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Omobude244:
I am from Edo state(Benin City) but based in Lagos with my family. I met this sweet Yoruba angel during the festive period in December 2020, we fell in love and ever since it has been from one sweet level to the other (although we have had misunderstanding sometimes but we usually settle immediately). she is nice, respectful both to my parents and siblings. I planned to engage her at our third year relationship anniversary which is supposed to be December this year, and the both of us have been talking of settling down by mid 2024.

The issue now is that since the past election, my parents have been advising me against continuing with the relationship. The girl that was once the talk of the family, suddenly everyone has developed a cold feet towards her. Even if they have been trying to hide it whenever she is around, she has started noticing it and have been asking me questions. What even angered my parents the more was how GRV (Gbadebo Rode Vivor) was treated by most Yorubas simply because his mother is Igbo even when the father is Yoruba. My parents are saying since I have interest in politics, I should go and get an Edo girl to marry. But I have always maintained that I wont marry from my tribe and they said if I dont want an Edo girl, I can go and get a lady from anywhere in the SS that they dont want a yoruba as a daughter inlaw.

I am confused right now. I love this girl and dont want to leave her, at the same time I dont want to disobey my parents. This girl even supported and voted GRV. I have tried to plead with them and even sent one of my uncle to go help me talk to them, they are still insisting that if I go ahead with my plans, then I should count them out of my marriage.

Please kindly advise on what I should do at this moment.

COPIED

it is an unfortunate incident if the girl married into your tribalistic family.

You are doing the girl a favor if you let her go

Monsignor22:
They've been peddling this same bizarre narrative all over twitter that Igbo women are obsessed with Yoruba men and prefer them to Igbo men, thankfully so many Igbo women including popular social media influencers politely but vehemently debunked the nonsense and made it clear they will always choose their Igbo men FIRST before settling for any ethnic group. For yoruba men, dating/marrying an Igbo woman is almost a fetish, like a psychological conquest for them...very strange mannerism.

Statistically 90% of Igbo women are married to Igbo men, infact the NEXT most common index of inter-tribal marriages when Igbo women choose to marry outside the culture are to South South men (especially Delta, Edo and parts of Rivers state). The tiny percentage that marry yoruba men are predominantly the ones born and raised in Lagos and have mingled more with yorubas more often than not, it's practically unheard or extremely rare that a core Igbo woman raised from the soil of Alaigbo will settle for yoruba, if she marries out then it's a man from a neighboring South South region.

Igbo men barely marry yoruba women, they are just bottom of the desirability index in Nigeria. After Igbo women our next preferences are Ibibio/Efik women, so many Ibibio/Calabar women are married to Igbo men. Then after South South women we tend to marry mostly foreigners like Caucasian women, Asian women, and in Africa South African, Kenyan, Cameroonian and Ugandan women in that order. There's even a Kenyan and South African page on Facebook where women from those countries specially discuss their marriages to Igbo men, South African women in particular probably have the highest number of children to Igbo guys who live there, a situation that has always caused serious problems between them and their men who accuse Nigerians of taking their women.

Yoruba women are also not interested in Igbo men in fact Igbo men are at the bottom of desirability index in Nigeria.

Have you ever seen any Yoruba women crying about rejection from Igbo or wailing about it online ? it's usually you guys crying and wailing about not taking Yoruba women as if they are interested in you in the first place lol.

emmanuelbrown26:
U are just mentioning celebrities, chaiiii so that what u could bring out?
Why is it that any handsome dude in Yoruba land is refer as igbo
Any beautiful lady is igbo
Any fair person is igbo
Anybody with swag is igbo. Even during election same ting played out

are the people i listed not Yoruba ?

all those bullshits you listed only occur in your delusional mind

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proeast:
Lol, his ignorance is undiluted. It's extremely difficult to see any Igbo woman that will want to marry a Yoruba man. Except such Yoruba man is a celebrity like Davido or wealthy. Igbo women consider Yoruba men only when their chances of getting Igbo men are very low. Especially, when it is due to certain traditional reasons which I won't mention here.

