Time
Would heal your wound.

Take time out to do those things you loved to do before.(it don't be easy and you'll probably find your thoughts going back to her death), but its ok.

Also, taking time out to focus on someone else or a selfless service really helps. Church, orphanage, old peoples homes, service really heals the soul.

You can also talk to God. Pour out your pains and heart to him

Most importantly, don't bottle it up. cry if you feel. You'll feel better after .

Breath. Trust me its gonna be fine. I know cause ive being there.

Just breath brother. Its gonna be all right eventually.

Peace. You can pm me if you just wanna vent or talk.

I lost a friend in 2017. Truth is, the pain never really goes away. You just learn to live with it. For the first 6 months I couldn't sleep and was having nightmares. But after a while when you think of them you won't be filled with grief per se but instead the memories you guys shared while they were alive. For example anytime I hear this particular song (On Bended Knee by Boyz II Men, there's a funny story behind it) I remember him and laugh a little. If I have a son I'll probably name him after him. You'll be fine, you just need time.

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Guy try to move on, is that easy but just try.. Don't always stay alone try to always be with mix of people that make you happy laugh.. And also find way of keep yourself busy okay.

We all have different ways of dealing with grief.. So no advice can be perfect. Good emotional and mental support is very vital to your healing. Also give yourself time... It heals wounds.. Try as much as you can no to allow depression set in.

You'll be fine

tppzzy01:
Well! You wouldn't feel 1 dot of what I felt and what am still feeling now when I lost my beloved wife, on the 18th of August in the cold blood of accident. Yours is still a friend but mine is a friend, a wife,and a mother of my 3 young kids. Each day seems to end quickly in my eyes. I feel like killing myself to meet her but for the Children she left behind for me, want me to stay. Right now, my life is shattered that I don't know where to start from and how to pickup. She is my business partner and my everything. I have lost everything. Well, thanks to her family that are there for me and encouraged me.

I still don't know how to continue my living without her

Condolences bro.

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

You have to let go, and the fact that you have to means it's possible. No amount of grieving will bring her back, you can only hope you'll meet again in God's side of eternity. You can only hold on to the fond memories, let that person you saw and admired in her reflect in you, and let that shape up your view towards humanity. That was her mission in your life, and I only hope it's well fulfilled.

Sorry about your loss bro, you need to take out time to cry from your heart, let the tears flow, after that wipe your face and tell yourself you have to move on. The memories are forever but remember she always wanted you to be happy, tell yourself I am going to be happy and successful to honour her memory.
Pray for her soul and get engaged in positive ventures, draw inspiration from your time but don't dwell on it.
With time you will be healed naturally, don't blame yourself for not getting over her but pray to God to make your healing process quicker

MrColdsweat:
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It's obvious you're a small inexperienced girl.

How can you say he shouldn't be too emotional about death?

Do you want me to tell him to keep being sober and emotional,you console people by gearing them Up and not adding to their pain with unnecessary sympathy.You are the inexperienced one here

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Take it one day at a time and hold on to the memories you had. Time is a great healer.

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

I understand exactly how you feel, when I lost my best friend it was as though the world is going to crumble, she was the only sister I have ever have, but death came and took her away, I was depressed for months I couldn't eat, I couldn't do anything. When I started mingling with people, got busy with things I started getting over it . Try and stay around people, gradually you will start getting over it. and try to avoid things that can trigger that emotions, and lastly pray. God will give you the strength to overcome.

Zzor:
never be too emotional about death,we all would go someday,though I understand it could be hard dealing with the trauma but you've got no options than to continue living and making sure you are happy since that was what she always urged you to do.Never forget praying for her

This post made no sense at all that's why very few people liked it unlike the post above you which over hundred people liked

Abouwaza:
If you can't move on, you follow him

And you have a brain?

If you can't move on, die join her nah... Ewu

My condolences @OP. Many her soul rest in peace. May you find comfort.

Zzor:
never be too emotional about death,we all would go someday,though I understand it could be hard dealing with the trauma but you've got no options than to continue living and making sure you are happy since that was what she always urged you to do.Never forget praying for her

This is really nice.

TPound:




And you have a brain?

E shock u?

Zzor:
Be reasonable for once or are you always on drugs mtcheww

hahahahahahahahahahahwhahahahahahahah

i lost my friend of 18 years,every minute fr over a year he always came to my mind... you will move on too

Abouwaza:

abi dey craze?
So you don't know this op is just chasing clout?
Who looses someone close to them and need nairalanders on how to get over them
Bunch of jokers

You're obviously a teenager, but if you're an adult, you should hang your head in shame. You've terribly failed your guardians.

Monchadam:

They said it was an unknown illness...

hmmmm.my own say she dey travel come back in d evening.i accompanied her to the road only to get a call from her sister say she die for accident.later dat nite I see her for dream dey smile at me while I dey cry.e be like movie,trust me,it happened.11th August 2018.

mannasseh:
i lost my friend of 18 years,every minute fr over a year he always came to my mind... you will move on too

Eiya,and I was busy fighting you anywhere you pop up,sorry too.Dust yourself and take things in your stride and move on with life.Good to know you've moved on.But stop looking for trouble

Good people hardly live long and I don't know why. Only time shall heal your pain but the memory might not go away. I lost my mum in 2017, no day passes without me dropping tears for her.

Zzor:
never be too emotional about death,we all would go someday,though I understand it could be hard dealing with the trauma but you've got no options than to continue living and making sure you are happy since that was what she always urged you to do.Never forget praying for her

Never believed I’ll live to see you make a reasonable and sensible comment. Hope the world is not ending today?

I was once in your shoes, back in 2016 I lost my closest friend. We were colleagues and we both loved each other. I was devastated and heartbroken for one year. It’s a terrible experience so I understand exactly how you feel. I took solace in the knowledge she’s in a much better place. Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do to fast track the healing process. You’ll just have to take it a day at a time and eventually like everything else, time will sort it. But never deny the pain, embrace it and mourn.

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Abouwaza:
If you can't move on, you follow him[/s]

very stupid comment coming from you

If you are a Christian go and do 3days dry fasting and deliverance in your church. So that God can take the weight off your shoulder. I have gone through that kind of situation before

Years after I lost my dad, I still wept. Adulthood couldn't prevent me from doing that. Loss of a loved one leaves indelible mark particularly one you shared good and bad times with. However, I know time will heal you of all the deep wounds her demise created. Keep fulfilling dreams and making her proud. Let her memories spur you into achieving endlessly. It is well.

mamato:
Good people hardly live long and I don't know why. Only time shall heal your pain but the memory might not go away. I lost my mum in 2017, no day passes without me dropping tears for her.

me also I wonder why ?! because my mum back then when I was still small during those time in 2008 I can't forget when she wanted to give birth to our third born but everything happens for a reason and my mum was badly in love with going to church and praying she never ever miss a service or weekly activities or night vigil I still love her but if it someone who caused her death God will judge the person.......



I LOVE YOU MOM !!!

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

....... brother she's gone forever, kindly delete her pictures from your phone, delete her phone number, delete her memories, there are so many good ladies out there. This is my signature.................... good morning

Bros, don't worry bcuz u will move on, when I lost my Mum, I thought I couldn't move on, I felt like following her to d grave, but today I think of her every day , but I'm not depressed anymore.
Just keep d good memories and assume she travelled, u will move on

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