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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Jeffyblaq(m): 2:20am On Jun 23, 2020
purplecoco:
Same goes to Nigerian babes staying in Yankee. Do not bring any Nigeria guy into Yankee. Don't marry a Nigerian guy in Yankee, if you wanna live a long non-stressful life, before you start getting old before your time
Don't be pained dear
It is what it is... Even though I can't just stereotype y'all.

The kenyan, Ugandan ladies are now snatching yuh men cos they've worked on their manners to have them.

Almost 5 of my pals are married to them but I chose not to.

Heavenly grace, I wyfed my tribal gyal from Nigeria.

A heavenly loyal and intelligent gyal I must say!

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 2:22am On Jun 23, 2020
cooltola:


What if i told u that such marriage do not last long or end in divorce.

What if I told u that’s not true. Only works that way in theory. In reality opposites attract and tend to stay together

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Emilokoiyawon: 2:29am On Jun 23, 2020
tydi:

You are truly a king. Don't marry anybody that you know you know someone who has bleeped her, I'm not saying we haven't been used and dumped by another person but its not advisable. In my case, my distant cousin has slept with my ex wife which I saw the evidence but was blinded for what I had for her then and proceeded, but anytime I want to really push forward and show her that I loved her for real that picture keeps playing in my head and everything i had to prove my love for her will just go flat like a flaccid d!ck. But she keeps thinking I hated her but I don't, but we men does a lot of thinking and the pic must always come to our mind. So its not encouraging at all. Modified ;The best union is interracial union. Marry a white lady and enjoy a true genuine love. Haven't you asked your self why the whites marry at a very young age cus they love for real. Here where I base you will see a young white lady of prolly 19 to 21 already married putting on her wedding ring and with her very young husband too and prolly a kid of theirs. Cus their love is genuine and when dey fall out of love which is very rare at atmost 0.001per dey divorce than pretending for their selfish gain.

Nonsense. Whites are worse. Divorce rates among white Americans for 1st marriage is more than 50%

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Emilokoiyawon: 2:35am On Jun 23, 2020
stevups:
I have a lady that wanted to marry me but each time I went to her house I met different types of guys. They are all her friends. Sometimes they sleep in her house, so I just gave up

angry What's your problem? They guys are just keeping her pu_ssy warm for you. Calm down joor. angry

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Emilokoiyawon: 2:36am On Jun 23, 2020
stevups:
I have a lady that wanted to marry me but each time I went to her house I met different types of guys. They are all her friends. Sometimes they sleep in her house, so I just gave up

angry What's your problem? They guys are just keeping her pu_ssy warm for you. Calm down joor, kini big deal? angry
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by BABANGBALI: 2:49am On Jun 23, 2020
Marriage is two expenses these days and it is not easy to mentain

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by purplecoco(f): 2:51am On Jun 23, 2020
Jeffyblaq:

Don't be pained dear
It is what it is... Even though I can't just stereotype y'all.

The kenyan, Ugandan ladies are now snatching yuh men cos they've worked on their manners to have them.

Almost 5 of my pals are married to them but I chose not to.

Heavenly grace, I wyfed my tribal gyal from Nigeria.

A heavenly loyal and intelligent gyal I must say!
I’m not pained or anguished whatsoever. It's just that is a norm to stereotype females on this platform. It goes both ways for both genders when it comes to marriage. The male counterpart should not be left out. I mean I should have it on the back of my head, that if I wanna get married, I shouldn't marry a man from Nigeria and bring him to the states.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Emilokoiyawon: 2:55am On Jun 23, 2020
Eulalia:
Anyways, God will give us the grace and strength we need to pull through this institution no one ever graduates from. Its either you're a drop out, get rusticated or remain there for life. No graduating o lol...I'm out..

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Jeffyblaq(m): 2:56am On Jun 23, 2020
purplecoco:
I’m not pained or anguished whatsoever. It's just that is a norm to stereotype females on this platform. It goes both ways for both genders when it comes to marriage. The male counterpart should not be left out. I mean I should have it on the back of my head, that if I wanna get married, I shouldn't marry a man from Nigeria and bring him to the states.
Itz all gud..