However, on the contrary, Yoruba men who succeed in marrying Igbo women see it as a great achievement.

These are facts no one would argue except ignorant ones.

Most of you guys are delusional with false sense of importance lol

i doubt you have ever live in the West, there's no Yoruba family that would heard about their son or daughter getting married to an Igbo but not think twice about it and even oppose the idea but you see most Yoruba wealthy families are more liberal and educated and they tend to be more open to the idea of intertribal marriage, that's what is giving you the false idea that's well accepted in the west.

Well let me tell you most Yoruba don't think shit of Igbo talkless of putting any significance in marriage with them in fact they just rate you hardly better than Aboki, abi have you ever heard of any igbo getting special privileges in the west because they are Igbo either men or women ?

Yoruba are very narcissistic in the west, in fact most Yoruba believe they are the real Nigerians and don't put other geopolitical zones in their eyes, reason why most Yoruba hardly have any knowledge about other zones or rarely leave south west.

Your people are all over south west and still troop in every day so there's no way there wouldn't be one or two inter marriages, the question you should be asking is how many Yoruba men are in the East to hunt for wife?

You guys hate Yoruba calling you "omo igbo" well that name is becoming derogatory in the west these days. Some Yoruba may admire some Igbo people ability to handle business and hustle same way you will see some Yoruba admiring northerners or hausa people for their simple lifestyles and hardwork, some will even call them honest and trust worthy, it's not more than that or to the extent they give 2 shits about marriage with Igbo women.

Bendeco2020:
No woman from any tribe can see yoruba men as more capable.

Is it their talkertiv nature or stature?

The last time I checked, women are attracted to masculine men and Igbo men are more masculine in nature than skinny and obese yoruba men

What make Igbo men masculine lol

Is it their short, round with pot belly stature and funny accents?


Look at Isreal Adesanya, Anthony Joshua , Odunlade Adekola , Bolanle Ninalowo, Femi Adebayo , even Sheegz from bb naija etc those are tall and handsome masculine men and they are all Yoruba.

Igbo men are mostly short and round with funny accents.

We will save all this as receipts for 2027

garriAndsugar:
Hope when they misbehave you will caution them because I noticed you yorubas support anything from Yoruba even if it's a goat

And you goat are always happy about any negative news about the country even at this good news you goats are still very bitter

frozen70:
You just commented like a fool

A Yoruba woman must have snatched your boyfriend.

Bitter Igbo girl

frozen70:
Thank you for this input, am sure you have already paid your dues in marriage that's why you are experiencing peace with your Igbo wife

Yes they hustle and support their husband's unlike the Yoruba women that hardly supports their husband because they know that he may have another secret wife else where

How many Yoruba women do you know ?
You people generalize like a fool

by The Unknown Don

A few days ago I turned 40 and tonight I was just thinking about past relationships... the things that went right, the things that went wrong, and the outright disasters.

A little background. I'm a reasonably well-off, college-educated white male, 6'0" in good shape. I've been married once for 5 years, divorced for 3. I went through my AFC (wussy) phase in my late teens, but I was fortunate enough to snap out of it by the time I was 20. From then on it was smooth sailing.

I've been reading many of the articles and message threads here. I agree with quite a bit, but I think there are some areas that need a little fleshing out and amplification. So I'd like to share some of my observations in no particular order:

1) No matter how good-looking a woman is, she will always become boring (particularly sexually) with time. The boredom accelerates if the relationship becomes domestic (living together, marriage, etc.).

2) Men remain in boring relationships out of sentimentality or financial convenience... but rarely fear.

3) Over the long run, the periods that men are without a partner and frustrated are generally happier than being stuck in a relationship which has lost its luster.

4) Women generally do the selecting in the earliest phases of a relationship. Once a woman has committed herself emotionally, the balance of power shifts to the man (assuming he has some degree of self-confidence).

5) Contrary to the myth that "looks don't matter" to women, physical attraction may be the primary and key deciding factor for a woman. However, it is difficult to determine just what will be physically attractive to any particular female. Even though men also value looks, they are far more willing to initially compromise on looks in the pursuit of sex.

