₦airaland Forum

virginprincess:
My dear sister pls if you are in america just look for an american to marry because africa men (nigeria men especially) are the worst set of men to ever get married to(though not all),most of them are only after what they will gain from you like money and free visa abroad,and also nigeria men are very good at cheating so pls if you don't want to get your heart broken avoid africa men(nigeria men) to avoid had i know.








Modified: I can see many nairaland males are pained by my comment, why are you guys bitters is it not the same thing you people do to women everyday, when your fellow man say derogatory things about women you cheer him up but when the table is turned you guys start roaring like a lion, if it was an america man that is asking for an africa woman to marry I'm sure you guys would have said worst about africa women, mind you I didn't generalized (not all men), continue barking I don't care afterall truth is bitter.

Cheating rate in America is higher than it is in Nigeria..

Whazar:
Mad Putin should just rest

I thought this war would be over by now the way they hyped this Russia

No be only 2020 overhyping kill, E touch Russia too

Baba calm down, Russia is fighting with NATO, on top saction.
USA went to war in Afghanistan with UK, Austria and other allies and with sactions, yet she still fought for decades there and still left without winning.

There is nothing in hype. Wars are not easily won. The koko is the effects. Ukraine has been over hit and many cities destroyed. That is the issue. Anyone who expected Russia to win within days is a liar.

Russia didn't even go to the war with allies. Just her self.
This is something USA has not even done. USA can never fight any war alone. Russia has tried even with all the sactions they imposed on her.

Nigeria didn't get any saction when she fought Biafra. Biafra wasn't a country, Biafia didn't get the type of deadly support Ukraine is getting.

Yet, Nigeria fought for 3 years and had to resolt to food blockage to win. So, u see, wars are dynamic.

Pleads:
The world has left Africa behind

The world left u behind because the west forced u into countries that can't work.
A lot of u don't know how much damage the colonial and slave trade did to ur race.

Up till this day, many black countries are still fighting ethnic wars.. Why?

Ethnics forming countries should be based on mutual love and interests and not forced.

The French messed up their colonies and still finishes them till date, the UK messed up her colonies till date.
Take Nigeria for instance, the country out of ethnic interests among the various ethnic groups can never practice a viable political system and can never elect credible leaders.
Why? The ethnic groups didn't form Nigeria. They were forced into it and there is no natural love, mutual interest and coexistence. And there can never be.

The west understands this and they also played out same trick in the middle east.

Faber:
042 dey clean pass this Kigali, Kigali get better ghetto, I visited in 2019 October and took some snapshots...

If I get 10 mentions I post the pics here.

Things dey cost, babes dey cheap ...

Me: " Mon bebe excusiez moi"
Kigali babe: "bien"
Me: " Tu es belle"
Kigali babe: smiles
Me: " Tu t' Apelles comment?"
Kigali babe"says her name eg: Aurore, atfa didine bla bla"

Omoh convo go from there enter... you know as e dey be na

Even New York has ghetto.
When they voted Namibia to have the best roads in Africa, it doesn't mean that Namibia doesn't have bad roads too.
It shows that greater parts of their roads are well built. Same applies to this Kigali.

kenzysmith:
We Nigerian men are the biggest pretenders we will all form holy than thou just to deceive the gullible around us why we watch porn in our phones we come on line to bash women and girls on line but we can't stay for a month without looking for toto
If hypocrisy have a meaning I think we Nigeria mean is the clear definition

Pastor they pretend for public but dey beg in the secret

Oga, calm down. There are places u don't just do as u like. At least, don't wear what the place of worship doesn't permit. U can wear whatever u like.
At least, don't go about watching porn in the public. Or having sex in the public.
There are right places for anything.

jesmond3945:
no it is a problem when you go behind your wife to do it. If you want to marry a second wife go ahead but carry your wife along.

what if he told her? Are u jugding based on her comment on his post? She could have said that even if she was aware of the move.

Candidlady:



They will call us names but will never see the madness in marrying 2 to 18 wives...