I gat you!

Yuh opinion and I will respect dat.

Cheers!

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by simplepee(f): 2:59am On Jun 23, 2020
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married. undecided undecided

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Churchgeh(f): 3:02am On Jun 23, 2020
@Otiv, I respect your viewpoint.

This generation lacks the capacity to wait on God for who and when to marry.

God instituted marriage, he owns the manual.

If you are a devoted and dedicated person, God will honour you and give you a devoted mate.

There might be challenges (Finance, family influence, delayed childbirth etc)

but with time, patience and endurance, you will surely enjoy your union with the person.

It's a pity this generation have been disillusioned(no thanks to social media), but if you know you have a destiny, you will see marriage as a mean to
fulfil that destiny, rather than seeing marriage only for procreation and companionship alone.

Did I say I never had a day of regret? NO or "what kind of man is this" kind of days, Yes, there were days I feel like going back to the single life,

but in our difference, we become stronger, and we value each other more.

NB: Married @25 for 9years now, it gets better by the day.

My Counsel: Discover yourself, know your purpose, find a mate who will support your dream and build an empire together.







Otiv:
[Sometimes I marvel at how the world has been shaped through so many self taught and self believed ideas passed round the internet these days . Who says the man loses? Why not just say our generation has lost the ability to do the right thing.. we just want everything to always work at all times when we need them. We dont believe God anymore and we have lacked or lost the stamina to endure .. we live fast lives and it reflects in everything we do. Our parents got married, they never told us it was always rosy! They endured and worked to make these marriages work, can we ?

If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Emilokoiyawon: 3:09am On Jun 23, 2020
CanadaOrBust:
What if I told u that angels marry devils all the time

Is this what they meant when they said "...opposite attract...?" cheesy
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 3:12am On Jun 23, 2020
simplepee:
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married every sayurday abi all the suitors we are getting falls from heaven. undecided undecided

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Emilokoiyawon: 3:16am On Jun 23, 2020
encircling2:
Contact us for your NYSC redeployment

how does your redeployment service work?
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by daewoorazer(m): 3:16am On Jun 23, 2020
maomidavies:
You’ll will just open mouth and be saying rubbish. Because something bad Happened to someone that tried it, doesn’t mean it will end in tears .

You see, the proof is in the pudding

How can you insult a young man who has never meant you harm on a faceless forum

Any guy that settles with you will die before his time
Peace!

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Billygee2u: 3:18am On Jun 23, 2020
GODPUNISHUNA:


If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.
Ladies of nowadays,has rendered marriage invaluable. No more joy in marriage but misery. Men in marriage now are only pretending to be happy. Enduring instead of enjoying

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by daewoorazer(m): 3:18am On Jun 23, 2020
purplecoco:
Same goes to Nigerian babes staying in Yankee. Do not bring any Nigeria guy into Yankee. Don't marry a Nigerian guy in Yankee, if you wanna live a long non-stressful life, before you start getting old before your time

Your highness,We do the marrying...this doesn’t fit your mouth. When you can buy a ring and propose to a man, then you maybe have an opinion

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 3:23am On Jun 23, 2020
CanadaOrBust:


What if I told u that’s not true. Only works that way in theory. In reality opposites attract and tend to stay together

What if i told u that it is true. If you mean opposite in personality attract. Yes it is true an introvert can marry an extrovert that is what people mean by opposite attract . A serious woman can marry a go happy husband or vice versa. Opposite in moral compass or work ethnic do not attract and if they do, it end up in divorce or death. A serial cheater marrying a faithful wife or vice versa. A hardworking man marrying a lazy wife or vice versa It works if the other party tolerate it until the other party cannot take it no more. In most cases, it hardly last or end in divorce or seperation in the future. I am sure you heard about tales how a woman pour hot water on her cheating husband or stab an abusive husband or how a man leaves a cheating spouse. Again marriage is sweet if you marry the right person.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Billygee2u: 3:24am On Jun 23, 2020
Baloranking:
grin grin grin

Eye don tear, nobody wants to be committed to anything as they feel it's slavery.

