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God bless your mum bro...
She'll live to see her 4th generation and beyond if she so desires...

As for your girl, she has a lot to learn... Don't wife her.

The gurl get brain pass u.


I didn't say u no get brain oo

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

The truth is that your GF is trying to avoid your mum to stay with you permanently after your marriage. That is she want to engage her with husband that will keep her not to stay permanent in your house. Are u the only child?

Please keep quiet abeg. So the generation has lost it because women no longer choose to die in depression... Lmao

Indaboski007:
Mothers of that set especially igbo people most of them don't remarry. It's this 80's down generation that started this remarry thing for women.

Even in those days women remarry for only children sake. Our generation has lost it everything sex sex sex

I'm sorry, your post says it all. you're a child, and not yet matured to venture into a relationship. Good forbid, if you lose your wife at the 60years above, won't you remarry
Don't take it personal with your girl, it's just a mere suggestion, if it goes well with you some it, and if it doesn't..... it's just a piece of advice

Ezennwa:
hmm!


I got married to a Yoruba Lady just to try another tribe.

Since I got married to a Yoruba woman, my life has never been the same, she prepares only ewedu and Amala for me, I told her to cook another food for me, she insisted that her parents taught her how to prepare only Amala and ewedu.

This Lady can snore for Africa, she doesn't allow me to sleep at night, na snoring she dey use wake me up for night.

Whenever we want to make love, I will force her to bath, but to no avail. She said that she bath only once in a day, I did not argue with her, I insisted that she must bath before making love.

My brothers, this Yoruba Lady went into the bathroom, stayed only 1 minute and came out, I ask her why she bath only 1 minute, she said bathing is not her thing, she is used to it.

My brothers, what offence did i commit for marrying a Yoruba Lady. All the things she dey do for house, I just dey tolerate her, na so so mess she dey mess for room whenever she eat her Amala and ewedu.

She Don use ofe mmanu scatter my family, Who did i offend.

Mvici:

people's tradition sometimes matters, am just talking about after 30yrs in marriage, already have a child....what next will she be looking for when her child can still give her ground children, people's body and soul are different anyway especially when the man she marry was the only person that has gone down with her and maybe tradition and religion and what people will say

Stop justifying your silly position. Marital vows end the moment one party in the marriage passes on. Even if the marriage lasted for 50 years, your mum owes nothing to your dead dad. In fact for her own mental and physical wellbeing, he needs another man in her life. She's safer going through her later years with a caring partner next to her. To imagine she's past happiness and companionship at 52? SMH! ...and you expect whoever you get married to to remain single if you happen to die before her? Is there a religion or cult that told you it makes any difference to a dead man how his wife lives after his passing? There are really some otherwise taboo subjects that may need to be discussed before marriage. If anyone calls this a culture or tradition, I don't expect my sister or even friend to be enmeshed in it. Life is for the living, not the dead. By the way, on the evidence of your girlfriend's suggestion, she's an honest, civilized, caring, practical and reasonable woman, perhaps more than you deserve, given your own position on the subject.

Romanoff:
My dad has been dead for 11 years now and I need a man for my mum cause she is going to get lonely. She will be 55 next year, we have started getting married and her youngest child will soon leave her for NYSC.

Loneliness kills. Marriage is till death do any of the parties part.

There is nothing wrong with your girl suggesting your mum remarries, she's obviously more mature than you are.

This is nonsense.....A 55 year old woman,a grandma for that matter, getting remarried. What for? In some places,this is absolutely horrendous

Quote me and receive no reply. I've said what Nature told me to say. Nature frawns at it

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Is it only old testament you know? What about new testament? Jesus, Apostle Paul, Peter, James, John, John the Baptist, etc were these men not chaste?

Y'all can quote only the parts that suites yall.