6) If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.

7) If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do right on a first date.

Always pay attention to a woman's actions. If she says she likes you but will not respond to kissing or touching, then she doesn't like you. Move on immediately.

9) Just like there are many men who are simply assholes, the same goes for women. If a woman is rude or inconsiderate in the first few dates, move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.

10) Any strange psychological problems, drug problems or baggage... move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.

11) All women have the same body parts. Don't obsess over one particular female based on appearance. It's a waste of life.

12) The vast majority of men get rejected much more often than they seal the deal. If you are rejected you are simply shooting par. Relax.

13) Above all, women crave attention. Women want to date rock stars not because they find the man himself exciting, but because they find the thought of sharing the limelight exciting. Ask any young girl what she wants to be. Top answers: model, actress, singer.

14) The sad truth is that we can only truly know ourselves. A wonderful woman you marry today and trust completely may change radically over the course of time to become your most vicious enemy. There is absolutely no way to predict this or stop this from happening. It is, ultimately, a matter of chance.

15) There are far more available women out there than you think.

16) Humans are generally not very good at monogamy. Most men in long-term relationships cheat to varying degrees, and a great number of women do as well. It's simply a matter of biology. If you discover that your significant other had an affair, the best course of action may sometimes be to take the high road and let it go.

17) Never, never, never be afraid to approach a female. To reiterate: they all have the same body parts, and they are all composed of Carbon, Hydrogen, Oxygen, Nitrogen, and trace elements. There isn't a single woman on Earth who is "above" you, no matter what her affectations and social pretenses.

18) Women tend to be far more pragmatic about relationships than men.

19) Unconditional love is a nice sentiment, but does not generally apply to male/female relationships. It does however, almost always apply to female/child, and to a slightly lesser extent, male/child relationships.

20) Never become financially entangled with a female. If you decide to marry, do not even think of doing so without a prenuptial agreement. This is common practice in Europe, however there is still a social stigma attached to these agreements in the U.S.

21) Sex is generally overrated. The amount of effort expended in obtaining it vs. the payoff is absurd.

22) If a woman in a relationship begins to lose interest, it is usually impossible to regain it. The feelings you are having of confusion and fear mean something... trust your gut and move on immediately.

23) After breakups, men usually tend to forget about the sexual boredom and once again find their past girlfriends exciting.

24) If a woman has not gained some form of emotional stability by the time she is her mid-twenties, then it is too late. Move on immediately.

25) Avoid women with a large number of pets or women who pay unusual amounts of attention to their pets.

26) Most first-time marriages fail. Consider that if you decide to get married, there is better than a coin-flip chance that you will be divorced. If any other civil contract had as high a failure rate, Congress would outlaw it. The world has changed dramatically in the last three or four decades and many people have postponed marriage until much later in life, or simply never get married.

27) If you do decide to get married, remember that it IS a contract - one that you can't get out of without a great deal of expense and pain. Never be sentimental about marriage. Love is only one piece of the pie. You may love a woman terribly, but you may also be unable to deal with her in everyday affairs and money matters.

28) Avoid women with addictions, particularly the big three: nicotine, alcohol, and born-again Christianity.

29) Never avoid discussing something that bothers you out of fear of losing the relationship. Most relationships will - sooner or later - be lost anyway. It's better to stand up for yourself early on.

30) Always keep the ego in check. If a woman you are approaching for the first time is rude or obnoxious, simply go away. Tossing an insult or scathingly witty comment back simply demonstrates that your self-confidence is far lower than hers. Always, always, always take the higher road. This doesn't mean be a pushover, it means you bend with the wind (kind of a Zen thing). The best way to disarm an obnoxious female is to treat her with courtesy and respect.

31) There is an inverse relationship between self-confidence and concern with what others think of you.

32) Self-confident men desire sex, but don't dwell on it.

33) Most reasonable, normal women will make it clear if they are attracted to you or not very early on. Period. If you have difficulty reading a woman's motives, or find yourself dwelling on what she meant by something she said, or you can't seem to pin down a date, then move on immediately.

