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EroticAngelina:
there is a difference. you need to see this man. he is so intimidating. bsyds this z NL. so...

It doesn't matter even if he is Godzilla, if someone disrespects you in such a sexual manner, then you let them know or simply stop hanging around them. I don't know of any sane person that'd let some dirty, old freak continue to paw at them. It's repulsive!

EroticAngelina:
thanks. but the man is like really intimidating, like I even find it hard to talk to him sometimes. I don't know where in this world I'm gonna get that typa courage to talk to him about THIS

Ok now you're just playing the damsel in distress. You just showed your fiesty side with someone on this thread, you mean you can't tell an old man to scram when he has clearly crossed the line with you? Give me a break!

Eww. * Shudders*

Hazardd:
i think you should clay and mould them by yourself.

What for when they're already available?

Aww. Poor dad

Dump him. No respect for elders is an unattractive quality.

What a cùnt!

I'd stop dating him but we can still be friends though. If he infected me too, then there won't be friendship.

Uniquexty:
Sure we ain't sisters? You spoke the words directly from my heart....

Hahaha. Really? I'm glad I'm not alone

Hmm, I like the fact that they're men for starters.
Men with brains
Men with deep voices
Men with body hair since I'm not into that metrosexual gay thing
Brooding men, that's men with an edge
Funny & playful men
Men with sex appeal
I even like men with fùcked up teeth, especially a bit of an overbite or a gap between the two front teeth. Hot. The teeth must be clean though.
Men with nice eyes
Etc.

This actually reminds me of something because I was watching wheelchair basketball on Saturday. Anyway, I noticed that two of the players have one leg each, which made me wonder what they do with the other pair of sneakers that they won't be needing due to having only one foot. Sport shoes are quite costly, you know? Just made me think. Paying for 2 when you'll only be using one. Hmm..

Virgin.

mikolo80:
and if you find out before donating nko,no be still the same madness abi madness get flavors.the heart wants what it wants(once you meet the bone of ur bone)

Maybe I haven't met the " bone of my bone" yet if that's the case

chuckvinz:
ode.

Oke doke.

ejiro2130:
You assume he won't, how sure r u?? I respect the fact that u talking from experience but please, there are many loyal guys out der n why stick with ur bad experience?? We (guys) ain't perfect but judging us all or rather making us all pay because on a few mistakes isn't fair

Are you a hypnotist? Make me forget & I might just be all unawares like most people. Correction, it's not about men, it's people in general. Two-faced & conniving creatures.

ejiro2130:
Funny, but ur type may end up donating ur heart even the doc asked for just kidney

Kikikiki. Highly doubtful. Not until he proves himself to me, over & over again will I ever be that goatish.

Sparkle777:
Hmm,deep. I feel u, some men can spoil show for others. Nice one.
Amma chic,boo.

Dudette Sorry, I'm used to saying "dude" lol.

But yeah, people need to think twice before doing things out of love because some people forget quickly. They are all about themselves. I don't think with my vàgina, so...

ejiro2130:
Lol, the scratching back part got me cracking but really, relationship comes with sacrifice (sure u kw already) n ppl live fine on one kidney so life isn't in danger plus God will bless u ABUNDANTLY for saving a life.

I still think he wouldn't look, think or dream of another lady after Wat u did.

No can't do. Karma is too slow for my liking. God can heal him himself.

Sparkle777:
Bea,u harsh oo. But u re very correct, when a man that u ve been good to messes u up. You kinda just hold ur shi ts,let him hold his.
I can do it but let his family do first. For my kid, I ll go all the way.

Dude, do you know the story of Betty Broderick? This woman worked several jobs to send her husband to law school. After he started working as a lawyer, he dumped & replaced her with someone else. He was at this point a millionaire & he refused to even share half of his millions with her. Ridiculed her etc until she got fed up & pumped bullets in his body & killed him.

My point is, if someone doesn't learn from stories like this, then who will? If someone doesn't understand that there are selfish, ungrateful àssholes out there, then whose fault is it? I refuse to be naive & live like people like that don't exist. Show me yours & I'll show you mine, not the other way around. Sorry.

ejiro2130:
You with a scissor?? Now that's scary. I don't want to come on nairaland and see a thread wic says punkyoh sliced out her man's kidney for cheating on her

Anyway, am trying to say no matter how strong his relationship with the mistress was, is after he received a piece of u he did end it immediately. Any gal can say I love u but very few can go dat far

Sorry but I'd still hate him because I'd feel duped. Have I known, I wouldn't have made such a foolish sacrifice to begin with. I'd let him die Chilling but true. People are so selfish & self-serving, it's unbelievable. So until I meet that one person that has my back 100%, I'm sorry but I'll just continue to put myself 1st. You scratch my back & I'll scratch yours. Simples.

ejiro2130:
No u won't go mad, and no he won't cheat on u after having a piece of u right inside his body. There are some things a lady can could or would do for a guy that will make him say dammmme my flirting habits stops here

I'm saying if he had her all along, up until the point where he receives a kidney from me. Of course I'd go ballistic! Absolutely! I'd probably give him a 2nd surgery, with a home scissor this time

Blackett:
It's about you. How would you feel if the one you loved let you die?

I'd hate him.