Lil wonder one died prematurely all because he wanted to make himself the new generation Solomon!! Dumb brown region
Again some women get mind iswaer!! Be a second wife talkless of number 18 ..

He Had to even bleach his skin too just to look younger!! Y.....a demons indeed


Men
Are
Nutcase

No one stopped a woman from marrying two husbands.
Go out there, woo a man, and woo the second, or even the third, go and marry him, bring them home.
Women already have multiple sex partners. Marriage is just mere formality. The problem with women is that they hate to woo men. Women want men to chase them. That is the issue.
U guys have to stop that. Go and woo men.
No one is holding you all from doing same.
Ladies already have multiple partners. Marriage is just mere formality. Some ladies are into serious relationship with three men sef.

jesmond3945:
I think is because Yul came off as somebody with integrity, somebody that can do no wrong, a family dotting man. He was always advising people on Instagram. People followed him because of this.

So, marrying a second wife means you have no integrity?
Bible didn't condemn this thing bra. There is a difference between a sin and an advice. If u can take up multiple wives, and u can be responsible to them, fine.
Everyone must not be the same. Muslims don't have issues with this, same as traditionalists, same as some of us.

Ishilove:
I wonder what happened to cheating responsibly. All these would have been avoided if he had simply used a condom.

What is wrong with you all? It is not a must to marry one woman, pls. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
If the first woman is not happy about it, she is free to apply for divorce and get compensated.
If he divorces his wife now, you all will still blame him.
She is free to leave.
I like that he handled this maturely and made it public. Not secret kind of relationship.
Guy man looks happy.
U don't know what he maybe lacking in marriage.. Humans are so quick to judge others.
The woman is an adult, she knew he is married, she accepted. The wife is an adult, she is free to leave and surely would be compensated.
Everything must not be seen from the western lifestyle.
Davido has many baby mamas. That is more like having many wives. These ladies, some of them dig him alone and have his kids.
The last time I checked, marrying more than one woman is allowed traditionally, islmaically, even in old testament, practically, only western culture which is mainly new testament doesn't support it.
In many societies, women also marry more than one husband if she can. No one is stopping anyone.
I would only feel bad that the first wife wasn't informed, also if the man doesn't take good care of her or abandoned the family.

Mariangeles:
New testament Christianity? Now, that's a new one!

Hahahaha.
Yes, because the old testament didn't have issue with multiple wives

janedonez:
Thought twas a joke.
Can we still find men with dignity?

Come on, everyone must not be a new testament christain pls. If she cant accept his choice, she can file for a divorce, I'm sure he has properties for them to share..

It is only new testamenet christainity that carried this thing for head,

Bolaji26:
No be soldier and police again, na police and NSDCS now.

Soldiers have taught police to invade sister security units in high numbers. This style is known to be carried out by soldiers in Nigeria.
Mopol have learnt from them.

[quote author=princemillla post=112136003]Turkey is wise in their decision.

West is playing double faced game with Ukraine and sadly zelensky is playing into their hands all in the name of we need amunitions. Scores of Ukrainian has lost their lives on what can be followed thru diplomatically. [/quote
I said this earlier. This whole war was made by the USA. The current USA president is known for this along with his party.
This was a war to fight Russia by proxy and Russia knew this.
There are two countries USA sit down to discuss about their rising influence. These two countries are China and Russia.
USA can't risk a war directly with Russia or China. So, they came up with provokation.
If they succeed wit this, they will do same thing with China.
USA is such a terrible country. Why can't they just allow other countries rise?
If they sense that u are entering deal with another country, they find a way to scatter it so that they can get the contract.
They did this with Australia recently and France was angry. They nearly setup France against UK.
It is a pity Europe is now a complete puppet to USA.
This is why Russia is fighting. It is more of an external war with USA. So, USA used sanctions to weaken Russia. It was a well calculated war by the USA.

Kingsnairaland:
EU fell right into US trap!
The Ukrainian crisis has nothing to do with Ukraine. It’s about Germany and, in particular, a pipeline that connects Germany to Russia called Nord Stream 2. Washington sees the pipeline as a threat to its primacy in Europe and has tried to sabotage the project at every turn. Even so, Nord Stream has pushed ahead and is now fully-operational and ready-to-go. Once German regulators provide the final certification, the gas deliveries will begin. German homeowners and businesses will have a reliable source of clean and inexpensive energy while Russia will see a significant boost to their gas revenues. It’s a win-win situation for both parties.

