I won’t say anything until I hear from her

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

Poverty mentality...... yes money makes love sweeter, but money is never the base of Love.

Again, its poverty mentality....mtchew

SocialJustice:
Let her go and I hope your family isn't the opportunity cost of taking care of her.

bro, your baby na coded runs girl, she has side niggaz that she can easily call to provide her all she needed for her birthday. Bro, reason the type of friends your girl roll with and tell me if she's a runs girl. Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are, your girl was just using you to fleet her bills and once you fail to do that your a goner

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Zzor, you are a BASTARD for LIFE!!!

Zzor, you are the MOST senseless BITCH, I have ever seen typed all those BULLSHITS.

Was man made to die for a woman?

Is it because a MAN has tasted the HONEYPOT that will make him to lose all his SENSES of not knowing that a WOMAN is a BITCH.

Zzor, you can NEVER in your LIFE make a good WIFE.

You think MEN doesn't have other ambitions apart from taking care of BITCHES' excesses?

Please, MEN in the house, if any so called BITCH stress you because of money, just park them in one corner and move on with your LIFE.

In all my life, 2% of WOMEN are SENSIBLE. The remaining 98% are SENSELESS and LACK ambitions with independence in LIFE.

They are all LEECHES.

Apart from the moist between WOMEN'S' legs, they have NOTHING to offer a MAN.

That's my Two Cents!

The signs are all over for you to see You have a hungry and greedy girl as a girlfriend. It's even insult for her to want to mention that guy just to put you your ties to go overboard with your spending. That's INCEPTION playing it. She is manipulating you along her antics and you're falling for it.
My honest advice, get yourself another girl and stop using too much money or gifts to win love. It's dangerous as what you have with her us just CONVENIENCE not LOVE .
The pathway in the bush is not straight but zig-zig, keep her guessing about who you are. Don't keep other ladies off completely from you and let her know you are attractive to other ladies.

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

Zzor:
Then he shouldn't have bother her with the so called love and relationship after all there are guys who will do her bidding without baiting an eyelid

nevertheless, giving to loved ones should be done out of freewill.

Leave her now!!!
Cure yourself of this disease!!!

Thanks for enlighten the idiot

Fahdiga:
When a fish brain comments it is easy to know. so any man that approaches a girl will automatically inherit the girl's problems

Pegi23:
Op you are at fault. I hate men like you.. ordinary hair that will make her look beautiful. Heck ur girl should not tell u her hair is old rather main looking at the hair u should know that the hair is old and provide money to renew it..you mention paying for hotel room brother no be Bleep una go Bleep like rabbit for night ? shameless man

Hotel room for the girl and her friends to sleep after the party at night. Bleepest

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

That is your reward for going about with those small small jobless girl

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

olosho have just show her self

She's overreacting.

If she's not satified with the one you wanna do for her, then she can never be satisfied with other things you will do for her in the future. Op gather those money and send to your mother and you will have peace of mind for the rest of your life.

Let her go. Girls plenty. She go learn her lesson afterwards.

Guy what I will tell you is that, if u can cope with such behavior for the rest of your life continue with her , but if not , guy look for someone that wants to grow and multiply with you. Marriage is no more a one way affair

Dliquidmetal:
olodo,who go cheat go cheat even if you buy am the whole world,they are dating 4 fvck sake and the guy isnt raising an orphan. you need to change how you reason it else girls go finish you.

Women are made to be loved, remember they are taking from your rib.
Pls you're a good guy, no just try stingy.
It not good on uuu

Silentgroper:
I feel like doing those for u but i don't want my reward to be in heaven.

Apart from Op, o don't think there's any other guy that would do that for a girl.
There's no need dreaming

Zzor, you are a BASTARD for LIFE!!!

Zzor, you are the MOST senseless BITCH, I have ever seen typed all those BULLSHITS.

Was man made to die for a woman?

Is it because a MAN has tasted the HONEYPOT that will make him to lose all his SENSES of not knowing that a WOMAN is a BITCH.

Zzor, you can NEVER in your LIFE make a good WIFE.

You think MEN doesn't have other ambitions apart from taking care of BITCHES' excesses?

Please, MEN in the house, if any so called BITCH stress you because of money, just park them in one corner and move on with your LIFE.

