HomerTimpson:
i believe this account is hacked cos a cunt can never advice like this

Martinez39s:
Too many lies and bullcrap.

Kenplay:

Why are you pained? Did my post upset you or makes you feel guilty?

Kenplay:

When is she coming? Is it when am already made? How can I trust her so-called love then

Martinez39s:
Kenplay, don't listen to this bluepill nonsense. You can't find true love from a woman because it doesn't exist. All women view men as disposable utilities, and a woman's "love" is based on what she can benefit from you. Women don't care about your struggles, they stay at the finish line and roll with the winners. No matter what you have done for a woman in the past (in the name of love), she will drop you like faeces when you go broke or a higher bidder comes along; they are always on the look out for a bigger and better deal. All woman, even our mother and sisters, are like this. THIS IS THE HARSH REDPILL TRUTH.

You will do well to read these nairaland threads carefully

https://www.nairaland.com/2984609/heart-belongs-highest-bidder-dont

https://www.nairaland.com/5695941/many-memes-redpill-guys-get

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

https://www.nairaland.com/4284434/ubunjas-miseducation-story-red-pill

Kenplay:
At this stage of my life when am still on the journey of my dream is when I thought am suppose to find a true lover who will be with me and enjoy the fruit our labour in the future but the opposite is the case because ladies am meeting and dating are all after the here and now, even the ones that pretend to love you will start showing you their real character after few moment in the relationship.
Am not poor, I can provide the basics of my life and even for my siblings but I cant call myself rich for now because am still young and building my future.

I dont think I will ever love or be committed to any woman if I become rich and successful in the future because when I needed true love must have past by. I may just have baby mamas, sex mates but not any lady I will ever call a lover. Even if I eventually marry I wont be committed to her because I know she never came into my life when I was still struggling.

Kenplay:
At this stage of my life when am still on the journey of my dream is when I thought am suppose to find a true lover who will be with me and enjoy the fruit our labour in the future but the opposite is the case because ladies am meeting and dating are all after the here and now, even the ones that pretend to love you will start showing you their real character after few moment in the relationship.
Am not poor, I can provide the basics of my life and even for my siblings but I cant call myself rich for now because am still young and building my future.

I dont think I will ever love or be committed to any woman if I become rich and successful in the future because when I needed true love must have past by. I may just have baby mamas, sex mates but not any lady I will ever call a lover. Even if I eventually marry I wont be committed to her because I know she never came into my life when I was still struggling.

BlueMarilyn1224:
Honey listen
I'm not the average girl you've met, I work for my money and I've never and don't depend on boyfriend financially,it's embarrassing.
I said you're a kid because there are still things you should know
No1.Everybody isn't the same ,not every lady you meet is after your money ,you just have to change your thinking and attract the right people to you
2.Eschew the mindset of "I'm going to make money to pepper them"...it only leaves you desperate and even if you make it with that mindset,you'll still be empty
You shouldn't really blame Nigerian girls for being dependent on a man,because the society taught them to be that way and no one wants to be with someone that can't cater for them....if you're a beggar would you beg from a beggar?
Y'all men are lamenting on how women can't "reason with you" but don't forget that times have changed but that mentality of being financially Dependant on a man(husband) is still there,though we're changing it
A word..........

Goldp5988:
You better change that mentality of yours, if not na you go suffer am las las.

Chadansi:


True
But then Fantasy and illusion is a necessary ingredient for living...
And the so called Hope is the thin line that keeps our sanity even in hard

Yes,the bad news is:there is no Guarantee of getting to the so called Top or getting
success
But the good news is: It isn't impossible either
It is true that there is a crowd of us that wants or dream of it
but it wouldn't be called the Top if everyone was up there and there was no ground

And at the end of the day, The Top is virtually what we define it to be.
It is how far we've come from were we once were

All we can do is Try to move ahead

MrBrownJay1:
imagine the type of lonely sad life that many of our brothas choose to live, thanks to this macho/fear of women thingy.

the minute any man believes that women are the enemy (because a few of them are good for nothing goldiggers) is the minute, you have decided to live a very lonely sad life...with no one to share that joy/good times/bad times/worries or just someone trustworthy that you can open up to.

no matter how a man want to look at it, you cant go on and on living your life like a bachelor forever (keeping women from getting close to you)... eventually you will have to give in, unless you want to end up at 60, going clubbing and looking for Reginas to bed and ask to leave in the morning. no cant do!

majority of the loudest one talking about redpill bla bla bla are going home to their wives/women. dont listen to their charade!

BlueMarilyn1224:
Guess what?
(in Dr.Robotnik's voice)
NOBODY CARES!!!!

Rozz:
This is funny

MrBrownJay1:
imagine the type of lonely sad life that many of our brothas choose to live, thanks to this macho/fear of women thingy.

the minute any man believes that women are the enemy (because a few of them are good for nothing goldiggers) is the minute, you have decided to live a very lonely sad life...with no one to share that joy/good times/bad times/worries or just someone trustworthy that you can open up to.

no matter how a man want to look at it, you cant go on and on living your life like a bachelor forever (keeping women from getting close to you)... eventually you will have to give in, unless you want to end up at 60, going clubbing and looking for Reginas to bed and ask to leave in the morning. no cant do!

majority of the loudest one talking about redpill bla bla bla are going home to their wives/women. dont listen to their charade!

Dande55:
Cos most broke guys are never faithful or trustworthy. Many ladies have learnt their lessons, me included.
I dated a broke boyfriend then. I was supporting him, buy him gifts, do everything within my power to stand by him and not let him down.

