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caridi:
After you had already been sensitized, how were you able to conceive and still bear children, pls share your experience

Well, that sucks.

See your gynaecologist. The details are too intricate to discuss online.

This fellow appears to be legit.

MorufuAtanda:
Final year student no mean o. Even in 200L you can start business. I started doing welcome back for colleagues who lost their phones and sims while in school, I also found out that people loved my porridge yam whenever I cooked, so I borrowed one small space in mama Rebecca's joint to sell my own porridge. No other person dey sell juicy porridge for school then. I insisted in making the food at home because I wanted to protect my recipe. Make the food and carry it to joint to sell. Soon I started making for other restaurants. Guy I Don hustle o but God has been benevolent. God love me die!

Guy you've just earned my follow with your write-ups on this thread.
Respect!

Albinoworwor:
Wat about d other point....its not valid

Its clear u one of this country's problem

You haven't realised that the person you're talking with is the Blessing herself.

Lol, this is kinda funny.


Op you're good. The nipple will come out when its ready. Most likely when you're at your breastfeeding years. Don't pierce it pls. Unless u don't plan to suckle your kids.

Very engaging read.

Congratulations brother.

Abby255

So what are you going to do? You have 138 different suggestions here, some of them repetitions. I hope you know all the creams and soaps you rub on your body are absorbed by your skin and excreted through your kidneys? Are you going to keep trying them all until your kidneys shut down from excess toxicity?

From your picture your skin infection has a lot of differentials ranging from scabies to acne vulgaris and
even tinea corporis. It might even be Kaposi sarcoma from HIV infection (heaven forbid).


Why not take the time to go to hospital? See a dermatologist? It won't cost much and you'll get precise treatment instead of gambling with your kidneys.


Well, in the end, the choice is yours.

Altern8:
The kind of depression that leads to suicide is not what most of you are describing here. You are referring to sadness/disappointment.

Clinical depression is a mental health challenge. It is not something you can advise anyone to snap out of. It requires medication and professional counselling sessions.

Hope you now see why many of those who eventually commit suicide go ahead despite all the advice and tough love they’ve been receiving. It is not a simple phase that can be overcome by financial success or a beautiful new girlfriend. It is a persistent mental condition.

There is a group, active on twitter called Mentally Aware. Contact them if you think your depression is not just deep sadness.


And please stop saying suicidal people are mentally weak or they have poor upbringing. That cannot be any further from the truth.

One example is Robbin Williams, a rich and successful Hollywood actor. He committed suicide despite having all of the things most of you are praying to get. I also read about a top executive who committed suicide shortly after a trip in his private jet. His business was on the upward trajectory and he had loving family members (as stated in his suicide letter). They still don’t know when he became depressed cos it wasn’t evident at all, at least until they read his suicide note after his demise.

Medical help is the way forward for depression. Do not trivialise it by saying hurtful things to those suffering from it.

If you think you overcame it on your own without help from a psychiatrist or any knowledgeable person, then what you went through was most probably NOT depression. It was just a phase of sadness.

I agree with you 50%.

Depression is not a new illness. It has been with man since the beginning of time. I'm not sure but I think its even hereditary. That notwithstanding there is something that is making this current generation incapable of handling stress to the point that they are willingly taking thier own lives.

I heard that 3 medical students attempted suicide last night following the release of their MBBS results. One succeeded , the other is being resuscitated and the third has not been found as we speak.


Something VERY wrong is happening.

I'll go with poor upbringing.

This indomie generation were not taught anything about principles and responsibility. They were not taught about patience and endurance. All they know is self-satisfaction. Love for themselves and no one else. No belief in a higher purpose, little or no belief in Christianity as a cross-carrying journey, rather they see religion as a get-rich quick scheme or don't believe in it at all.

The current set of parents spoilt thier kids silly in a bid to make their kids enjoy what they didn't. They didn't teach them forbearance.

