Educative post. Also interesting to see how many prisons are situated in the north. Is there a reason for this?

Nigeria is a sick country, and only in another decade will we understand the level of the rot in our system. 51,000 cases in just one prison without a court hearing or due process When other countries treat even those on death row with dignity and respect and with boarding facilities fit for a human being. Others are shutting down their prisons due to so few prisoners.
And then you expect that when prisoners after being treated like animals are released back into society, they'll be normal. Never seen a country like this.

Very unfortunate

SolomonGrandi:


throat wasnt slit ... he was certainly suffocated with a rope or chain .

Either ways make dem go do autopsy

My money is on death by Asphyxiation

My thoughts too.

He was definitely murdered. Lacerations around the neck shows either a rope or something. He was probably hanged or tortured with chains or ropes. Mouth position shows he might have been struggling to breathe from being choked not drowning and generally, the body and bloodied neck area looks suspicious.

Jacksonk222:
Once you place your value in money as a lady,
There are men who are willing to pay to mess you up.
Be guided!

You must learn to accept your man's financial capacity,
else you will end up sleeping with every man that has money 👌👌

Having a female as a best friend is like having a chicken as a pet,
You will definitely eat it one day.🤣

Cheating is old fashion, the new style is to settle down with one partner, get close to God and make money together.

💯

efembaba:
Thank you boss. I will also DM you for more enquiries on how you went about the IVF thing.

That's okay. I'll respond

hosemujica:
Hello I wanted to ask, did you do procedure in this country and if yes what facility did you use ? And did you opt for preimplantation genetic diagnosis or amniocentesis?

Procedure was in the UK. Yes, we did the preimplantation genetic testing since it was the easiest and the least emotionally challenging.

lomaxbien:

Can I get your contact please? I think i might need a little advice from you.

Please send me an email. I'll respond as soon as I can

amnesty7:

Great comment, Sir.
May I contact you via email please?

Sure DM

OP, Sorry to hear about your predicament.
There were several genotype testing errors years ago in Nigeria. I for one was tested AA for my admission into uni. AA for NYSC.
This was in the late 90s and early 2000s. I ended up being AS when my GP tested my genotype. I didn't believe but I had two separate tests done in Lekki and Jabi the following year and I was still AS. At the time I had already married my wife who I knew was AS from the start so you can imagine the situation we were in.

It is not a death sentence if you have the means. We employed the services of a Geneticist and we were given about 4 options. We eventually chose pre genetic testing (IVF) and we have a set of twins and a 3rd child. And they are all AA.

If you don't have the means, unfortunately, you don't want to gamble with the lives of your future children and family. It is a painful journey bringing an SS or SC child into the world. I have met a couple of people who were lucky because of inaccurate genotype results. They have no SS kids. But the decisions are yours to make.

Ice baths are a common place in Europe

God bless our gallant soldiers. Hopefully rescue missions will be quicker from now on before someone gets killed by their abductors.

Congratulations Minister Moses.
Beautiful and the resemblance is striking too!

I hope that they are reunited alive. Terrible situation to be as a family. This is how far Nigeria has fallen

Too many emotional people on here. Christians insulting themselves to defend their leaders. Don't work out your own salvation o. In saner climes, there will be a full blown investigation that will turn that place inside out. There are churches like MFM, JW and co that are banned in some countries not even in China, N. Korea and Russia alone while some are under investigation for fraud, abuse, etc. But Nigeria is a zoo. Wolves in sheep clothing, idol worshippers with doctrines of demons disguising as the body of Christ.

Lol.
Christians, read your Bible and know God for yourselves.

Yes, if the reasons are valid.
Lately I watched a documentary on the Turpin Family (Google them). Parents who chained their 13 kids like dogs. 10 girls and 3 boys. When they were rescued, the oldest child was already 22. They all needed hospitalization for months due to heart, neurological, psychological issues, etc.
The parents were charged with 88 felonies and sentenced to life imprisonment. I wouldn't blame any of the children if they never associated with their parents again in life.

So if the parents are toxic, I wouldn't even want them near my children. That's how generational abuse and trauma is created.

Kukutente23:

You need to heal not abuse.
Healing takes time. Be patient

You're the one who needs healing and deliverance from the demons that plague you. Ozuo

Kukutente23:

I command healing into your broken soul

Look in the mirror. You're the one who's broken both in your mind and soul.

Kukutente23:
The bitterness from all these feminists and their Simpsons on this thread? Chai!!

No. You're the one who is sick in the head.

