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Look at how those blocks were set

This kind of house is not possible in Nigeria

MS247:
Ok Mr Albert Einstein of Africa

Spirituality doesn't exist

You have no soul

Everything is physical

Infact you understand more than 30% of the Earth not to talk of vast universe

Because some with slave master gave you some book and made you read them you have infinite knowledge of the quantum physics of universe




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The ironic thing is you are even insulting yourself with your comment.

The Bible and Christianity you guys follow today was it not introduce to you by slave masters ?

You guys should keep deluding yourselves

Ask Israel what is an effective weopon of war between fasting and Guns and fighter jet.

You will just die of hunger while your fake god watch you starve to death.

dkidd:
Very simple. I wonder what the big deal is. if she no want do plenty dey line dey wait make she comot for road

If any Nigerian women meet wizkid, Davido, Kizz Daniel or even Rema would she bother about all those bullshits the OP listed before she sleep with them even on the first date ?

not many Nigerian women can even reject having sex with portable that is crazz, the moment a woman is stressing you or having doubts just know her interest in you is either declining or not high enough. It is a rejection and you should move on

Any women that have high interest in you will treat you close to how women treat popular celebrites and artists, if you are not getting that it mean you should stop chasing shadows and focus your attention where you will get the best results.

dolakeenia:
In the realm of dating and relationships, there are countless aspects to consider. One of the most sensitive and potentially confusing areas is the question of physical intimacy. It’s important to remember that every person is unique, and their reasons for not wanting to sleep with someone can vary widely.

What Does It Mean If a Girl Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You
In this article, we will delve into the common reasons why a girl may not want to sleep with you, exploring the complexities of emotions, boundaries, and consent.

1. Emotional Connection
One fundamental reason why a girl might not want to sleep with you is the lack of a strong emotional connection. Many people, regardless of gender, prefer to engage in sexual activities when they feel a deep and meaningful bond with their partner.

This connection is built on trust, shared experiences, and open communication. If your relationship lacks emotional intimacy, she might be hesitant to take the next step.

It’s crucial to remember that patience and understanding are key. Building an emotional connection takes time, and pressuring someone into physical intimacy is not a healthy approach. Instead, focus on strengthening your emotional bond and being there for her emotionally.

2. Past Trauma
Past trauma can deeply affect a person’s decision not to engage in sexual activities. If a girl has been through difficult or painful experiences like abuse or assault in the past, she may be scared of getting close to someone intimately.

These past hurts can make her feel vulnerable and anxious about sex. It’s essential to be understanding, patient, and supportive in such situations. Never push her to do something she’s uncomfortable with. If she’s willing, encourage her to seek professional help or therapy to heal from her past trauma.

And most importantly, let her set the pace for any physical intimacy in your relationship, respecting her boundaries and emotions. Remember, healing from past trauma takes time, but with love and support, she can gradually regain her trust and confidence.

3. Personal Values and Beliefs
Personal values and beliefs can strongly influence a girl’s choice not to have sex. These are like the rules and ideas that each person lives by. For some, their values might be based on their religion, culture, or simply what they feel is right. For example, someone might believe in waiting until marriage for sex because of their religious beliefs.

If your values and beliefs don’t match with your partner’s, it’s important to have open and honest conversations about it. You both need to understand and respect each other’s views. It’s not a good idea to pressure or try to change someone’s values.

Consent, or freely agreeing to sex, is a big part of a healthy relationship. It’s vital to ensure that both people are comfortable with the choices they make. So, if your partner’s values and beliefs are different from yours, respect their choices and look for ways to understand and support each other’s feelings.

4. Fear of Consequences
Fear of consequences means that a girl might worry about what could happen if she has sex. These worries can include things like getting pregnant or catching a sexually transmitted infection (STI). It’s natural to be concerned about these things because they can have a big impact on a person’s life.

If your partner is afraid of these consequences, it’s important to talk about it openly and honestly. You can discuss how to prevent pregnancy or STIs by using protection like condoms or birth control. It’s crucial to assure her that you’re responsible and committed to practicing safe sex.

By addressing these fears together, you can create a sense of security and comfort. Remember that respecting her concerns and choices is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship. You should never pressure her into anything she’s not ready for, and making decisions about sex should always be a mutual and informed choice.

5. Lack of Comfort
Lack of comfort means that a girl might not feel completely at ease or relaxed in the relationship. When it comes to sex, feeling comfortable is super important because it’s an intimate and vulnerable experience. If she’s not comfortable, it could be because the two of you don’t know each other well enough yet, or there might be trust issues or communication problems in the relationship.