Dude, we all have experiences that mold us & changes how we view certain things, people or whatever. My experiences have taught me not to trust anyone that isn't me. End of. I have deep loyalty but ain't nobody is going to get it until they have proven their loyalty to me in a similar situation. Until then, no bueno. Sorry. We'd need some kind of role reversal or whatever,me 1st of course, so I can get my reassurance on where their loyalty lies. Can't be going around giving freebies to undeserving, disloyal leeches who wouldn't do the same for me. I just can't.

Blackett:
If you want people who are stingy with their organs to stay away, how would you expect to someone to want you to stay, seeing how stingy you are with your organ?

If he doesn't want me after refusing to give him a kidney, then that's fine with me. It's not the end of the world. It's all up to him. Like it is up to me to pick who stays & who goes.

ejiro2130:
Why so much hate, I hope he doesn't read dis

It's not hate, it's reality as I see it. People are ungrateful leeches. And since forever is not guaranteed, he ain't having an organ of mine. Full stop. I can nurse him when he is sick but it ends there. Imagine finding out that he has been keeping a mistress on the side, after giving that nigga life...I'd go completely mad!

Blackett:
But if you were the one with the ailment?

Fùck me too I guess.

I don't think I'd ever ask that of anyone tbh (but I'd be hopeful of course ) because I know I wouldn't do it myself. I'd wait for a donor. Go for treatment & if that fails, then I'll accept my fate. Shrugs.

BUT, the people close to me that are too stingy with their organs better stay away!

I'm selfish. Plus I have trust issues, so..

hopeforcharles:
Tell her when you truly love someone, you will want to help them not minding sometimes the consequences, love is sweet, when I realise what love is, is when a girl broke my heart, it just felt like there is no reason to live, no hope, just bleakness, anyway love is the best thing to happen to people after garri, Hahahaha.

That is your own definition of what love is, don't make it mine. Love like many other things, is subjective. What's romantic to you, may be a foolish act to me. What you people need to do is get your heads out of your asses & face the facts that not everyone out there believes in the things you believe or views life in the same way that you do. It's really not that hard to do. Try it.

PrettyClare7:
wow umm its either your yet to experience love or you experienced a fake one.

Meaning ?

Ok whatever but if we breakup, then I think I'd want it back. Sorry. He's not about to get phly around town with MY kidney. He better sleep with one eye open

I doubt I'd ever make such a sacrifice for anyone except my child. People are too underhanded & sly to be fully trusted. So fùck him & his ailments.

OMG I remember a story this one girl told me about a guy she met at the casino, a place called Montecasino around Johannesburg. She & her friends were out having drinks at the casino bar when this guy walked up to them & offered to buy them even more drinks. He was attracted to her I guess, so he gave her friends a huge sum of money to go gamble at the tables, to give him more privacy with her I presume.

She said they clicked so well. Plus he was generous with them the whole time, so when he invited her to his house by the end of the evening, she readily accepted. Anyway, they went to the parking lot & the guy told her to wait outside, as he was busy having what she thought was a phone conversation with someone inside his car. She said he seemed to be arguing with whomever he was speaking with because he was busy making angry hand gestures, but she couldn't hear what he was saying. He finished the conversation, summoned her in & they started driving to his home. The girl said she noticed that there was a huge, green fly circling & buzzing around his head & his reaction to it seemed odd because he said something like, "Ey, voetsek wena maan!". Which basically means piss off. The conversation with the fly continued until they reached their destination, by this time she said she was a little scared of him because what creep talks to a fly! LOL!

She said he lived in a beautiful house, in some smanchsy pansy, leafy suburb uptown Jozi. She said she didn't even get the chance to enjoy the scenery before shyt got really real, with homeboy arguing not only with his pet fly (aka bodyguard. LOL! ) but the door as well! He was saying something along the lines of "Open sesame" (not really "open sesame" but I'm sure you get my point) because the house door was refusing to open with the key & he was now pleading with it. LOL!

The girl said she slowly backed away, was ready to run when she felt like the whole ground was vibrating & a deep voice coming from within the house or maybe it was the house itself, told the guy, "How many times have I told you not to bring girls into the house!?". At this point she said she lost it, doesn't even know how she managed to to jump over the wall but she did. She was so afraid, she was even starting to question her own sanity with all the crap she had experienced with Richie Rich.

The guy, we believe, must have been one of those people who use black magic to get rich & in return, get possessive spirits that refuse to let them live a normal life. Sigh. Things people do for money.

Demented goat.

If you're going to lie, at least make it believable. Not like your're telling it to your friends on the rètard bus.

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khia:
Do you or anyone close to you drink alcholol, if so what is your oppion of them?

I don't like alcohol either because I grew up with an alcoholic, my father. I know how frustrating it is to be a spouse to someone with an addiction, so it's a no go for me. No druggies, alcoholics or gamblers. Don't want headache.

Are you pro-weed?

khia:
Yes you are correct, but those such people would have an addictive nature and would be addictive to anything such as alcohol/ciggerettes/chocolate/coffee/men/women and so on and so forth *you get the picture*

But you can't tell just by looking at them if someone has an addictive personality or not, now can you? Hence I'd rather not even go there once I find out someone is into that sort of thing. The fact that they're smoking it & it's more than once, is an addiction all on its own so who is to say they won't try other things that'll give them a more potent high than the one they get from the weed. Hmm..