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How's your day been, Favourite one?

menxer:
If a child is properly trained (not just attending school) by the parents, the issue of the parent choosing a spouse for the child won't arise.

Why because a race horse won't act like a circus horse in a race.

The issue of putting God first, how?
God has given us wisdom, discernment and free will (and is all these) to make choices and gain experiences there from.

It would be a violation of divine principles for God to make choices for us in mundane issues.

If you can't decide and choose a spouse here, how then can you decide in more subtle dimensions.

I found your first 2 sentences as accurate as can be. But then there was a serious dent when you delved into marriage and GOD, dismissing the all importance of GOD- the founder of marriage- as inconsequential when man has to make a spousal choice.

Hmmm! How wrong can you be!
Apart from salvation, what else is more important than marriage? And if marriage is ultra-important, how dare you trust your own judgement?

Who is wise enough to understand the human heart, which is desperately wicked, by the way?

GOD chose Eve for Adam, and it was meant to us future generations as a guide and standard.
Abraham's chief servant was wise enough to make this prayer when he got to the well in search of a wife for his master's son;

"O LORD, GOD of my master, Abraham, he prayed. 'Please give me success today, and show unfailing love to my master, Abraham. See, I am standing here beside this spring, and the young women of the town are coming out to draw water'. This is my request. I will ask of one of them, 'please give me a drink from your jug'. If she says, ' yes, have a drink, and I will water your camels, too!- Let her be the one YOU have selected as Issac's wife. This is how I will know that YOU have shown unfailing love to my master". (Gen 24:12-14)

What a test! Choosing a life partner is worth such a test.
But most importantly , he didn't trust his own judgement or wisdom, and neither should we.


Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
(Prov 3:5-6)

Who are those who fear the LORD? HE will show them the path they should choose.
(Psalm 25:12)

[quote author=firstEVA post=42986880][/quote]Goodnight my dearest. Have a lovely night rest.

firstEVA:


What do you gain from reading me?

Nothing actually.

Or maybe predestination has things ordered up
For good purposes unknown.
In her tide let's tarry

Deep in the twilight of the woods
There seems no marked route
But yet it beckons gently;
Come!

firstEVA:
I don't understand

Why don't you understand?
The emboldened was what I thought exactly.
And I believe it was what you probably had in mind when you threw the question to me.

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firstEVA:
. I like two extreme kind of guys, the bad and very good. It always happens that the bad gets more love cos they need it more in my opinion.

firstEVA:
what part of my post is exactly what you thought?

The emboldened. And if I should ask, it was ome of your chief suspects.

Why did you ask?

firstEVA:
hahahahahaha
You are correct, almost too correct.
The emboldened depends on the person involved anway. I like two extreme kind of guys, the bad and very good. It always happens that the bad get more love cos they need it more in my opinion.

Exactly what I thought.

firstEVA:
nice. She's a goddess, beautiful rendition, I hope you like it.

Ok. My network is poor. But I've heard the few starting lines. Her voice is very rich accompanied by a solo piano.

Hmmmm! Being your favourite, it says a lot about you, than you might be willing to accept here on NL.

You're a very sensitive type of person,
You are very emotional too
You can love more than your partner in your relationship.
You can be self-sacrificing
And lastly very romantic and sensual.

Tell me where I'm wrong in the above qualifications.

Pls tell me to edit if you aren't comfortable with here.

FIRSTEVA it's playing finally. Though the network is poor. It's a staged performance. I think it's pure gospel genre.


I had to switch to chrome browser to be able to play it.

firstEVA:
but i'm using mobile too, lemme look for another, pls don't cry my dear

It's like the Alexandra girl also did a performance in X factor. It's on the YouTube list.

What genre is it? R&B gospel or contemporary gospel?

I like to know your music taste.

firstEVA:
You like the music?

The video isn't available on mobile.

firstEVA:
I like the feeling most times, it's sweet, controlling it may bore life out of me.

You like the music?

One step at a time, my darling. You start from somewhere. You've been used to this indulgence for a long time, and it's in your nature, like everyone healthy human.

With time, something else will replace that feeling it gives you. It won't happen overnight and neither can you fight it by your strength.
As you abide in HIS Word, such cravings will begin to wear away gradually.

firstEVA:
hahaha, "take captive" lol. I agree
Flirting isn't a sin right?

Flirting in itself may not the sinful. It all depends on the manner of flirting, it is sexual in nature, to initiate sex or an invitation to sex? If it is, then it is sinful. And so is obscene or filthy talk.

firstEVA:
in other words we need to be on the same page always.

Yes, most of the time. We are here to help each other.
Weren't you the sweet councilor who taught me more about being The Rope? Of course you are. I know I have things to learn from you.

