than his wife? The man was born in 1965 and the wife 1963. But maybe the governor's age is manipulated don't ask me ooo.

Kingscee:
You're a gold digger then

Is it bad, wrong or a crime or a sin for she to be my senior

Babes that are younger than their husbands still say this. And people of all ages and of both genders can indeed be immature and childish.

nickvanilla:
I understand the awkwardness in this sha, as I have had a similar experience. In my case, the babe was even 3 years older.

Truth is, many guys would not mind dating/marrying older girls if not that many ladies don't know how to control their toungues in the heat of an argument.

Imagine having a little fight with your babe and she goes like, "I never knew you could be this childish" "stop acting immature" etc. How would you as a guy feel.

Ladies have this nasty habit of using the weakness/disadvantage of their partners against them when things go south. And even if they don't do it intentionally, they will still hurt you because whenever they are angry with their partners, they always talk before they think.

So except the babe is constantly loyal, down to earth, sensible and respectful, there are going to be issues.

kalufelix:
Audio friend... You will show her our comments indeed... Since he has unknowingly confessed his deepest thoughts its unwise to force yourself on him even though he might try to act otherwise.. Same way you dont disregard what a man says when he is angry ...Even after the anger..

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

Age is nothing but a number........ Would I marry a lady 10 years older than me....... YES

How is the French president coping..... So you wonder.........