Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

Golddigger spotted

yahjac:


This advise is dumb but you can't see it yourself.

what you're describing is not a relationship, that is a money losing scheme.

you even have mind to say 70% of her needs....
do you even know what 70% means ?

if any relationship is based on money omo as a guy just run regardless of if you have the money or not.


women love who they love and its not about money, power, physique or some bullshit. they just love.

for you to think it is about money means you're a learner and you have been used by women many times (sorry to sound rude bro).


unfortunately some men are shallow and they allow shallow variables to blind their sense of reasoning.

if woman love you, you no go see relationship like job.

Leave these noobs bruh,nice to see someone who actually understands the whole chessboard.

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

Lol, because she stayed with you when broke doesn't mean she's the same girl. Omo, no be wife u get, na just hungry mouth.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

If you can't come to a logical conclusion after all the story up there, you're on your own.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

I really long to see you post something reasonable on NL


I pity the unfortunate guys dating u

SarutobiEky:

Bumbling idiot, this one.

And funny enough, they have nothing to offer....

If you ask op right now, what is the babe in question bringing to the table? He wouldn't have any concrete answer for us.

The Op should be wise and move on. This would surely be a bullet dodged.

I dont inow if this will sit well with you bro but trust me your babe is not totally in love with you and all the sleeping over at my friends place shit is actually another guy's place. I dated my woman for 8 years and we are together today with 4 children. Trust me you are not the only one in her life. Lastly she's not loyal to you and if loyalty is not there bro it's dangerous.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

This one don go drink something

How is it his responsibility?

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Ashawo no really dey get shame like mad man.

jaxxy:


Emotional blackmail isn’t good enough zzor.

Nothing like emotional blackmail here

I thought these girls left this childish attitude behind in 2020.

My guy I'll advice, u read the hand writing on the wall.

She needs to learn that its not all a child cries for that the child gets.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

forget that skrep

Inspiration007:


There's something wrong with you. A lady that cannot afford to make her hair shouldn't even be in a relationship in the first place.

You and the girl wey op dey talk about no get enough sense

Bros, I thinking for how to reply that Zzor, but you just help me out. No sense at all, but they still feel they're smart

.

Mr. Man run.
Na them

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

ur head there. If him tell u to wash, cook, and do some other works at home u go do ? No be here a man talk say "him dey pay him gal school fees, house rent and other related money stuffs while she couldn't wash his clothe for am". She cum the ask weda na clothe she come wash. Useless girls

Be wise. Separate emotions from your judgment. If your church member acted this way, will you encourage the brother to continue?

You see you already have the answer.

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Some times when I hear lay women speak of another man's pocket as there responsibility. Is it the man's fault that you are broke, unproductive?
If you are in a business you will understand the value of having a financier, talkless of someone giving you free money.

U HV seen d danger coming run for ur life.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

u dey pay her fees too? which kind useless gf u carry put for head, all that n in return u get pussy, pussy just pussy guy pussy haba pussy saraaa nahhh omo take d pill fast n dump that lazy thing thing.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

na here dem dey see u

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

It means it's his money she likes not him. That one no be wife material. She's still a kid.

donogaga:


And funny enough, they have nothing to offer....

If you ask op right now, what is the babe in question bringing to the table? He wouldn't have any concrete answer for us.

The Op should be wise and move on. This would surely be a bullet dodged.

The Op no know say she already saw his success beforehand that's the reason why she stood by him. Now that's he's blowing up, she's demanding her own right. what Nigerian girls know how to do (most of them) is LovePeddler around and feel.entitled. God punish them all.

So, despite the fact that the op is providing some or even majority of what she needs, so she can't afford to make her hair herself.
This kind of girls are not loyal, they're not faithful. Must there even be a Party?

SJay7:
Mentality of an average Nigerian lady (Hunger Mentality).

Don't mind her. Opportunists everywhere.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

I agree 100% with you. Bro please look for hot money rituals and use this one as sacrifice so you can be "taking care of her"

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Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

This is no girlfriend but a golddigger. So keep being the jackass that pays all the bills or advice her plainly to carry her own burdens herself. Sometimes you get to know that you are only "loved" because of the comfort you provide while someone else is loved wholeheartedly. Be wise!

Give her the money for hair too. Thank me later.

Traininghub:
You have tried, you cannot do more than yourself. I am a lady but whatever happened to being able to do some things myself?
Let her be if that's what she wants but you can act better than her by sending the gift you had intended to give her as well as some cash for her to run her birthday, send her a happy birthday text as well. Be the better person.

He got no Bleep!ng point to prove to no Bleep!ng b!tch!!! He should just dump her sorry ass and move on!!! It is an emotional blackmail trying to prove you are a better person!!!

Another will bang her ornis already banging her even with all you are doing or have done.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

u me proper mumu. U pay 4 all these unnecesary shit. What investments do u have? Land,house etc and de hoe is only there to wreck u. A wise girl will advise u spend less n invest more.