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 Family / Re: Woman Pours Boiling Water On Cheating Husband’s Crotch ----ouchhhh by prittigrrr(f): 8:32pm On Jul 30, 2009 |
I am African American. I am a woman. I am not crazy. I have never used grits myself; however, I made the comment to show a more efficient way to inflict the intended harm. As for my relationships, I flee from violence. |
| Romance / Re: Is He A Cheater? by prittigrrr(f): 2:27pm On Jul 30, 2009 |
You do not need to "fight for your man." The man should be fighting to prove himself to you. Any man you have to fight another lady for is not worth having. |
| Romance / Re: Is He A Cheater? by prittigrrr(f): 1:43pm On Jul 30, 2009 |
I dont think you "drove" him to another lady. That was already in the works. Learn from this and move on. By the way, I am American and never read my Nigerian fiance's phone, texts, emails, etc. I think it is inappropriate. I hate for a guy to do it to me. Either you trust me or u dont. By the time you start having doubt and distrust, you already know the real truth. No one has to tell you. |
| Family / Re: Woman Pours Boiling Water On Cheating Husband’s Crotch ----ouchhhh by prittigrrr(f): 4:55am On Jul 30, 2009 |
She shoulda used grits. Water rolls off but grits stick 2 u. |
| Family / Re: Re Pls Help I Dont Love My Wife,an Unfortunate Update by prittigrrr(f): 8:38pm On Jul 28, 2009 |
Have you ever told your wife that you cared enough to try to seek out advice here on Nairaland? Let her read your heart and I still say keep trying. Stop by daily and keep showing her love. Keep fasting and praying. The heart of the king is in the Lord's hands and he can turn it whatsoever way he will. |
| Family / Re: Husband/wife by prittigrrr(f): 6:02pm On Jul 24, 2009 |
I think 3 yrs is a fair amount of time |
| Family / Re: Have U Pray by prittigrrr(f): 4:39pm On Jul 20, 2009 |
posakosa: Are you willing to destroy you in the process? |
| Family / Re: Have U Pray by prittigrrr(f): 1:52pm On Jul 20, 2009 |
@ Posakosa: Please know that you very well may destroy James Bassey (though it is unlikely) but you are assured that you will destroy yourself if you continue this path. |
| Family / Re: Boy For Sale: N300k by prittigrrr(f): 3:26am On Jul 20, 2009 |
No words can describe how bad this thing truly is. |
| Family / Re: Have U Pray by prittigrrr(f): 3:17am On Jul 20, 2009 |
I never prayed that but I did desire it when I was married. I had to repent for it. |
| Events / Re: Happy Birthday Seun by prittigrrr(f): 11:34pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
Happy birthday Seun, You are a young visionary. I am grateful for Nairaland and the bounty it has brought my life. I must necessarily be grateful for it's founder, creator, and owner. I wish you long life, wealth, blessings, prosperity and continued creativity. Go forth and create more new innovations and may your vision inspire more like minded young black entrepreneurs! |
| Family / Re: What Should He Do? by prittigrrr(f): 11:23pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
The young man should pursue the best course for his own future fiirst. There is no need for him to stay back and waste his opportunities. His parents' choices were their own. It is time for him to chart his own course in life. |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 9:33pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
Do people even bother reading the full posts? |
| Family / Re: Find Condom In Your Husband’s Pocket: What Will You Do? by prittigrrr(f): 11:19am On Jul 15, 2009 |
I'd say, "oh! I didn't know the rules for us had changed. Great! There's this cute little dude at work that has been sweating me for months but I kept telling him I was married. Now, I will make my move!" (just kidding) |
| Romance / Re: She Dated His Brother In-law; Now She’s Engaged To Him. by prittigrrr(f): 2:05pm On Jul 14, 2009 |
She needs to tell him as soon as possible. He is going to find out eventually and would be disastrous if heard from her ex because he will surely portray her as a homewrecker. |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerians Abroad Love Big Beautiful Women (bbw) by prittigrrr(f): 1:52pm On Jul 13, 2009 |
And do you only solicit BBWs for prayer and fasting? |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerians Abroad Love Big Beautiful Women (bbw) by prittigrrr(f): 7:16pm On Jul 12, 2009 |
jany49: jany49: So pastor, will we be meeting up for prayer then? |
| Family / Re: I Need Help! I Am Dying In Silence & Frustration by prittigrrr(f): 4:26am On Jul 11, 2009 |
I pray God's blessings on your life, wife and marrige. |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 8:50pm On Jul 10, 2009 |
He was compelled and coerced but it doesn't sound like he was forced to marry. However, I concede I am not Nigerian and can't understand the enormous pressure he was under. My heart goes out to him and his family. |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 7:34pm On Jul 10, 2009 |
Busy_body: [/size]I understand your point but he always could have walked away. Since he chose to marry, he should love his wife and commit to the union. |
