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Saintmary:
hmm. My sister, some women baffle me. They will refuse to train their sons, then advise the wives to hang on.

keepingmum:
So the only reason she's considering a divorce is because her husband called her and her siblings orphans? NOT because of the incessant DV, emotional abuse and all?

Should a third party prevail she will be happy to remain as long as he apologises abi?

She should well done!!! The I must remain MRS crew, the god forbids divorce crew, the I don't want my Shildren 2 grow up in a broken home gang

Pls tell her 2 remain in the marriage, after all she is a working nurse, she can cater for herself and treat any injuries inflicted on her by her beloved horseband. ......the day he bangs her head on the wall and she dies, she ll get automatic ticket 2 heaven for upholding her vows as the good long suffering Christian wife that she is ......she can also serve as guiding angel 2 her 4 children who will be maltreated by their stepmum incessantly... . Shielding them from eating poisonous food as we see on nollywood

Chukazu:
this is reconstruction not renovation

rheether:
I hate living in bungalows

solasolasola:
25 years?

isbish:
Wow! Just one of that can change someone's miserable life somewhere. I wish they could distribute them to the very less privileged. It will be better than burning and destroying them. I am sad.

chiraqDemon:
I didnt and ill never
I dont even want to see his face again

chiraqDemon:
As a guy i support thia your talk
But they will never shame d guy cos it is not written on the guy's forehead that he is loading pregnancy somewhere but as for the girl it is always with her
Another thing is the way naija is...if a guy gets u pregnant and does not want to accept the marriage then u can take him to court n get ur child support n other entitlements
Its why single parenthood outside africa is less scary than here; because u cant run from your responsibility, but here if a guy decides to abandon the girl then everybody just puts curses and goes their way.....
Guys will avoid impregnating girls anyhow if they know that they will surely be the ones to take care of the kids

D one that pains the most is when the child has grown and made it then one day u come home and see somebody saying he is ur father.....the way i vexed for momsi for allowing the bastard into her house eh...i just chased him out....if u were not there b4 then dont come now that i dont need u

obadizena:
,

Low Self-esteem and Depression go hand in hand. So, it will really help if u take steps to overcome it.
HINT - Some resources to help u :-
U may like to measure urself on the Rosenberg's Self-Esteem Scale :

http://www.wwnorton.com/college/psych/psychsci/media/rosenberg.htm


U may also try the Sorensen Self-Esteem Test :

www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f26/take-the-sorensen-self-esteem-test-160511/


BREAKING THE CHAIN OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM by Dr. Marilyn J. Sorensen is an excellent book to start with.

Best of luck!

cidieschat:
They are lesbians.... Forget who videos who... Finish