To address this, it’s crucial to create a safe and open environment. Encourage her to talk about her thoughts and feelings, and be a good listener. Take the time to understand each other better. It’s important to respect her boundaries and never rush things, as pushing for intimacy can make her even more uncomfortable.

Building trust, being reliable, and fostering open communication is key to helping her feel more at ease and ready for any physical intimacy when the time is right. Remember, it’s a shared journey, and both partners should feel comfortable and respected in the relationship.

6. Timing and Readiness
Timing and readiness in a relationship mean that people may not be on the same page when it comes to physical intimacy. Some folks might be ready for it sooner, while others might need more time. It’s kind of like a book — each person has their own story to tell, and they turn the pages at their own pace.

If a girl is not ready for sex, it doesn’t mean she won’t ever be. It’s important to be patient and let things happen naturally. Rushing into something that one person isn’t comfortable with can lead to misunderstandings and discomfort.

The key is to pay attention to each other’s feelings and be sure you’re both okay with the timing. Consent should always be enthusiastic and willingly given, without any pressure or persuasion.

In a healthy relationship, it’s all about understanding and respecting each other’s feelings and pace and making sure that you both feel comfortable and ready before taking any big steps.

7. Relationship Goals
The goals and expectations within a relationship can vary greatly. While some people enter relationships with the intention of pursuing a committed, long-term partnership, others may be looking for something more casual. If there’s a mismatch in relationship goals, it can lead to one person not wanting to sleep with the other.

To avoid misunderstandings, it’s vital to have an open and honest discussion about your respective goals and intentions from the beginning. If your relationship goals differ significantly, it may be best to reevaluate the compatibility of your partnership.

8. Trust Issues
Trust is a foundational element of any successful relationship. If a girl has trust issues due to past betrayals or difficulties in her life, she may be reluctant to engage in physical intimacy. Rebuilding trust takes time and consistent effort, so it’s essential to be patient and understanding.

Demonstrate your trustworthiness by being reliable and honest in your actions and words. Building trust in a relationship is a mutual effort, so encourage her to express her concerns and work together to strengthen the bond of trust.

9. Lack of Communication
Effective communication is key in any relationship. If there is a lack of communication between partners, it can lead to misunderstandings and discomfort. A girl might not want to sleep with you if she feels that her needs and boundaries are not being acknowledged.

To address this issue, make an effort to improve your communication skills. Encourage open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and concerns. Active listening and empathy are essential tools for resolving communication problems and building healthier connections.

10. Unclear Consent
Consent is the cornerstone of any sexual activity. If a girl does not want to sleep with you, it might be due to a lack of clear and enthusiastic consent. It’s essential to ensure that both partners are on the same page and that there is no pressure or coercion involved.

Always ask for consent, and respect her decision regardless of the outcome. Consent should be freely given without any form of manipulation or pressure. It’s crucial to prioritize her comfort and autonomy above all else.

Conclusion
Understanding why a girl doesn’t want to sleep with you involves a complex interplay of emotions, past experiences, and individual preferences. It’s crucial to approach this topic with empathy, respect, and patience.

Building a healthy and fulfilling relationship is about more than just physical intimacy; it’s about connecting on emotional, intellectual, and personal levels. Remember that consent is non-negotiable, and respecting her boundaries is a fundamental aspect of any respectful and loving partnership.

In your journey to understand and navigate these delicate matters, keep in mind that healthy relationships are built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. By focusing on these elements, you can create a strong foundation for a meaningful and loving connection with your partner, regardless of the timeline of physical intimacy.

Only a jobless,stupid and simple man would be bothering about how a woman would get all these assurance before he can get sex.

It is all bullshits tactics use by women to manipulate men to make men waste their resources and times.

If a woman have a very high interest in a man she won't stress him and she will make everything easy.

If a woman is stressing you over sex or anything it is better to cut your losses and move on, it is just mean her interest level isn't high enough and it is a rejection from her.

This OP make it seem like it is only men that benefits from sex, women also enjoys it too and if a woman don't want to have sex with you for whatever reason it just mean you are not attractive to her enough, it is better to take it as a rejection and move on or else these girls will always waste your time and dissapoint you.