Pride this is the major reason for failed marriages this days undecided people can't just put their pride oneside and work on their relationship.

Entitlement for Nigerian girls,they want the whole world but can't bring anything to the table.

Not to even talk about the amount of brideprice these days, plus the girl demanding an expensive wedding after giving her all that she start nagging 2years into the marriage grin

The rate of cheating this days is too much, someone knows someone that knows someone,that has bleeped your girlfriend or boyfriend.grin

Omo to marry for naija na suffer as a man it should be in your top 5 prayer points to leave this shit hole,get a life and a better wife so you can enjoy your future.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by HITsquad: 3:26am On Jun 23, 2020
If I could reach an agreement with a good beautiful lady to give me at least 3 babies and go her way, I would gladly pay her off and be happy.

Life is short and already a mess for an extra drama and headache.

There are no more wife/husband material left in the world, especially in Nigeria.

But if you luckily find deserving someone? Then Settle down it's a beautiful thing... do it for your children. I'm just never that lucky!

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by MedicH: 3:29am On Jun 23, 2020
daewoorazer:


Bro, if you’re in the US

1. DONT BRING ANY NAIJA BABE ENTER YANKEE
2. DONT MARRY ANY NAIJA BABE IN YANKEE
3. White babe ain’t bad if she’s brought up well, it’s just that you’ll live a bachelors’ life for long cooking native dishes
4. Other African ladies are pretty good....ladies from Kenya, Uganda etc respect us a lot and don’t snatch at the feminism pandemic that has bleeped naija girls’ brain here in Yankee...

Peace!

Gospel

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:35am On Jun 23, 2020
aristocrazzy:
Madam no vex na condition make crayfish bend. I swear I go don marry by now
Lol... Age no de your side again... Lol
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:37am On Jun 23, 2020
MaziIgwe007:
To me, everyone is crazy.
no money, too much demands, seeing how the whites are living there's happily without being married but a lot of kids. All this makes one think marriage isn't necessary again...


I was even expecting to see a lot of low key marriages due covid-19, but I haven't seen a lot actually
Lol... But some are actually getting married in this pandemic..
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:39am On Jun 23, 2020
Blackmoran:
The institution marriage in our generation is not realistic.. The main purpose of people getting married is to stay and live a monogamy life with your partner which is hard to practice, because both sexes now a polygamous in nature, with the invent of social media and technology both sexes have the ability to meet with a lot of people and are been distracted.... So what is the purpose of marriage when the vow you make deep down you know its likely you break it. And secondly how does marriage benefit a guy.... Pls give me 3 reason and don't tell children and cooking I can achieve that without getting married..
Social media na big wahala I swear...
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:42am On Jun 23, 2020
davien:
True. Though sex shouldn't be used to coerce marriage in the first place because once that hunger is quenched or unfulfilled both partners will lose.
True
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by faithyguy: 3:51am On Jun 23, 2020
maomidavies:
You’ll will just open mouth and be saying rubbish. Because something bad Happened to someone that tried it, doesn’t mean it will end in tears .


This what we are talking about. Some share his blunt opinion which is a real fact for those in Yankee. It's is well oh.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by seguno2: 3:53am On Jun 23, 2020
profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

Can you please share the trend statistics from the relevant government agency, which you used to form your opinion. Thanks
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Xeroxlis(m): 3:55am On Jun 23, 2020
Xeeex:


Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Why marry the girl when sex before marriage is available?

Sex before/without marriage is one of the most beautiful gifts, men have had for their liberation from Marital slavery.
Imagine to marry a girl, as a man
1. U have to suffer to develop love
2. U have to suffer to get her attention (u will spend o)
3. U will suffer to arrange engagement party ( more spending)
4 wedding another expenses

Etc
The list is endless
And in-between you are still the one wasting your energy during sex

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