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Thing about lying is, you need a thousand more lies to cover the first lie. He'll really look stupid if/when proven guilty. That's all I got.

Just wondering why any one would assume they served fruit wine at a wedding. It's a wedding people wanted to get drunk.

Truth is, as long as the bible didn't explicitly state the type of wine, we'll never really know.
Drnking itself isn't a sin, it is a stimulant that can lead one to sin if care isn't taken as it uninhibits the drinker.

I see this whistle blowing increasing the number of missing people and body bags, if care isn't taken. Politicians/Looters don't play.

vincentjk:
He no longer feels comfortable handing his phone over to you and you're still hear asking long question

Wait until the side chick finally snatch him from u

Sometimes una gals dy fukup o, why don't u service him every night sote he go forget the side chick

Lol so men have been reduced to generators that only need all night servicing?
All the servicing in the world won't make a guy marry you if he doesn't see his wife in you.
His sudden change might me attributed to either work transition stress or there's a side chic (hiding his phone which wasn't the case is a red flag)

Instead of speculations, try to communicate with him and ask the important questions; why the changes? what he wants from your relationship, Is he still as committed? if you both still have a future, does he still love you? if there's some one else, as you would rather know your fate than invest your time and energy for nothing.

He's got friends, set your ego aside and try to talk to one of his closest, chances are he'll have your back and talk some sense into his head.
Since you're in a long term relationship with your man, am I right in guessing you're already known to his family? Ensure you're close with them, spend weekends with his fam, when you can.

You're not perfect either, try to assess what you're doing wrong, ask him if you have to, and work on that.

All I hear from you is Passion Passion Passion which is what sells an idea.
If you're confident about the success of the idea which I think you are, then the rest would fall in place like Tetris, don't worry, whatever you're making now would actually be like peanuts when your business starts picking up.
Of course there'll be initial challenges but that's normal, just ensure to get professional advice from those in your business industry to prepare you better for the dynamics.

But do make sure you save up enough capital and be very selective of staff. An idea/business is only as successful as it's human resource, integrity and dedication is what you should look out for.

I hope to read your success story on here soon.
All the best.

Iyaboaj:
Odunlade Adekola anytime

This is why u wrote jamb 5 times. Where's odunlade in the options

To hook up with your hook-up.

Intriguing. Pls tell us more, so what has the 666 done?
Has it been embedded on our foreheads?
Should we prepare our warheads?

Should we turn off all our sound systems and ear plugs since the Trumpet (with super woofer) can sound any moment now?

OP raise your hands up high like you're about to chant the biggest halleluyah, now plant a heavy knock on that block head of yours. Maybe just maybe it'll will reset your brain.

romelady:
fact

Fact no fiction.
Eyes wide shut.

The more important question why warehouse such huge amount of cash if it's legit?
Clearly it's looted funds.
NIA or GEJ or Amaechi, the ownership is traceable except they just want to play politics as usual, @least the house has a CofO, arrest the owner, the rest would sort itself out.

O.o Cougar alert. RIP to Bassey's gf... He's gone!

The problem with Christians, Same bible, a million interpretations.

post=55767465:
Lagos is no man's land

I'm not here to argue history or gns with you. When the chips are down, don't forget to bring this up.
Out.

LePrezident:
Errrm Jake, dont let the boy drag you into realms of absurdity. You should know his comments won't change zilch about Lagos. You should instead laugh and bask in the pride that he craves to belong to the state. Cos truth is worldwide we know Nigeria is Lagos and Lagos is Nigeria. This troll on NL is not worth wasting enthalpy on.

Lol QED energy conserved.

Motherfucker2:
Like I said before, you're an Amala and Ewedu eating Afonja

Lagos doesn't belong to the Yoruba tribe

Mention ondo and Ogun state, now that's a Yoruba state

We own and run Lagos State

You can't do shiit about it

Weak Yoruba boy

The only thing you guys know is how to run your mouth

I beat the shiit out of Yoruba boys

Yes, i said we have the biggest market in the world, why not counter me by mentioning the biggest market in the world

We run to the south to go milk the Yoruba tribe dry

The Yoruba tribe are so lazy and dumb, they don't wanna make money, hey, we got to go take their money from them

Mention any Yoruba landlord in Lagos, i will wait

We don't have the richest man in Nigeria or Africa, we have millions of self made billionaires​, i can mention 300 of them right now, mention 10 Yoruba billionaires, i will wait

I'm ashamed to be sharing the same country with the Yoruba tribe and the Fulani tribe, combination of evil lazy tribe and terrorism ridden tribe

You're the dumbest, laziest, stinkiest, dirtiest tribe on earth

We own Lagos and in the next 10 years, nothing will be left for your next generation

Continue selling your tribe to the igbos

Your ignorance precedes you.
Una eye go soon clear.
Never take chivalry for stupidity. This is the main cause of xenophobia. Now you're laying claim on your landlord's property? Your eviction notice is being drafted.
Can Yoruba's claim Onitsha/Anambra is Yoruba land?
Try to always resist your ignorance before it spills out of your unevolved mind.

