Petyprincess:
You were given 1 week ban

I wasnt.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Meehn, you men are always nagging. Dude, do whatever you like with your money. We don't care. You all can roast for all I care. All these boys with twenty K account balance won't just let me rest. Dude, go to hell.

And you with the stupid threads. Roast!

hehehehe

jericco1:

What do you think?

nothing,my mind is just wandering up and down..

Chii59:

Long story. Stingy man.

Yawns

was expecting this reply....and they never fail.

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

A slave.

King44:
Trying to win a girls heart with money is a waste of resources, a girl that would like and appreciate you won't put your money first. Your money would be the last thing she would care about.

But you see leeches, you would know them from day one

They won't listen, a hoe is a hoe

I still remember back then when I used to spend on relationship from those hungry Nigerian girls, now my present girlfriend who's not a Nigerian girl is doing the opposite, she will rather spend on me than me spending on her, even when she knows that I also earn good income too

on our first date, she told me herself that she doesn't care about my money, her parents didn't train her to depend on men income besides she's independent and works in a popular firm so she earns good money, what matters is the love that we have for each other which haven't changed since we met, I just wish Naija guys can meet ladies like her not those hungry broke girls in the streets because almost 80% of Nigerian girls take relationship as poverty alleviation scheme.

I don't even blame them, I blame Nigerian men for accepting their financial request.

PoliticallyInco:
Give a lady money? How many ladies have given me money and who says I have to give a lady money.

These ladies have hands,legs and brains. So why should they be a charity case? God forbid I raise daughters this way. Just because nature gave you a few features to enable you bear babies, you have turned it into a commercial venture? If nature wanted you to rely on men so much it would have not provided you with arms, legs and a brain. One was quoted as saying girls are now wise, they are following the money. That is wisdom? Well okay. If stupid things make you happy who am I to talk. As long as you aren't getting the money from me and as long as you don't come complaining when your economic master that you are a slave to treats you like shit because he pays the bill, then I have no problems with your decision. Enjoy.

Or are we saying the society affects girls so much that they become mentally retarded at making ends meet? Are we saying the society has stunted their mental and psychological development to such a grave extent of mental retardation that they can't possibly work to make their own money and use it as they will. Was a curse placed on them never to make their own money and spend it how they like? Do they enjoy being economic slaves? Recently a lady said most young girls/students will die of hunger if married men remained faithful to their wives. While I am no saint, it is not that these girls will die of hunger. THEY WILL DIE FROM GREED! GREED FROM WANTING THINGS THEY CANT AFFORD AND HENCE NOT LIVING WITHIN THEIR MEANS.

I will screenshot all of this, print out and paste it on my wall for myself, and my future kids. Thanks a lot

MrColdsweat:
The fact that women are incapable of gratitude is one of the reasons I don't even help them. I help men because they're all they've got.

Unfortunately, the same men who need help are the ones lining up in a woman's inbox, begging to lift mountains for her.

Men are the new bitches.

very true..


i recently helped a former employee to a sum of 30k..i was to learn later that he used the money on agirl.. i just shake head

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DeSepiero:
Makes absolute sense.

Learn to say "NO" to urgent 10k requests when it's not convenient. You owe no one an explanation. Even if its convenient you can still simply say no if you want.

It doesn't make you stingy, it means you're in control of your choices and actions.

Yes bro
I said NO to 2greedy women xterday, even though I had so much money to spear from.

It gave me such unexpected satisfaction

HimName:

crayyy

Nice post here. Make sense die!

For my area our girls only love and cherish who always gives them money, and they used to see giving them money as the meaning of love. Once you have money, you are good for them.

That was how one bitch told me to complete her flight money I asked her how much is remaining she said 25k I was like you never won fly I told her straight up that she should learn how to cut her coat according to her seize that I could have given her the money if it was to complete a project or start trade, that's how the mumu girl keep quite up till now she never chat me up

I always say No

E don tey wey woman Don chop my N1000
Learn to help ur fellow guy Even when you don't know each other

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

make ị hear

Bobcul:
make ị hear

you better hear

Toks2008:
Dear men,

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money, or buying her gifts or taking her on expensive trips cos a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man and trust me on this, if a lady truly wants you, she will need no monetary influence to be with you.