The US Foreign Policy establishment is not happy about these developments. They don’t want Germany to become more dependent on Russian gas because commerce builds trust and trust leads to the expansion of trade. As relations grow warmer, more trade barriers are lifted, regulations are eased, travel and tourism increase, and a new security architecture evolves. In a world where Germany and Russia are friends and trading partners, there is no need for US military bases, no need for expensive US-made weapons and missile systems, and no need for NATO. There’s also no need to transact energy deals in US Dollars or to stockpile US Treasuries to balance accounts. Transactions between business partners can be conducted in their own currencies which is bound to precipitate a sharp decline in the value of the dollar and a dramatic shift in economic power. This is why the Biden administration opposes Nord Stream. It’s not just a pipeline, it’s a window into the future; a future in which Europe and Asia are drawn closer together into a massive free trade zone that increases their mutual power and prosperity while leaving the US on the outside looking in. Warmer relations between Germany and Russia signal an end to the “unipolar” world order the US has overseen for the last 75 years. A German-Russo alliance threatens to hasten the decline of the Superpower that is presently inching closer to the abyss. This is why Washington is determined to do everything it can to sabotage Nord Stream and keep Germany within its orbit. It’s a matter of survival.

That’s where Ukraine comes into the picture. Ukraine is Washington’s ‘weapon of choice’ for torpedoing Nord Stream and putting a wedge between Germany and Russia. The strategy is taken from page one of the US Foreign Policy Handbook under the rubric: Divide and Rule. Washington needs to create the perception that Russia poses a security threat to Europe. That’s the goal. They need to show that Putin is a bloodthirsty aggressor with a hair-trigger temper who cannot be trusted. To that end, the media has been given the assignment of reiterating over and over again, “Russia is planning to invade Ukraine.” What’s left unsaid is that Russia has not invaded any country since the dissolution of the Soviet Union, and that the US has invaded or toppled regimes in more than 50 countries in the same period of time, and that the US maintains over 800 military bases in countries around the world. None of this is reported by the media, instead the focus is on “evil Putin” who has amassed an estimated 100,000 troops along the Ukrainian border threatening to plunge all of Europe into another bloody war.

All of the hysterical war propaganda is created with the intention of manufacturing a crisis that can be used to isolate, demonize and, ultimately, splinter Russia into smaller units. The real target, however, is not Russia, but Germany. Check out this excerpt from an article by Michael Hudson at The Unz Review:

“The only way left for U.S. diplomats to block European purchases is to goad Russia into a military response and then claim that avenging this response outweighs any purely national economic interest. As hawkish Under-Secretary of State for Political Affairs, Victoria Nuland, explained in a State Department press briefing on January 27: “If Russia invades Ukraine one way or another Nord Stream 2 will not move forward.” (“America’s Real Adversaries Are Its European and Other Allies”, The Unz Review)

There it is in black and white. The Biden team wants to “goad Russia into a military response” in order to sabotage NordStream. That implies there will be some kind of provocation designed to induce Putin to send his troops across the border to defend the ethnic Russians in the eastern part of the country. If Putin takes the bait, the response would be swift and harsh. The media will excoriate the action as a threat to all of Europe while leaders around the world will denounce Putin as the “new Hitler”. This is Washington’s strategy in a nutshell, and the whole production is being orchestrated with one goal in mind; to make it politically impossible for the German Chancellor Olaf Scholz to wave NordStream through the final approval process. Hi

You have sense. Many Nigerians don't know this. I laugh. USA is actually doing all this and they are quite smart. The next they would love to blackmail into issues like this is China. They have been preparing for China foods since for over 10 years. They can't confront China or Russia face to face. They had to look for a way to setup crises within.
That has been their parttern.

This shameless pastor.. Very shameless human being accusing a tribe of something that is peculiar to humans generally.