APOPTOSIS:

It's a phase.
All these shall pass in Nigeria.
People will grow up to realize that Religion was designed to reverence God & not God for religion.
People will grow up to know that God is neither a Christian, Muslim, ATR or Hindu, rather God Is God and that all modes of worships are geared towards "his" reverence and adoration.

People will grow up to realize that there's really no God and every religions are fakes

every active men should have it and see the changes it will bring to our society.

CJStarz:
She didn't do any longer throat,she merely loved him which wasn't a crime but just that the guy has a wicked heart.

It wasn't a crime but human should be ready for the consequences, repercussions of their actions and decisions.

I'm sure she knew the kind of man she was in love with and how dangerous he is.

CandyOps:
Baba, if you're honest with yourself you'll know as a man you cannot get girls without being somewhat of a simp to an extent.

If I'm dating you. You're automatically entitled to baby-girl treatments & privileges.

Besides, I'm not crying or sharing these emotions with her. I'm ranting here on NL because it's my outlet... and not to seek her validation.

You said something about a girl abandoning her plans to stay with a Man she has a high interest in... shey I tell you say I wan make she dey Naija with me??

I dey complain say I never too enjoy my barnie wey I just land before she dey travel you dey cap wetin I no ask you.

At this point in my life, I no need hang with any babe wey be baddie... or wey bad in any sense whatsoever... Apart from being a bad biitch in my bed.

I'm not all about the pussy bro. 😺

I'm about capturing souls.. and I have one here with me. I say since I begin date babes for Lagos na she tick all my boxes.

Babe wey dey call me, "my leader"

"My king"

If we dey enter new venue she'll softly say:

"Take the lead, you know you're my leader. Lead me and I'll follow"

Baba, I no dey find badder or baddest girls especially for place like Lagos

I done suppose get like 1 kid by now sef. So chill your redpill ass.

All i see is a lamentation of a simp, only a simp would believe in what women says and all those lovy dovy bullshits, experienced men know it is all lies. When it come to women look at their actions not what they says, they easily manipulate men with their words. She calls you "king" and "leader" If she meaned it and believed in you that much you would be the one deciding and planing her life right now even that migration plan but she didn't believe in you to that extent.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a girl you are in relationship with to an extent as long as you are getting times 2 of it back.

I know it is difficult to bear but it is just the truth, women can move mountain, abandon family, religion, friends and even change plans etc to be with a man they really want to be with if they value that man that much in their lives. It happens everyday, if a woman want to leave you for whatever just know it is just an excuse and a cover, know this and know peace. See how Chioma left her schooling for Davido in fact some women just abscond with a man to God knows where It all depend on how much they really want to be with the man.

I'm not saying you should ask her, you don't ask that type of thing she is going to be the one to make that decision on her own volition. Whatever she chose would showed how much she values you.

And your attitude as a man if a woman decided to leave for whatever reason you should also be ready to move and focus on your life and missions and other women that want to be with you, not getting work up, needy and desperate over a woman that may probably be having plans with other men at your back and screwing them.


If you don't want her to stay then why are you disturbing us with your wailing ?

let me tell you the truth

Women hate desperation and neediness and nothing scream you are desperate and needy than posting on social media that you need serious women for relationship and marriage

You won't get any serious women that way other than needy and unattractive , desperate women like you that can't get any man and women like that are with so many baggages and red flags that can destroy your life if you get together with them.

You can only get a serious relationship when you don't care about a serious relationship, you don't need relationship to enjoy your life and be happy.

No sensible women want to be with a needy man that can only be happy in a serious relationship.

if your value is high enough a woman can abandon her plan, family, religion etc just to be with you but i don't think your value is that high to her, reason why she want to really leave.


Instead of focusing on increasing your value and getting more badder babe than her, you are still simping.

Women don't really love needy guy that would be so work up over them leaving,

shortgun:
See how lowlife idiots supported a convicted criminal to become the one who decides the affairs of 200 million decent people.

You are the low life idiot here see the irony

Where was Tinubu convicted for any crime ?

Do you know the number of spare parts dealers in Lagos ?

It just mean one less competitor to deal with in Lagos spare parts markets.

SuperStriker:
You forge a document when you print it without the knowledge of the issuing body.

Who authorised him to use those signatures without the School's knowledge?

Why did he not approach the school for a replacement since he graduated from there instead of designing one for himself?

So if you graduated from UNILAG and you lose your certificate, instead of approaching UNILAG for a replacement, you can design one for yourself since you graduated from the school?

