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Fanirandele:
That he looks that old does not mean he must be married, he could have told her he's divorced or a widow or just a mature bachelor sef. If she knew he had a wife I doubt she'll take the picture in the house and then post it. Either she knew or not the married person is the one responsible for his others marriage.

How many times do you see men going around fighting their wives lovers How many you want fight The person that owes you loyalty and has betrayed you is the one that took a vow with you . A human being is not a purse that can be snatched, he has gone willingly to where he wants to be. He should have just done it in the proper manner and divorce the first wife

Ok, she didn't know he was married. . After she posted the pic and she was informed? What happened? She went ahead with the wedding...

I don't support men or women fighting their spouse's lovers.. However, I can't absolve the so called lovers of blame. . The both persons are shameless with the husband the major culprit. . That's all..

Can you advise your daughter to go after married men afterall she's not the one that owes her spouse some loyalty or fidelity?
They both deserve blame! You can't contribute to hurting someone else, then claim holiness because you don't owe the person loyalty. ..

raayah:
Destroying homes, please who left their family to marry another man? Someone decided thta his wife of 20 years was not worth it and decided to marry another woman?

For all we know, this woman might not know that this man was married.

There's only one home destroyer in this story and its not the woman.

I may apportion almost all blame to the husband but the side chic isn't without blame..

You know a man is married but still agree to go out with him, where's your conscience? If the married man is shameless, must you be shameless too?

Yes, The man purposely wrecked his home but the woman abi girl in question is very silly too... Don't tell me she didn't know the man's marital status: a man looking that old...

I can't absolve the side chic of any blame pls... They're both shameless with the husband being the main culprit. .

davide470:
Lool.

Hope no problem Ma?

P.S: I know nothing about what was written by the OP and i don't care.

Lol, don't mind me

davide470:
Esan people are Ishan.

Same Same.

Hmmmm, issorait sir. ..

Eyekandi:
Indeed husbands are scarce

Husband isn't scarce.. Some people are just so greedy and inconsiderate; wanting to reap when they didn't sow...

I blame the man most because someone can't wreck your home if an insider doesn't give him/her the opportunity. .. the shameless man purposely wrecked his home. .

The home wrecker is even a babymama ..smh...Want an already made man when she doesn't know how the story all started. . Gold digger!

Have no words for the shameless man...

God help us

Azil:
If you feel not absolutely ready to be faithful and submissive to a man, don't marry. Better yet, don't marry an edo man. However, you don't know what love is until you've been loved by an edo man. proudly Esan!

My dear, wish you can tell same to the men... why are all the rules about women? They're just giving liberty to the men to cheat while having a lot of evil lined up for woman who a man touches as small as her wrapper. ..

A woman can't spit on her husband but her husband can bath her with spit...wetin person no go hear

You educated Esan women should stand up against those barbaric cultures. You ain't anybody's doormat. ..

If they can't get rid of the rules, then it should be adjusted to suit both men and women. . Faithfulness in marriage is for both genders!

davide470:
All i see is hfdjofbdjobdovbdo..

Are you from Esan abi na ishan?

Fvine:
Please where does shared posts go? I keep seeing share on some posts, I decided to click share on one of my post to see what will happen but nothing. It only wrote 1 Share on the post so I just clicked "unshare" and the "1 share" disappeared. TIA.

Lol ... You share an interesting post you want your followers to see ... When you share a post, your followers get to see the post...
Then, you'll also see posts shared by people you follow. ..
People normally use the share button when they come across an interesting post which they would want others (their followers) to see....

You'll be notified on your profile when someone shares a post of yours or when you have posts shared by your followers. ..

Baby dust to y'all... You're always in my prayers
Cheers. ..

johnydon22:
I know i don't.. Please what's blue balls

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/q-and-a/a815/blue-balls/

You can search Google for more...

KMB:
Good idea as long as men too will get leave for the same period because of the pain of not getting any. (Blue Balls) Equal rights

how can you compare monthly periods with blue balls? How many men do have blue balls? How often even? Many men don't even know what blue balls is..

Not a bad idea ooo
Monthly leave noni

cococandy:
Umm

Lol, saw it.. just had to say more!

Lero15:
Seriously, Arsenal could have won this game with a good striker and defensive midfielder!!!

When was the last time Giroud scored??!!
This man keeps starting him.
See what Welbeck did in few minutes!

And what exactly was Flamini coming to do ehn... When he came in I said yellow card has come in... And worse happened.

Ozil is frustrated. My fear is he might just leave Arsenal.
Who else are we gonna send to preach to this man o
Even Igwe Henry complained!