Aja to ma sonu...

Although marriage is supposed to be "in sickness and health, till death do us part" but there are cases where it becomes a constant burden and the contract has to be terminated in the best interest of one or both parties.

Yes, love can make rational matters irrational and vice versa. In your case, your once loving husband has been rendered impotent and hostile by the ill fated accident that turned your home cold. Now you're compelled and bound by love, family and loyalty to stick with him, even when he's clearly no longer the same person you married.

The decision is yours to make and I believe no one can judge you if you decide to divorce him. Cos I believe the essence of marriage is to raise a happy home not a hostile environment. You have your life to live.
You can always still remain a support system to him.

Lashort:
Lol sir, I have a feeling that you own this forum cause you barely sleep and you're online like 24/7.

Are you human? Lol

Sending pictures to strangers is scary. I'm scared you'll show people who lashort is

LePrezident is suffering from a disease called Ambition, it keeps you up all night luv.

CareerHubAfrica:
Fear is that unpleasant emotion we feel when we are afraid of someone or something. It is likely to be something dangerous, painful, or threatening. Now let me ask you this - If you were not afraid of anything or anybody, what are those things you would so much like to do in your career or your life?

Worst still, Fear of the unknown. This is the most inhibiting of all fears, the What If's.

Absent fear of the unknown, I'll most likely quit my 9-5 (7-7 actually) and start working towards owning either an IT firm or Record Label.

LePrezident:
Chair, if you notice I didn't author the write-up. It's has a source below it. However, I believe the write-up has some truth to it but shouldn't be taken as the Gospel; it's just a guide. It means you should choose your battles carefully.

You're in trouble now Mr misogynist.
Quick suggestion, You have to balance the equation.
Women To Date or Men To Avoid.
Good luck.hehe

By definition it is rape.
But here are some big questions to ask
-Was it forceful or violent?
-Did Kemen persist after resistance?
-Was there even a resistance?

Yes agreed it was a non-consensual touch. But that's what every sexual advance is. What he did after is what's important; he simply let her be and went back to sleep.

We can keep analyzing what transpired from different angles but the Two parties involved have moved on from the mishap. T-Boss (the victim) has forgiven him, why can't the rest of you?

I'm beginning to suspect most females (most likely victims of rape themselves) have decided to turn all their aggression and hatred on Kemen.
On that note it is imperative to remind y'all that KEMEN IS NOT THE ONE THAT RAPED YOU OR YOUR SISTER OR YOUR FRIEND OR YOUR MOTHER OR YOUR DAUGHTER OR YOUR WIFE, So let him rest.

asuustrike2009:
It still doesn't change the fact that there was no consent.Whether she exposed herself or not as far she didn't give the go ahead, it's term rape. No matter how you change or twist it, it's still called rape

By definition yes it is rape.
But here are some big questions to ask
-Was it forceful or violent?
-Did Kemen persist after resistance?
-Was there even a resistance?

Yes agreed it was a non-consensual touch. But that's what every sexual advance is. What he did after is what's important; he simply let her be and went back to sleep.

We can analyse what transpired from different angles but the Two parties involved have moved on from the mishap. T-Boss (the victim) has forgiven him, why can't the rest of you?

I'm beginning to suspect most females (most likely victims of rape themselves) have decided to turn all their aggression and hatred on Kemen.
On that note it is imperative to remind y'all that KEMEN IS NOT THE ONE THAT RAPED YOU OR YOUR SISTER OR YOUR FRIEND OR YOUR MOTHER OR YOUR DAUGHTER OR YOUR WIFE, So let him rest.

Radiohead6:
Wow ,I'm a flat Earther , I'm just happy you figured it out , I've been keeping it to myself because honestly no matter how many times you tell them they won't just believe, we have always lived in a Dome , Even the bible said it, God bless you ,

Is it not obvious the earth is circular? Judging by other celestial bodies?
Even a close look at the horizon leaves a curvy circular view.

