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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by stealmatic(m): 3:55am On Nov 14, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

lol, sense wee not kee you,oya let the brother answer ooo

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by amazinghomez09: 4:03am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Oga tell us the truth
'What do you want from her ?

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Tunagee(m): 4:06am On Nov 14, 2020

The offer was too good and she knew it would not have been free. However, she was too conclusive. The truth is women are complicated beings. Even if you keep helping her without asking for anything in return, she go still call you mumu.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by legacystore: 4:07am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

How many men have u made that offer to b4? Why are only interested in helping only woman since no strings are attached? Stop deceiving yourself young . U are looking for fuk abeg

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by legacystore: 4:12am On Nov 14, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Nne u have made heaven already as u say the truth always. Na God � go bless u jaree

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Pinkybush: 4:13am On Nov 14, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Bro we need answer to this very important question. Yawn..... coronaoffer!

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Pinkybush: 4:23am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not??

Would you have even stop and pick him to start with before the issue of being cool with him comes up? Say the truth.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by EricSmallz(m): 4:39am On Nov 14, 2020

SILENTandSMART2:
Lol one smart girl above me don spoke my mind ,

If nah man you will you do dat ?

Moreover people do what you did alot but i can never do dat,

I cannot entertain a stranger inside my car,

If you ask for a ride i will lie or give you money,

Life is so risky,

Yunno see a man with six-pack or potbelly

OP issa character,

You will still die regardless

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by kweensheba: 4:43am On Nov 14, 2020

The lady asked a perfect question.

There was no harm in her asking.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Sagefromtheeast: 4:56am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Sorry I came late to the party wink

My guy you don't 'want' anything from her, you're right about that.
She's the one that wants something from you.
She's a gold digger.
That question is a very manipulative one.
Don't you think she wants to pay you back for the kind gesture, she's only seeking to take the 'relationship' to the next level.

That question was just to rope you into her scheme.
Thank God you didn't fall for it.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by moneycouttes(m): 4:59am On Nov 14, 2020

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by yusufmurry: 4:59am On Nov 14, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

You may make heaven. That was an intelligent question.

No mind these our guys

#HelpInDisguise

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by yusufmurry: 5:03am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not??

How many guys flagged you down and you gave a lift.

Baba, forget this your defense . You want loot the girl. Say it out, she won't bite you

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by battymann: 5:07am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and : i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Bro don't mind all these people passing judgment on you, trying to make you feel bad. In grown men/women world there is no string in wanting to see someone again no matter the circumstance. Even in war times people still fall in love and the relationship starts some how.
For a grown man like yourself its not wrong for you to seek a regular company of a woman. You liked her and wanted to see her again, then she blew it. The fault is not yours that she didnt handle it well. But let me also tell you that you got it wrong by just zooming away. It seems you like how you car takes off from halt grin

. That girl was already into you. She won't ask that question if she wasn't. She wanted you to woo her but she pressed too hard. Last time I had that question was in secondary school days and if it is not coming from a married woman, then it means the same old thing; 'WOO ME'.
For those asking if you'd do the same for a guy, tell them NO and be proud about it. Your first consideration when picking people on the way is safety. It easier to consider a woman less harmful than a man. So I won't advice you picking random guys on your way just live up to a nairaland challenge. I'm extremely careful about people I give lift. I mostly give lift to people when I have a friend with me in the car.
Do not be dismayed next time a girl/woman asks you that question. Just let it slide and continue the conversation. How it ends won't matter much if the flow was satisfying enough tongue

NB: For this #postendsars period, any man wey flags you down in a bad place, make you use motor knack am throw-way. Na hoodlum be that.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by relicng: 5:14am On Nov 14, 2020

Simple answer...I want to be your friend

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Odidigboigbo(m): 5:18am On Nov 14, 2020

OP, say the truth, is she the only person along your way waiting for a ride before u pick her and after picking her, didn't u see other people along your route waiting for a ride? Why didn't you pick others to join you? Moreso, how many people in your locality have you volunteer to be taking to office or are you telling me there are no other people that work along your axis that stays in your locality? We all know the code, stop forming. Before I got my own ride, I know your type that always look for ladies to carry at busstop and Ignore their fellow men because of kpekus.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by prigoz(m): 5:21am On Nov 14, 2020

2dice01:

She asked the Perfect Question bro

No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago

Cus if she was a Male
You won't even see his hand when he wave

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by YESpParticipant: 5:25am On Nov 14, 2020

Alaye, too much sense dey your head!
I Sha know say op go avoid your question like plague.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

;DAlaye, too much sense dey your head!
I Sha k ow say op go avoid your question like plague.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Femiomoh(m): 5:33am On Nov 14, 2020

Don't let us dig too far.
The guy was trying to render an assistance since he found her to be lively. The lady shouldn't have approached the guy that way.
I understand the type of dangerous society we have right now, but there are still good people in this country.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by KosiGee(m): 5:35am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not??

You are SIMP Grand daddy extraordinarie.

I wanted to say more but posters above me beat me to it.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Risingsunn: 5:36am On Nov 14, 2020

How many guys have you given such offers before? Until you mention atleast one guy OP, she has every right to ask from you what you want.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Mckhala80(m): 5:37am On Nov 14, 2020

If this good samaritan driver should want to be so honest to ppl and his consciense , we all can tell that he had a plan B concerning that girl. Were there no guys that waved but u couldn't stop ? Guys no get v_necked that attracks abi. This platform isn't for rapists.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by KosiGee(m): 5:37am On Nov 14, 2020

Femiomoh:
Don't let us dig too far.
The guy was trying to render an assistance since he found her to be lively. The lady shouldn't have approached the guy that way.
I understand the type of dangerous society we have right now, but there are still good people in this country.

Don’t be naive. Men like that driver don’t do disinterested kindness.
Men like that would fall and roll in the mud to propose to a lady.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by SweetCunt97(f): 5:38am On Nov 14, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Prove her wrong. I'm sure she reacted that way due to past experiences.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by 2dice01: 5:43am On Nov 14, 2020

One4me:
If the lady was a Male flagging him down, he will be like: See Car Snatcher, im think say l just arrive Lagos yesterday
(Flattens Accelerator to the board like Alonso Formula One).
He come dey form Jesus for us.

He was even saying she wasn't fine like that cheesy

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Ernesthugo(m): 5:45am On Nov 14, 2020

Dear poster
If you have her number call her
Take her to work
Change her mindset i beg of you.
God bless you

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Jadeng: 5:47am On Nov 14, 2020

Simply put, "You cannot teach an old dog a new trick".
She already saw the handwhandwriting and to your shock she was smart and courageous to confront you!
Tell the truth and shame satan, after the nice conversation, you really wanted more...

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by cardoctor(m): 5:48am On Nov 14, 2020

What a waste of my time reading this post. Lubbish

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Orpe7(m): 5:51am On Nov 14, 2020

Gbagbe Oshi!
Kini aja ba ekun shey?
Na so e go start, before u know u begin to long for day to end so you can pick her and drop her off, the day u don't see her at the busstop, ur heart go cut
Next thing na how yall go chill for drinks go dey ur mind and how to get into her pants

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Chochovini: 5:51am On Nov 14, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

. Chai... God bless U 4 me 4 dat question. I observed in dismay dat, Car owners or drivers are quick 2 offer women lift even when they didn‘t ask 4 it more than men. The only time they need men is when their vehicle need pushing 2 start or somthing.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Orpe7(m): 5:53am On Nov 14, 2020

Best u avoid her totally, she is doing u a big favour
More so if ure married
I own a car and more reason I don't do lifts to ladies, I know how it can end
Bible say "FLEE"

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