₦airaland Forum

@ThiefOfHeart well i dont know if i can continue with the argument. Theres no way you can be a thru Nigerian more than me. I was born and bred here. Na here too i go die. You been away too long and thats why you still have that parochial thought. Things are changing for the better. Where i come from in Nigeria things may not be too good but i don't think they are too bad either. Cause we just cant get every thing in life. Your idea of criticism as regards Nigeria is of the past.

weather you take it or not we just cant provide public road shows on the name of kisses as in the country you claim. Simply because most of us were not groomed that way. Come to talk about that how many times have we seen our mothers kissing our dad. but it is a common thing there. It is just one of the things we learn from the whites. There you can agree with me that kissing is not our culture.

u got me wrong baby. All i said was that it is not our culture. I did not condem any tribe no do i say it is wrong. Good for those who love it but it cant be easily done here. I question the kind of Nigerian you are. Sorry cause you dont sound like one.

Sorry o! ThiefofHeart. How you came about this name? Well the part of Nigeria where i come from i no more hear of rituals. It could be happening in some part of Nigeria but i don't think its as bad as you portray.

There was a time in the history of this country when in Port Harcourt gals don't wear skimpy dresses or show any part of their body. There was a time when you don't even where sexy cloths. I remember when cloths where torn publicly on those who try to be headstrong.

Talking about the rest. Girl you can agree with me that there is no place on earth where every thing is perfect. Even in the country you stay we know that election was rigged some time but did any body die for that, no baby.

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ThiefOfHeart i don't know if you where born in Nigeria, If you have ever been to Nigeria and if you will ever be to Nigeria. And even if you been all that i don't know where you lived in Nigeria. The issue of rituals use to be rampant but today it is gradually becoming a thing to historically talk about. Of course every nation has a period in history when things don't go right even the country you are today. Nigerians can no more be associated with rituals. I think that you know Nigeria from the films you been watching.

Kissing is not our way of showing either love or affection thats why i said it is not our tradition. And let me remind you may be you been too long away from home. Nigeria is struggling to survive but the way you know her is gradually changing. Where you stay laws are made for convenience thats why getting married and divorce is a game. Marital contracts and all the rest does not work here cause there is still morals. Therefore weather you believe or not we as Africans generally find it difficult to kiss in public. Thats not to say that some do not. But the trend is not fashionable here cause theres still good morals.

Hell no! cause his presence will always hunt me. The thought of having had affairs with my wife will be too strong to forget.

The guy is simply a 'fuckist'. Gals be warned!

I just hate it when i read guys cry for gals who do not see them the way they are. Gals who are materialistic. Cmon men she will dump you tmorrow if there is another guy with a bigger car. just forget her and move on. If she sleeps around for that reason then forget her the fucking bum dosnt deserve you.

You simply dont know what you want.

OMG where do i start. Ok o! My first date invited me to thier home while her perents where away. She just could not let me rest as she rushed me. It was kisses rubing and more kisses. At 16 then i was so shy that i realy wanted to run away. Some how we undressed only to hear this hard knock on the door with a bully voice i ran into the bathroom clutching my cloths. the voice asked her some few question as she pretended to be asleep covered with wrapper. It was her uncle. I just could not wait to hear the man say ' ok tell your father i will come back in the evening' Boy i just ran out and zoooom like tom the cat.

Only 6 guys u been with Why the complain? Even prostitutes get married at the end of their prostitution. Let not the fear be your problem cause their is love every where only few can find them. Find yours its some where waiting.

I have been asked to it so many times in the public but could not. Probably because of the way we were brought up. some times with no strings attached we cant still do it. Theres still good morals in Nigeria cause kissing is not our culture.

If only u guys are serious. Today most of the bands came up thru this way. Its not a bad idea as a matter of fact you may be creating another dimension in Nigerian music history if you find a rock group. Ill be glad to support financially if you guys are serious.

bigbooty thanks for your sincerity but after having two boys, what do you want from a men you have dated and dumped. Live is about moving on so, you gotta move on. I think your greatest source of happiness should be ya children cause they will cover you tmorrow. Therefore instead of all that regret and plea and he decided to go let him go.

Michelin, i think you are getting on my nerve. what do you mean by that, they don't speak good English in Italy and i wonder how you got your degree. Any way get the message and leave typographic errors. Whats your contribution lemme criticize your hard ass and knuckle brain.

NO! If the man has a business account do you think it will be wise to make your wive a co-signatory i don't think it is ideal. Rather a woman should have a family account where the husband would often pay in some money for family upkeep. This is not to say that the woman should not no how many account the husband has. As a matter fact she could be the one to keep his pass books but she should have a family account.

So many out here is getting it all wrong. Boy its like that with most girls. They want to flaunt their ego when they are doing better than you. They seem not to be obident any more and wants to argue with you in every thing. By experience i will tell you to live her. The revelation is that she is arrogant and cant be an obident wife. To safe your self heart brake please make up your mind and quit. work harder without her by your side because if she is by your side you would not concentrate. You will see when you climb to the next level tomorrow she will come begging.

So many out here is getting it all wrong. Boy its like that with most girls. They want to flaunt their ego when they are doing better than you. They seem not to be obident any more and wants to ardue with you in eveyr thing. By experience i will tell you to live her. The revelation is that she is arrogant and cant be an obident wife. To safe your self heart brake please make up your mind and quit. work harder without her by your side because if she is by your side you would not concentrate. You will see when you climb to the next level tomorrow she will come begging.

whats the big deal about that. After all what a man can do a woman can do-----------

I dont think it is the language you are asking. cause there are so many here. Find a way to his heart and eat it.

Who cares all the brohaha. For real call this guy on 08038730455. He is in PH

Tried to post my pix. Still dont know why Seun wouldnt let it come here.

Not every relationship end in marriage. And gals who always carry that in mind seem to date more men cause they get disappointed when the man is not making advances they look some where else and thrust Nigerians many will promise marriage if they gotta get you but at the end hit n run. Therefore it is wise that one gets into relationship intimately with lots of caution and prayers that one day the man will propose for real.

Bros i just would love my hands filled when doing it. Therefore my gal gotta be heavy especialy with lotta meat behind the back.

Phn Number is ment to be exchanged not only between boys n gals but the whole soceity therefore it is the one who is asking the number that is cheap and not the one whos giving.

Kike i know you are strong headed but boys will be boys

Cmon Kike baby i got my boogie shoes.

Got some b4 but its very expensive. Except if the gal pays the bill but its expensive if you are a guy who like good gals outside ya vicinity.