Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

OH, now it's clear.
You are just one of the options.

You say she was with you when you were broke. tell me, was she giving you money that period?

Don't be deceived, she is there for what she is getting.

Nawa ooo buh u wicked ooo bro

Please free her. Girls like that are not to be kept. Does she bring anything to the table apart from her body and sex that she feels so entitled to your money? Is it your birthday? Please if she does not add any values to your life apart from Sex let her go. You should not even think of making such a woman a wife. Awon fake feminists can not give themselves a good life unless they get money from the man. Tueh

Guy, you deserve better

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

I'm sure you'd be regretting your comment right now. Mumu

Woooooow! she wasn't beautiful I guess.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Is she an orphan?

Pls can some1 tell me the reason why this lady is always like this?

When did relationship turns to poverty alleviation scheme?

Honestly speaking , I blame the dumb op for this not yhu because he is a disgrace to men

God knows I hate docile people with passion!

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

So because he approached her for love the young man should provide all her financial needs. This is just a girlfriend and not yet a wife,now I can relate while a lot of girls will remain unmarried because of their entitlement spirit.

E be like say na because of her you come this life.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Really? And some dumbos actually liked your comments. Na wa ooo

Op you are at fault. I hate men like you.. ordinary hair that will make her look beautiful. Heck ur girl should not tell u her hair is old rather main looking at the hair u should know that the hair is old and provide money to renew it..you mention paying for hotel room brother no be Bleep una go Bleep like rabbit for night ? shameless man

lekki1444:
of course, duh. you expect to enjoy her and ignore her problems ?

Ogbeni shut up jor. You think because you are talking and supporting trash she will fall for you?

Fahdiga:
When a fish brain comments it is easy to know. so any man that approaches a girl will automatically inherit the girl's problems

Exactly on point. That @ zzo needs mental evaluation.

Op, the lady is after ur money and note this; there is another side guy/s that are going to fill the gap. It's the grace of God to find any Nigerian guy that don't have atleast, 5 boyfriends. The worst thing u do to urself is to take such lady as a wife.

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

omor that relationship don end like this

Entitled much. Must you do everything for her?
Allow her act up and down, when she’s tired she will come around.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Is it a relationship or poverty alleviation scheme?

Don't be a simp.

Sonoyom:

Is it a relationship or poverty alleviation scheme?

It's the later

Sonoyom:

Is it a relationship or poverty alleviation scheme?

It's the later

She's ATM material not WIFE material..

I don’t see anything wrong in tell her that
You can actually have an intense talk with her,... and let her know to stop feeling entitled to everything ( that’s if you actually still want a ting with her)
Shalom

Henrymorre:
I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

Of all d above bolded text which is expensive combined, only to make her hair that u left for her to do by herself she's acting up (what a pity).

Henrymorre:
Did I over react?

For u to have asked this question, u're feeling guilty. I won't b surprised if after a day or two of her attitude u call to plead, cos dat's wat it's looking like hence the validation for ur action here on NL.

Anyway what do I know. All I can say is you didn't overreact

Pegi23:
Op you are at fault. I hate men like you.. ordinary hair that will make her look beautiful. Heck ur girl should not tell u her hair is old rather main looking at the hair u should know that the hair is old and provide money to renew it..you mention paying for hotel room brother no be Bleep una go Bleep like rabbit for night ? shameless man

Really? You should be ashamed of yourself for typing this. Get work and be financially capable to be able to buy things for yourself and even the man. Men no come una life oooo.

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

Never knew someone can still be this foolish in 2021. An adult for that matter.
Tufiakwa!

They can't handle no

Fr33born:


Never knew someone can still be this foolish in 2021. An adult for that matter.
Tufiakwa!

Hahahhaha consistency is key...
It has been like that since 2020

OP it seems you are spending too much money on your gf. Hope you are also spending same amount of money on your parents and siblings. I don't know how much you making monthly to be fully carry your gf burden like she is your wife. I don't know your financial muscle, even me that earns 1.9M monthly salary and $3k profit from US stock monthly, cannot be spending on a gf just like the way you spending. Please young man if you don't know what to do with your money just use them to be buying lands. This girl will leave you when you don't have the financial power to take care of her wants, then na people like us go dey bleep your babe at that time cos we get what she wants to see. So brotherly don't fall for her emotional blackmail and reduce your spending on her, no be you be her papa.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Baba u be father christmas?

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

fool

Zzor:
yes I can't be a wife material to non husband materials, all of you that insulted me are mad

Zzor means pregnant alligator in bosnia.
Zzor means escaped antelope in kivukiland
Zzor is referred to a certain smell from a particular hole in the land of keReWaWa

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

for love abd relationship u said not job opportunity..... the guy is not a job that pays salaries at month end...

SocialJustice:
Nothing is wrong but she shouldn't be entitled. It is not her right to be taken care of by him, they are only dating. Relationship based on money is transactional, worth nothing and has nothing to do with love.

I don't know why you responded to that idiot.