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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Gofwane(m): 12:41pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?
This love peddler again!

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Nobody: 12:42pm On Mar 02, 2021
SocialJustice:
Allow her to go meet the hotel builder. It will hurt but the pain will pass. Nigerian girls are too entitled and LovePeddler excessively. If you have the money and you're open minded enough, try girls from other countries - Ghana, Kenya, South Africa. Those girls are way prettier and properly raised. Poverty and greed has destroyed the average Nigerian girl. Either they want to live like a celebrity or they are looking for who will become the breadwinner of their entire family.
hmmm, but the girls you mentioned are not in Naija naw, and you cant just see them anyhow, do you know where I can start looking for one?

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by The5DME(m): 12:50pm On Mar 02, 2021
qtguru:


She is not a reasonable babe. A reasonable woman won't put all that debt on the person's head without even contributing unless money is not an issue to both couples. Don't listen to Zzor, she's a troll. A reasonable lady will be bother about how much you are spending.

Me I will ask , what tribe is the girl ? is she working ?
With all due respect sir; what has one's tribe got to do with this?

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Traininghub(f): 12:50pm On Mar 02, 2021
You have tried, you cannot do more than yourself. I am a lady but whatever happened to being able to do some things myself?
Let her be if that's what she wants but you can act better than her by sending the gift you had intended to give her as well as some cash for her to run her birthday, send her a happy birthday text as well. Be the better person.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by The5DME(m): 12:51pm On Mar 02, 2021
OP, abandon that boke ass girl. Although i know this story is fake.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by The5DME(m): 12:53pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?
The man behind this account, don't you think this your craze never do? you never tire?

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Tloc(m): 12:57pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Always SENSELESS.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by qtguru(m): 1:00pm On Mar 02, 2021
The5DME:
With all due respect sir; what has one's tribe got to do with this?

There is a stereotype among tribes, so I wanted to satisfy my curiosity

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Queenslander(f): 1:06pm On Mar 02, 2021
Um, your girlfriend is way too self-centered and ungrateful.. maybe you need to revaluate your relationship with her...

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Nobody: 1:07pm On Mar 02, 2021
JOSH54:
YES I AGREE WITH UR POINT BUT WHO WAS TAKING CARE OF HER WHEN SHE WAS ALONE? D GUY SHOULD SUPPORT HER WITH 70% OF WHAT SHE NEEDED BUT ALL I KNOW RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT MONEY WILL SOON CRASH. I ALWAYS ADVICE GUYS TO BE FINANCIAL STABLE B4 THINKING OF DATING.

This advise is dumb but you can't see it yourself.

what you're describing is not a relationship, that is a money losing scheme.

you even have mind to say 70% of her needs....sad
do you even know what 70% means ?

if any relationship is based on money omo as a guy just run regardless of if you have the money or not.


women love who they love and its not about money, power, physique or some bullshit. they just love.

for you to think it is about money means you're a learner and you have been used by women many times (sorry to sound rude bro).


unfortunately some men are shallow and they allow shallow variables to blind their sense of reasoning.

if woman love you, you no go see relationship like job.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by SocialJustice: 1:13pm On Mar 02, 2021
Henrymorre:
hmmm, but the girls you mentioned are not in Naija naw, and you cant just see them anyhow, do you know where I can start looking for one?
They are in Nigeria but hard to see that's the reason I said, if you have the money and open minded to marrying a foreigner, then go on vacation, meet girls on tinder.

Then again, you could be a lover of Nigeria who wants a Nigerian girl, it's easy too. Remove money out of the relationship. Her basic care is not your responsibility, look for working class girls that fend for themselves and not entitled beggars.

The problem again here is these girls who can fend for themselves and understand forcing their responsibilities on you is wrong have their own problems too. Nobody is perfect actually.

Know exactly what you want from a girl and go for that girl. Do not make compromises you can not sustain.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by yetunsbay(m): 1:14pm On Mar 02, 2021
NO,she is not
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Babara1994(m): 1:21pm On Mar 02, 2021
Traininghub:
You have tried, you cannot do more than yourself. I am a lady but whatever happened to being able to do some things myself?
Let her be if that's what she wants but you can act better than her by sending the gift you had intended to give her as well as some cash for her to run her birthday, send her a happy birthday text as well. Be the better person.
Why can't she act better by sending her savings to him on his birthday? Sebi women are now going to school and acquiring certificates?
I will only agree to your idea if all women stop going to school, stop acquiring certificates and stop competing with men for the same jobs!

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Babara1994(m): 1:22pm On Mar 02, 2021
Queenslander:
Um, your girlfriend is way too self-centered and ungrateful.. maybe you need to revaluate your relationship with her...
I thought all ladies don't see anything wrong in asking every man for money.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:34pm On Mar 02, 2021
So there are guys here who do this for babes?
Or is OP stilla secondary school boy?
With the way you guys label ladies here, who would have thought one single guy will be doing all these for a girl?
Keep it up man. Your reward is in heaven.
Happy birthday to your babe in advance.
You better make her happy if you have the money or someone else would.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Ayo2004: 1:44pm On Mar 02, 2021
Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game
You better dump her sorry ass...I wonder how Nigerian guys spend money anyhow on girlfriends that are olosho,instead of just doing pay and bleep,they turn themselves to their fathers,she obviously have plans for that hotel owner guy,better dump her on her birthday,invest your money or find a useful girl to spend it on or use it to help your guys and family

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Ayo2004: 1:46pm On Mar 02, 2021
JOSH54:
YES I AGREE WITH UR POINT BUT WHO WAS TAKING CARE OF HER WHEN SHE WAS ALONE? D GUY SHOULD SUPPORT HER WITH 70% OF WHAT SHE NEEDED BUT ALL I KNOW RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT MONEY WILL SOON CRASH. I ALWAYS ADVICE GUYS TO BE FINANCIAL STABLE B4 THINKING OF DATING.
70% ..you are indeed your girlfriend's father

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by absool(m): 2:12pm On Mar 02, 2021
Henrymorre:


I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, take her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?


