₦airaland Forum

bukkyemotions:
You toasted her and she did you you hard-to-get for over 4 years, but suddenly she now loves you so much and has decided you are her real choice...

Nairaland guys, will you accept her now??

No I didn't.

She still stares at me when she thinks I'm not looking and looks the other way when I stare back.

That ship has sailed. Better luck next reincarnation.

dominique:
She dodged a bigger bullet. The man is too petty, lazy and stingy for any girl to consider herself lucky to date or marry. It's men like that I pray not to cross my daughter's path when she's of age.

And hopefully they won't.

Please. Nobody wants to see her dirty pant.

You think we don't know the drill? She does something outrageous then pays you guys to promote it on social media so she can remain relevant.

Let her do something nice. She has the means. Then we can read and applaud.

futurist369:
Why do nigerian parents have this ludicrous beliefs about the male child? Why do they think that just because you're a man, you're supposed to be born with a talent for fixing and repairing any spoilt thing at home? In my house, once the fan or socket has any fault am expected to just know how to fix it. Asif I was born with a talent for fixing things. They will say "you're not a man", I mean if all the men in the world are supposed to be a natural born technician, then I guess nobody would be taking their faulty appliances to the electrician for fixing nah. So tell me why?

You're not a man.

It depends on the level of the circumcision.

Your girl is either lying or she has been brainwashed to believe she can't enjoy sex "because she was circumcised".

Pleasure from sex is not.only from the clitoris. There are erogenous zones all over the body if u know where to look.

Perhaps he was trying to test her?

You know those old fashioned advice of giving the girl small money to cook food and deliberately making her angry to see how she would react.

Seeking a good wife now is like hunting in a thick jungle with very dangerous animals.

Na so you go carry your marital issue come social media.

Carry go. The man dodged a bullet.

The poster above me well done oh, took my first to comment

SarkinYarki:
I have been an adherent of Dr Sebi for years now but this was purely gang related , Eric Holder come to visit Nipsey and Nipsey didn't want him around the marathon store and told him to leave and that spited Eric Holder who pulled out a gun and shot him point blank infont of everyone.

Neat and clean.
Case closed.

ItzBIM:
And

Not strong enough.

Very strong.

Very very strong reason.

Billions of Dollars strong.

SarkinYarki:
it was gang related sir , he was shot by a fellow krip called Eric Holder

It may have been made to look like that. Research deeper into his recent projects.

Apparently he may have been killed for trying to re-open the HIV case. This gang stuff might be a smokescreen.

CiciReally:
Hello every one, am new here, I hope I can get advice and answer to my confusion and challenge

I been dating my man for almost 2 years, Am Nigerian he’s german, he was open to me from beginning about having some infertility issue, he opened up after we had sex unprotected one day and i was worried about him getting a pill because it happened in his country.

He told me not to worry that he can’t father a child 90% so since then we been doing it unprotected and I never missed my period for a day, fast forward to after a year plus I missed my period after we spend my birthday together, being that i never cheated, I msg him asking him on scale of 1 to 100 how sure he is that he can’t father a child, he said 90%, I waited for another week still nothing so i did test and behold am pregnant, he was excited and insisted I must keep it as he never got any woman pregnant and it might be his only chance, I was troubled, always scared of 9 months, I hate hospital and all that challenges that come with pregnant.

I tried to convince him so we get rid of it but he refused and promised to be there for me.

Now 7 months into the pregnancy his behavior changed, from beginning he doesn’t pay for everything i need, hospital bills etc, I do most things on my own cos i felt he’s holding back cos he’s in doubt the baby is his, now flashback to wen i took in he confessed to me how he been going to sm special church in mountain that’s known for helping pple with his issue, prolly God heard his prayer, suddenly he changed, we agreed to get married so my family will get off my neck etc but now he’s giving me conditions, prenup and DNA after baby is born.

I have no issue with any of that but how he always bring it up, I am so hurt, I cry daily cos am � sure baby is his, only asked him to support fully as he promised till baby is born but his family and friends discouraging him, now will it be wicked of me to cut him off have my baby send him a pic, have him do DNA then deny him right to own him?? Cos i don’t think i all ever forget how he treated me the time i needed him most.

HI there!

It's been 7 months since you got pregnant. The same way you had you doubts about keeping the baby at first is the same way he is having doubts now about whether the baby is his.

It's been 7months. I'm sure he was surprisingly shocked to hear he had impregnated someone and he's been happily going around telling all his friends that he's going to be a dad. Well, not all friends are good friends. In this 7 months I'm sure he's told a not so good friend about the news and that friend has sown a seed of doubt and discord in him.

"Bro this one you're so happy, are you sure the baby is even yours? Didn't u say you're infertile? You can't trust these women bro, they're very deceptive. Etc."

Now this "friend" may never even have met you but because he is evil minded he is ready to judge you from afar. Unfortunately your man has listened because deep down he may have thought he would never father a child and all this seems too good to be true.

Forgive him. He's being human. Nobody, nobody is perfect.

When you have that baby and show him the DNA results that it is actually his, he will serve the world to you on a silver platter. He will say "I told you so!!!" to that his evil friend that you don't know. And you guys will live happily ever after.

But if you give up now, well, evil will win.

Be patient with him. That's what love means. Be patient and wait for your vindication and victory.

Cheers.

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Wait, she has been given a scholarship before?

She was given a scholarship by a govt aide, why was she locked out of school?

But why she come lie down for ground lie that

Set nyash like Dat

E reach to vex jo

Na her house?

If pesin kpansh am now she go shout raape

EVILFOREST:
SOMEONE sedated now talks of how she was raped

Seeing things and making judgements when she was drowsy and disoriented!

How do we know if the injection he gave her wasn't ketamine? Or even diazdpam?

Many of these ladies think that when a doctor is examining them he's interested in their breasts, which Nigerian doctor under all the stress is interested in that nonsense at that time??

Death sentence? For someone you haven't heard his side of the story?

And you people want to give power to these women who are ruled by their emotions

Yewandequeen:
I tell yah. The good thing is that DON understood the sarcasm, some other airtistes would have reacted otherwise.

Which sarcasm?! Person draw as im power reach, you dey talk sarcasm

darkcaesar03360:
yes ma'am and I can travel down to anambra, it's that urgent...... 08102577300

OK I see you're being attended to. No qualms.

darkcaesar03360:
ANYONE HERE WHO CAN LINK ME UP WITH A DOCTOR FRIEND OR NEPHROLOGIST?

Where are u located? What's the problem? Have u tried the teaching hospitals?

Ladyamina2:
I have children but i never and i can never do that,the are other ways u can remove the catarrh,that using mouth to suck it is ancient and poor people way... buy one liquid in pharmacy turn the child upsides pour it everything will come from the other side...repeat to their other side and everything will clear....

OH really? What's the name of the liquid?

Bastards.
Are they that hungry? Or is it just pure greed? That man doesn't look like he's suffering na.

See race!

Ogundejasmine:
he said that we shouldn't tell anybody. One of his younger brother knows about it. The woman said she would visit my grandma soon. We don't know how they will take it because they really love my dad and he is the first born. Thanks

Bad idea. He may not be in his right senses right now. You need an older person on your side and who will not be taken unawares if your dad makes any funny moves. You don't need to tell the grown-up everything but you can give hints that all is not too well on the home front.

Once again, meet someone you can easily confide in and trust. Don't just go and see any elder that might blow the whole thing out of proportion. Use wisdom. All the best.

P.S don't jump to conclusions. Nobody is trying to get rid of anybody. Confide in an elder let them wade into the matter maturely.