Hope this helps.

https://www.sosuave.com/articles/25years.htm

Owologbo:
it's because Yorubas worship money and are coward by nature.

Yoruba are not coward by nature

The only tribe in Nigeria that built an empire from Nigeria to Benin republic and Togo even part of Ghana.

You think cowards could have an empire that big ?

DesChyko:
Okay. Is that why you lots are using bot accounts to like your posts? 🤔

i know it's difficult for delusional people like you to bear that Tinubu have supporters

TruthsFM:
he failed woefully to tame his clueless enemy and clueless godfather in Lagos State

you guys are just idiots

He failed to gain the support of the people he needed to secure second term tell me how was that the fault of Tinubu ?

he wasn't impeached he lost primary election plain and simple but you guys turn it to something else because of your hatred for Tinubu lol

no politician can survive losing primary and he failed to get the support of the people he needed how was that Tinubu's fault ?

Tinubu might be a godfather but he's not a tyrant, that's why he could last in South West politics.

TruthsFM:
Ambode is a clueless coward and the clueless coward allowed the clueless people he termed his loyalists mislead him to become a coward why he was the governor for 4 years. Till today Epe people will always hailed series of curse to Tinubu over what he did to their son Ambode. Niger delta people aren’t coward, they act accordingly without waste any time. SIM Fubara will surely succeed in government by defeating his clueless power hunger godfather Wike that forgets that Power intoxicates, Power kills. Wike will be heavily shamed and dealt with. Infact, It will be very difficult for Wike to come to Rivers State.

You are the idiot here

Ambode was'nt impeached he failed to win the primary election. Tell me how he should fight against that lol

You can date any woman if you have the right confidence but military women ain't worth it as a wife. You may compete forever with the government for her time unless she quit.

Look at how those blocks were set

This kind of house is not possible in Nigeria

MS247:
Ok Mr Albert Einstein of Africa

Spirituality doesn't exist

You have no soul

Everything is physical

Infact you understand more than 30% of the Earth not to talk of vast universe

Because some with slave master gave you some book and made you read them you have infinite knowledge of the quantum physics of universe




.

The ironic thing is you are even insulting yourself with your comment.

The Bible and Christianity you guys follow today was it not introduce to you by slave masters ?

You guys should keep deluding yourselves

Ask Israel what is an effective weopon of war between fasting and Guns and fighter jet.

You will just die of hunger while your fake god watch you starve to death.

dkidd:
Very simple. I wonder what the big deal is. if she no want do plenty dey line dey wait make she comot for road

If any Nigerian women meet wizkid, Davido, Kizz Daniel or even Rema would she bother about all those bullshits the OP listed before she sleep with them even on the first date ?

not many Nigerian women can even reject having sex with portable that is crazz, the moment a woman is stressing you or having doubts just know her interest in you is either declining or not high enough. It is a rejection and you should move on

Any women that have high interest in you will treat you close to how women treat popular celebrites and artists, if you are not getting that it mean you should stop chasing shadows and focus your attention where you will get the best results.

dolakeenia:
In the realm of dating and relationships, there are countless aspects to consider. One of the most sensitive and potentially confusing areas is the question of physical intimacy. It’s important to remember that every person is unique, and their reasons for not wanting to sleep with someone can vary widely.

What Does It Mean If a Girl Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You
In this article, we will delve into the common reasons why a girl may not want to sleep with you, exploring the complexities of emotions, boundaries, and consent.

1. Emotional Connection
One fundamental reason why a girl might not want to sleep with you is the lack of a strong emotional connection. Many people, regardless of gender, prefer to engage in sexual activities when they feel a deep and meaningful bond with their partner.

This connection is built on trust, shared experiences, and open communication. If your relationship lacks emotional intimacy, she might be hesitant to take the next step.

It’s crucial to remember that patience and understanding are key. Building an emotional connection takes time, and pressuring someone into physical intimacy is not a healthy approach. Instead, focus on strengthening your emotional bond and being there for her emotionally.

