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pocohantas:
After collecting Tonto’s Hilux? Kai!

pocohantas:
...This year Tonto found a man that is finer and richer than Churchill and suddenly, suddenly-suddenly, Nigerian men became very angry . They hate that a woman can find another man after a divorce or as a single mother. They want to see you miserable and mad after they leave you or if you leave them. That is why they are always obsessed with stalking their EXes. You will see them say, “Five years later, she isn’t married” or “She finally married one yeye man wey no reach me”. But the truth is, time is fast changing. Whether red pill or maroon pill, men will marry who they want!

In light of the above excerpt taken from your endless chronicles of misleading assertions, you set up Tonto as the example of how divorced women eat their cakes and have it, how the field is much greener for wayward women who have been shown the door out of marriage finding better men waiting by the door way to give them a better life, despite their bad character and failing bodies (your role model even bought new body parts to no avail).

But reality isn't your companion, neither is truth a close associate of yours, as the chicken has come home to roost.

Many a woman might have fallen for the evil deception you project, that the grass is greener after a woman suffers divorce, but reality has a mind of its own which functions independently of the hopes and wishes of feminists like you.

Let this be another dark epistle in your unrealistic feminist love poems, another harsh reminder that it's still a man's world (until the end of time) and no ideology, concept or science can trump nature.

Redpillar:
I support her.

Sometimes you really can’t tell what men want. They marry a virtuous woman and cause her pains with their activities with omo wobes.

You leave when they are broke, they say you are materialistic. Heck! This woman has been there since he was a broke UNIABUJA boy, but all that doesn’t matter now. She would be called a leech. She should have endured or left with just her clothes and cooking pots.

You stay with them and they get to the top. They suddenly remember that men are polygamous in nature. Their third legs would be on overdrive. Doing penis giveaways left, right and center.

You go to work and try to make some money for yourself, they will sleep with the maid and blame it on you. You didn’t have time for them.

You sit at home and attend to all his whims and caprices, he calls you a liability. He might even cheat on you with the woman at work.

The more you try to understand them, the more confused you get.

I expect his fanboys to call her a gold-digger, but I will advise her to not only dig with a shovel, but employ the services of an excavator. If she can’t operate one, I know someone who would help.

These men are ready to spend millions on sidechicks. Sidechicks that have chewing gum boyfriends. Sidechick that doesn’t know their story. Side chick that can’t cook, clean or even submit, as they love submission pass their lives. They will buy these sidechicks cars, houses and luxury items. It is now the virtuous wife that would be there fooling herself “I don’t love him for money”.

Never trust the loyalty of a broke man.

The days of attending revival service to pray for one randy horseband are gone. Since divorce hurts men like this, they should take over the baton of watching War Room and wearing red pants and a bra to seduce their wives. Make women rest small.

Anita please DO NOT reason with him. Bite hard, then you grip like Rott, and shake it till you pull out pounds of flesh money.

Posting with an 'M' sobriquet is the first proof of your social maladjustment. Then for generalizing, you depict one being a victim of several relationship mishaps.

Let it all go, boy-girl. That's when you'd have started life anew.

@jesusjnr2020

It takes common sense to realize that the Husband is the head of the home, Christ, the head of the man and GOD the head of Christ as clearly stated in scriptures (1cor 11:3)

You stir confusion and rebellion with your wandering spirit. You acted as if you're asking a question but ended up answering it. People like you are dangerous in GOD's kingdom with padded, extra-scriptural interpretation.

pocohantas:
Dearest Tina Adeeyo,



*drops mikrofone*

Funny you still strut about this blogosphere with your make-believes.

Fresh girls in their early 20s are less assured of settling down these days let alone the old hens who are 2nd hand products of failed marriages.

As for the characters in your examples, we know the difference between social cohabitation and marriage. Your idols belong to the former.

Image123:
[s]Who paid Eve's bride price? When people lift their traditions above God's Word. Are you aware that it is women that pay dowry in some parts of India? People who don't fear or obey God are claiming right, gullible ones are backing them up.

1Co 6:16 KJV What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.

Joining takes place with consent of fiance and fiancee, the institution(s) they submit to, and finally stamped by body joining. All other excuses are deception.[/s]

You're as dull as they come.

DriveByKiller:
Coming from the diseased orifice of Nairaland's bemedaled brainless and spiritually numb simpanzee.

Will you also shut up that septic tank you call mouth.

You be mumu...and I discovered you're a male.

What a waste of male headcount.

