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What attracted me to him was his gentleness. . He wasn't like so many other guys in my lodge... he was cooking his food, never saw him in a joint drinking beer, very religious, intelligent and well coordinated. .

Also his gap teeth. .I hope he transfers it to our kids

posh8701:
Many thanks

You're welcome. . You'll be fine ok?

nickxtra:
Thanks, on the issue of sleeping on floor instead of her crib?

why would you be lying your baby on a bare floor? That's harsh.. is it because of the hot weather or what?

posh8701:
Thanks for your comments, Didn't go to chemist or pharmacy, lol went to a clinic...thinking i could learn from peoples experiences.

Maybe you haven't been able to completely treat the malaria hence it keeps reoccurring. . I suggest you take another malaria test after the current treatment and see if it's completely gone or not...so that maybe you can further the treatment or not..

Also, could also be your immune system is poor hence you contract infections at any slightest opportunity. . Eat more vegetables and fruits. .. then keep your environment devoid of mosquitoes. .

Bottomline: treat the current malarial infection to the zero level and make sure it's gone completely..then mind your diet and environment. .if there's no mosquito bite, there won't be malaria. .

All d best. ..

The current weather is so terrible .. as na only me and my husband dey, I'm always half-unclad in the house. ..

However, my major problem is that I develop cold and blocked nose when I stay under d fan for a little while even in this hot weather. .
What I do now is to cover myself completely in the night so that my husband can sleep with the fan on cos there's no option of sleeping in separate rooms...

It's well..

"Men don't look good in aprons" ..is kitchen for fashion?

if your wife falls ill or becomes heavily pregnant, you starve because men don't look good in aprons. . Hunger never catch you. .

If the apron is your problem, then don't wear it...

Yeah, marriage isn't a poverty alleviation program...

However, a man who's ready to settle down should have something doing so as to be able to cater for his family. . Just as a lady ready to settle down should be good at home keeping et al...

Above all, there should be strong love( which goes beyond materialism) among couples so that they can be able to strive and work together if hardship calls!

onauchi:
hi pls can u pls open your own page. this is mine. thanks

I love your passion, I hope your dad gets something soon

Cheers. .

Why is the woman in question bothered? Doesn't she have a mother as well? Let her shower love and care for her mum too more than she does for her husband and let her mum have all the say in their marriage. . The man will feel good right?

Mummy's boy that refuse to grow up.. the Bible also says that a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife! !

Op, i can't marry such a man because before he does anything in the family, he seeks the consent of his mum.. and will report you to his mum at any slightest argument. . Can't deal.. the man needs to grow up!

Showing love to a mother is different from being a mummy's boy.. the latter is immaturity!

That's the crazy world we live in now.. indecency is celebrated and seen as keeping up.. so pathetic

Concerning teenagers, they're being deceived to believe you have to look 'hot' to get a guy or keep a guy... Some of them think that's what guys 'like' and in a bid to keep up, they dress indecently.... that's lack of self esteem and bowing to peer pressure ...
A decent person knows you don't have to change yourself to attract anyone, you're who you're. .. and indecency will only attract indecency...
Teenagers need better orientations. .

Also, the 'celebrities' they watch on the tv, social media et al play a huge part. . That's why you'll see a boy wearing up to two tops with a jacket under a hot sun in a bid to be like wizkid
We also have the likes of davido smoking on screen
Children are largely influenced by what they see..

Then, some adults who are supposed to be counselling the young ones dress indecently themselves..

It's well...

Is she really 21? Looks way older than that.

This one no be football age , na modelling age..

STFUareyouGod:
Now that we've seen him, Naira will equal Dollar before midnight. And Sardine will start coming with heads. Right?

But seriously, why don't sardines come with heads? very funny. .

Op, your nephew is cute..

gidjah:
Of the truth?,my love for her is about 30% o!if i have my way, would love to reverse the whole scenario and fly some where else,honestly i am just not too good with it, but i am trynig to flow along with the tide.(almost a decade now). IF U LIKE JUDGE UR DESTINY, I AM ONLY BEEN SINCERE UNLIKE SOME OF..........

Couldn't you drop your comment without the last statement?
You're judging others while saying nobody judges you

Op, change the title of your thread to something like: would you marry your spouse over again? And you'll get more views. .

So selfish of her.The signs were there but you ignored it.... Since she can't come to terms with you helping your siblings, do it secretly... Please don't stop helping when you can; we all need somebody to lean on when things ain't going right. ..

Funny enough, you give to her own siblings and she doesn't complain. . mtcheeew

However, do not let this disrupt your family. . Appreciate her other good qualities while working towards this one. . All d best..

Bollove:
My Guy. When u are building a career and woman wanna hold u down.
Just do the needful. let her go, when u are made. The best one will come.

Guy, forget that thing. . There should be a limit to everything. .. Imagine, he's career freak, didn't have time for his ex et al.. good the girl moved on.. when he gets married too, he'll be at the office 24/7 at the expense of his family. . How would he feel if his wife does same? Relationship requires you give your partner some kinda attention. .. he should find a balance please. .

^^^^^ It's alright mindfulness. . Yeah, to each his opinion.

Cheers. .

Mindfulness:
Do I have to make a list of all the things my husband and I have done before and after we met each other for people and whole communities in Nigeria before I am allowed to speak?
Like seriously?