Mvici:
I am a man and it is written that men are polygamous in nature and can marry as many as they like even in the old testament we see great men that marry more than one....but I tell u with the way I love that girl before, eventually had it been we later marry...and we had a son, we even spent 30yrs which I know by then i would be probably 60somthing.... seriously I won't really think much of another woman

To my understanding, what the girl talk is up right, though it sounds offensive to you. She has a sense of good reasoning.

fabienjoe:


Stop justifying your silly position. Marital vows end the moment one party in the marriage passes on. Even if the marriage lasted for 50 years, your mum owes nothing to your dead dad. In fact for her own mental and physical wellbeing, he needs another man in her life. She's safer going through her later years with a caring partner next to her. To imagine she's past happiness and companionship at 52? SMH! ...and you expect whoever you get married to to remain single if you happen to die before her? Is there a religion or cult that told you it makes any difference to a dead man how his wife lives after his passing? There are really some otherwise taboo subjects that may need to be discussed before marriage. If anyone calls this a culture or tradition, I don't expect my sister or even friend to be enmeshed in it. Life is for the living, not the dead. By the way, on the evidence of your girlfriend's suggestion, she's an honest, civilized, caring, practical and reasonable woman, perhaps more than you deserve, given your own position on the subject.

Where is your respect for your husband. If it is 40 and below acceted, but 52 guy check am naa, what is she looking for again. Even Nature frawns at it

[quote author=Isobug post=91387412]
[s]This is nonsense.....A 55 year old woman,a grandma for that matter, getting remarried. What for? In some places,this is absolutely horrendous

Quote me and receive no reply. I've said what Nature told me to say. Nature frawns it it[/quote[/s]]

Which nature?
Oga shut up jare!


1 Timothy 5:9 ESV

Let a widow be enrolled if she is not less than sixty years of age, having been the wife of one husband

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Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

She is talking about companionship not sexing around mister man. Besides women are more likely to stay unmarried after a spouse death who they have lived long with they will rather endure the loneliness and they feel it's more honorable for them and the kids will have more stability than having another man in their lives. Too much conflict.

Also, address your fears with the person you are in a relationship with. You can get clearer answers from her.

Actually i don't see a issue... Once she wasn't disrespectful... Besides women remarry at any age all over the world... Your issue is you base marriage on sex which obviously is beyond that.... Since your mom is happy being single then just forget it... That doesn't mean the lady is a sex addict like you put it

Even the author of marriage who is our creator - GOD, made it clear that death annuls marriage so who are you to think that it is a bad thing for your mom to remarry?

Mvici:
them no go understand Sha, na me been wear the shoe that day hear wetin she talk, maybe na out of ignorance she take talk amm but seriously from my side which I won't mention..... family members will think u were never loyal throughout those long period....haba! over 30 with a son
No be say hungry dey worry u or ur husband family ain't accommodating.... She might not even be the type cause no one knows tomorrow....it all depends on an individual mindset though.
I broke up with her not even because of that.....that one is a personal matter but the issue of my mum getting another man was really confusing so I wanted to hear more, explore and learn more about marriage which is all about sacrifice.

Mvici:

people's tradition sometimes matters, am just talking about after 30yrs in marriage, already have a child....what next will she be looking for when her child can still give her ground children, people's body and soul are different anyway especially when the man she marry was the only person that has gone down with her and maybe tradition and religion and what people will say

Indeed you talk like a child, is marriage all about children??

Marriage isn't about sex or children but for companionship.
It's nice that your mum doesn't want to remarry but that doesn't make your girlfriend bad, for her to take your mum thought on her makes her a true woman that has you at heart.

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.
Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

The lady meant no harm. She suggested that in the best interest of your mom & yourself.

And please do not mind the fools calling you names, they aren't better than you. Everyone has Monopoly over his reasonings. Now you have gained some knowledge from your post.

And if this was the cause for your break-up, there's no harm in reaching her & say sorry if need be. We keep learning as we grow.

Good luck

Suggesting a widow of her 50's to re-marry it's very wrong. We r africans. She love, respect, cherish her husband b4 his death. She's happy for all she hv now. Guy no marry that girl oh if u won live long.

Romanoff:
My dad has been dead for 11 years now and I need a man for my mum cause she is going to get lonely. She will be 55 next year, we have started getting married and her youngest child will soon leave her for NYSC.

Loneliness kills. Marriage is till death do any of the parties part.

