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You couldnt have said it better OP. True word.

21st century crap from a feminst perspective. Esp on No 3.

"Thirdly, a woman needs a man that
understands her. Someone that knows when
she is angry and how to calm her nerves,
someone that knows what makes her upset and
what makes her happy. Not someone that can’t
detect when something is wrong. They need
their man to understand their feelings and
respect it. Of course as a man, you deserve
some respect but she deserves some respect
too. One secret about women is that they
reciprocate on impulse. Once she is loved, she
gives love back. Now, this is not magic so it
doesn’t work when you’re with a woman that
doesn’t love you."


Bullcrap!!! The 21st century woman is a selfish being who thinks about only herself.
Her comfort, what makes her happy
Her likes and dislikes
And her feelings respected.


She came to be served and not to serve.

Of course her "lord" deserves "some" respect after doing all that.

Women, your mothers were taught primarily how to serve and please their husbands.
And they are a lot happier than you.

Strahovski1:
And are you comfortable with this authority? Marriage is suppose to be a democracy not a dictatorship

I understand your point, esp in the light of the OP's plight which is very sad and commands every sound mind to rush to her rescue.

But permit me to tell you sir, that marriage, surely not a dictatorship isnt exactly a democracy.

But if it is a democracy, then not everyone carry equal vote. The husband's vote is weightier.

saintloveren:
op i dont agree with you, school or going to work does not make a lady mature, an immature or a lady that will cheat on you does not guarantees that she is still at school, i have seen ladies in school that have all the qualities you mentioned up there and i have seen working class ladies that are serial cheaters, not mature and filled with pride, so forget it a good lady is all about parental upbringing and not about bein a student or a working class lady.

Nice one there @ saintloveren. You are so on point!
A lady that will be prudent and wise with spending is known long before she ever starts working.

From the OP's write up, we understand a working class lady to be the office woman.
But are these type of women really the best for the family?

Different needs for different peeps, I know.
Different prefrence for different peeps, no doubt.

But a working class wife with an office has her time controlled by the government or her employer.
And she gets to compromise with her husband and family. Woe unto that family with young children whose innocence have been mortgaged by selfish gain and greed and who have been handed over to nannies who in turn sow all kinds of wild oats in their lives cos mommy is making some money working as a slave for the government or her employer.
And we wonder why there is wide spread of moral collapse among children of this generation — mommy has left her duty post chasing money.

Yes, she must work!
But I prefere my woman, my wife to be her own madam, controlling her own time and business to suit her family and her work, giving attention to her husband and kids when they need it without risking querries or rebuke from an outsider who happen to be a boss or superior in office.