₦airaland Forum

kalu61:
Give me that money and I will fare better with it than going to Europe. There are alot of ideas domicile in Nigeria. Capital has always being the issue. l have a cousin who has been over see for 20years though married but with no single room here

If one is in heaven, why build a room in hell?
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Nig4Greatness:
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There's no point for loyalty debate here but it pains me when Nigerians don't see or talk about anything good about their country and continue to compare a developing country to a developed country.why don't we focus on where we are and forget about where we are not.
No Country is a paradise,I live in both worlds and i have visited every states or cities that matter in the US,I bet you they still have slums and developmental challenges in some areas,a country where both the young and adult have access to firearms and your safety is not guaranteed??.don't forget Puerto Rico is part of US territories and their living conditions is worse than that of nigeria,yet they didn't all moved to US mainland.
If you have not been a subject of racial abuse or discrimations means you have not gone far.my rental Suv was snatched at gunpoint on a broad day light on the street of Houston Texas two years ago.
If we contribute as much what we contribute to our adopted countries to our homeland,Nigeria would be better off.

Then what the fuxk are you doing there to the point of getting citizenship? Typical Nigerian hypocrite. Why not go to where they don't allow guns like UK or north Korea or better still, remain in Nigeria?

ollah2:
Isreal wants war with Iran. Trump is a figure head in white house because he is controlled by Netanyahu. Iran is a problem and they want to eliminate Iran, Iran is the biggest threat to Isreal in Middle East.

since Iran has made itself a problem threatening another nation, it has to be death with as one.

justtoodark:
what...??

waiiiiiiit....you care that i dont care that you care that i dont care...?

wait..... ....now i confused my self.....

Thats the aim.

Thesia:
Nowadays, Women seem to be successful than men, and that hurts men ego.

If you are a man and jealous of women above you in your damn career, you need a psychiatric treatment cause women who are successful nothing can bring them down.

Not even there supposed husband or father.

Argue with adiche and the rest.




So kindly take ur misogynist, narcissistic and high ego out of their life and focus on ur self.


Poor men can't control successful women cause they are afraid of them.


It only takes a few men to talk in their present.

Quote me right or wrong but am 100% right!

Which jealousy? Those successful women end up paying poor guys for a Bleep so wetin? Better for women to become more successful so men can flex. How much do i stand to gain from controlling a woman? If she no control herself, plenty are there even at a cheaper rate and the successful ones pay sef.

What ever money a man gives to a woman should be for giving sake cause it can never be a security of her love.

maiyee:
women are put under undue pressure, just look at this!! later women will be told to struggle in their careers so they don't become "liabilities" now someone is saying they should forget their career goals and embrace the concept of "family"
one of the worst places to be a woman is in Nigeria. You want her to be hard working, yet not too hardworking, smart but not really smart, career oriented but not much... like where do we draw the line? na wa oo! I think every ambitious Nigerian woman, who has a purpose for her life, that dosnt conform to the "Nigerian norm" should save money and leave this country...

Where you want to go women take responsibility from the dating process. There, women value and support men enough to shelter and fend for broke guys from niaja looking for visa without making noise about it . Exhibiting thesame sense of helpmate lacking in Nigerian girls.

maiyee:
women are put under undue pressure, just look at this!! later women will be told to struggle in their careers so they don't become "liabilities" now someone is saying they should forget their career goals and embrace the concept of "family"
one of the worst places to be a woman is in Nigeria. You want her to be hard working, yet not too hardworking, smart but not really smart, career oriented but not much... like where do we draw the line? na wa oo! I think every ambitious Nigerian woman, who has a purpose for her life, that dosnt conform to the "Nigerian norm" should save money and leave this country...

Where ever you go better develop a sense of being a helpmate otherwise......

maiyee:
women are put under undue pressure, just look at this!! later women will be told to struggle in their careers so they don't become "liabilities" now someone is saying they should forget their career goals and embrace the concept of "family"
one of the worst places to be a woman is in Nigeria. You want her to be hard working, yet not too hardworking, smart but not really smart, career oriented but not much... like where do we draw the line? na wa oo! I think every ambitious Nigerian woman, who has a purpose for her life, that dosnt conform to the "Nigerian norm" should save money and leave this country...