| Family / Re: deleted by prittigrrr(f): 12:51pm On Jul 10, 2009 |
And what do you do when 20 years later your child finds you and reports that the person you sold him to used him or her as a sex slave and committed unspeakable attrocities against him? Would that be worth the money? |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 12:41pm On Jul 10, 2009 |
As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. I am very happy for your update. You have taken some big steps toward building love and I believe you are moving from conformity with the things of this world (resentment toward your wife) and now are being transformed by God's renewing of your mind. God is faithful and just. You have a spouse who loves you dearly. Half of the battle is won. You are now teaching yourself gratitude for God's 'good thing' he allowed you to find. Remember this. Things happen for a reason. You don't know if the lady you desired would have loved you like this one. God chose to bless you with life out of a sinful act. He also blessed you with a loving wife from this disobedience. Have you ever wondered about your insolence toward God for his blessings. He took the foolish things to confound the wise. Remember His ways are not ours. He knows what He desires for our lives. This woman who you have seen as your cross could well be the thing God uses to bless you forever. Cherish her. |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 1:53pm On Jul 08, 2009 |
All I am saying is it is hard not to love someone when you are acting in conformity with loving feelings. Also I was paraphrasing the word of God regarding removing the heart of stone. I believe with God all things are possible. It will not be easy all the times but it can happen. I think the OP has 2 major drawbacks to his loving his wife: 1. He felt coerced into marrying her and there exists some latent resentment; and 2. His wife is not the 'ideal' of what he felt his wife would be in that she may not be as educated and exposed as he would desire in a life mate. I still say if he submits these things to God, frees himself from sadness over what was not and embraces with gratitude what IS, he can come to love his wife and be happy in marriage. He holds the key to his own happiness and fulfillment. |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 11:59am On Jul 08, 2009 |
Also remember "love" is an action word. It is not about what you "say" but rather it is what you DO. They have a saying here in the US, "Fake it 'til you make it," meaning fake the feeling until it becomes real. Start by doing loving things with your wife. It can be as small as kissing her before u leave in the morning and calling during the day. Buy small gifts like sweets or jewelry. Enjoy the look on her face and the gratitude she feels. Endeavor to really make love tenderly to her. Focus on pleasing her in bed. I believe God will touch your heart and love will grow. Ask God to remove the heart of stone and He will give you a heart of flesh toward her. |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 2:42am On Jul 08, 2009 |
@tpia, you have said it all! |
| Family / Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 1:51am On Jul 08, 2009 |
I believe love is a choice. Pray that God touch your heart and give you love for your wife. I believe if you want to love her, God will do the rest. Don't focus on why you married but thank God for the blessing of a wife who loves you so deeply. Fast and pray. God honors marriage and if you repent for your feelings and submit your will to the Father, love will grow. Be not deceived. I wish you, your wife and child all the best. |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerians Abroad Love Big Beautiful Women (bbw) by prittigrrr(f): 9:30pm On Jul 07, 2009 |
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| Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerians Abroad Love Big Beautiful Women (bbw) by prittigrrr(f): 9:26pm On Jul 07, 2009 |
jany49: My guy and I are not swingers, |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerians Abroad Love Big Beautiful Women (bbw) by prittigrrr(f): 4:54pm On Jul 07, 2009 |
jany49: I assure u I won't rape you and I never disguised my curiosity. Why do u want to know about my flexibility? I have a man. |
| Romance / Re: Nlanders, Have You Ever Dated A Mean Woman/man ? by prittigrrr(f): 4:14pm On Jul 07, 2009 |
I dated 1 mean guy. It didn't last long. |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerians Abroad Love Big Beautiful Women (bbw) by prittigrrr(f): 1:25am On Jul 07, 2009 |
I am a big lady. I won't give my weight out but I wear an 18 dress. Now, explain your previous post. Why are we unpredictable? |
| Romance / Re: Can You! by prittigrrr(f): 7:08pm On Jul 06, 2009 |
If you do date him, you both must be very disciplined. I did it once but I made the guy promise not to discuss it. No one knew until we were spotted catching a flight together. Discretion is the key if you want peace. |
I know I can count on you Nairalanders anyway to have my back anyday 
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