2. Past Trauma
Past trauma can deeply affect a person’s decision not to engage in sexual activities. If a girl has been through difficult or painful experiences like abuse or assault in the past, she may be scared of getting close to someone intimately.

These past hurts can make her feel vulnerable and anxious about sex. It’s essential to be understanding, patient, and supportive in such situations. Never push her to do something she’s uncomfortable with. If she’s willing, encourage her to seek professional help or therapy to heal from her past trauma.

And most importantly, let her set the pace for any physical intimacy in your relationship, respecting her boundaries and emotions. Remember, healing from past trauma takes time, but with love and support, she can gradually regain her trust and confidence.

3. Personal Values and Beliefs
Personal values and beliefs can strongly influence a girl’s choice not to have sex. These are like the rules and ideas that each person lives by. For some, their values might be based on their religion, culture, or simply what they feel is right. For example, someone might believe in waiting until marriage for sex because of their religious beliefs.

If your values and beliefs don’t match with your partner’s, it’s important to have open and honest conversations about it. You both need to understand and respect each other’s views. It’s not a good idea to pressure or try to change someone’s values.

Consent, or freely agreeing to sex, is a big part of a healthy relationship. It’s vital to ensure that both people are comfortable with the choices they make. So, if your partner’s values and beliefs are different from yours, respect their choices and look for ways to understand and support each other’s feelings.

4. Fear of Consequences
Fear of consequences means that a girl might worry about what could happen if she has sex. These worries can include things like getting pregnant or catching a sexually transmitted infection (STI). It’s natural to be concerned about these things because they can have a big impact on a person’s life.

If your partner is afraid of these consequences, it’s important to talk about it openly and honestly. You can discuss how to prevent pregnancy or STIs by using protection like condoms or birth control. It’s crucial to assure her that you’re responsible and committed to practicing safe sex.

By addressing these fears together, you can create a sense of security and comfort. Remember that respecting her concerns and choices is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship. You should never pressure her into anything she’s not ready for, and making decisions about sex should always be a mutual and informed choice.

5. Lack of Comfort
Lack of comfort means that a girl might not feel completely at ease or relaxed in the relationship. When it comes to sex, feeling comfortable is super important because it’s an intimate and vulnerable experience. If she’s not comfortable, it could be because the two of you don’t know each other well enough yet, or there might be trust issues or communication problems in the relationship.

To address this, it’s crucial to create a safe and open environment. Encourage her to talk about her thoughts and feelings, and be a good listener. Take the time to understand each other better. It’s important to respect her boundaries and never rush things, as pushing for intimacy can make her even more uncomfortable.

Building trust, being reliable, and fostering open communication is key to helping her feel more at ease and ready for any physical intimacy when the time is right. Remember, it’s a shared journey, and both partners should feel comfortable and respected in the relationship.

6. Timing and Readiness
Timing and readiness in a relationship mean that people may not be on the same page when it comes to physical intimacy. Some folks might be ready for it sooner, while others might need more time. It’s kind of like a book — each person has their own story to tell, and they turn the pages at their own pace.

If a girl is not ready for sex, it doesn’t mean she won’t ever be. It’s important to be patient and let things happen naturally. Rushing into something that one person isn’t comfortable with can lead to misunderstandings and discomfort.

The key is to pay attention to each other’s feelings and be sure you’re both okay with the timing. Consent should always be enthusiastic and willingly given, without any pressure or persuasion.

In a healthy relationship, it’s all about understanding and respecting each other’s feelings and pace and making sure that you both feel comfortable and ready before taking any big steps.

7. Relationship Goals
The goals and expectations within a relationship can vary greatly. While some people enter relationships with the intention of pursuing a committed, long-term partnership, others may be looking for something more casual. If there’s a mismatch in relationship goals, it can lead to one person not wanting to sleep with the other.

To avoid misunderstandings, it’s vital to have an open and honest discussion about your respective goals and intentions from the beginning. If your relationship goals differ significantly, it may be best to reevaluate the compatibility of your partnership.