In all my life, 2% of WOMEN are SENSIBLE. The remaining 98% are SENSELESS and LACK ambitions with independence in LIFE.

They are all LEECHES.

Apart from the moist between WOMEN'S' legs, they have NOTHING to offer a MAN.

That's my Two Cents!

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Op, without being bias.

1) You've been saying yes to your girlfriend for a long time and I guess that's why she gave you that attitude.
Learn to say NO when you don't have.

Looking from this angle,I won't blame her.

2) She's too self centered and will never contribute anything to the growth of the relationship,finance wise when the time comes(you understand that time na).
She'll easily abandon you for someone more wealthier and ready to settle her bills.

3) She loves you. She's seriously into you. Lol
Take this one from me.




If I were you though,I'll examine her from now on. And say no more than I say yes.

Imagine you're paying for the whole party expenses. Just hair money and she's misbehaving

Ungrateful people dey this world Sha.








If I were you and a repetition occurs ehn,I'll DUMP her selfish ass straight up.

As a girl sef I don't take shit. Talk more being a guy.

Traininghub:
You have tried, you cannot do more than yourself. I am a lady but whatever happened to being able to do some things myself?
Let her be if that's what she wants but you can act better than her by sending the gift you had intended to give her as well as some cash for her to run her birthday, send her a happy birthday text as well. Be the better person.

@your signature, do you have a book or your host training sessions?

I plan on going into chops business. How may I reach you?

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

What's the meaning of did I over react? is this one alright?

It is apparent the only thing she requires from you is funds. However, you must understand sometimes that, some women are wired like this, with very low level of understanding. You only got what you started with. Going forward, have a very sincere and deep conversation with her. If she still continues to demonstrate her intolerable shenanigans, then you may need to decide if you truly want to continue with such relationship...Though she may have her good side which you never said. Weigh all options and decide accordingly. Best wishes

Yusufisraelj:


@your signature, do you have a book or your host training sessions?

I plan on going into chops business. How may I reach you?

Really?
Tell me about the small chops biz.

Mention me on a dead thread.

You didn't overreact. Let her go and die.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

this comment must be from a liability lady. Nigerian ladies always belief that once you are dating them you are also dating their responsibility in return for sex

Silentgroper:
Hw do u have chinyere as a name nd ur profile say male?

it's a simple sturve nah. account number belongs to my wife. took a loan from my bank, now my account balance is negative. any money that enters there is gone until I clear the balance.
you think people beg for fun abi thank God for your own oooo

StacyO:


Really?
Tell me about the small chops biz.

Mention me on a dead thread.

Yea, I have the plan, will show you.

Pegi23:



Your opinion is yours my is mine...I will forgive u for this nonsense statement..

You DO NOT have to forgive me . Always note that someone somewhere would always oppose your opinion if it does not sit well.

For the record, the statement I made is how life supposes to be. Women should not be seen being a liability to men as the OP painted the GF. She should get a life.

She is simply a materialistic ingrate.

Flee from such girls with such devilish entitle mentality.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

bro bro bro.....hw many times did i call u
ur babe is zero wife material.....wit d hardship in dis country, she stil want u to send her money to do her hair after u ve listed many tins u wil do for her .....if truely she's nt after ur money n a gud wife material, she wil advise u to save ur money for better tins or just take her out simple....I bet u if u marry her, b ready to buy anything she demand...her kind of type wil like competition btw her frnds to show wo spend pass.....bro wise up

Bro, I hope you are not thinking of marrying her? It is clear;she one of those that will definitely leave you in marriage when you are financially down for a second and go to another man hoping to apologize and come back to you when you make it again. God just showed you what He won't show many, the best time to leave the stage is when the dance is best.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Please let her 'die......

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Please let her 'die'.....

SocialJustice:
They are in Nigeria but hard to see that's the reason I said, if you have the money and open minded to marrying a foreigner, then go on vacation, meet girls on tinder.

Then again, you could be a lover of Nigeria who wants a Nigerian girl, it's easy too. Remove money out of the relationship. Her basic care is not your responsibility, look for working class girls that fend for themselves and not entitled beggars.

The problem again here is these girls who can fend for themselves and understand forcing their responsibilities on you is wrong have their own problems too. Nobody is perfect actually.

Know exactly what you want from a girl and go for that girl. Do not make compromises you can not sustain.

Man you are sharp and smart.