The question is.. how does talking it here help the situation?
I really doubt if the white woman that helped the boy accused of witchcraft went about badmouthing Nigeria. . She saw the help needed and ACTED accordingly. . It's mostly we Nigerians that badmouth our own country while doing nothing or something close to nothing. . Besides, everyone already knows that 'everything' is wrong with Nigeria. . Should we applaud people for stating the obvious?

My point is.. ACTION speaks better in this regard. . That's all..

Her story is motivational, yeah.. but I really wish those who make innovations like building something extra ordinary, could be given attention like this.. Sadly, they don't. ..that's why we remain backwards. .

All the best to her... her husband should however brace up because he has got plenty competitors, this is Nigeria. ..

Why must they use a public platform? Mtcheeew. ..

Or how are we sure it isn't another publicity stunt?

Oga, stop running from your responsibilities. . When you were impregnating her you didn't know she was ill mannered.

Once may be a mistake but twice?

Please don't chase the mother of your kids into the streets. . Sort your differences and make amends. .both of you, not just her because I know you have your faults too...

thelish:
Exactly my point. The boy might be misbehaving becos he knows dad got his back. If he sees a combined effort, he will change. And never discipline ur wife in ur son's presence. It gives them liver to misbehave. Even if her method is annoying to u, don't show it there, instead act angry at him. U can do d correction to ur wife later. with that, she will learn ur technique.
She feels ur supporting ur son, hence her refusal to adhere to ur method.

Yeah. . And now the boy is beginning to resent his mum.. seeing her as an enemy. . You don't have to oppose your wife in your son's presence. . It's well

Cutienik , I wonder why you're bothered by some silly talks from some irrelevant individuals. . You have to learn to ignore. ..

You tried sef, by the time you give birth, the first will be two years...
Me, na mercy Johnson style of birth sure pass.. i have my target. . What anyone says is none of my business..

EfemenaXY:
But the lady in question is a foreigner, isn't she?

Where were all the so-called "kind hearted" Nigerians within that child's vicinity for the 8 months he was left to his own devices roaming the streets, whilst the life slowly drained out of his little body?

Or was the child in the middle of the dessert on his own? It laughable you say you admire the lady who came to his rescue. A lady, who under normal circumstances would be viewed as "irresponsible" with all her visible tattoos, doing the decent, human thing. Why did it have to be a foreigner showing Nigerians the right thing to do?

What she demonstrated was basic human empathy. A basic emotion, (judging from how long that child was ignored) which apparently isn't that basic amongst your average Nigerian.

Now I see the aim of your argument; to demonise Nigeria. . I thought you cared but I was wrong, it's still same same blame, bla bla bla...

Yes Nigeria needs help, You know that..how have you tried to help in your little way? That young lady in the write up saw the help needed by Nigeria and she's helping out in her own way... She didn't try to state the obvious that Nigeria is this that and that, rather she's making things right with her actions. .
However, all you guys do here is talk talk talk, blame, bla bla bla .. no action at all which is useless. . You folks that are enlightened, why don't you be change you want to see?

Since you ain't here to offer solution, I will say stop crying more than the bereaved.. You have a good life abroad, don't you? Enjoy it and leave us to 'toil' here in Nigeria na... why all the rants since you ain't affected?

What you people don't know is that Nigeria is still a developing country with so many ignorant peeps who do things thinking they're right... Comparing it with a developed country is useless. . Hopefully, Nigeria will be better. ..

Some people have been waiting since 2014 for training school.. also, they haven't concluded the ongoing graduate recruitment they started with workforce...now a new vacancy? ?

Issorait, na them sabi..

Peeps like this lady here: https://www.nairaland.com/2938462/meet-hope-2-year-old#42993833, are those I admire. . They try to help the situation and not all about complaints and blames..

If you can form a foundation and help some of the 'bad' situations mentioned here, then why don't you?

Can't hold back tears..jeeezz
So people are still this ignorant in Nigeria? Some other kids may be going through same now
God help Nigeria; We need more love, compassion and human feeling. .

Thank you African Children's Aid Education and Development Foundation.. more power to your elbow

Hope is destined for greatness

I really don't understand the point of these arguments here.. Nigeria is a mess, yes we all know that.. and So? Everyone should run or what? How would all these complaints here help make Nigeria better? That's what I really don't know
We all keep complaining and yet nothing is being done.. it's funny we keep blaming other people when we have done nothing ourselves. ..


Op, You can choose to live a 'happy' life wherever you are.. You can't tell me everyone living abroad is happier or better than those in Nigeria.. happiness is a choice. .

And please stop comparing US or other developed countries with Nigeria. . Nigeria is still a developing country na ... hopefully, Nigeria will be better for our children.. Amen..

Symptoms or not! Only a positive test will confirm your pregnancy. .Stop getting worked up dear...
Be patience and test when due.. all d best..

Do you discipline your kid at all? How have you tried to help your wife op? Since her method isn't working?

Or you're just critising her without offering a helping hand/solution?

Also, hope you don't tell her all these in front of the kid..

I'm not supporting your wife but how have you helped to remedy the situation?

Is sex for couples sinful? Why d abstinence during fasting?

345# to 1$ ... God help us..


Meanyl, my brothers wey dey places like USA go dey build better house for village now/dey do investments.. Imagine your money being worth more than double of what it was before.