Now these kids that have no roots are exposed to the world through social media. They see success but don't see the struggle behind it. Even their phone cameras edit the truth of thier images, making them pretty when in reality they are covered in pimples. To them life is a mirage and they can't see a way forward so they end it not regarding the consequences to themselves or those around them.

I used to be sarcastic about this advice before which I have read on other social media platforms but something happened recently to me that made me believe it
Abeg o parents, the world has changed o, children are more curious and less innocent, pls keep your private parts private even at home. Cover up o!!!

NLC, JOHESU and NMA Agree on Withheld Salaries
Comrade Ayuba Wabba mni – NLC president

The leadership of Nigeria Labour Congress (NLC), the Joint Health Sector Unions (JOHESU) and the Nigeria Medical Association (NMA) unanimously agree that the withheld salaries of JOHESU members for April and May of 2018 was not right. Speaking at the International Nurses Day celebration at the NAF Conference Center Abuja, the National and global leader of labour Comrade Ayuba Wabba mni described the withholding of the April and May salaries as illegality. He explained that the strike conducted by JOHESU was legal as there was a breach of collective bargaining agreements by the ministry of health. He called on the ministry to expedite action to forestall industrial disharmony in the health sector.

Speaking also at the event the NMA president Dr Francis Adedayo Faduyile, while delivering his good will message said he equally agrees with the NLC president and that refusal to pay JOHESU members their salaries was wrong. He further reiterate the call to join hands together for the good of the patients in the hospital. He caution against disunity which is been championed by politicians to divide and rule the health care providers.
Dr. Francis Faduyile NMA President

Speaking in the same also at the event the National President of JOHESU and the National President of Medical and Health Workers Union of Nigeria Comrade Biobelemoye Josiah also concur with the two previous speakers and urge the Minister of health to do the needful to ensure industrial harmony. He appreciated the new found love with NMA and used the opportunity to call on the leadership of NMA to weigh in on their members who are at the helm of affairs to do the needful to ensure industrial harmony.
Comrade Biobelemoye Josiah – JOHESU/MHWUN National President

Earlier on the acting National President of National Association of Nigeria Nurses and Midwives – NANNM Comrade Musa Mamman had also lend his voice to the withheld salaries and asked that it be paid in the interest of peace and harmony.
Comrade Musa Mamman – Ag National President NANNM

The General Secretary of NANNM Comrade T. A. Shettima while delivering his vote of thanks show his displeasure that both ministers of health and his labour and productivity did not make it to the ceremony but equally appreciated their representation. He also lend his voice to the call for the payment of the withheld salaries as it amount to illegality.
Comrade T. A. Shettima – GS NANNM
The event is a yearly celebration of Nurses and what they do and it is celebrated around the birthday of the founder of modern nursing Florence Nighting miale. This year’s theme is Nurses: A Voice to Lead – Health for all. It is being attended by nurses and midwives from across the nation. The weeks effect continues with scientific sessions.

truefact:
I wonder why people complain so much about having affair outside your relationship as if the penis or vagina can finish. Every body has right experience other people once in a while. Besides, you don't expect your to go on sex break especially when you denied him or her sex

Thank you.

post=78222500:
There is no justification for cheating....


Keep on cheating till you come across gonorrhea or HIV then.
No one is telling you not to.

This has nothing to do with what you posted earlier. If you're trying to dissuade people from cheating then you say Cheating is Wrong. Cheating is dangerous. Cheating is bad. Don't say there is no justification for cheating. Justification for cheating abounds.

lilwetdick:
but are you not an old man to be posing shirtless on nairaland or are you looking for marriage

you look like one small boy father i know

What's wrong with his age?

As long as he's still looking sexy

So, like, people actually pay you to read this shit?

Wow.

post=78222500:
There is no justification for cheating....

Rubbish.

There's lots of justification for cheating.

Sexual starvation is one.

bluefilm:
Na lie.

