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Still single

God and nobody else, I don’t even like begging

My counsel for you is first of all determine to stop it.
Make stoping it a vision and give it an allotted time frame.
Try as much as possible to be around people at all times.
Do away with porn pictures and videos
Ask God for help at every point in time.

And I see the Lord helping you in Jesus name

It's only in Nollywood people have sex covering themselves.🤔🤔🤔🤔

Interesting15:
In a previous post (https://www.nairaland.com/8096971/getting-correct-lady-say-yes) where I, amongst other things, drew a portrait of who a correct lady is, I emphasized the fact that marriage is one of God's core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a member of the opposite gender not for sex or childbearing or companionship sake, but the most important thing is that they have the configuration to play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.

Now, as a lady, if you want to enjoy the full dividends of marriage with peace of mind, you have to go the bible way (God's way) and not as dictated by imperfect societal standards and opinions. This means you have to be patient with God to bless you with a man who has the configurations to help you fulfill destiny and must not agree to marry a random guy just because of physical considerations (money, height, complexion, etc).

I want you to remember this, like Eve, if God will lead you to a correct guy who can help you navigate your journeys in destiny, you must also be a correct lady who can be an adequate helper to him too. To attract a correct man, you must be a correct lady too. And to have such a configuration, you must be genuinely saved, submitted to the Holy Spirit, and have started running with destiny.

I explained all these in full detail in my books "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal" and "Getting A Correct Guy To Propose Marriage To You".

In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct guy is a male God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your husband. He is not only saved (submitted to the Lordship of Jesus and the government of the Holy Spirit), but is already running with destiny even as a single guy. A guy who is useful and beneficial to God his Creator will translate into a quality husband for you.

It's not really easy to see a true believer nowadays, so many pretenders out there. But I still trust God I will see one someday

Something that I'm still doing

Alhajikd:
Correct lady ke!
The last correct lady in Nigeria passed away since 1980
Every other one claiming a correct lady, na counterfeit

Say what you know bro, I'm a correct lady and will always be

I no sure say I no the phone, but I know others phones and when they come but I never marry, so wetin I go do?

I've them plenty, I don't even know how I got them, even #5, just store them somewhere

You can change your church, but pray about it

Kriss216:
Aswear.

Na manage we dey manage them, no single Nigerian girl is worth to be anyone's responsibility aside her father.

Remove procreation, an average Nigerian girl is as uselfull as the "P" in Psychology to a man.

Stop generalizing, that you don't think good women exist doesn't mean they do not exist. Remember whatever has a fake has an original one somewhere

Kriss216:
As a single man, you may think girls full everywhere, na when you wan marry, you go realise say good GIRLS no dey Nigeria again.

A Godly man that truly wants to go far in life should endeavour to seek the face of God before marriage else you may end up with girls like Jennyclay and this non virgin broke girl above me.

I wonder why people keep saying there are no more good girls in Nigeria,
The same way men are looking for good women is the same way women are seriously looking for good men.
By the way, who is spoiling the girls?

Even if it drops, super pack for 14k plus is still very high

Me, nothing or 200 to and fro if I don't want to trek

Be disciplined, simple. The same way you shun the temptation of not taking what is not yours no matter how much you like it.
Have the fear of God because of you fear Him you will not go against His will.

I'm not married though but God has helped me to overcome the temptation, He can also help you, just trust Him.

This is not a one bedroom apartment o, it is a room inside a private apartment

It depends on the reason for breaking the ties, things are happening in this country

Pray about it and try going back to the person/people you have lied to immediately you realize you lied and tell them that you lied and then tell them the truth.

It works very well. The shame of you going back to tell them that you lied will make you stop lying

Above Only
I'm a Dunamite

Jeon:
My condolences.
Tell me who wants to be a virtuous woman now?. and how many men are responsible?.


Women, don't want to be tied down this is why most chose the life they are living free of dramas and heavy loads.

I am a virtuous woman

Many fake men around. Need a genuine Christian for marriage. A lot of people go to church but they are not Christians, they want to sleep with you before marrying you and I'm not ready for that.

Donkogbe:
I decided to buy myself this gift for christmass and its means so much to me.

Wow! Best Christmas gift

Zonefree:
Black women are menace to the society.

You should say some black women not all black women please

They have started

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Will like to create a WhatsApp group for genuine christian singles here, send hi to 08079211653 if you are in

Are you born again
Mature
Ready for marriage
Tired of meeting fake people
Desires a God fearing christian
Then let's meet here.

Send hi to 08079211653, let's form a group

Will not have sex with you before marriage, because I don't fornicate
Will always tell you the truth no matter how bitter it looks

Nice piece, I hardly read long posts but I finished this one. May God keep protecting you sir

Something wey we de for my village, though I recall the name

Nothing
Fornication/Adultery is a sin

Ogbono fruit is quite different from ugiri, you can't eat it, though very similar to ugiri. Although a lot of people use ugiri seed to cook soup but they are not the same