Sorry for your lost,bro I lost a very close buddy too about five months ago...he was such a nice guy,and was always there to give me advice whenever I was emotionally down.....dude and I attended the same polytechnic.....tho age wise,he was older than me but dude was the kind of down-to-earth guy,like too simple...I can't just forget how many times he bought food and provided me with t.fare to campus whenever I was broke....men,as I'm typing this,only God knows the pain his demise left in my heart....

like they say,death is inevitable bro.....that we all gonna die someday...so I've learnt how to move on after all my mom and my sister have both kicked the bucket...

so bro,man up and I believe with time, you'll be fine..

May God fill the vacuum she left in you, may God give you the strength and courage to move on...

Please for the now, try and always be in the mist of people to avoid excessive thinking and always get yourself engaged doing something to avoid depression.. One day another person will definitely take her place in your hearth..


Thy Lord God is your Strength...

Sorry my brother. I feel your predicament and I know it really hurts but I would advise you to keep the past behind you and move on. Death is inevitable, although we pray for long life.
If you are a Christian read your Bible and pray for God to comfort your heart.
Nothing in this life is permanent except your soul which you must be very careful to feed with the right food ( God's word ).

Misterdhee1:

Condolences bro.

Thank you

austinelex:
Sorry for ur loss but what really killed that beautiful soul

An unknown illness..

You move on by moving on..

kaynacy:
now u have a taste of what love truly means...I think I should move on to making ur mind more creative and have goals, tasks to accomplish
honestly, would she be happy knowing ure in this current state?

Not really...

Misterdhee1:
I am exactly in the same position as you. I lost someone I considered my better half, the most beautiful, peaceful soul Ive ever met. She died August after a protracted kidney disease. It's even worse because I had to suffer emotionally and psychologically all through the time she was sick, with the hope that she would be fine and get back to normalcy. We even had lots of plans on how to make up for the lost times when she gets well. But death happened out of the blues. I've cried more tears within the last two months than I have cried my entire life. It gets worse every morning and deep into the nights.

One thing that has been helpful is trying hard to come face to face with the reality each day - that makes it better with time. It's hard to forget such lovely souls, as they will forever be part of us, and every single thing would remind us of them, but learning to carry the scars as part of our individual lives will set us up for better days. You won't heal, but you will learn to live with it. The pain and emptiness is incomparable - my hugs.

Thank you

hahn:


Chai. Friend zone don hold this one for kidney

No bro, not friendzone

Plebian:
I signed into my nairaland account to type this.

Because I understand how you feel. The vacuum. I lost a friend this year. And I realized how much I loved her after she died we weren't as close months leading up to her death. So I was left with guilt.

I used ho'oponopono ( check YouTube)

It's ok to cry and miss them. Talking about them with people who loved them also helps.

Understanding they are freer, and would want you smiling.

Thank you..

tppzzy01:
Well! You wouldn't feel 1 dot of what I felt and what am still feeling now when I lost my beloved wife, on the 18th of August in the cold blood of accident. Yours is still a friend but mine is a friend, a wife,and a mother of my 3 young kids. Each day seems to end quickly in my eyes. I feel like killing myself to meet her but for the Children she left behind for me, want me to stay. Right now, my life is shattered that I don't know where to start from and how to pickup. She is my business partner and my everything. I have lost everything. Well, thanks to her family that are there for me and encouraged me.

I still don't know how to continue my living without her

Reading this brought tears to my eyes. I know how it feels to lose your loved ones. I know this will be very hard for you sir but I want you to accept the fact that she's in a much more better place and may her soul rest in perfect peace

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Time heals all wounds! Give it time.May God give you the fortitude to bear the loss

Hollinesspays:



Time heals all wounds! Give it time.May God give you the fortitude to bear the loss

Thanks

ndiri:
....... brother she's gone forever, kindly delete her pictures from your phone, delete her phone number, delete her memories, there are so many good ladies out there. This is my signature.................... good morning

Thanks

egunna:
hmmmm.my own say she dey travel come back in d evening.i accompanied her to the road only to get a call from her sister say she die for accident.later dat nite I see her for dream dey smile at me while I dey cry.e be like movie,trust me,it happened.11th August 2018.

I'm sorry for what you went through

Rubyventures:


Take it one day at a time and hold on to the memories you had. Time is a great healer.

Thanks

Humanoid01:

You have to let go, and the fact that you have to means it's possible. No amount of grieving will bring her back, you can only hope you'll meet again in God's side of eternity. You can only hold on to the fond memories, let that person you saw and admired in her reflect in you, and let that shape up your view towards humanity. That was her mission in your life, and I only hope it's well fulfilled.

Thanks humanoid

Olarewajutv:


Guy try to move on, is that easy but just try.. Don't always stay alone try to always be with mix of people that make you happy laugh.. And also find way of keep yourself busy okay.

Thanks

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Get a girlfriend since you are not ready to follow her

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

You didn't tell us what killed her?
Or are you a suspect?

try an move on bro .. its a pity u lost her . be comforted in the fact that you gave her, genuine love and friendship the little time u shared. That you would hav gone the extra mile if money could have saved her. move on by accepting that God knows the best for her

Why not Love somebody the way she loved you, do everything she did for you to another person. That way, you will never miss her.

Zzor:
never be too emotional about death,we all would go someday,though I understand it could be hard dealing with the trauma but you've got no options than to continue living and making sure you are happy since that was what she always urged you to do.Never forget praying for her

No prayer works after death.

it is always difficult to move on after the death of a loved one, but eventually u will have to..
in fact,u don't move on from it,u only heal with time..

Sonnobax15:
Sorry for your lost,bro I lost a very close buddy too about five months ago...he was such a nice guy,and was always there to give me advice whenever I was emotionally down.....dude and I attended the same polytechnic.....tho age wise,he was older than me but dude was the kind of down-to-earth guy,like too simple...I can't just forget how many times he bought food and provided me with t.fare to campus whenever I was broke....men,as I'm typing this,only God knows the pain his demise left in my heart....

like they say,death is inevitable bro.....that we all gonna die someday...so I've learnt how to move on after all my mom and my sister have both kicked the bucket...

so bro,man up and I believe with time, you'll be fine..

My condolences..

mamato:
Good people hardly live long and I don't know why. Only time shall heal your pain but the memory might not go away. I lost my mum in 2017, no day passes without me dropping tears for her.

Davash222:

Never believed I’ll live to see you make a reasonable and sensible comment. Hope the world is not ending today?

receive slap wherever you are

mechanics:
No prayer works after death.

Thats your belief but on the the hand it's a kind of remembrance

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

is a choice you have not made yet. Yes she was golden but that was in the past. You are stopping the next person from showing you gold. I mean how can hold on to something and would let go thereby stopping the next golden thing hold on to. Finally, if you think she cares about you now, my brother am sorry she doesn't. She is now in the after life were memories are erased and a new experience installed. She has moved on while you have not made that choice to do same. You feel like their is a debt to pay but is just in your head.