There is nothing wrong with your girl suggesting your mum remarries, she's obviously more mature than you are.

my dad died last yr, my siblings are scattered asides two at home but I'm already bearing the burden of being the man in my mum's life. The woman calls me on the phone pratically daily since last year. I won't mind if she remarries now , make I rest abeg. loneliness kills, I have been staying alone in my flat since my flatmates travelled cos of lockdown and I can say very well that loneliness is not good for mental health

Don't be selfish bro, its not all about sex but companionship at her old age.Nothing kills fast like loneliness. She needs a partner to keep her company.
Your girl friend's opinion is not that bad,she's telling you the real fact and u will soon understand.

Mvici:
them no go understand Sha, na me been wear the shoe that day hear wetin she talk, maybe na out of ignorance she take talk amm but seriously from my side which I won't mention..... family members will think u were never loyal throughout those long period....haba! over 30 with a son
No be say hungry dey worry u or ur husband family ain't accommodating.... She might not even be the type cause no one knows tomorrow....it all depends on an individual mindset though.
I broke up with her not even because of that.....that one is a personal matter but the issue of my mum getting another man was really confusing so I wanted to hear more, explore and learn more about marriage which is all about sacrifice.

Guy you broke up with her ? Please can I have her number? I just want to say something light to her

Isobug:

Where is your respect for your husband. If it is 40 and below acceted, but 52 guy check am naa, what is she looking for again. Even Nature frawns at it

but a man is allowed to remarry abi, nature smiles at it

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Ezennwa:
hmm!


I got married to a Yoruba Lady just to try another tribe.

Since I got married to a Yoruba woman, my life has never been the same, she prepares only ewedu and Amala for me, I told her to cook another food for me, she insisted that her parents taught her how to prepare only Amala and ewedu.

This Lady can snore for Africa, she doesn't allow me to sleep at night, na snoring she dey use wake me up for night.

Whenever we want to make love, I will force her to bath, but to no avail. She said that she bath only once in a day, I did not argue with her, I insisted that she must bath before making love.

My brothers, this Yoruba Lady went into the bathroom, stayed only 1 minute and came out, I ask her why she bath only 1 minute, she said bathing is not her thing, she is used to it.

My brothers, what offence did i commit for marrying a Yoruba Lady. All the things she dey do for house, I just dey tolerate her, na so so mess she dey mess for room whenever she eat her Amala and ewedu.

She Don use ofe mmanu scatter my family, Who did i offend.

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Your mom gave you the response you want to hear.
Your girl is definitely more matured than you are.
She knows you're the only one who can 'marry' for your mom. Meaning, though it might be the better option for your mom, she might not want to go into it because she might not want to offend you. But if you're matured enough to encourage your mom to go into it, in the end it'll likely be to her own good.

Mvici:

people's tradition sometimes matters, am just talking about after 30yrs in marriage, already have a child....what next will she be looking for when her child can still give her ground children, people's body and soul are different anyway especially when the man she marry was the only person that has gone down with her and maybe tradition and religion and what people will say

Please it's grand children

[quote author=nkwuocha1 post=91387528][/quote]
Onye iberibe......Is what that place is talking about? They are telling something different and you're quoting it

Instead of nigga-arians to campaigning for freedom, all they got in their malfunction brains is sex talks. By the time all of you resume fully, nigeria will be chase of Biafran territories.

Any woman that's still going crazy for sex at 50something is a nympho.

At that age, you should be rechanneling your energy to other things of life and preparing yourself to meet your maker anytime the call comes in.
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You are stupid, very stupid. Men and women alike still have libidos in their 50s and that is very normal. And since you are not a nympho, may your libido be none existent in your early 50s.
I don't know about you, but you don't wait till you are old until you prepare to meet your maker. Unless you mean this methamophorically, and if that's the way you mean it, may what you wish this middle aged woman be your portion!

That girl should be thanking her stars she didn't get married to you. She is a woman so she understands how women feel better than you.


The fact that you are a man does not make you do anything you like and assume it's normal. My friend's uncle lost his wife and he got married to another woman 7months after. The surprising thing was that the lady he got married to lives in the same street with his uncle......If na woman do that one now dem go take mouth finish her.



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Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

Hmmm l am speechless...you spent your life with her and then you are gone. What would please you the most is if she lives a life of agony after you, all in the name of mourning. Bros you don waka, you don waka. If she finds love again, by all means but if she decides otherwise all well and good...