These same igbos u said are evil to one another have raised millionaires and billionaires all by them selves using apprentice system.
My aunt husband have raised over 30 men thru the system who are doing over well for them selves.
Nonsense yeye shameless pastor.

tonididdy:
It's a NATO -Russia war clearly.
Ukraine was just bait



Only solution: Ukraine will be nucleared out of planet earth!

Im sorry for humanity. The next months would be bloody.
Russia now knows they are fighting nato. Matter go worse.
Russia won't give up easily

mactoni91:
Russia be wishing for war forgetting no one has the monopoly of Violence.

Ukraine has already lost so much infrastructures and people...

No doubt, the sinking of Moskva was coordinated by NATO and Executed by Ukrainian Armed forces.


I expect more coordinated high profiled attack on Russia's Infrastructures outside Russia.

The west is really smart.

They are baiting Russia gradually with Ukraine.

It is why Russia has accepted that it is world War. Lol
I just pity for humans. Russia maybe forced to use chemical weapons and this would provoke the west more. It is already a world War bro.
The west has finally landed humanity in problem.
Lol, Russia is big and won't give up. The next months will be bloody.

appishani1:
Declaring a world war three when you cannot win a country as depleted as Ukraine what a joke

Some of u here talk like pry school kids.

What she said is right. Russia is not fighting Ukraine alone. Russia has been fighting NATO all these while.
NATO and USA provides all the info and weapons and machineries Ukraine has been using.
This is what the Russia is saying. Russia is waking up to the fact that they are fighting western forces and not Ukraine. It is called proxy war. And this has been USA major plan.
Now, Russia has accepted this reality and will now face it as it is.

SocialJustice:
There is no special somebody for anyone. It boils down to individual decision to stay. There is also no sure path to happy marriage. Waiting until you're in your 40s to marry guarantees nothing. The most important thing is to have money so the relationship doesn't suffer financial stress, the rest boils down to commitment.

Correct talk

tutudesz:
NATO made that agreement and they have the right to change the agreement. Freedom of Association is a right of every individual and country

No be international politics baba.
If it is that way, seccessionists in Africa have right to form their own countries because their borders were created by the west.
But funny enough, the west will go gaga if Russia comes to recreate the borders of Africa.
So, let them destroy them selves

Rollsnjaguar:

Putin my man

I love the guy too much
This guy is a pin the ass of western countries

yanabasee:
These people performance outside this country are remarkable...


But soon as we gather them, they begin to play trash.....


If NFF will keep changing coaches, I think it's high time we change everyone in the NFF including the board directors and decision makers.... The problem might just be them....

The problem is not them. U can't gather players from different leagues and put them under two weeks preparation or one month preparation and expect result.
To build a competent national team, u need a strong local league so that u can blend ur national team with few foreign players.
More of ur players need to come from same league

He is doing the right thing because tomorrow now, you women lambast him online. So, let him gather evidence.
If he is reading this, he should save them in his Google cloud service.
I consider adults with bad mouth as irresponsible adults.
I don't know what makes women think that bad mouthing is cool. They can bad mouth but can't be hit.
Both physical and verbal abuses should be completely descouraged.

CrownedPhoenix:
Yes, deploy your military to the borders with Russia. After all, that's what Putin did before he invaded Ukraine. He deployed thousands of troops at the border with Ukraine.

Russia can't win this. Not in an all out. Not technically, economically or any how else. Their loss will be more evident in the long term.

Russia may seem to be surviving, the unnecessary hardship the country is suffering under sanctions is just as avoidable as the war itself.

NATO nations will keep poking Russia until Putin's ego will push him into disaster.
A single shot at a NATO nation, Putin will receive bombardments from all angles

U people are funny. U are talking to a nuclear powered country. U don't just invade them anyhow. They would use nuke and this becomes nuclear warfare.
This is what nato is avoiding. If not, nato would have invaded Russia since.
Europe don't want a nuclear war in Europe. Lol
Putin would use it if he senses that he would lose.

Look at how USA does not want other countries to interfere in her internal politics. But this same USA goes about interfering in other people's internal politics.
Shame.