So you think there will be different? If you pursue feminism so much there you will still have to love-vendor a naija guy to have a man later later when the whole thing backfires. Be humble even there.

maiyee:
women are put under undue pressure, just look at this!! later women will be told to struggle in their careers so they don't become "liabilities" now someone is saying they should forget their career goals and embrace the concept of "family"
one of the worst places to be a woman is in Nigeria. You want her to be hard working, yet not too hardworking, smart but not really smart, career oriented but not much... like where do we draw the line? na wa oo! I think every ambitious Nigerian woman, who has a purpose for her life, that dosnt conform to the "Nigerian norm" should save money and leave this country...

Where you want to go, women take responsibility from the dating process. Women value and help men enough to shelter and fend for broke guys from niaja looking for visa without making noise about it thesame sense of helpmate lacking in Nigerian girls.

Surrey2Bimshire:
Let her decide that .. it’s simple

She knows what she wants and how to work around it .. easy peasy ..
I’m done .

Freedom brings responsibilities.

Surrey2Bimshire:
Wait wait ? A woman attaining her career goal etc is not loyal ?


Oh Flip I’ve forgotten I’m on a Nigerian page lol
I can’t imshine what some Nigerian women have to pull through (thank goodness I’m not Nigerian lol )
At this point I’ll most likely moon walk out of this post .. it’s a waste.
Cheers

What ever carear goal must not come at the expense of the home front for which I married her. Otherwise I will sit at home and she pays the bills without complaining like whites ladies do and I would have done.

Surrey2Bimshire:
The point is there are more men than women ..

It doesn’t matter if they decide to go to brothel or not (they’re definitely sleeping with other women there ) so your point exactly ?

The point is those many number of men wont allow any woman not loyal to them answer their name. They rather be free too from responsible and only pay as you go or get paid by the females for sex. Even many married men. Infact around after the second child birth when the grip down there is no longer as tight , many men lose interest in their wives and if not for her loyalty or contributions or what society will say, they will bolt to a younger tighter psy. Thats why there is alot of family break ups after second child birth (check well). Dont tell anybody i told you o.

Surrey2Bimshire:
She is her own person and has a right to chose to attain a certain height or not . You or society shouldn’t dictate what she wants or needs to her ..


It’s simple as that ..

Fine then my relationship with her starts and ends in either paying her for sex as olosho if i fancy her or she paying me for sex as sugar mummy if she fancies me. Me sef i dont like controlling anyone o. Its a completely different ball game if we are raising a family and i undertake to take full responsibilities.

Surrey2Bimshire:
“Hence her own person”

If she felt the need to sit and earn of you ..good for her and if she decide to earn more than you. It’s her choice

I don’t understand why you keep coming off with this sugar “mommy thingy “ like it’s a crime ?

Like fam , she decide what she wants

Who said its a crime? Infact which man wouldn't want to be making free bucks servicing them? I will even agree to do that for you if you will pay well. In that case whatever you decide to pursue is not my business since we are not raising a family. Am only pointing out the destination of the path you eulogize. That it ends in almost thesame place-being a helpmate to a man.

Ladyhippolyta88:
With your post like this please don't try to come close to my mentions next time.

See my friend from before. I didnt quote or insult you na. Wetin i do again by saying the simple truth for my lovely sisters to learn from?

Surrey2Bimshire:
Lies .. wake up and smell the coffee
There are more men than women in the world...
lol I’ll advice you leave the “bible “ out of this

The number of men is not the point. Most of those men will rather visit the nearest brothel regularly than be with an unloyal wife.

Surrey2Bimshire:
As said a woman has the right to choose or attain whatever she wants career,family ,religion etc . Without any restrictions..
She’s her own person first and that’s it ..