Airplane circumnavigation also attests to this. Planes have been used to travel the earth in a particular direction and ended up in their point of origin.

Nuff said.

JeffreyJamez:
Because na babe e happen to...If na guy now all of them go follow shine teeth, bloody hypocrites.

No one seems to remember Basset was also engaged in a non-consensual molestation when Debby Rise kissed him in his sleep. But hey, he's a guy, he should be grateful, right? hypocrites.

GloriaNinja:
AY AND HELEN PAUL MADE A FOOL OF THEMSELVES.

The TBoss-Kemen situation is quite delicate so making jokes of it was unnecessary and rather insensitive of them. With all the problems, lootings, adultery scandals, fake prophesies, etc I mean there's too much materials for the comedians to work with, that was a no-no.

Seems you're both complacent.
Perhaps you need some drama to spice up the relationship.
Or engage each other in activities you can both find interesting.
You need to act fast before a sharp bad guy starts giving her the attention you're denying her.
Weeks in absentia and it's not a distant relationship? odikwa very risky.

Are you both students or working?

Opposition will always be opposition.

excadz:
I am a student of human psychology. I know the reason why people do bad things. (Serotonin, Dopamine, Epinephrine). All people, religious or not, do bad things. It is a fact of life and a result of the mechanisms of Life. There is no such thing as an Atheist that does not do bad things unless he/she learn how to manage their Desires.

Morality is a product of Conscience. All people, religious or not have a conscience. Religious people are just more held to account by society when they f-up. We say, "see that preacher paying women for sex" when if an Atheist does it no one holds them to account.

True. Well said.
Morality is a product of Conscience and Conscience is a product of what's fed into our minds by the society.
It all comes down to choice and it's consequences.

But still religion has done more harm than good, period.
Imagine a friend/neighbor/colleague you've known for a long time would turn hostile on you fast once in the name of defending their God (who shockingly can't defend himself).

UltraLeslie1:
Africans prioritise religion, marriage and traditions above personal development, science and technology, education and entrepreneurship that's why we're at the back of the queue globally.

Being single or married is just a small dot in the ocean of life.

To be realistic, marriage is a priority or @least raising a family.
You won't be here if your folks didn't.

excadz:
Correct!!! Atheists cannot agree to disagree with the religious because of extremism such as
forcing women to cover their faces in public,
circumcising young girls so their natural Desires never develop,
and killing those who do not agree with corrupt religious philosophies.

Unethical beliefs must be confronted even if it comes from Atheists who will destroy society because they have no morals.

Fairness, Equity, and Accountability are the pillars of every civilized society

World's heinous crimes are not committed by atheist but theists. From Genocides (by extremists) to Embezzlement of Public Funds (by Politicians who hold high positions in churches/mosques)
Surprised to hear you assert that atheists have no morals, except you were just being sarcastic.

Morality is not a factor of Theism but personal choice.
Formication/Adultery, Covetousness, Lying, Stealing/Embezzling, Drinking, Greed, etc are committed even by the most religious, so pray tell, what's now the essence of the charade, who's deceiving who?

Afam4eva:
Nothing irks me more than coments such as this.

Oga, it's nothing new for Igbos and Yorubas to marry and deliver inter tribal offspring. For you to link this to why you think the unity of the country is non negotiable givies you away as a slowpoke (no offence). Aren't there Nigerian getting married to Ghanians, jamaicans etc? Maybe we should merge those countries too. WTF.

Shoo Shooperu!

Preach!
Live and Let Live.
Religious Tolerance is the solution.

Unfortunately religion pitches us against one another. For one religion/denomination to be True, the others must be false and obliterated.
Jews obliterated the Philistines, Babylonians, Canaanites, Egyptians, simply for being of different faiths.
Early Christians were persecuted and nearly obliterated by same Jews but prevailed.
Early Christians likewise obliterated and persecuted other Faiths in the name of "Evangelism." (Our forefathers can attest to this)

Now Islam is still persecuting and obliterating other Faiths especially Christians in the name of propagating it's religion.

So the question is,
Has Religion Done More Harm To The World Than Good?
The answer is an emphatic Yes.

Religionists are quick to ascribe basic morality as one of the good religion has done for mankind, but truly it's society that has taught us morality.
People don't commit crime not because of fear of heaven or hell but because they would get caught punished by jungle justice or the court.

Hence Religion must be scrapped and abolished, Morality and Reason instead should be propagated.