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Hmmmm. . So he would live the rest of his life carrying someone else's Pen!s...
better than having none shaa...

Wish them a successful surgery. .

Men with big tommy may never marry too na abi?

Mtcheeew

Annie should go and 'fight' her husband instead of the lady... Someone can't 'destroy' your home without an insider! Fight the fight from within!

She may never win the fight though

Does he cuddle the pants or what? So disgusting

Careless manufacturer. . All they're after is money..

Op, buy your pepper yourself, then grind either at home or at a neat Mill.. it's well..


Ps: just giving your story a benefit of doubt because the pictures prove nothing..

Firstly, go ask him for your employment letter .. You may need it even in the future. ..

princechina:
Pls get my point. I won't have bothered myself if she found another guy but my guy whom I introduced her to & has been advising me on several occasions on how to handle the girl

Stop calling that guy your friend. . He isn't a friend. . He probably started eyeing the lady even when you were dating her .. It's so unfortunate you were going to a fellow competitor for advice. .He got the slightest chance now that they're serving together and he struck! He's no friend please! There are so many ladies around na!

Concerning the lady, won't blame her much because you guys have broken up but I really pity her because I'm almost sure the guy is using her for nysc fling!

I will say you move on! The guy is not worth your emotions. . Know the kinda friends you keep!

Sadly, I won't advise you quit since no plan B yet... stay there and work towards your plan B, then leave when it materialises. .

Your family needs a source of income so quitting isn't an option!

missKiffy:
LaurelP am not confuse, just wanted to hear people's experience

Quitting without a backup plan is an individual thing.. won't be same for everyone. .

Your ability to cope will depend on your determination, what responsibilities you have, how much money you have saved already..then do you have someone/people who can bear your responsibilities if another source of income doesn't come soon?

However, I think you should have a plan already no matter how small or blur..you can't quit and start staying at home... staying at home doing nothing could be more terrible than your workplace. .

All the best. ..

It's alright bro... Your marriage is what you make of it..starting from choosing the right partner for the RIGHT reasons... that many people may have bad marriages doesn't mean yours will be bad as well... it's all up to you..
The positive feedbacks you get should be enough to encourage you..stop dwelling so much on the negative. . I quoted you because people always see one as a liar when one has lil or nothing negative to say about his/her marriage. . Of course no one is perfect but your spouse's negative side(s) should be something you can live with...

Concerning my own marriage, we have known each other for almost eight years and I will marry him over and over again. .. infact in my nxt world, I wouldn't wait for my early twenties to marry him, will marry him once I become an adult ... The kind of joy he gives me, no other can.. only get that kinda joy when singing praises in the church. .. I'm very optimistic it will remain so for us, Amen. ..
it's well

chigoizie7:
Don't get me wrong sis. I ve never been married b4, perhaps, I do ask questions about marriage, and I most of the times get negative responses, it is not as if the positive responses outweighs the negative ones. I get lots of bad news about marriage, even though I try to ask questions about why it has to be so considering the fact that my parent have been married for close to 30yrs and still happy in it, I kinda likened the situation to the younger generations and their civilised life styles, @ some point I got sacred of marriage because I wouldn't want to be unhappy in it, it might bring divorce but @ the same time, I can't bring innocent kids to this word only to torment them with a broken home. I know I am not ready to marry yet, but I still try to get opinions from people who are married, and that was what brought me into this very thread. And I was surprised that majority are happy in their marriages, so I asked questions where I became confused based on what I ve been hearing in d past about modern day marriages.


Sister, I am not a bad belle, I don't like negative news, I am just a guy who is so inquisitive as to what he will expect in future and den start getting ready for it now.

chigoizie7:
If marriage has been so sweet for all, who d ones messing around? Killing demselves @ will?

You came to the thread hoping to see only 'bitter' posts abi? That's why you ignored even those that may have written something 'bitter' because you expected more...seems many people have something positive to say...

Bad news no dey tire una? No wonder 'negative comments always get the most likes...

Many people are enjoying their marriages oga, just that people always choose to get attracted to negative/sad news. ...hence negative news make rounds often!
It's well. .

Why was it connected at the first place? Who instructed the electrician to do so?

It's well Cheerychy. . Your doctor friend told you right. . You need a scan to confirm whether evacuation is needed or not..preferably after 2 weeks; from the day you started bleeding...

Well for me, my husband did no analysis. . then, scan showed everything was alright with me... no treatment received, we just continued 'kpetusing'...

However, I don't know whether quality of sperm has anything to do with blighted ovum...

Mine happened much earlier, at about 6weeks. ..