Good luck .

Fine. Then the woman should be ready to remain under her roof and maybe be the one to bring a man under her roof and pay bills as a sugar mummy or like whites who you want to emulate in feminism do. Thats all am saying. I cant bring you under my roof to pursue whatever who will help me in my own pursuit in the home front then?

justtoodark:
as if i care,wheather you care that i dont care....

I care that you dont care that i dont care. Agh so painful.

Thesia:
Where is it written, maybe in ur bible or in ur sister's dictionary....

So you never read reach that side for your Bible? 7 women will beg to answer a mans name. How do you think it will happen? Answer: Feminism!

Surrey2Bimshire:
Erm baby mama and sugar mummies ?
Are these women sleeping with themselves or breezy ?

Of course then they become humble or pay the bills of men. End point ....HELPMATE.

Surrey2Bimshire:
Help mate ..yup ...a woman is a human first, the creator gave women mind of their own .just so you know

That same God made them to be, yes-HELPMATE (that word devil is shifting women's brain from so they can end as baby mamas and sugar mummies).

Surrey2Bimshire:
Help mate ..yup ...a woman is a human first, the creator gave women mind of their own .just so you know

That same God made them to be yes HELPMATE (that word devil is shifting women's head from so they can end as baby mamas and sugar mummies).

jacyhelen:
98% of women will never agree to this!!!..All they can offer is Sex and noting but Sex..Lmao!!!...hahahahahha

Love you for not being beclouded by bias. Gat to follow you.

justtoodark:
as if i care about your rantings........

Lol..... as if i care whether you care or not.

Surrey2Bimshire:
I’m just here reading these comments and trying to understand what or where exactly did humanity go wrong ...
like why will any reasonable human felt the need to restrict a specific gender ..

Hmm

What you call restriction is necessary for family and society to work. When both genders roam free who will take care of the home front? Have you ever heard about division of labor and natural specialization? God made women to be helpmate to man . So the man decides to the woman which area he needs the help.

When men do certain jobs they naturally play their role of paying bills in the home without making noise about it. With women its a different story. Very soon men go vex chill for house cook and ask their wives to work and provides.

Thesia:
All I know is that no man will ever tell me what I should be or not, and no man be it my husband will ever control me.....
Can't people wake up from their day dreaming and see the world is changing and we are not in 14 century/ 18th century where women are discriminated.....


Like I said no man will ever change the way I want my life to go, the man is stupid, and and I f*cking disagree with him....

Maybe he should go and advice that to his wife, daughters and sisters...
That all

This is a proof that baby mamas and sugar mummies will keep increasing until women go get sense then 7 women go beg one man to answer his name. It is written.

itsmeurLady:
Na me nor come get money Hian!! I nor dey fear oo, just like omotola can never be scared if her husband leaves her because men dey queue...

if not we just want to do it God's way and say for the sake of kids and God, let's just stay through thick and thin, if not, I'm not afraid! Make him run na, dem no go tell am before him come back.

Come back go do wetin?

Olalan:
Dumb slay queen she couldn't figure her partner was married for a whole year while with him cause she obviously would have been carried away with the gifts and nice trips the guy was always offering her.
How can you date a guy for that long without making an effort to know his relatives or also knowing where he lives.

You dey mind peron F-mate claiming to be gf?

Dirkcoyt:
They can't contribute anything but babies, which actually take two people to make sef.

So apart from the functions in the Op's list, basically the man is just harboring her and paying her bills for the love and need of private (if possible, as she may play away sometimes) regular sex so he doesnt have to run to whores every time he needs sex which may be even by 3o clock in the night. And to raise children.

Dirkcoyt:
I'm not talking about the unfortunate women that married a man that can carry out family responsibility.

I was talking about men who had something going on for them , what do you think you can contribute to such man? Answer is pūssy.

Phony enough na that kind guy many of them dey find and become surprised that he only see them as private fuxkmate and baby factory because what else does she contribute?