Incredibly shocking! Real men have long left the planet.

KosiGee:
You are an animal and an excuse of a human being. Keyboard warrior.

Go and post her photos online. Idiot.

What was the man looking for at Dominion city church?
What happened to women at RCCG?

People like you should be in psychiatric hospitals with maximum restriction.

Very little -- if anything separates you from the OP. You both are ideological siblings, at least in the aspect of understanding the concept of marriage. Fortunately there's still time to learn.

A good Christian woman knows her husband or prospective husband is her physical and spiritual head. And it is expected that she leaves her church and join his after marriage except there's an agreement not to.

A family that attends different churches is walking a type rope already. There's nothing stopping the man from going to his wife's church if he wants to, but as the head, such decision is his and his alone to make. Unfortunately it is not so with the woman. Her vows bwfore her people (in her traditional marriage) and GOD (in her church marriagine) is to be obedient and submissive to her husband. Any ideology outside this is from that old spirit of rebellion and pride.

Fahdiga1:
This is already stale

Truth never goes stale, Mister.

Mindlog:
"Everyone knows that while men age like wine, women age like milk.".......And who is more likely to outlive the other?

50 years in biss is better than 80 years as a single divorced woman.

ImaIma1:
This is just a one sided writeup with myopic points.

What happened to having a househelp? Most homes have helps, so the woman doesn't have to do everything on their own.

Many divorced women also get remarried if they want to. It's just that some actually decide to focus solely on their kids. They are more concerned about the kids than the fathers are. The father can even abandon the children with her and remarry but the woman will go out of her way to see that they are fine.

Divorce sometimes is necessary and may be the best thing for a woman for her peace of mind and freedom from a bad man. That, enough is bliss. What if she did everything to save the marriage but the man wasn't helping matters and decided to leave? She should force herself on him, so that she doesn't suffer all these your listed points?

My close family relative is separated from her ex. She works and she has a nanny, plus family is always available to help. Divorced mums figure things out to make sure things still flow.

Last week, my husband had to go stand in as a father for father's day in school for his friend's daughter. She's a working divorced mum without much family (only child and only her mum alive) but friends and loved ones rally around her to help out.

Maybe before you write something like this, you should actually study divorced mums around and not just what you feel happens, just to make the man seem.like the "victor" in divorce, thereby making the woman seem like the disadvantaged one.

Your attempt at rebuttal at the OP was poor and driven by emotions.

Women stand to lose more in divorce - FACT! Everyone knows that while men age like wine, women age like milk. And except the woman is rich no one hardly wants a committed relationship with a woman divorced with child. Her market value isn't the same. Some may stick around for the money but it doesn't really end well.

As for your point with house helps, friends and family helping. That's a truck load of crap. No one does it like it's his/her own. It's never the same. Your husband standing in for father's day for a colleague --that's unfortunate as it's shameful. You only unwittingly drove the OP's point home.

Women can't raise adolescents and can't really train boys on their own.

While in some cases separation might be the only remedy, divorce should not be encouraged and it's consequences downplayed. A good portion of outlaws in our society today come from broken homes or raised by single parent.

Ibime:
Glad a leisurely hobby could make you question if I'm a legend or not. When you have accomplishments to put up beyond selling crayfish and plumbing courses, you won't worry about disparaging my hobbies.

A lion can never concern himself with the rants of impoverished goats.

Always giving away insinuations of affluence at every opportunity even on a forum is the hallmark of insecurity and low self esteem.

It projects your own unaccomplishment and failures. Even fools make money, but not your type of buffoonery. Your money is typo-currency valued on the amount of time spent and posts you've invested here. You're nobody, hasn't ever been, highly unlikely to ever be.

Ibime:
No you rather sell crayfish and plumbing courses instead.

Ghostwhisperer is postmann, the one always writing simpy lovesick poems and wack raps while simultaneously claiming to be a misogynist.

You know so much about me and I never heard about you or read anything meaningful about you and your listless existence on this forum. Ibime, whatever inspired a witless sobriquet as that, You're a lost candle light in a noon day as far as this forum goes. An average personality in a crowd of nobodies doing all he can to stand out.

Ibime:


The people I know with different monikers here are Trumpanzees like Ghostwhisperer who goes by the moniker Postmann or DissTroy who has changed moniker severally from KingsleyMark to Kramfonos to SonofMark. Only God knows why they switch monikers so much, probably after disgracing themselves severally all over the forum.