Men must also understand that except there is an established relationship between them and a lady or an agreement with a lady before they spend on her, she is not obliged to give anything in return regardless of how big you spend on her.... You made that choice.

So what is the point?

if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford and not the type of money that will drive you crazy if you get nothing back in return because ''MOST'' ladies are naturally wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth.

This is why during a heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"

So guys please, no go dey do pass yourself..

God Bless You for Creating this Thread Sir.

[quote author=PoliticallyInco post=94578970]Give a lady money? How many ladies have given me money and who says I have to give a lady money.

These ladies have hands,legs and brains. So why should they be a charity case? God forbid I raise daughters this way. Just because nature gave you a few features to enable you bear babies, you have turned it into a commercial venture? If nature wanted you to rely on men so much it would have not provided you with arms, legs and a brain. One was quoted as saying girls are now wise, they are following the money. That is wisdom? Well okay. If stupid things make you happy who am I to talk. As long as you aren't getting the money from me and as long as you don't come complaining when your economic master that you are a slave to treats you like shit because he pays the bill, then I have no problems with your decision. Enjoy.

Or are we saying the society affects girls so much that they become mentally retarded at making ends meet? Are we saying the society has stunted their mental and psychological development to such a grave extent of mental retardation that they can't possibly work to make their own money and use it as they will. Was a curse placed on them never to make their own money and spend it how they like? Do they enjoy being economic slaves? Recently a lady said most young girls/students will die of hunger if married men remained faithful to their wives. While I am no saint, it is not that these girls will die of hunger. THEY WILL DIE FROM GREED! GREED FROM WANTING THINGS THEY CANT AFFORD AND HENCE NOT LIVING WITHIN THEIR MEANS.

Listen, If the lady isn't a minor or an aged relative then she is not getting a dime from me just like that. In other to get a dime she has to earn every penny of it by working twice or thrice as hard to earn it. It would not matter how many positions of the Kama Sutra you know, how good the head you give is, how wet you get when I slam into you from behind sending your juices splashing everywhere, or how good your food tastes, or how domesticated you are, or how saintly your character is. And oh I also don't kid myself that I am the best man out there. Just as you aren't the best woman either. So please make your own money and "eat" it alone. Let me make mine and enjoy it in peace with legit dependants. See ladies, there are a few ways to earn money from me and I promise you,you must work thrice as hard to earn it and secondly it isn't through any form of sexuality or the stereotypical gender roles of a lady.


I live for myself first, then my young and aged dependants next, then the less privileged, before I then consider a woman....... reddit mind set

GreenDee:
nothing,my mind is just wandering up and down..

Why's that so?
Guilt?
Or is the OP directly talking to you

Toks2008:
Dear men,

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money, or buying her gifts or taking her on expensive trips cos a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man and trust me on this, if a lady truly wants you, she will need no monetary influence to be with you.

Men must also understand that except there is an established relationship between them and a lady or an agreement with a lady before they spend on her, she is not obliged to give anything in return regardless of how big you spend on her.... You made that choice.

So what is the point?

if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford and not the type of money that will drive you crazy if you get nothing back in return because ''MOST'' ladies are naturally wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth.

This is why during a heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"

So guys please, no go dey do pass yourself..

The Truth

It’s unfortunate many of them won’t learn
Let one fine girl come and scatter their heads now, they will forget this post


Stop spoiling these girls with money they didn’t work for, but sorry this is too late as most ladies out there got this entitlement mind set towards the opposite sex. They feel your money, 70% should be spent on them! Well, I wouldn’t blame these ladies, the society embraced and supported this and even mothers including brothers tell their daughters and sisters to go for men who spend more on them.

This advice is too late, because we are all guilty.

