Why are you looking like a sex tool on your dp

Connected1:
Personally I don't care if my wife works or not but the day I hear this foolish statement of yours from her mouth, or she supports someone like you.
Then there's problem whether I provide or not, whether I have a job or not, whether I am rich or poor, I am not your equal.
You need to respect men alot and don't generalize because lazy men are in your family or environment and you see them everyday.
You are so stupid, abeg no add to my anger this morning.

Why do I need to, as you say, 'respect men a lot'? I'll respect people who are worthy of respect, men and women.

man and woman are created equally in the image of God and together have dominion over the earth (Gen 1:26–27).
Now what?

I'm so stupid? Please explain why, so I can learn.

shomutuski:



Okay. Let's say a man ticks all the right boxes, he's rich, provides for you money and sustainence, houses you etc.

my guy those things you mentioned are nothing if you don't value and respect her both physical and emotional. and always there to stand by her. give her advice and emotional quotation to back her up in any situation she find herself.

HappyCreative:


So if things are no longer the same and things have changed, then why is it always the woman taking on more duties i.e going out to work, whilst the men can remain the same?

So what if the woman has a better job than the man. He will take on all the housework by your logic? I can tell you for a fact that doesn't happen.

Lol, Like I Said B4 Housework Are Womens' Duty. Sweeping, Cooking, Fetching Of Water Etc. It's Only Lazy Women Dat Fears Such Duties. When U Keep Doing Dis Things, They Become Part Of U. U Will No Longer Be Weary Of Dem. D Men Too Av Their Part To Play. Dat A Woman Has A Better Job Dan D Man Doesn't Mean She Shouldn't Do Her Housework. She Should. D Man Can Only Assist Her In D Housework.

shomutuski:



Okay. Let's say a man ticks all the right boxes, he's rich, provides for you money and sustainence, houses you etc.


What can you bring to the table? Isn't it all she's complaining of. So i give you money and take care of you na me go still cook my food? For why.

Okay, let's say there's a maid to help you with that what else can you bring to a homestead? You definetely can't spend on me? I earn more than you can imagine, you can't house me. I get my own crib.

Apart from sex what can a woman offer a man and please don't even start mentioning abstract like peace of mind cus we know it's cap.

I will be waiting for your replies

If a man provided everything, i would have no issue, but 99.9%of the time, they can't.

Women also carry children and common sense.

In the same vein, your saying all that men can provide is money?

shomutuski:






What can you bring to the table? Isn't it all she's complaining of.

if you have met a real W O M A N in ur life time, I believe you won't have wrote this.

Bouz:
Why are you looking like a sex tool on your dp

I don't know what you mean by that. I can't help that God made me beautiful.

You are you mad because of the way someone else looks? It can only be envy.

shomutuski:




Okay, let's say there's a maid to help you with that what else can you bring to a homestead? You definetely can't spend on me? I earn more than you can imagine, you can't house me. I get my own crib.

truly you will be toxic. I just pity for ur wife and children. good day!

and some are career killer's but will later turn around and tag laziness to the woman name.

Truvel:
Lol, Like I Said B4 Housework Are Womens' Duty. Sweeping, Cooking, Fetching Of Water Etc. It's Only Lazy Women Dat Fears Such Duties. When U Keep Doing Dis Things, They Become Part Of U. U Will No Longer Be Weary Of Dem. D Men Too Av Their Part To Play. Dat A Woman Has A Better Job Dan D Man Doesn't Mean She Shouldn't Do Her Housework. She Should. D Man Can Only Assist Her In D Housework.

At this point you're just confusing yourself.

If you keep doing the housework, you too will become competent.

I didn't say women shouldn't do housework.

HappyCreative:


I don't know what you mean by that. I can't help that God made me beautiful.

You are you mad because of the way someone else looks? It can only be envy.

, Are you angry over an observation. Look at how you opened your laps and butt cheeks like a prostitute, Please cover up.

Jeon:
and some are career killer's but will later turn around and tag laziness to the woman name.

Facts!

Bouz:
, Are you angry over an observation. Look at how you opened your laps and butt cheeks like a prostitute, Please cover up.

I'm not angry.

Maybe you should learn to control yourself more?

HappyCreative:


Facts!

a woman was called to work as a banker the husband refused,same woman got a call from a secondary school. no way because of her husband and guess what he's jobless. just be moving around with bike doing nothing.

Bouz:
, Are you angry over an observation. Look at how you opened your laps and butt cheeks like a prostitute, Please cover up.

and that's not ur business. if you are not prostituting around you won't even have the guts to spill these trashs.

Jeon:

a woman was called to work as a banker the husband refused,same woman got a call from a secondary school. no way because of her husband and guess what he's jobless. just be moving around with bike doing nothing.

Right! Some men are just moving mad.

Not having a job, or having a low paid job. Not allowing the wife to get a better job than then because it will hurt their fragile ego. Whilst they are sat at home in front of the tv collecting dust.