8. Trust Issues
Trust is a foundational element of any successful relationship. If a girl has trust issues due to past betrayals or difficulties in her life, she may be reluctant to engage in physical intimacy. Rebuilding trust takes time and consistent effort, so it’s essential to be patient and understanding.

Demonstrate your trustworthiness by being reliable and honest in your actions and words. Building trust in a relationship is a mutual effort, so encourage her to express her concerns and work together to strengthen the bond of trust.

9. Lack of Communication
Effective communication is key in any relationship. If there is a lack of communication between partners, it can lead to misunderstandings and discomfort. A girl might not want to sleep with you if she feels that her needs and boundaries are not being acknowledged.

To address this issue, make an effort to improve your communication skills. Encourage open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and concerns. Active listening and empathy are essential tools for resolving communication problems and building healthier connections.

10. Unclear Consent
Consent is the cornerstone of any sexual activity. If a girl does not want to sleep with you, it might be due to a lack of clear and enthusiastic consent. It’s essential to ensure that both partners are on the same page and that there is no pressure or coercion involved.

Always ask for consent, and respect her decision regardless of the outcome. Consent should be freely given without any form of manipulation or pressure. It’s crucial to prioritize her comfort and autonomy above all else.

Conclusion
Understanding why a girl doesn’t want to sleep with you involves a complex interplay of emotions, past experiences, and individual preferences. It’s crucial to approach this topic with empathy, respect, and patience.

Building a healthy and fulfilling relationship is about more than just physical intimacy; it’s about connecting on emotional, intellectual, and personal levels. Remember that consent is non-negotiable, and respecting her boundaries is a fundamental aspect of any respectful and loving partnership.

In your journey to understand and navigate these delicate matters, keep in mind that healthy relationships are built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. By focusing on these elements, you can create a strong foundation for a meaningful and loving connection with your partner, regardless of the timeline of physical intimacy.

Only a jobless,stupid and simple man would be bothering about how a woman would get all these assurance before he can get sex.

It is all bullshits tactics use by women to manipulate men to make men waste their resources and times.

If a woman have a very high interest in a man she won't stress him and she will make everything easy.

If a woman is stressing you over sex or anything it is better to cut your losses and move on, it is just mean her interest level isn't high enough and it is a rejection from her.

This OP make it seem like it is only men that benefits from sex, women also enjoys it too and if a woman don't want to have sex with you for whatever reason it just mean you are not attractive to her enough, it is better to take it as a rejection and move on or else these girls will always waste your time and dissapoint you.

APOPTOSIS:

It's a phase.
All these shall pass in Nigeria.
People will grow up to realize that Religion was designed to reverence God & not God for religion.
People will grow up to know that God is neither a Christian, Muslim, ATR or Hindu, rather God Is God and that all modes of worships are geared towards "his" reverence and adoration.

People will grow up to realize that there's really no God and every religions are fakes

every active men should have it and see the changes it will bring to our society.

CJStarz:
She didn't do any longer throat,she merely loved him which wasn't a crime but just that the guy has a wicked heart.

It wasn't a crime but human should be ready for the consequences, repercussions of their actions and decisions.

I'm sure she knew the kind of man she was in love with and how dangerous he is.

CandyOps:
Baba, if you're honest with yourself you'll know as a man you cannot get girls without being somewhat of a simp to an extent.

If I'm dating you. You're automatically entitled to baby-girl treatments & privileges.

Besides, I'm not crying or sharing these emotions with her. I'm ranting here on NL because it's my outlet... and not to seek her validation.

You said something about a girl abandoning her plans to stay with a Man she has a high interest in... shey I tell you say I wan make she dey Naija with me??

I dey complain say I never too enjoy my barnie wey I just land before she dey travel you dey cap wetin I no ask you.

At this point in my life, I no need hang with any babe wey be baddie... or wey bad in any sense whatsoever... Apart from being a bad biitch in my bed.

I'm not all about the pussy bro. 😺

I'm about capturing souls.. and I have one here with me. I say since I begin date babes for Lagos na she tick all my boxes.