When he made the cash, he said I wasn't good enough. Gave me excuses. Wasted my 4years for nothing. Thank God I was very young still and vibrant. This idiot went and married another lady he thinks was upto his standard. Lol, few months later, he came begging and saying he wants to divorce his wife and all the balderdash you scum do say.

Well, I thank God for my life now. Working and making some cash with the man that deserves my sacrifices.

Ladies learnt from you scums. Sorry, you lots have dealt with alot of ladies. If you get money, I'm sure your taste in women will change and you will start cheating on the girl that was there for you.

Please, remain single, we have enough scums in relationships already.

Kenplay:
At this stage of my life when am still on the journey of my dream is when I thought am suppose to find a true lover who will be with me and enjoy the fruit our labour in the future but the opposite is the case because ladies am meeting and dating are all after the here and now, even the ones that pretend to love you will start showing you their real character after few moment in the relationship.
Am not poor, I can provide the basics of my life and even for my siblings but I cant call myself rich for now because am still young and building my future.

I dont think I will ever love or be committed to any woman if I become rich and successful in the future because when I needed true love must have past by. I may just have baby mamas, sex mates but not any lady I will ever call a lover. Even if I eventually marry I wont be committed to her because I know she never came into my life when I was still struggling.

luminouz:



Now,I know the reason for your vitriolic outbursts here on NL.

A word of advice? He didn't leave you because he got rich and wanted to upgrade, he left because you have no value to him(love,sex whatever). Its not about being broke, its the kind of person he is.

When naija ladies talk about staying with a broke man through tough times, I shake my head. I dont get it...are you supposed to hate him because he is broke or that he is human? This apparently disjointed mentality has made many women prey to men. You all scream about how you pay his bills and all that,like he is indebted to y'all for life. What if una character no good,or you actually are abusive or a downright nasty. But some women can twist narrative and make themselves look like saints. I need your ex's own side of the story.

In your case,while it is possible you were nice and all that, I still think no man who knows your worth would gladly leave based on changing levels alone.

The basic question is this...DOES HE KNOW YOUR VALUE? IF NOT, YOU AINT SHIIT TO HIM

Dande55:
Cos most broke guys are never faithful or trustworthy. Many ladies have learnt their lessons, me included.
I dated a broke boyfriend then. I was supporting him, buy him gifts, do everything within my power to stand by him and not let him down.

When he made the cash, he said I wasn't good enough. Gave me excuses. Wasted my 4years for nothing. Thank God I was very young still and vibrant. This idiot went and married another lady he thinks was upto his standard. Lol, few months later, he came begging and saying he wants to divorce his wife and all the balderdash you scum do say.

Well, I thank God for my life now. Working and making some cash with the man that deserves my sacrifices.

Ladies learnt from you scums. Sorry, you lots have dealt with alot of ladies. If you get money, I'm sure your taste in women will change and you will start cheating on the girl that was there for you.

Please, remain single, we have enough scums in relationships already.

Angelacruz:
Word!

Dande55:

My dear, never let these broke idiots talk you down.
When they make money, they upgrade their standard and either leave you or cheat on you.
They aren't worth it.
Develop yourself and match up with a man that's worth it. Thank you.

Kenplay:

Am not sure you read the post, you just rush with your mr know it all to expose your silly ignorance.
Am the one that will teach how to love a woman because I know what it entails but the problem is that this ladies are full of self centeredness and greed.
Please next time read before you comment

Possiblegee:
What if you end up with a woman that’s also wealthy

luminouz:
Now,I know the reason for your vitriolic outbursts here on NL.

A word of advice? He didn't leave you because he got rich and wanted to upgrade, he left because you have no value to him(love,sex whatever). Its not about being broke, its the kind of person he is.

When naija ladies talk about staying with a broke man through tough times, I shake my head. I dont get it...are you supposed to hate him because he is broke or that he is human? This apparently disjointed mentality has made many women prey to men. You all scream about how you pay his bills and all that,like he is indebted to y'all for life. What if una character no good,or you actually are abusive or a downright nasty. But some women can twist narrative and make themselves look like saints. I need your ex's own side of the story.

In your case,while it is possible you were nice and all that, I still think no man who knows your worth would gladly leave based on changing levels alone.

The basic question is this...DOES HE KNOW YOUR VALUE? IF NOT, YOU AINT SHIIT TO HIM

Chadansi:
Pele

My dear leave this love issues...o
Focus your energy and thoughts on building the future you are striving at.. And what will happen will happen

And besides most Quality Girls are also busy building a future for themselves...

Some people are 'lucky' to meet someone they can build with...Others are not

Moreover when you eventually get to the Top, you'll have better taste in Women and broader circles.So chill out!
If you get to meet a Woman you struggle with you to get there,fine.
But if you don't... you'll still have the choice of being with One who's already there

emmaodet:
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Hmmmm
True but what if he didn't get to the top? Because the so called top, seems like an illusion/ a mirage that just keep giving us this false hope not to give up or commit suicide.
A lot will dream and work towards the top but only a fraction will either get there or get to the middle.

Anuoluwa1234:
Abi hoo, help me ask him... This type of thinking, I count is as a poor man's thinking.. you are rich, you are poor etc... No condition is permanent..
And becuz u are suffering now, doesn't mean one will be successful later in life.. that is just one of the irony of life. And all on grace
He said he won't love his wife etc.. he is a fool, didn't he choose her, or dem go choose her for him.. they will be the one to say, make money first , find love later.
They are still the one saying, I can't love anyone who didn't struggle with me, etc.. some ppl are really really confused about their life self

Martinez39s:
It's surprising how you believed her cuçk and bull story.