Is this how low you want Nigeria to sink just because of one man?

It is you people that have decided to be close minded and Ignorant.

There are different ways of doing things in different parts of the world, it is not one shoes fit all. What is possible in Nigeria may not be possible in China or Japan and vice versa.

They say USA don't attach much important to Certificate but transcript and records and the school said it allow student to get replacement certificate through third party vendor outside but many Nigerians are stubborn and close minded.

If the school allowed it who are you guys to say otherwise and say it must be your way ? You guys are all delusional as long as the school didn't deny him Atiku is just wasting his time.

typical christians, hypocritical

Fake religion

LikeAking:
True..

My point is our condition is not just a reflection of our imports and exports..

The hardship is beyond that..

Their must be something else..


Them no Dey tell us..

The Naira is slumping too much, even our fellow import addict countries are not been hit this bad.

The Naira is falling because CBN can't supply sufficient dollars and how can Nigeria earn more dollars to stabilize the naira against dollars ? through export unless we want to reduce our demand for dollars and import goods but we can't unless we can get it locally.

LikeAking:
What you published in your post as marchandise are mostly oil exports..

Here is the value of Saudi Arabia non oil exports:

Saudi Arabia’s non-oil exports increase by 4.4% in October to $6.62bn: GASTAT

Just $6.62 billion..

Calm down..


Question the world..

Our problem is lots of people are hustling importation, so we are over importing what we don’t need, then add importation of fuel..

unlike them..


We are been cheated by world economies..

It doesn't matter if it is oil or non oil as long as it earn them sufficient money. Export isn't limited to non - oil, it can be anything as long as it earn them forex.


Let me tell you one fact

Nigeria is not even importing enough, that import is too low for our population.

Nigerian is not importing enough and we are also not exporting enough, which means we are living in penury and abject poverty.

It is like not being able to make what you like and buy what you like.

LikeAking:
Some countries have worse imports than Nigeria, but their economy is still very solid..

All those theories are just the chains of colonialism..

Nigerian problem is bad government/ citizens and bad economics..

Our Northern African brothers even import more than us..

What we are importing is minor..

What we are earning is more than what we import..

well i will agree with you on that.

but one of the major problem in this country is we are not producing enough.

LikeAking:
Don’t believe everything you hear.. All ways question the world..

Nigeria is not even importing anything compared to our huge population..

Where is even the money to buy the imported stuffs..

Out import rate is even below normal..

In 2022, goods valued at a total of 53.61 billion U.S. dollars were imported into Nigeria. Imports generally grew from 2000 until their peak in 2014, although there was a sharp drop in 2009 due to the Great .

https://www.statista.com/statistics/383154/import-of-goods-to-nigeria/#:~:text=In%202022%2C%20goods%20valued%20at,due%20to%20the%20Great%20Recession.


Check how much other countries bigger or smaller than Nigeria import yearly.. e go shock you.. We are been deceived with the export/import theory..

This is basic economy not what i heard

Every country is like a company your revenue must be higher than your production cost to be profitable, basic economy.

Nigeria export and Revenue is too small for our population and to make it worse our import surpass our export.

LikeAking:
That export amount you posted is even too small for the whole Arab Emirates, consisting of all the Arab countries.

Do you know how much Saudi and co import?

That export theory is not very valid…

Even Mozambic and Botswana import more than us..

Egypt and co import more than us..

Nigeria is trying when it comes to manufacturing…. Na only tech and machines we don’t manufacture..

Our imports is even too small for a big country like Nigeria.



Our problem is mismanagement and corruption…

Oh my God you are so stubborn and Ignorant

It is not all Arab countries that are rich and there is no rich country in the world that import more than it export.

Is Egypt, Mozambique, Botswana rich countries although they may be fairing better than Nigeria they are not rich countries?

Look at Saudi import and Export for 2022

LikeAking:
You are not too correct..

TheArab guys even import more than us and manufacture less… Yet they are better than us economically ..

That export theory is not very solid, it’s mostly a narrative used to play 3rd world countries..

Nigeria is even trying when it comes to manufacturing.. Dubai and co even import sand..

Our problem is regulation of the importation industry.. We are over importing goods, plus corruption..

You are the one that don't know what you are saying.

Export isn't limited to manufacture goods, it can be services, mineral resources like crude oil or tourism, anything that generate forex for the country.