Babe wey dey call me, "my leader"

"My king"

If we dey enter new venue she'll softly say:

"Take the lead, you know you're my leader. Lead me and I'll follow"

Baba, I no dey find badder or baddest girls especially for place like Lagos

I done suppose get like 1 kid by now sef. So chill your redpill ass.

All i see is a lamentation of a simp, only a simp would believe in what women says and all those lovy dovy bullshits, experienced men know it is all lies. When it come to women look at their actions not what they says, they easily manipulate men with their words. She calls you "king" and "leader" If she meaned it and believed in you that much you would be the one deciding and planing her life right now even that migration plan but she didn't believe in you to that extent.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a girl you are in relationship with to an extent as long as you are getting times 2 of it back.

I know it is difficult to bear but it is just the truth, women can move mountain, abandon family, religion, friends and even change plans etc to be with a man they really want to be with if they value that man that much in their lives. It happens everyday, if a woman want to leave you for whatever just know it is just an excuse and a cover, know this and know peace. See how Chioma left her schooling for Davido in fact some women just abscond with a man to God knows where It all depend on how much they really want to be with the man.

I'm not saying you should ask her, you don't ask that type of thing she is going to be the one to make that decision on her own volition. Whatever she chose would showed how much she values you.

And your attitude as a man if a woman decided to leave for whatever reason you should also be ready to move and focus on your life and missions and other women that want to be with you, not getting work up, needy and desperate over a woman that may probably be having plans with other men at your back and screwing them.


If you don't want her to stay then why are you disturbing us with your wailing ?

let me tell you the truth

Women hate desperation and neediness and nothing scream you are desperate and needy than posting on social media that you need serious women for relationship and marriage

You won't get any serious women that way other than needy and unattractive , desperate women like you that can't get any man and women like that are with so many baggages and red flags that can destroy your life if you get together with them.

You can only get a serious relationship when you don't care about a serious relationship, you don't need relationship to enjoy your life and be happy.

No sensible women want to be with a needy man that can only be happy in a serious relationship.

if your value is high enough a woman can abandon her plan, family, religion etc just to be with you but i don't think your value is that high to her, reason why she want to really leave.


Instead of focusing on increasing your value and getting more badder babe than her, you are still simping.

Women don't really love needy guy that would be so work up over them leaving,

shortgun:
See how lowlife idiots supported a convicted criminal to become the one who decides the affairs of 200 million decent people.

You are the low life idiot here see the irony

Where was Tinubu convicted for any crime ?

Do you know the number of spare parts dealers in Lagos ?

It just mean one less competitor to deal with in Lagos spare parts markets.

SuperStriker:
You forge a document when you print it without the knowledge of the issuing body.

Who authorised him to use those signatures without the School's knowledge?

Why did he not approach the school for a replacement since he graduated from there instead of designing one for himself?

So if you graduated from UNILAG and you lose your certificate, instead of approaching UNILAG for a replacement, you can design one for yourself since you graduated from the school?

Is this how low you want Nigeria to sink just because of one man?

It is you people that have decided to be close minded and Ignorant.

There are different ways of doing things in different parts of the world, it is not one shoes fit all. What is possible in Nigeria may not be possible in China or Japan and vice versa.

They say USA don't attach much important to Certificate but transcript and records and the school said it allow student to get replacement certificate through third party vendor outside but many Nigerians are stubborn and close minded.

If the school allowed it who are you guys to say otherwise and say it must be your way ? You guys are all delusional as long as the school didn't deny him Atiku is just wasting his time.

typical christians, hypocritical

Fake religion

LikeAking:
True..

My point is our condition is not just a reflection of our imports and exports..

The hardship is beyond that..

Their must be something else..


Them no Dey tell us..

The Naira is slumping too much, even our fellow import addict countries are not been hit this bad.

The Naira is falling because CBN can't supply sufficient dollars and how can Nigeria earn more dollars to stabilize the naira against dollars ? through export unless we want to reduce our demand for dollars and import goods but we can't unless we can get it locally.