Treat her like the sl*t she is, fuk her and pay for her service from now henceforth

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Kobicove(m): 2:15pm On Mar 02, 2021
Henrymorre:
if the one I am providing is not enough, then I don't think there is much I can do, there are more ladies, finer and hotter that will love me and what ever I give her.

Do not become a slave to your girlfriend undecided

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Agbebakun22: 2:21pm On Mar 02, 2021
Wasting money on girl u haven't call ur wife, weldone hope u will organize for ur mom when her birthday reach lubbish... I hate bashing Nigeria girls oo but some are just something else that's why spend my money on myself and really enjoying it not one parasite feeding from me, is it the Bleep I'm getting that one free according to slowamirr law.. Tuale @slowamir the real nigga

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Agbebakun22: 2:22pm On Mar 02, 2021
Wasting money on girl u haven't call ur wife, weldone hope u will organize for ur mom when her birthday reach lubbish... I hate bashing Nigeria girls oo but some are just something else that's why spend my money on myself and really enjoying it not one parasite feeding from me, is it the Bleep I'm getting that one free according to slowamirr law.. Tuale @slowamir the real nigga
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Agbebakun22: 2:25pm On Mar 02, 2021
Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game




Go mumu urself and do whatever she asked

Wasting money on girl u haven't call ur wife, weldone hope u will organize for ur mom when her birthday reach lubbish... I hate bashing Nigeria girls oo but some are just something else that's why spend my money on myself and really enjoying it not one parasite feeding from me, is it the Bleep I'm getting that one free according to slowamirr law.. Tuale @slowamir the real nigga

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by KingAlayinde(m): 2:26pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

you're nothing but bird of same feather , shey na him be her papa abi ?? it so stupid taking full responsibility over someone that can leave you tomorrow to follow another person go, when you never married and most of the stupids girls nowadays only knows how to spends with zero making money sense

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Numerouno94(m): 2:32pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Honestly, some ladie will b ashamed of this comment.

Lemme assume u do dis routinely in order to get bashed by nairalanders. Or probably clout chasing.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by maclawrence02(m): 2:34pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?
And you think another girl won't be more than happy to make the hair while he takes care of the other stuff?
Is she crippled?
She no get work?
Just to make common hair for herself of less than 5k she can't. Na wa for some girls sha.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Nobody: 2:39pm On Mar 02, 2021
SJay7:
Mentality of an average Nigerian lady (Hunger Mentality).
i never knew Zzor is an....... Too.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by maclawrence02(m): 2:41pm On Mar 02, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
So there are guys here who do this for babes?
Or is OPstilla secondary school boy?
With the way you guys label ladies here, who would ha e thought one single guy will be doing all these for one girl?
Keep it up man. Your reward is in heaven.
Happy birthday to your babe in advance.
You better make her happy if you have the money or someone else would.
And another girl won't give him the kind of fvck he deserves?

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Numerouno94(m): 2:41pm On Mar 02, 2021
Never downgrade urself to d level where a lady starts manipulating u cos of material tinx.

U caused it bro. Let d leech b.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Vulcanheph(m): 2:43pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?
Tell me where it's written in any law book that a man must provide everything for a woman simply because he's dating her, If she wants to go and meet another guy then she can move after all the guy said he's been doing all the things for her and he just told her to do her hair by herself, Girls like you are the reason why a good number of Nigerian men that travel outside the country always end up marrying foreign women ......You better start changing your mentality.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Vulcanheph(m): 2:47pm On Mar 02, 2021
Henrymorre:
if the one I am providing is not enough, then I don't think there is much I can do, there are more ladies, finer and hotter that will love me and what ever I give her.
Good one bro... This comment of yours shows that you've reached a high level of enlightenment, don't listen to what this nairaland b!tch you just quoted has to say.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Kaypeeboss(m): 3:04pm On Mar 02, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?
See them,is she not working,bro don't get stressed over lil issues like she has a guy she sleeps without even demanding any shishi from,she is not a wife material,it's not like you are not doing anything at all,from your write up ,you are doing most of the work,so if she can't handle any ,let her be .that is why I do older ladies oo,very mature and not lil babies

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by JOSH54: 3:08pm On Mar 02, 2021
This advise is dumb but you can't see it yourself.
what you're describing is not a relationship, that is a money losing scheme.
you even have mind to say 70% of her needs....sad
do you even know what 70% means ?
if any relationship is based on money omo as a guy just run regardless of if you have the money or not.
women love who they love and its not about money, power, physique or some bullshit. they just love.
for you to think it is about money means you're a learner and you have been used by women many times (sorry to sound rude bro).
unfortunately some men are shallow and they allow shallow variables to blind their sense of reasoning.
if woman love you, you no go see relationship like job.[/quote]ITS FORTUNATE FOR ME TO HAVE MARRIED A WOMAN WHO SEE MONEY AS NOTHING BUT LOVE. LET ME TELL U BRO, ITS UNFORTUNATELY MEN ARE AFTER SEX WHICH HAS RESULTED FOR LADIES NOW TO KEEP DEMANDING FOR MONEY because THEY ARE NOT SURE WHERE D COURTSHIP WILL LEAD.

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