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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by tot(f): 3:58pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma: It's not good at all. 1 Like |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 3:58pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
tot: She has deleted her comments. I am happy that you quoted her comments. Please keep it for future references. 1 Like |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by graciamore(f): 4:01pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma:uboma are you sure? why bring someone down for nothing now? Around November 2018 was 6months after I had my second baby.. I was really job hunting.haba now? Is well 1 Like |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 4:05pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
graciamore: I have no reason to bring you down. I only stated the fact. Since 2018 till date, your husband could/can not take care of you and his children. Find a screenshot of you begging as far back as November 2018. 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by tot(f): 4:05pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma: Doing so speaks volumes. In any case, the reference is there as it was quoted. I believe in helping people when they need to get on their feet, what I do not support is adopting that as a lifestyle. I have become very skeptical with Nairaland now. After separate incidents of assisting people and then in another thread you see them begging, or they come back to you for more. It's just bad. |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by graciamore(f): 4:07pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma:uboma you call asking for past questions for a test on a job or asking for help for registration of a vacancy begging which was because I had a small phone then.. Hmm it is well |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 4:11pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
tot: Exactly! But some persons have taken up begging as a career and they are proud to talk about it. Such persons will go on to create multiple monikers to continue to deceive unsuspecting members. 1 Like |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by graciamore(f): 4:11pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma:hahaha but it says what do you want Santa to do for you now, me I make my wish, did I do bad? |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by tot(f): 4:13pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
graciamore: But this was your comment in 2017. 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 4:13pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
graciamore: I attached a screenshot. Go back and read. Asking for past questions to enable you prepare for a job test/interview is not what we are discussing here. |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 4:19pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
graciamore: Shame on you for disgracing yourself and your husband here. Continue to create multiple monikers to ask for alms. 1 Like
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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Oga, that one na giveaway thread na. |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 4:37pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by SweetCunt97(f): 4:38pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
graciamore:Are you a single mom? You said something about not having a husband to provide for you. |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Question! |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by SweetCunt97(f): 4:46pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma:Mr it's OK. I know people who struggle for years before standing on their feet. That you lucky to stand shouldn't make you forget. Simply let her be. Not everyone who has an "husband" is well taken care of. My only chagrin with her is allowing herself pregnant when dey don't have. 3 Likes |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 4:51pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Your comment is trash. You obviously did not follow through with our discussion concerning her. Do not be quick to jump to conclusions. Since 2017, she has been begging for alms. Her husband cannot take care of her, she too has resorted to begging for alms since then. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by graciamore(f): 4:54pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:i have husband but maybe am not among the lucky ones.. |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by Galactico4ever(m): 5:34pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Inside Life! |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by graciamore(f): 5:45pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Uboma some of your words made me shade tears this evening sha,but u know what am a strong woman Ohh.my story long- sha is it marriage or family? For everyone going through real life hardship mayGod intervene.. For every woman woman in loveless marriage staying strong for kids and trusting you God for a change may God intervene... Shallom 1 Like |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by tot(f): 5:53pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
graciamore: Please stop with the emotional blackmail. Many people are in tough situations both here on NL and offline. Single mums without support, widows, orphans, there are people in worse situations. Yes, God is there to help us BUT we also have a part to play. Set goals for yourself, cut your coat according to what you can bear and stop using situations as an excuse. Haba!! If people start narrating their stories, nairaland will be full. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 5:59pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
graciamore: Your comment justifying your habit of begging prompted me to criticize you. It is okay to beg once or twice when there is the need but when it becomes a norm, it is not good. Using your kids to ask for alms/claiming your husband isn't taking care of you is no excuse to keep begging for alms. Where is your dignity? If you are in a loveless marriage, why not call it quits and move on with your life. The more you keep bearing children in a loveless marriage, the more problems you create for yourself. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by Klass99(f): 6:07pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by tot(f): 6:11pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma: I think you should just let her be. As Klass above rightly stated, people can see all the necessary posts and make their conclusions. I also want to believe she is wise enough not to drag the posts further. |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 6:14pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Klass99: Noted. I rest my case. 7 Likes |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by uboma(m): 6:15pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
tot: Noted. Thank you. Do have a good evening. 1 Like |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by tot(f): 6:16pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
uboma: Thanks, and you too. 2 Likes |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by Klass99(f): 6:19pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by Klass99(f): 6:31pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
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Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by tot(f): 6:39pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Klass99: e-business I am always skeptical about those quick to call God. You've said it all. That is my stance as well now. Nigerians (despite our tough exterior) are actually large hearted people, the drawback is it can be taken advantage of. |
Re: MY FEARS ARE GETTING REAL. by FaAbokiWithSuit(m): 6:17am On Jul 22, 2020 |
Klass99:nigga you are everywhere masquerading as a female. I see you have attached the "f" to your Monika. We all know who you are. Squallic didn't work then you came out with this. You came to rush to cover up and tell uboma not to expose more. Get a life. You are only fooling yourself 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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