It's well

The best husband isn't necessarily a woman wrapper. .it's just the way we perceive men that treat their wives well that makes us see them as woman wrapper. ..

Nevertheless, it's not such a bad thing to be a 'woman wrapper' to your wife.. I know I can be my husband's wrapper anytime any day. .. our satisfaction is what matters most!

Lol op, you couldn't wait for March to reach..

Happy birthday to your cutie. . Wish her a wonderful future. .

Marxxx:
Ok....pls do not quote me again thanks.....!!!

Sorry if my comment(s) offended you, ok?. . It's your life , it's your choice ..
Wish you and your ex the very best. .. #peace

Op, go and create threads in the business section, family, technology, career, ettcc .. you'll attract better people who may want to do business with your husband. .. However, be wary of scam...

I wish you and your husband well..

singlefade25:
Hahahahahahaha, see life o.

my dear oo.. .. when he was with the lady for many years, 'chopping' her money on top, he didn't know the lady was 'dull', not a go getter and not posh... He suddenly wants the lady to completely change into what he wants her to be without knowing it will take time and also a change of environment/lifestyle....
Or it's not just in the lady which isn't her fault afterall she has been herself from day 1 of d relationship not like she disguised herself so the op knew her kinda person from day 1... this life ehhh

Anyway, breakup happens. ... life must go on!

Cheerychy , got your pm but unfortunately can't access the email I used to open nairaland. . You can drop your mail so that I can reach you. ..

It's well with us. .

StPete:
Call ur ex and mend ways. According to ur previous stories, she has been there for you all along. I guess your attitude must hav pushed her to breaking point.

We are nothing but dust. If what you're earning currently is getting to ur head, remember that you're not among the 1st million to own a hefty bank account. Forget ur current position and relate wit ur ex like it has always been from d onset.

What's hefty about his account? I bet you his salary isn't up to 200k. . He's just so full of himself. . Wonder how he would have treated the lady if he were to be working in an oil firm. .

His business anyway. .seems I'm getting emotional here..

Chaiiii. ..so you finally broke up with that lady.. cos she wasn't posh enough for you. . Someone that was with you when you had nothing and even sponsored some of your dealings. .

It's your decision anyway and I can't tell you to be with her out of pity...I hope you don't regret it later when you get a 'posh' lady..

That lady will get someone better. . Really wish I can get her contact so that I can encourage her...

Another way to check if your name is out is to log in to http://cgs.uniportdatacenter.net/portal with your application number ... those with admission have been updated...

Cc shodexy et al

shodexy:
The school is not organized at all...all these kind of things should be available online

Exactly! Schools like Unilag will even send you sms and email to notify you of your admission. .

It's well..

Wonder when lectures will start when some people are still submitting application forms. .Thought application ended last year. ..

shodexy:
Can some pls take d pictures of the lists and paste it here

Taking pictures is actually so hard. . The list is sooo scattered on the pillars and boards.. not organised at all

The list is out. . Went there today... Saw my name

I think there would be more names shaa as the ones pasted are really small and I met some people still submitting their application forms...

Chaiii.. e no easy o.. women are strong. .

I really pray God to help me.. want a be a good mother and a lovely wife till death calls! , Amen...

Happy birthday. . Wish you a wonderful future. .

Drunken woman ..

Didn't even get her husband nada...

Tpiar , why all these foods na? ?

Omojudy:
I am sorry sweetie but you will have to be evacuated to avoid infections and prepare your body for your rainbow baby.

I really don't think evacuation is a must. . I had a miscarriage in November and no evacuation done. . Everything was passed out naturally. .
She'll have to do a scan after d bleeding to check for remnants. .if there's no remnant, then no need for evacuation. .

Cheerychy , continue taking lots of water. . Concerning when to start having sex again..I don't know oo but me and my husband resumed immediately the bleeding stopped, the first day I noticed there was no more blood
I conceived again the next cycle immediately my period came back... However, you can even conceive without seeing your period because in many cases after miscarriage comes ovulation and normal cycle continues. .

All in all, visit your gynaecologist and hear him out.. it's well with us..

Which one we go come believe now?

Whatever though, wish him quick recovery if he's ill...

Firstly, your wife has to be patient and work with you... putting pressure on you will worsen it.. her threatening to go outside for satisfaction is utter nonsense to me ... You're willing to deal with the situation, why can't she just support you?

Coming to your issue, could it be you're always so anxious during sex? Because I know lasting long in bed has a lot to do with the mind..how relaxed you're et al..

Also, have you considered satisfying your wife through the oral route? Most women experience orgasm through @ral sex.. then, hand stimulation too..

You can also consider seeing a good urologist.
All the best...