HappyCreative:

I'm not angry.
Maybe you should learn to control yourself more?

that's how sexual freakers identify them selves.

HappyCreative:


Why do I need to, as you say, 'respect men a lot'? I'll respect people who are worthy of respect, men and women.

man and woman are created equally in the image of God and together have dominion over the earth (Gen 1:26–27).
Now what?

I'm so stupid? Please explain why, so I can learn.

As an African/Nigerian, I don't need an overly ambitious woman i.e N.O.I, you cannot be more wealthier than me, just do my home the African Queen way, teach my children good culture & not to chase only after money.
You are so stupid because you actually think Nigerian men bring nothing into marriage instead of the reverse
The only thing a woman can boastly talk about to me is her virginity and that's if I took it, because it's priceless.
If it's any other thing then forget I no send

Jeon:


and that's not ur business. if you are not prostituting around you won't even have the guts to spill these trashs.

Abeg who involved this bi-sexual into this conversation, you don't even know your gender yet, and you are putting your mouth into what doesn't concern you

Bouz:
Abeg who involved this bi-sexual into this conversation, you don't even know your gender yet, and you are putting your mouth into what doesn't concern you

is that all you have?
bravo! try later.
my concern is that try and be nice and decent.

Connected1:

As an African/Nigerian, I don't need an overly ambitious woman i.e N.O.I, you cannot be more wealthier than me, just do my home the African Queen way, teach my children good culture & not to chase only after money.
You are so stupid because you actually think Nigerian men bring nothing into marriage instead of the reverse
The only thing a woman can boastly talk about to me is her virginity and that's if I took it, because it's priceless.
If it's any other thing then forget I no send

one of the Nigerian male with many ego.

Jeon:


is that all you have?
bravo! try later.
my concern is that try and be nice and decent.

You should be advicing her to be decent not me

ladies be wise don't be a full time housewife because anything can happen at anytime.work on urself too.

Bouz:
You should be advicing her to be decent not me

and you too for shipping her into sex object.what about if she's naked? probably rape.

Connected1:

As an African/Nigerian, I don't need an overly ambitious woman i.e N.O.I, you cannot be more wealthier than me, just do my home the African Queen way, teach my children good culture & not to chase only after money.
You are so stupid because you actually think Nigerian men bring nothing into marriage instead of the reverse
The only thing a woman can boastly talk about to me is her virginity and that's if I took it, because it's priceless.
If it's any other thing then forget I no send

Why can't a woman be wealthier than you? You're so worried because you think it's emasculating.


Apart from money or something relating to money, name me one thing a man can bring.

This is why you don't want a woman who is wealthier than you, its because it's the only thing you're bringing.

Bouz:
Abeg who involved this bi-sexual into this conversation, you don't even know your gender yet, and you are putting your mouth into what doesn't concern you

So if a woman doesn't agree with you, the only thing is to attack how they look?

Jeon:


one of the Nigerian male with many ego.

It's not a matter of having high ego, it's our culture & tradition which has always favoured our society.
In a bid to copy the Westerners, that's the reason you see so many Nigerians in relationships but not in marriages.
If you cannot submit to a man regardless of his social status, age, physique or financial stability, then it's better you don't marry a Nigerian man because divorce would be the end result.

Connected1:

It's not a matter of having high ego, it's our culture & tradition which has always favoured our society.
In a bid to copy the Westerners, that's the reason you see so many Nigerians in relationships but not in marriages.
If you cannot submit to a man regardless of his social status, age, physique or financial stability, then it's better you don't marry a Nigerian man because divorce would be the end result.

stop bringing culture and traditions here. all I see is ego.

Bouz:
You should be advicing her to be decent not me

Sorry why do i i need to be advised? You don't know what I look like everyday.

Why don't you concentrate on yourself? Why are you concerned how I dress?is it affecting your life?

You just can't stand that women are putting you in your place and you can't handle it.

Sorry that you're not mentally stronger.

HappyCreative:


Why can't a woman be wealthier than you? You're so worried because you think it's emasculating.


Apart from money or something relating to money, name me one thing a man can bring.

This is why you don't want a woman who is wealthier than you, its because it's the only thing you're bringing.

yeah, so that he can tarnishes her image and treat her as he wants to . after all you are valueless,just sitting down at home doing nothing.

Connected1:

It's not a matter of having high ego, it's our culture & tradition which has always favoured our society.
In a bid to copy the Westerners, that's the reason you see so many Nigerians in relationships but not in marriages.
If you cannot submit to a man regardless of his social status, age, physique or financial stability, then it's better you don't marry a Nigerian man because divorce would be the end result.

Why are you just picking bits of the bible to suit you. It also says husbands should submit to the wife too, or are you forgetting that bit because it doesn't suit your narrative?

Connected1:

If you cannot submit to a man regardless of his social status, age, physique or financial stability, then it's better you don't marry a Nigerian man because divorce would be the end result.

if you want a woman that is calm you have to be calm too. two parties can't work together unless they read and agree with the terms and conditions.