Hey, you cum-guzzling fat toad. What's the mixup with my sobriquet and your inordinate fantasies? Too much murkey and assorted sperm has crammed up your cranium leaving you mentally distorted, eh?

foreman:
Thanks people for your contributions.

My children are girls, very brilliant girls. Apart from their mother being a control freak, I think she is okay to take care of them. The major concern for me is that she seems to be naïve about people around the children. She tried to leave them at a time with one of her siblings to look after them, of course I didn't agree because its a guy, a guy that we drink together sometimes. She allows them go to neighbors house, for extended hours, to play which I have had to intervene in the past. And so many instances that we had serious disagreements. I cannot just imagine my girls left around potential rapists. My wife believes my mind is too dirty. I agree. But I have seen things that makes me suspicious of people and I don't want to take chances, especially with girls. If they were boys, I wouldn't even bother. I grew up on the streets and I believe boys must see ugly side of life.

I am thinking taking them with me and hiring a mature maid will work.

All your fears about your girls' welfare and safety are very genuine. Your wife, like many women out there are unforgivably naive. And it's worse when they don't listen to not just a superior argument but one from their lord -- husband.

You must see to it that your girls' welfare and safety are at the top of your divorce negotiations.

Steve0979:
Mr idiot I equally stay in Enugu 82 div and had also live in Onitsha barracks for more 10 yrs nw,dere is no nook n corner of Igbo land I haven't set my foot on.sincerely,apart Frm DAT gra side dere is not in special abt Enugu capital while d other local government na heavy village same allies to IMO abia only anambra. Try a little and is BC os of Onitsha .u guys hype ur place like it is a different one from d one I am currently serving.talk true d development in DAT jos is way bter Dan did enugu

I wonder what an animal like you is doing outside the confines of your village quarter. 21st century bigoted ogre like you.

Igbos are known for infrastructural development and it shows in the entire South East. Enugu is beautiful in the Nigerian standard.

You can't even get your tenses and punctuations up to minimum accepted standard.

Analphabetic roving vagabond!

Little wonder from a minister with no track record. He definitely used himself as a yard stick.

[quote author=Kinematics post=99388360][/quote]We-the-niger-delta dofus, don't tell me you're out of memes.

[quote author=Kinematics post=99387599][/quote]Your memes are getting sillier as they make their way out, depicting the poor state of your mental elasticity.

[quote author=Kinematics post=99386919][/quote]Finding sense in it all would depend on the permeability level of cheap alcohol (Ogogoro) on the hard rock in your skull which you mistook for brain.

[quote author=Kinematics post=99386618][/quote]You know memes can serve as easy escape route for dafts who have no fact left in that hard rock in their cranium which often is mistaken for brain.

Kinematics:
Ibo and Yoruba are same. As Niger deltans we have no trust in any of them, no matter how much they try to attach.

The insecurities of a minority is evident in your posts. But that's ok.

What's not ok is the deluge of delusion in your "we Niger Deltans" assertion.

The Niger Delta isn't made of one tribe, neither do they have one leader. Cultural affinities/similarities is as vast and diverse as can be. The only common aspiration among the Niger Deltans is the struggle for resource control. Outside that, every state/ community still look over its shoulders with wary suspicion at its neighbour.

tsephanyah:
Bastard from the lineage of the most corrupt gene in the world. Come to Nigeria, I dare you. Attention seeking bastard just posting on twitter to stay relevant amongst your deadbeat criminals. You people are funny, posting stupid things against the government so that your White masters will not send you parking. Fools they all thought Buhari will give them shady contract to steal. After they realize it will not happen, they turn to political activists.

You said everything but failed to address the issues he raised.

BadBradley:
This shows the devilsh and demonic mindset of the average South Easterner. They need the Western Igbos for numbers but want to monopolize federal appointments.

When it comes to Igbo presidency Anioma or Ikwere should get the nod.

Anioma especially, as they paid the supreme price more than any other igbo-speaking group during the civil war.

The average Easterner will always be a political novice, more foolhardy than tactical, more loud than calculating and more boastful than graceful!

Knew it gats to you to have said this. Don't blame the SE for not realising that Irabor is a kin. The name is rare and it has a strong bini background.

Damn, some Abians bear simular names with their cross river neighbours.

SilverNorGold:
[s]God bless the soldier.. That lady is one of the reasons God is not happy with Nigeria.. That soldier has done well, and may God Almighty punish anyone that condemns his noble action.. The government should look into this.. If possible, the Dress Code Act should be introduced to regulate our manner of dressing.. Cos some are literally walking naked in the name of fashion. This must stop..