I'm a man and I'll tell you why most men cheat.

Men cheat because they seek for variety.

Nothing more; nothing less.

Liar. You're a woman posing as a man.

Else you won't need to announce that you're a man.

Uyi168:
I can't wait to see this one leaked sextape..

Perv

Magnifico2000:
How did you know is he is good in bed. When they said no sex before marriage.

Pardon What has that got to do with what I said?

OkaNaUbe:
Only if some Pastors attended theological institutes, they would know that there are ethics.

Some things shouldn't be said in public.

May God help His true worshippers.

Amen

Magnifico2000:
Everything is not about sex. Marriage is way beyond sex. Even if the wife gives all the sex styles in the world, a man that will cheat will definitely cheat. Has he considered other aspects too like hygeine, cooking skills, relationship skills etc.
I am yet to be married yet I'm scared of marriage.

The bolded is a fucking lie. Stop propagating it. If a man is sexually satisfied with his wife , he is less likely to look outside. That's the plain and obvious truth.Don't use the few mad ones to generalize the rest.

Wallade:
Catholics also don't believe in sex before marriage but she has been doing sex, obviously from the message, without qualms.

Hence, I see no reason she could not do an abortion based on religious beliefs. She managed the rape in confidence, why not manage abortion in confidence too.

Choi

This is really messed up situation sha. Don't know what to say.

Deepfeel:
No one is forcing him to father the child, why not allow her to give birth to the child after that the child should be up for adoption or the child should be with the ladies mother, and everything will be normal,
Answer to your question yes I can father a child conceived via rape it's not a big deal people adopt children from war zones, prostitutes etc

Does she look like she wants to give the child up for adoption? If she refuses to give the baby up would that be the best time for him to leave her?

Amandobolt:
What happened to Postinor2 or PostPill?, the last I check, its just N300.
The girl was just too daft, how can u be raped and u don't rush to take contraceptive within 3 to 4 days?

Remember she's a devout Catholic. Catholics don't believe in contraception.

Apination:
This is terrible, she should have gone to the hospital but as it stands, that baby has committed no sin to be given the death sentence. You say you love her but this is the time to prove it and you are chickening out, you don't have to be a father to the child if you don't want to but don't force her into a decision she doesn't want to make. When the child comes, she can leave him or her with her parents and you continue with your lives. Don't forsake her at this time when she needs you the most

Lol

Seriously?

This thing u said can u do it?

bukkyemotions:
It is well

Biglittlelois:
Lol

The girls are not finding this funny

miketayo:
Test?? If she is my sister I pray she fails the test, u gave someone money to buy food for u, which she is still going to prepare, Nd u r still calculating? when he should have added transport fee. Fear people like that, on top 2k..

Sigh.

Ok.

miketayo:
Wat type of dumb test is he trying to do, he should have just gone to the market if he doesn't want to be cheated, wat is he inspecting like he isn't going to eat the food too.. more like she dodged the bullet

Calm down.

For him to be asking the price, it means he knows how much each item costs. It means he has been going to market himself. So he knows what he was doing when he gave her 2k. Nobody in this current Nigeria is unaware of how costly things are in the market. So that means he did it deliberately. He didn't even give her t fare. And to add insult to injury when she came back he became deliberately annoying.

What you should be asking now is WHY? Why did he do that.

Obviously not to impress her. That's not how to impress a lady you're dating.

So. He did it either to test her or to deliberately quarrel with her so she'll leave him alone.

If its the first reason, she failed. She not only lost her temper, she posted it on social media. That's not a kind of wife to have; take it or leave it.

If its the second reason, he succeeded. She's out of his life for good.

A lot of people in this current generation don't think deep. They live their lives in the moment and have no real values. They seek attention on social media like it will feed them in real life.

Think deep. See through the razzmatazz of another outrageous story trying to garner likes. Try and determine the man's purpose for his seeming strange behaviour.

Or join the crowd. And don't think at all.