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Salvado1:
Another guy had sex with her, what should I do pls?

Igbankpa:
My younger brother is dating a married woman.

I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.

I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.

I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.

He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!

Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

lalasticlala:
https://dailytrust.com/just-in-passengers-trapped-in-the-bush-as-abuja-kaduna-train-breaks-down?s=09

Thebest12:
Hello Good morning nairalanders ,
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Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . I tried to ask her but some people adviced me not to and that I should watch from distance. Okay just when I have decided to freestyle the matter , today again she posted same guy again . I am so pained right now , and confused.

Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice

Realtalk20:
How do these bizarre threads of animal cruelty get to front page on this website baffles me honestly.

What is wrong with this website

sapphiere:
It beats my imagination when I see some women reject the movement. Like they are so comfortable being opressed. SHM

Why are Nigerian men so so insecure? Once the hear the word "feminism" their blood get hot.

DGynx:
Younger Brother of Nigeria's most famous comedian, Yomi Casual was involved in a Ghastly Car accident last night on the island on his way home.

The Father of two took to his Instagram page this morning to share the news with the caption, ONI DURO MI ESE O!.

From the Pictures of the accident, One can see that it was all God's grace that his alive looking at how wrecked his Jeep was.

oloyedewaris:
Someone that used to wake the dead suddenly slept and didn't wake up

Can you see God is great

maupe:
https://www.thegatewaypundit.com/2021/06/just-nigeria-halts-twitter-operations-country-suspended-president-muhammadu-buhari-abusive-behavior/

Juliusmomoh:
Some people get mind o .. So with all the problem in this country your dick gree stand?..
Why telling us in the first place sef? . When she was shouting harder harder harder and you are busy untop shaking your potato head like standing fan did you inform us ?

OBJlive:
Who is training them?

KingOfAmebo:
1. Arrest and detain all families and relatives that have links with nnamdi kanu.

2. Declare anybody involved in or supporting IPOB either publicly or in private enemies of the state, seize all their assets.

3. Shoot at sight anybody hoisting the IPOB flag. Nigeria is sovereign country and at such a treasonable offence.

4. Nigeria doesn't currently have the resources to engage another war in the east after spending years and resources up north, best approach is to nuke the east if possible as necessary. The madness in the east must not be allowed to spread else sudan would be paradise to Nigerians.

All of you encouraging this madness of IPOB must take note that Boko Haram started just as IPOB, a secession militia group living with civilians until their leader got murdered and the war began up north.

Nobody should mention dialogue because that option has been truncated when their leader cowardly ran abroad, the military must apply full force to smoke all IPOB militants and their sympathizers out.

Nigeria cannot afford another civil war from the same region, but to prevent this a necessary massacre and cleansing is urgently needed.

Twelfthman:
They walk among us

Authentic2008:
Good evening family. I am a young of 28yrs old and a final year student of one of the prestigious university in Nigeria.


A few month back, I met this lady who happens to be a student of this same university. At first we started as friends and during this friendship, I discovered that she has a boyfriend but the relationship wasn't that ok. During our friendship, she told me that, it was this guy that breaks the padlock (u know what I mean). At the long run the guy broke up with her due to mistrust,insecurity and mistreatment. During this period of our friendship, I developed feelings for her cus of her trained personality and religious upbringing. As a very sharp guy, i took my opportunity and talk to her, she agreed and we started dating officially. The relationship was very smooth and we mingled also( Hope u understand).


Suddenly, this same ex of hers calls her and begins to apologise. She agree to his pleas without considering my feelings..To cut it short, they started dating back.


Few days later, she came back and started apologising to me saying that she loves me, she feels free whenever she is with me and that I always makes her to concentrate more on the things of God and mostly the qualities she wants in a man that she finds it in me...


But anytime this guy talk to her and beg her, she will agree and go back to him...

Funny enough I've come to love her deeply. Am really confused and I need ur advise on what to do.

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Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.