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Celebrities / Re: Olamide And Saidi Balogun Strike A Pose by Ptoocool(m): 4:34pm On May 31, 2016 |
Hmmmmmm, Saheed Balogun,, Everything for this world na time sha,, |
Nairaland / General / Re: HIV+ Husband And Wife Advert In Port-Harcourt I Saw Today by Ptoocool(m): 11:28am On May 31, 2016 |
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Stuns In Pink For Friend's Wedding In Lagos (photos) by Ptoocool(m): 3:29pm On May 28, 2016 |
Satellite 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Bimpe onakoya, Toolz Makeup Artist Blasted Over Dirty Nails by Ptoocool(m): 3:25pm On May 28, 2016 |
Lol,,Nigerians got no chill at all,, Issit your face? |
Celebrities / Re: #StrapThatChildNow: Korede Bello In Lagos Traffic To Celebrate Children's Day by Ptoocool(m): 3:40pm On May 27, 2016 |
imohchard: No, straff,, 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Okada Man Battling For His Bike With 3 Policemen In Lagos by Ptoocool(m): 3:39pm On May 27, 2016 |
Man must chop,, Happy children's day to the NPF,, 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: PDP Mocks Buhari's One-Year In Office With Cartoon Images by Ptoocool(m): 3:33pm On May 27, 2016 |
see who dey mock self,, mtchewww 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Children's Day: Saraki Interacts With Kids by Ptoocool(m): 2:10pm On May 27, 2016 |
DONMAYOR19: #Evuls #EvulPeople |
Properties / Re: Plywood Ghetto-house Under Lagos Bridge That Has An Air-conditioner! by Ptoocool(m): 2:09pm On May 27, 2016 |
lol, happiness is a state of mind,, |
Crime / Re: ANSU Student, Ndirika Michael, Killed By Anti-cult,students Destroy Quaters by Ptoocool(m): 12:53pm On May 26, 2016 |
Someone stole, the school ANTI-CULT security unit tortured him till he breath his last,, What exactly are they "ANTI?" |
Romance / Re: 20-Year-Old Guy Professes His Love For 12-Year-Old Girlfriend With A Kiss by Ptoocool(m): 5:17pm On May 25, 2016 |
End Time boy End Time girl End Time kiss . End Time profession 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Pre-wedding Photos by Ptoocool(m): 6:20pm On May 24, 2016 |
Oww lovely,, congratz,, Meanwhile, that could have been Rheether and I.. |
Celebrities / Re: Photos Of Olamide, Flavour And Harrysong In Ghana by Ptoocool(m): 12:10pm On May 22, 2016 |
kushma: Don't mind him jere, ionno why he keeps opening the TREND,, 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Breakup Is Not The End by Ptoocool(m): 12:37am On May 22, 2016 |
irisola: Hahahaha,, abeg ah no dey laff for midnight,, You'll be making a huge mistake by doing that, you need to learn how to live with a man even before you think of getting married, make no mistake, what you don't know, you don't know until you know.. Kindly read this: http://kolawolepeters..com.ng/2016/05/dont-rush-into-marriage.html |
Romance / Re: Breakup Is Not The End by Ptoocool(m): 12:10am On May 22, 2016 |
irisola: Shey you know you won't remain single for ever? |
Romance / Re: Breakup Is Not The End by Ptoocool(m): 12:05am On May 22, 2016 |
nikkyshyne: Wow, wower, wowest, I really can't believe this,, you were over a TWO years relationship in TWO hours?? Jixox, I'm just seeing loads of things today,, |
Romance / Re: Breakup Is Not The End by Ptoocool(m): 12:00am On May 22, 2016 |
Flexherbal: True, the same can be said of men too,, |
Romance / Breakup Is Not The End by Ptoocool(m): 6:20pm On May 21, 2016 |
In marital relationships we call it divorce, in a romantic relationship (courting, dating) we call it a break-up. There is no human experience more tragic than divorce/break-ups, why? Because divorce/break-up is death of a relationship, which is worse than physical death cause when somebody die, you can take them to the cemetery, put them in a hole, put some dirt on top of them, put some flowers on it, say goodbye and you never see them again. In other words, when someone dies physically, you can bring closure to the relationship, and leave them in the grave and never see them again but when somebody divorces/break-up with you, the relationship dies, but you'll still see them on that queue at the petrol station (no thanks to fuel scarcity), you'll still jam them at social functions, if you still have them on your list on social media, definitely, you'll still see their posts and pictures - they keep resurrecting and the pain comes back every time you see them - worse than physical death. After a breakup, some people lives with hate and regret. Their mind starts playing tricks on them as it keep churning out things to think about even when they don't feel like it. Some gets to the point everything around them irritates them. Flowers, pictures, cars, voices, human figures, songs, clothes, even food especially if any of these things easily brings the 'lost one' back to mind. Many contemplates suicide. Many ends up committing suicide. This comes as no surprise to me as I was once a victim of this too. After I surrendered to what was, I felt empty. I didn't see any reason to live. Every passing moment, I silently wish for the world to come to an end. Yes, it was that bad. Even though I didn't nurse the idea of suicide, I felt dead on the inside. Those things that were amusing to me, things that gave me so much hope became useless and senseless to me. As a lover of Reggae Music, anytime I feel like 'clearing' my head off regrets, hopelessness and worries with some cool Reggae Music with the hope of getting a soothing relief, I ended up feeling more miserable than I was. Consequently, I turned to the Sam Smith's and the Adele's. Whispers on every side felt like a thorn in my flesh: when I'm alone I feel like all eyes are on me. So, I also came to the realization that breakup is one of the worst thing one can ever experience in life. You know, after getting so attached to this individual, to the extent they've become a part of you. All your thoughts aren't complete without them in it and sometimes you unconsciously act and take decisions having them at the back of your mind. You've envisaged a bright future with them, matter of fact, in your deep thinking/daydream, you're already living your 'dream life' with them - only to be told 'it's over'? From personal experience(s), I clearly saw reasons why people commit suicide; breakup is just too an heavy burden to bear. A dark thick tunnel to pass through. However, what most people fail to realize is that the pain associated with breakups is momentary as breakup in the real sense is only but one of those phase in life - it shall soon pass. Breakup is not the end. It is indeed the beginning. I told myself, "you can't continue living this way, you can't keep feeling miserable, hateful and bad, you can't keep your life on hold for this moment to pass". Life must go on. I had to let myself loose of all the shackles of pain and depression and search for that light at the end of the tunnel. The first step was the decision I made - to be happy again. I have to keep being the me I was before the breakup. I picked up my earpiece with Peter Tosh, Bob, Majek, Cocoa Tea and loads of these brethren blasting through both ears as I walked down the street; I picked up my pen and started scribbling down all the nonsense in the world. I started flipping through the pages of many books until I can't remember a thing I just read - talk about useless writings and nonsense readings - but I loved it, I loved feeling me once again, I love being happy and happy I became. Until you come to the realization that being happy in life has nothing to do with people around you and their actions but that your happiness lies within you, you never will be happy. You'll be surprised to see that person you broke up with picking his/her pieces together and forging ahead in life while you keep wallowing in pain and regrets. Like someone puts it, "when someone walks out of your life, it's just the end of their part in your story; the beginning of a new chapter". Don't feel too bad after a breakup, it is not the end of life, however, it is the beginning of a new and better life. http://kolawolepeters..com.ng/2016/05/breakup-is-not-end.html 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Ghanaian Man Has Sex With 42 Women & Circulates The Video by Ptoocool(m): 10:36pm On May 19, 2016 |
Choi |
Family / Re: Nigerian Woman Gives Birth To Triplets (Photos) by Ptoocool(m): 3:55pm On May 17, 2016 |
Triplet ke, for Bubu's administration? God go help u cater for 'em o but I'll suggest you give two out,, 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Obasanjo Regrets Not Privatizing NNPC When He Was President by Ptoocool(m): 3:54pm On May 17, 2016 |
Abeg who get g-string here? |
Politics / Re: Court Stops PDP National Convention by Ptoocool(m): 3:40pm On May 17, 2016 |
PDP? Is dia still a party like dat in 9ja? Thought the party 'passed away' with the Otueke Princess 5 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Bayelsans Are So Lazy - Governor Dickson by Ptoocool(m): 2:40pm On May 17, 2016 |
For the 1st time in his entire life, Gov. Dick is right. Spent close to a year in BY and what they (citizens) know how to do best is scream "our money" "our oyel money" The way they reason is beyond ma ass 17 Likes |
Politics / Re: Senate Backs Subsidy Removal by Ptoocool(m): 2:12pm On May 17, 2016 |
But this won't stop tomorrow's protest Meanwhile, #IStandWithBubu |
Religion / Re: 14 Things That Are Too Real About Ushers In Nigerian Churches by Ptoocool(m): 9:40pm On May 16, 2016 |
darealsola:Is that your mother's name? Of course it is |
Religion / Re: 14 Things That Are Too Real About Ushers In Nigerian Churches by Ptoocool(m): 9:23pm On May 15, 2016 |
OP try small sha,, seems this pix-text stuff is the in-thing on NL,, and ah bet another mumu is planning his/hers kontinuu, just make it interesting, unlike this po.o right here,, 1 Like |
Crime / Re: "I Spent What I Got On Prostitutes" - Pickpocket (photos) by Ptoocool(m): 5:19pm On May 15, 2016 |
Celebrities / Re: Comedienne Emmanuella Pictured With Alexx Ekubo & Others ( PHOTO) by Ptoocool(m): 11:04am On May 15, 2016 |
joyblossom: Google is your friend! |
Politics / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Founded Niger-Delta Avengers – Ex-Militants' Leader, Akpodoro by Ptoocool(m): 10:53pm On May 13, 2016 |
Source: Lie Mohammed's cousin 348 Likes 30 Shares |
Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Shot Dead In Port-Harcourt While Trailing Bank Customer PICS by Ptoocool(m): 10:45pm On May 13, 2016 |
bigpastor: Jixox, if only you know how much I detest Mathematics, you won't quote me with this that looks like a word problem |
Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Shot Dead In Port-Harcourt While Trailing Bank Customer PICS by Ptoocool(m): 6:06pm On May 13, 2016 |
Minus two from the #RiversOfBlood We'll meet in Hellven 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Comedienne Emmanuella Pictured With Alexx Ekubo & Others ( PHOTO) by Ptoocool(m): 5:08pm On May 13, 2016 |
To all the girls that go 90% nude to get 500likes on a Facebook picture and think they are famous, I hope you know Emmanuella, she gets over 400,000 views online and she doesn't even have breast.. Receive Sense 87 Likes 4 Shares |
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