No sekem tonight jare

Cry me an ocean Lero

cococandy:
I'm sorry OP you're at fault. I wonder how you can't see that.
You were informed to meet the MD for permission to skip work and you didn't.
Really? Who does that? It means you don't take your job seriously.
He's was right to be mad at you.

He was wrong though to have hit you first. And that he might have to pay for if your father is a good lawyer.

But truthfully, you behaved in an unserious and nonchalant manner about your job and deserve to be sacked if he so desires. Make use of your senses next time. You're no longer a child.

The Op is at fault. . But which employer goes about slapping an employee? Is the Op his slave? He should have given him a sack letter if he desired. .. or a query after which decision will be taken. .

That Lebanese man is simply a tout.. Imagine going physical because someone missed a day at work ... The weed he smokes must be Oshogbo weed

enoqueen:
And u av to use patience pic, it's OK.

That's the role she's known to act very well na

It's not even a stereotype, it's insanity saying most MILs are diabolic. .. because almost all women in Nigeria are MILs or potential MILs... abi every woman don become diabolic?

Seriously op, you're a nice person. ..

Anyway, I for one can't stay with a guy that hasn't broken up with his ex .. He can't be keeping both of you at the same time .. One relationship at a time... He should define his stand!
Also, he's scared of hurting the other lady by breaking up with her which shows he still loves her somehow. .. I won't be surprised if he goes back to her when you have a little disagreement because I feel your companionship adds to what's keeping him away from the lady..

Give him a break, let him sort himself.. then, come back for you if he wishes!

sugah:
Abeg mamas is it normal to still be having cramps at 13 weeks? I thought the cramping was only supposed to be in the early weeks.

You're already 13 weeks? Sure you ain't an August mama? Why are you in Sept?

You're just too soft Op... Imagine chatting with ex lovers while on the same bed with you. .. what nerves??
Tell her to stop any communication she has with any ex from today or else you help her stop it..be mean and firm while telling her this!!

Don't let anyone push you into illegitimate stuff because if you're caught, she will just continue with her life while you languish. .Besides, it's not just right. ..
There are many ways to increase your income legally. .
Pay deaf ears to her comparisons...mtcheeew
Wonder if she didn't see those rich people before saying I do to you. ..
Also, some women have also achieved a lot for themselves financially, what has she achieved?

Omoakinsuyi:
Arsenal 3 Barcelona 2. Messi will be injured and he will be out for the rest of the season

why evil na? I bind you! !!!!!

God don butter the children bread oo

Nice one Ben...

E383:
Let me know when next you come around. Would nice to see you.

No problem uncle

E383:
Hi mom! . I am sorry, I totally forgot.

Lols... it's alright.
I totally understand

Chidoks:
Physical and verbal abuse isn't part of it. He will never do it. I trust him and God willing, he will never betray that trust.
As for the cheating part, leave matter o. I don't want to raise dust here but believe me when I say I love him deeply, unconditionally!!

Nobody is praying for such.. just to let you know that love has conditions. .
You may love him because he doesn't abuse you..then his other good qualities..
But if he ever beats you, your love for him will never be same again...eettccc

There are reasons we love! There must be some kind of attachment. ..

I understand you love your spouse a lot but.....

Op,.....Hmmmm, really don't think there's anything like unconditional love because there are things/qualities/conditions ettcc, that make us love who we love!

Chidoks:
My husband and my mum. I could give up treasures for them. I can't seem to stay angry with them. Just can't begrudge them.

will you still love your husband as much as you do now if he cheats or abuses you? (God forbid though, just a question)

To me, it's no problem contributing financially to running our own house.. it's our thing..

However, I also would want men to know that it's 'our thing' when it comes to housekeeping, cooking, child care ettccc..
You can't be working same hours and your wife would be doing chores alone. ..mba nu .

work together with your spouse, contribute in any area when need be.. You're together in everything!

doziep:
@presva hv urs bin updated cos I didn't see such in mine

Yeah, it has been updated. .. you'll see fees to pay et al...

Go to SGS official website, you'll see registration procedure there..
The first is to pay your school fees...then....

Weldone Barce!

Meanwhile, can't wait for Barce to crush Arsenal tomorrow

RIP in advance Arsenal

It's pathetic people don't read before commenting. . See the useless comments on all the pages! Some people are already saying it's the normal thing these days..mtcheeew!

The message was simply about cervical cancer! The story is all fiction. .

goodfornothing:
The physical appearance is the first attraction before other interests. How old are you? No offense

I should be the one asking you how old you're because girls with big tommy keep getting married every Saturday. ..

EOD..

goodfornothing:
Marriage pressure is always on the lady, not the man

It's people like you that put pressure on the women. .

Exercise and healthy diets should be encouraged on both genders... Everyone deserves to have a healthy life. .

Also marriage goes way beyond physical appearance.