Look, there is no young, able-bodied and healthy individual, with healthy hormones who dosent experience sexual pressure once in a while.

Experiencing it isn't not a sin or problem.
We only have to take captive of such feelings, controlling it, and not it controlling us.

firstEVA:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSgsW9GLerA

Mmmuuuaah!
Thanks!

Being naughty is a normal human feeling. We only need HIS grace to control it.

firstEVA:
of course I know what you meant. Forgive me, I'm just been naughty
That's the mood i'm in now.


Btw, we can't be on different pages, it's not healthy.

Don't understand your last sentence, dearest.

firstEVA:
hahahahahahahahahaha, ok we can change topic quite alright.

Haleluyah by alexandra Burke, beautiful song.

It's not just changing of subject. It's been on my mind to ask you.

I've never heard that track. Maybe if it's on your phone, you can perhaps share?

firstEVA:
There is nothing I start I can't complete, I am woman enough.

Sure you are! But we are a little on a different page with understanding of what 'complete' or 'finishing' denotes.

You can finish what you start, but the consequence is beyond your control. That's what I meant.

firstEVA:
hahahahahahaha, men are like babies, I like to treat my man like a baby, I can start my kiss from his forehead, then keep kissing in a straight line down till I reach the end

Hmmmm! Tantalising! But there are bridges to cross and then such sensual givings and pleasures are all yours. You can enjoy it in a healthy bouncing conscience. Even thereafter, you can lay for hours relishing, savouring, plotting even more outstanding sensual fit on the next menu.

What can beat a happy and guiltless heart drinking from the fountain of love and sex?

firstEVA:
it's a beautiful day, my body feels light and I feel so fresh, scent like strawberry

U wont understand

Maybe I won't or maybe I will.
What's your favourite gospel song?

firstEVA:
the best place to plant a kiss with red coloured lips are the lips, that way your lips will look pinkish, that's so sexy.

Imagine me planting a kiss with painted lips on your forehead, that's like mark of the beast


[size=5pt]I prefer lips[/size]

True, but what happens thereafter would be a raging inferno. And until it consumes everything, it's never satisfied. It's good not to start that which can never be completed, a lip-on-lip kiss in this case.

By the way, women don't plant kiss on the forehead of men. It's like a woman carrying a man in her arms. Unacceptable.

firstEVA:
you are too funny, lmao

How am I funny?
That's just the simple truth.

How are you, dearest?

firstEVA:
I had a lovely night, and it's a beautiful morning dear postmann, hope you can say same?

I wish you a beautiful day ahead, cheers.

Thanks, favourite one. My morning is going nice and steady. My night was fine.

You're a little extra sweet today.
What's the occasion

firstEVA:
Mmmuuuaah
Mmmuuuaah

firstEVA:
you keep using the word trouble

The advantage of such cuddling is you get to feel each other's warmth, as a women, you also feel his nature of hardness

It can be fun, even without doing "trouble"

Very inviting and almost irresistible. But it's all asking for trouble.
Even with an engaged couple, it's not adviced. In whatever else kind of relationship, not recommended .

It is wrong, and asking for trouble. Even to the extent you recommended is wrong, sinful, and trouble.

Good morning.
Hope your night was fine?

FirstEVA, You must have slept off. My fault actually.

I'll say goodnight and sleep well!
Mmmuuuaah!

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firstEVA:
what do you mean

Sorry I left for an hour.

But that was in black and white. From the image you posted isn't that kind of cuddle asking for trouble?

Are you strong enough to resist such from turning into full sex, especially if it happens repeatedly?

What do I mean Well, as you should well know, when a man is that close, touchingly in a cuddle against a woman, with vital, sensitive regions of both parties warming up against each other in collision, on a lying position, even in cloths, is willingly asking for all kinds of trouble. Just anything could happen.

firstEVA:
what if there's no significant other?

Hehehehehehehehehe!
OK. Let's take it purely as you have put it.
Well...I'll drop the sanctimonious card, and say, ya better be careful!

A woman's body and a soft mattress are without mercy!

firstEVA:
something like this, but with clothes on

I agree with you so I can put this question before you:
How would you explain it to your significant other if he sees you and a man in this sought of position?

firstEVA:
hahahahaha, what's pre earth life?

So kiss is tied to marriage for you? I'm sure you'll say same about friendly cuddle

Hmmm! I didn't see this one earlier.
Mouth to mouth kiss is tied to marriage of course.
Not that mouth to mouth kiss is sin in it self in courtship but for all the doors it opens, it is seriously adviced against.

Cuddle? What kind of cuddle? Lying on the bed, sofa or you mean hug?

Thought we talked about hugs before.