I give my money to the needy especially the sick, students, and those that are determined to succeed and not a repackaged prostitute

Blackmiserable:


Strong wine. I respect your opinion honestly.

But why do you think nature has domesticated women? Just some heads up, by nature I could also mean God.

Now, why do you think women have, in a sense, being domesticated? They are not as strong and resilient as men. I mean, the chore of providing basic necessities from antiquity had to do with strength, agility, and swiftness?

Imagine a world of women. Not a single man. Not one. Do you think they'd be better off technologically, scientifically, and even material-wise? Hell no. But why or put differently, why would they be worse off?

Now, look at it from a biological pov. Let me chip in for a moment about how reproductive anatomy favours men. Back in time and even now, the average woman is worried about quite a number of things that has to do with biology.

If you know the number of women who have stayed back at home because of painful periods, heavy period, irregular period, or even period leaks, you would be shocked.

This kills productivity for no fault of theirs.

I am not in anyway encouraging laziness but God who created women from men has made it such that most women would have to depend on a man for basic necessities. Seems like one of the curses though. It is not sexist but the truth.

You have not travelled out ALL your life...

Leave the shores of AFRICA to other developed continents, then you will see that WOMEN DON'T DEPEND on Men!!!!

They fuvking work for their money!!!!!

nnemekaemmanuel:


God Bless You for Creating this Thread Sir.

Amen and thanks to oga Lalasticlala for beaming it.

SpicyMimi:
It’s unfortunate many of them won’t learn
Let one fine girl come and scatter their heads now, they will forget this post


Stop spoiling these girls with money they didn’t work for, but sorry this is too late as most ladies out there got this entitlement mind set towards the opposite sex. They feel your money, 70% should be spent on them! Well, I wouldn’t blame these ladies, the society embraced and supported this and even mothers including brothers tell their daughters and sisters to go for men who spend more on them.

This advice is too late, because we are all guilty.

Please if you are in a serious relationship with a lady who is not working but currently learning a trade,,,,is it proper for her man to assist her monthly,hope this won't breed her into entitlement mentality...

please help a brother with mature & sensible advice

nerd004:







Please if you are in a serious relationship with a lady who is not working but currently learning a trade,,,,is it proper for her man to assist her monthly,hope this won't breed her into entitlement mentality...

please help a brother with mature & sensible advice

Please don't get this write up twisted....

You can assist a lady in any way you dim fit but only do what you can and don't go overboard.

Give her what you can afford so that at the end if she breaks your heart, you won't fret.

I'm not asking guys to be stingy but just use your head and no do pass your power cos you can never give enough and always be prepared to have the lady throw it back at your face.

Blackmiserable:


Strong wine. I respect your opinion honestly.

But why do you think nature has domesticated women? Just some heads up, by nature I could also mean God.

Now, why do you think women have, in a sense, being domesticated? They are not as strong and resilient as men. I mean, the chore of providing basic necessities from antiquity had to do with strength, agility, and swiftness?

Imagine a world of women. Not a single man. Not one. Do you think they'd be better off technologically, scientifically, and even material-wise? Hell no. But why or put differently, why would they be worse off?

Now, look at it from a biological pov. Let me chip in for a moment about how reproductive anatomy favours men. Back in time and even now, the average woman is worried about quite a number of things that has to do with biology.

If you know the number of women who have stayed back at home because of painful periods, heavy period, irregular period, or even period leaks, you would be shocked.

This kills productivity for no fault of theirs.

I am not in anyway encouraging laziness but God who created women from men has made it such that most women would have to depend on a man for basic necessities. Seems like one of the curses though. It is not sexist but the truth.

You are Absolutely right but unfortunately, most of the ladies we now have will rather use the time when they ought to be productive to start looking out for a man that can cater for them rather than go out to cater for themselves.

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

O Set Eeh!

jericco1:

Why's that so? Guilt? Or is the OP directly talking to you

lol..

Toks2008:


You are not impressed with money and you like fat pockets...

Wettin Lalasticlala no go see for nairaland.

Very confused set of human beings lol..