That is all I can say.
Each day, our ladies become more evil here. Avoid them. If more men can avoid marrying them, good. Let abroad men marry them.

HarunaWest:
Amaechi no get chill. Whereas them sabi Emefiele mumu button. However one thing is sacrosant, if APC should hand the ticket to either Amaechi or Emefiele without Tinubu's blessing's, I fear they will loose the election to PDP cos Tinubu will comot hand for their matter kowai.

They will lose south west only. Nothing more. If he gets northern blessing, wins east and south south, he has won.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That's his issue..do anything funny..he gets dealt with..as far as I am concerned.. Putin will never use that nonsense on any country..

The day he does that..then that becomes the end of mother Russia..so that nonsense he is holding there is just for some Petty attention..

American used it in Japan, nothing happened to America.
My brother, no body wants to be nuked. Worse still, it becomes all nuclear war

Cubalabloo:
Now the whole wide world knows that the capital of a shite-hole continent does not have a president.

Shit hole continent..
The last time I checked, there pretty number of countries here that have electricity and well organized. No dey use Nigeria eye dey see others abeg. Naija cast be sey e cast.

abbey621:
Like I told you before check your grammar and overall comprehension skill, go and read about United Nations Security Council Resolution 1973. Because Libya already passed through one civil war, the resolution was adopted in case another one broke out. The implementation of the no fly zone was made possible by that resolution, you are right a no fly zone requires military enforcement but what you don't understand is that unless the U.N security council votes for it, it won't be possible. Do you know which countries make up the U.N security council? Because you keep blabbing about the USA this USA that but even Russia and China are part of that council.

I would love to keep educating your misguided ass but it would be a waste of my time and energy so PEACE!

U are the funniest empty human I have ever seen. First, you said NATO had no military intervention in Libya... That they only provided aids.. I showed u that NATO bombed Libya, u now changed it to oh, UN security council.
And who dey heck doesn't know about UN security council?
There were 10 votes in favour of nato intervention and 5 absentee.
Operation was led by France and UK with USA. USA influenced and her allies influenced the entire game.
And go and read again, nato has intervained in a non nato confrontation in another country.
The only reason they can't do shit to Russia is because it is nuclear armed. They can't try it. It would be a nuclear war and no one wants that.
Go and read this article. Even USA regretted what she did in Libya.

https://www.cato.org/commentary/how-nato-pushed-us-libya-fiasco
U are very unintelligent but brags too much.

abbey621:
You're misinformed, USA never led any war in Libya, please use facts rather than emotional jargon when conversing online. In case you really wanted to know, before the USA can lead any war, Congress must approve it. Furthermore, arming rebels/providing weapons to them is not the same as leading a war so correct your grammar please!

Finally, the US and NATO supplied weapons and other forms of assistance to Ukraine, same thing they did for Libyan rebels, the rest is up to Ukraine.

NATO and USA has said it many times that they can't confront Russia because she is nuclear armed. U don't mess with nuclear armed country anyhow because they can destroy eveything.
They have admitted that over and over again.

abbey621:
You're misinformed, USA never led any war in Libya, please use facts rather than emotional jargon when conversing online. In case you really wanted to know, before the USA can lead any war, Congress must approve it. Furthermore, arming rebels/providing weapons to them is not the same as leading a war so correct your grammar please!

Finally, the US and NATO supplied weapons and other forms of assistance to Ukraine, same thing they did for Libyan rebels, the rest is up to Ukraine.

Baba, NATO declared no flight zone in Libya and enforced it with their air strikes. You think you are discussing with one of these Nairaland wanabess.. Oga shift.

Look at this one sef. You really think you know shit. The same no flight zone Ukraine president has been begging NATO to declare in his country and NATO refused. To declare no flight zone, u need military to enforce it. NATO said they can't declare no flight zone because it would place them in direct confrontation with Russia. Go and read bro. U don't know shit.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.france24.com/en/20110524-tripoli-heaviest-nato-bombing-libya-gaddafi-airstrikes-helicopters-france
Go and read that article.