1 Timothy 2:9-10


Surah Al-Ahzab 33:59-68 [/s]

Unfortunately, you spoke your mind according to the dictates of your cognitive elasticity.

Among the three (the alleged indecent dresser, the soldier and you) you constitute the greatest danger to a secular society where common sense and human liberty is considered fundamental.

luminouz:
Oh, quit the grammar bla bla...makes you sound weak hommie...

My POV points out a clue about the well water and the diarrhea susceptibility of one of the kids. Since they both stay in the same compound and suffer similar fate, while none of the other kids did, my POV is maybe the drugs didn't do that but cholera. More investigation is needed of course..

Its really not my fault that you got emotional bro.

I'm as savage as they come. Keep the tough talk underneath your underdeveloped sense of judgment.

Your POV is only a reflection of your cognitive limitations. The first pertinent question on this issue is "who gave them teachers authority to administer drugs on minors?" Everything else is secondary.

I believe your dysfunctional sense of judgment comes from your exposure to perennial societal abuse.

luminouz:
Postman or postoffice...no make me find you and give you a resounding slãp o.

I gave my POV, give yours without insult na...

No insult given.

Your POV which tacitly endorses the administration of drugs on minors with total disregard to medical history and parental consent is an insult to enlightened sensibilities.

luminouz:
Read the story well aunty!!!

Out of 235 pupils, only two(from the same compound) were affected. One of the two had a history of diarrhea. The well in the compound should be checked.

Oga, who gave the school or government right to administer drugs on minors without parental consent? This should be your primary concern, not the lame statistics you're trying to point out.

EmekaBlue:
But others didn't die. I hope they don't go blaming the innocent teachers. Many people are with health complications out there and nobody knows the kind of drug that will just trigger it. That's Why it is good to go for test and get doctor prescription bfr taking any drug.

I always give free advise i don't use though.

May their young soul RIP

You've indicted the teachers already. Where did they or the government got the right from to administer drugs on minors without parental consent?

Hopeless country!

eleojo23:
The deaths were very likely not caused by the deworming drug.


Recording 2 casualties out of over 200 pupils who received the drug is not convincing enough to say the drug was the cause. Deworming medications are well-tolerated by both children and adults.

Moreso, the two children who died lived in the same compound. The plausible explanation is that they were both exposed to an infectious pathogen days or hours before that day whose onset of signs/symptoms coincided with the day they took the deworming drug.

The only way to know what happened for sure is through an autopsy but as usual, people are already getting sentimental about the matter.

Let's pray it's not cholera as suspected because if it is, occupants of that vicinity are in danger.

No need for long sentences. What gave the government or school any right to administer any drug on children without parental consent?

Arrewa:
allow them to chest beat in peace!

Ordinary onions way no dey south for 2 days una cry up and down!


Okoro is from the north... You people don't have Okoro. "Kubewa"

You don't have onions!

You don't have goats in commercial quantity You only have goats in some village compound.

We provide you with goats... Go to the express and see hundreds of trailers of goats moving down your region.

Na we dey give una that Jacky! "Donkey" Cos una like Jacky meat die!

We give you guys pepper!

We dey give una maize

We give you everything!

I mean everything including fruits

If stupidity was a medal, you would be the most decorated simpleton on the globe.

Do you know how many of your people who survive by selling their produce down south.

Please mister future governor/kingmaker, ask your people to stop selling their produce down south and watch untold poverty ravage your people. Ode!

Seerade029:
Guy Wetin you dey yarn
So because they're Yoruba they shouldn't be arrested?

Any elements terrorising Yoruba region irrespective of tribe should be made to dance to the music

Actually i saw beyond the ethnic ring to his post. What I picked thereof is the penchant of Nigerian security agencies to always go beyond the limit of the constitutional act that created them.

E.g NSCDC delving from guarding and protecting government installations and cult activities to doing general police work. Army and DSS being deployed randomly into civilian skirmishes whereas whereas it is the police duty.

Unfortunately, these unlawful acts are supported and perpetrated by those in government.

How Nigeria got riddled with animals in uniform is still a great mystery.

Taking them to the barracks for discipline is barely enough. There should be an investigation into what kind of training in terms of relating with civilians these soldiers are given. A mental and psychological examination by an independent agency should be standard in determining who is given a uniform and gun in this country.

The population of armed mad men in uniforms in this country is alarming.

These bunch of low IQ-ed idiots seem to go about with the belief that the average civilian is sports for them.