G00dharddick:


Do a DNA test first then come back and tell me what the result says before I'll advise you on what to do.

Noticed how pained and angry most of the women here are at the mentioned of DNA test? There's more to the eyes bro. She's just waiting for the girl's real father to come and it's certainly not you

From a woman who doesn't want him at all? She'd be relieved if he's not the father. Is all well with you upstairs? You blockheads on this forum need to form a group of your own.

Kukutente23:

Sperm donor is a term created by frustrated feminists. A father is a father whether good or bad. There are people who abandoned their children for 20+ years. He's even lucky he's received sense at this early stage. The child deserves to have her father. It should not be immediate but talk of losing rights is totally off the mark!

You're clearly a block head. A chimp is far more intelligent than you.

maasoap:

Two or three years to come, nobody will tell them to change their policy again. No be the first time, won't be the last

Not even sure this policy will last that long after the elections this year. Labour is garnering lots of support

DadaStephen1:
You sound like you’re making sense, but what you just wrote here is an entire thrash that makes no meaningful or reasonable sense in any way.

Una go just Sidon, add two plus two, open mouth waaaa dey talk rubbish.

That’s stakeholders raising alarm and appealing to the government to tone down on their anti student immigrant policy because it’s spoiling business for them, you’re assuming nonsense.

Do you know how much is £75,000,000,000 that these universities pay as taxes to the government through students in Naira? That’s exclusive of their profits! Do the maths if you can.

The decline started gradually from September, but they didn’t take it seriously. What they got in January was lower than what they projected based on the new policy. Imagine expecting population in a class to drop from 600 students to 300 students only to see that it dropped to 30 students and this is just January o.

This criminal country has swindled especially Nigerian students, because most Asians and even some Africans like Ghanaians come here funded by their governments.

A Nigerian will sell and risk everything to come here even with family, you will take visa fees, health insurance for all the family members without complaining, after collecting everything, you restrict them to work only few hours, no access to so many support and benefits, choke them with racism and start asking them to go back home that they are the problem.

They can’t go, they’re stuck and at the government’s mercy because they cannot even regain the capital that brought them in, if they return, it has to be empty handed and they’ll have to return to nothing and probably start life all over.

It’s not something you just want to jump on and comment without any form of knowledge or emotional intelligence bruv.

You're absolutely spot on bro. It's really really unfair.
Also, I said on some thread last year and some Nigerians were saying a whole UK won't suffer the consequences of their anti migration policies. And the British population assume that students and migrants have recourse to public funds when they don't. Lots of disinformation and false narratives being peddled. You're milking your migrants and sending them away or asking them not to come but just give us your money. The UK will sink itself eventually. Exited the EU, and now even your own population are leaving for better pastures in droves.

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

And you brought it here? I reserve my comments

Beuberry:

Your mom's sick and with sawdust in brain & mud water in her system. Lying carrot dîck boy!

Schizophrenic much? Because that's the only explanation I can give to your comments. And there's no point exchanging words with a psych patient.

Beuberry:

Sharap lier. You wrote it in proxy. You desired 3somes, 4somes etc.

Are you sick or something? Again, when you have sawdust for a brain, you can't comprehend simple things. There's even a link to the original post there.

Countersam:


Why bring this oyinbo questionnaire here. What do you want to hear from us in the form of advice. Their lifestyle is different from ours in Africa. Which one is open marriage , have you heard of that in Africa talk less of Nigeria? Who will marry and both couples would still be bleeping outside but still together because you have a kid together..that's living in bondage because one person must eventually get reorientation that will bring issues in the initial agreement

Mr. Man, I can bring whatever I want on this forum like everybody else. This is Nairaland with posts and news from all over the world. If you have nothing to say, skip it.

Beuberry:

It's all all you boys that are addicted to fetish practices that do open marriages. All of you are learning hard way. Some ll even say they are free to fornicate in the marriage. Oriburuku of the highest order.
ProtonX, since you v invited hornets, deal with it.

People don't read! The post is in quotation marks means I am not the original owner of the story. I found it on Reddit 3 days ago and brought it to Nairaland.

Please this is not my story. If anyone is familiar with Reddit, it was posted on their by someone else.

Here's a link to it https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/18aanf6/i_made_the_mistake_of_asking_my_wife_for_an_open/

godofuck231:
Because you de uk abi , your mouth de run like osun river , wait na , divorce don complete, death don do una apart.

Lol. And he will be in jail for a minimum of 20 years. MINIMUM.