You think export is only limited to manufacture of goods ? it doesn't have to be manufactured goods, it can be mineral resources like crude oil, gold etc or tourism and entertainment it can be services like engineering and constructions, do you know how much China make from contructing trains, roads, bridges etc in other countries every year ?

Do you know how much forex Saudi Arabia and Isreal generate from religious tourism every year ? that alone can compete with Nigeria revenue from crude Oil

Do you know how much forex USA make from Hollywood music and Hip hop every year? that alone can buy Nigeria several times over.

Bobloco:
In five months, Tinubu single handedly destroy the naira further from N750-N1,150

At this rate Tinubu is about to surpassed Emefiele's 9year record in just a year

Is that not a catastrophe

The value of the Naira doesn't matter, Nigeria will always be a poor country until our export surpass what will import.

You guys are channeling your attention on the wrong thing.

Nigerians were still very poor under Obasanjo and Yaradua when naira still have some value and fuel was very cheap. All infrastructures were in comatose state or no infrastructures at all, many Nigerian youths were also jobless and difficult to get jobs and there was also not much different in the standard of living.

We just bought things cheaper during those times, the standard of living of Nigerians didn't increase.

This country will always be a poor country until our export surpass what will import it is the only thing that can create jobs and increase the standard of living.

Treadway:
your legislooters just performed their yearly ritual of buying and sharing 100m+ naira cars...spoiler alert, it wasn't innoson or Nord vehicles but imported brands...talk about leadership by example 🤣

Also we were not a producing country when Good luck or Yaradua or Obasanjo was president...hmmmm. what did they do right?🧐

During those period there was still massive poverty in Nigeria, infrastructures were almost non existent and the existing one were all in decrepit state.

Nigerians were still very poor during the tenure of Obasanjo and Yaradua with bad infrastructures or no infrastructures at all and among the poorest nations, you just have the delusion that Nigeria was better because you bought things cheaper lol.

Every thing Nigeria is suffering from didn't start today.

Devaluation of naira is not necessary a bad thing but the problem is Nigeria is not a producing country.

We import everything will consume in this country, if we are a producing country like China devaluation of naira will give us advantages over other producing countries, we will earn more forex because exportation will increase.

People import from China because it is much cheaper to import things from there than any place in the world, do you think it would be possible if their currency have the value close to that of US dollars?

Nigeria economy will always be stagnant and hopeless if we don't evolve from a consuming country to a producing one. Federal government should declare a state of emergency on the manufacturing and producing sector in this country, it is the only thing that can revive our economy.

Many Nigerians have been totally brainwashed with religion and take the Palestine/Isreal crisis as a religious war.

Israel know all the stories in the bible were fictional tales written to control people for dominance, like the Europeans used it to quickly colonized Nigeria.

The darkest secret most people don't know is that if it wasn't for religion it wouldn't have been easy for Europeans and Arabic people to colonized a lot of places in the world. Religion was just a tool invented for that purpose, if it wasn't for religion Fulani people wouldn't have been able to conquered Hausa people and continue to rule them to this day.

It is just like Yoruba people colonizing a country and exporting Isese religion, Ifa and Oduduwa stories there, calling Oduduwa the true God and other God fakes. The people that believed in the stories and converted to Isese would also treat Yoruba people as God children, believe they are special.

Open your mind people and free yourself from mind slavery, all religions are fakes invented to control people for power, do you know how much Saudi Arabia and Isreal make from religious tourism every year why won't they be rich ?

If your God is even a just God that created humanity equally why would he even give some of them special treatment after all every humans were his creation? The bible and quran are just racist books too bad most Africans are too deep in this mental slavery.

MXrep:
CEO no be owner, he is mere employee, a salary earner. Yorubas can't start something from scratch and grow it, they rather invite multinationals

In your delusional mind


You think you can beat Companies own by Yoruba in this country

MXrep:
What's your point Mr man?

Your generation slaving for a Yoruba man since you want to be petty

MXrep:
That's true. Igbos compete with multinationals not lazy skull miners

When talking about CEO of multi nationals can you even beat Yoruba ?

MXrep:

If biscuit making company mabisco shut down because they can't cope there are still hundreds of biscuit making company in Ibadan, Ogun and Lagos state.

Do you know that the popular Rite Gala that Igbo hawk in traffic is own by a Yoruba man?

MXrep:

look at the pathetic thing you are celebrating

Do you even know the number of steel factory in Ogun and Ibadan not to even talk about Lagos state ?

What's it with Muslims obsession with women and taking a lot of wives ?