She will still dump u even if u marry her

Save her the stress by dumping her first

Marry her now! God will epp you .

All these Nairaland local champions self...

Really?

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Onuku,it shall end in tearz

If she 1t 2 comot belle n die,beta tears 4 u.
If she no comot belle n die wen bornin, tears 4 u.
If she park join u,.tears upon tears bicos of hungry.
If ur fada dont give u money again,original tear begin.

If she dumped u follow anoda person.ur tears will almost finish 4 ur eyes.because instead 4 u 2 dumped her,she dump u

Anyhw I reasoned it,I sha no it MUST end in tears.

Alaye 4get woman.
Go & huzzle because no be u get dat belle.
Dat belle na format 2 tied u.
1 afonjress almost do am 2 me.I tell her no problems. She parked join me.i com dey blow am 4 free.
Dey chop free pepper stew wen no get test.

1 night,after I hv fed up 4 her toto.I begin recite incantaxn 4 room dey call Alusi Obosi 2 damaged d life of anypersin wey dey beer false accusantion 4 me.
Na so she quiet.
D next day she travel cum tell me say she get miscarrange.

Your tori come sweet pass the op's own.Laff wan kee me hia

The first line of the first comment can render op hopeless.

Ndlers make una tek am easy.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

I don’t Understand Ure not ready to marry at 29 and that’s fine and understandable bt why getting the poor gal pregnant and having her do abortions? U shud be able to control urself.

I don’t know why she’s in a hurry at 22 years bt it might be connected to all these pregnancies and abortions which are quite ridiculous if actually true. U need to be careful and stop it.

I hope she’s not whining u with those pregnancy and abortion stories sha.

What is ur gf doing? If she’s not working tell she needs to get a job and both of u save for like a year then u can get married hopefully u will be in a much better position or job. U can get engaged atleast during this period. Like Davido. Lol

If she insists on going then let her go or makeup a good story bt I don’t believe in being pressured to marry. Don’t rush!

NB: U also seem Naive believing everything a gal tells u and who told u she loves u more than u love her? A gal that’s threaten to leave u? Ok call her bluff let’s she how she handles it.

If you are ready to take care of the baby then you can take care of d mother as well so u can have a wife then.
I don’t blame the girl for asking you to marry her at must since you lack self discipline. You kept having unprotected sex while you are not ready for marriage, u have had a couple of abortions but not ready to marry citing money as ur excuse; u better not do anything that you will regret for the rest of your life. U can reach me on 09037873555 for advice

Marry her if you love her, sometimes others are disturbing them with marriage, understand this too.

You are the biggest fool in this 21st century!!

40k and you are not ready..still u dey knack without!!

Alaye carry ur problem

Dude, wallahi you no well. In your 29yrs old life u haven't u heard of condoms.

I am not ready after several abortions, ha Oloribu. You want spoil her life ni, Ayie lata o. It's boys like you dat give men bad names.
And dat short sighted one too was going along with u on those abortions?

Simply put you are a simply irresponsible dude. I have one advice for you put on your big boy's pant and man the f*** up.

Marry her now, stop being a tenant, own it.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

...After several abortions...
YOU are A very wicked soul,
If karma didnt catch up with you through your sisters, I hope it does through your unborn daughters .

how low ree buruku

Ladies with abortions this generation eh! even doctor's dey surprised!!!

Women! wear good cloths, seek respect (not attention) live a modest life, close your legs!!! is that too much to ask

StubbornGENIUS:
Your tori come sweet pass the op's own.Laff wan kee me hia

Na so I 4 marry mistaken identity.
Chukwuokike abiama safe me

22 and several abortions

One mumu boy abi man will think the 22 year old should be fresh from the oven.

I still say it, marriage is like those gifts couples receive at the end of wedding ceremonies. Anything you see inside you take. New/ fine wraps might come with cheap gifts while ugly/ old wraps might have valuables, all na your luck. Just pray to God for forgiveness of past sins and direction.

As in more than two abortions Anyway you don't have to do wedding now... Just try and raise the child then you can pay her bride price later when you have more money....

Alwaysachick:
22 and several abortions

As in eh... It's shocking.... I'm not judging though...

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Try this•, summon courage, walk up to your dad and tell him she has got your baby. He will come to terms with reality and help you push through this phase.

mrfranky:

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

how come she keeps getting pregnant? Don't u advise her to take postinur 2 immediately after action?

Bro don't give yourself unnecessary pressure. Marriage can be done anytime you're ready. Meanwhile you can do more using *737# from GTB. Check my profile picture for more

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...


To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Don't let me swear for you. You are irresponsible. So you are not ready for marriage but you know how to nack raw. Mscheeeeeeeew.

Sapphire86:
Op, I'm going to have to be very blunt with you. You are an irresponsible man with no vision at all.

You are still receiving stipends from home and instead of you to think & work towards a better future and even a stable present, you are chasing complicated relationships and entangling yourself with series of abortion mess!! I wanted to say leave your gf till I read the abortion part.

Clearly you both have no vision of your future and deserve each other. You either become an unwilling husband or entangled baby daddy but either way, you are in it and you have yourself to blame.

Life will eventually teach you how to be responsible when the baby comes or else life will also teach you to be resentful

no mind am. Awon Raw Dey Sweet Pass Crew

donprinyo:
She will still dump u even if u marry her

Sadly, this is the truth. I understand OP not being ready, that is totally his choice, but trying to force a marriage with pregnancy? It will only end in future tears and resentment.

Go and marry her. I can't believe am actually saying this. I would not have said this, but that is the most humane thing to do. You have to plan your finances and find a way to harness your potential for better income flow. You cannot continue living with the thought of having your babies aborted

Some girls have mind sha.

You carry the pregnancy, you have the highest risk YET you will NOT insist he uses a condom, put yourself on the pill or protect yourself.

If her womb gets destroyed, it is the cross of herself and the unknown husband in future.

Using the enjoyment of today to ruin tomorrow.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

You may not get another person better than her and she might not find another man better than you. However, marriage needs maturity, if both of you are not matured, the marriage no go last. You can advise her to be a baby mama until you boost your income. Its her cross, let her carry it. Why would she fall pregnant this cheap. Both of have a lot to lose if you make ant mistakes in your decisions. However, marrying her may work and the joy when money enter will know no bound. You too have a cross, carry am.

If she's worth it. MARRY HER ASAP.......

Bro,I will sincerely advice you to marry her..a girl in my hometown took abortion pills and died.now,the kinsmen are insisting he marries her corpse,doing all the traditional rights in marriage..so let me ask you which would you rather choose?

friday2011:
Marry her now, stop being a tenant, own it.

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