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Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

Pls moderators help push this to front page for more views and replies.

You need slap of reality, so do you want to sleep with a married woman ?

I will do the same, the thought of forking out 1 million for a mac laptop doesn't make sense to me.

if you're IOS Dev, I have some few questions

Can you upload your app to the store with Hackintosh without issues

Breaking News: Op discovers Generalization are false

ObaKlaz:
She just left rap like that and started sexualizing herself like just any other Instagram bimbo.
I still rate her my best Nigerian female rapper, Blaise can take number two spot.

A very happy birthday, Eva Alordiah!!!

She's running a learning platform actually Kobocourse , just correcting you.

Marijuana

School and Grade doesn't mean good life o, she just wasted her life for nothing.

lordally:
There are ways you can go about this Q. You can get a legit bank statement with any amount you want in your bank account all worked out. If it's a six month bank statement showing inflow and outflow of cash with any total balance you want, it can be done. A guy that did it who is now in Poland did it for a 100k . Like the money would be in your account for real but you can't withdraw it. Renmoney charges might be much abeg. Once the time comes and you weigh your options you can let me know.

Noted, I will

PeaceJoyLove:
How many percentage interest is Renmoney? Do you pay monthly?

I haven't taken but I will, I will let you know the rate.

There is even Freelance Visa but you have to renew.

tensazangetsu20:
I don't think qtguru will wait endlessly for tech opportunities. He's a senior developer O with more than 5 years experience even I that has just a year of experience is getting hits for relocation jobs. Last week I had 3 interviews all were relocation jobs. I am still in the middle of one and it's a for a very large company in the gaming industry. People are getting sponsored out of Nigeria everyday cause there's not enough people in the developed world who can code.

Senior Engineer are more expensive to relocate, but the flip side is, in Nigeria I have no issues, as the Naira against the dollars, but settling down is the issue. As I am, I am enjoying, as things are cheaper for me than over there, but as we spoke on the phone, the benefits outweigh whatever is in Nigeria by 10 folds. Just watch I will relocate, I dey Shopify Partner Slack Channel with Agencies and Stores, and if you see the simplest task they ask for, and also Nigerians out there managing stores for big companies. me and you will talk more sha

PeaceJoyLove:
Most of these stuff are now outsourced remotely. It may be hard for you. Let me give you a better strategy. Hustle hard and save cash. Then, go and apply for US, Canadian, or UK visa. See, you may not get US, and Canada may be hard too. But you will definitely get UK visa now if you have the requirements. And the main hindrance is your financial statement. And the good news is that you need like 28 days. Just make it 2 months even you will borrow.

Do not say the cost of tuition is expensive ooo. Just do it and go to school. Pay the tuition fees and graduate. You can easily stay in these three nations now . Save well. Go for it. After getting there, you will start getting better jobs. Trust me. This is worth doing. You may wait endless for programming or tech job opportunities.

Anyway, you can consult tensazangetsu20. I think he knows some ways you can get jobs in Germany and other places.

School is last resort, the stress via school is too much wahala , but I will use School to cut out, I will use people's money for proof of funds, I just need to borrow cash from Renmoney and build my score and be returning back.

PeaceJoyLove:
What's your specialty?

Currently it is Front-end and Microservices, but I am gradually shifting to Shopify because I have alot of skills that aligns with their tech and lots of opportunity

tensazangetsu20:
Bros I started getting interviews for relocation jobs. My only hope is one clicks. This country is finished. Only people who want to deceive themselves have hope in Nigeria.

It's only remote they always offer me, my relocation bet is on Shopify for now.

tensazangetsu20:
I appreciate your optimism but tech won't really change anything in Nigeria. Nigeria of the next ten years will be Afghanistan level or even worst especially with what is going on in the north while the south will be a completely failed state like Congo or Liberia. The only tech can do is just create a few economic opportunities for young Nigerians thats all but to change the fundamental structure of Nigeria. Forget it Nigeria will never change. Nigeria of today is even a paradise to the Nigeria coming. You cant even compare Nigeria of 2008 to the Nigeria of 2021. Then compare the Nigeria of 2041 to today. The future is very obvious except we want to deceive ourselves.

Exactly things are only getting worse, I see no future too. Anyone that can relocate should move fast.

ShadowWalker00:
c# >>>>

but not the ecosystem, tooling and support

Java its more robust

LikeAking:
Any help!

woocommerce in iterms of support, OpenCart devs are hard to find, uinless you can code, and their development style is weird.

bodybuilder:
I hate people that continuously tell people especially on social media to celebrate the success of others. It's just virtue signalling to me. Why would I celebrate your success? Am I the one driving the nice car, Am I the one who is eating in fancy restaurant, wearing designer clothes? Or banging the hot babes? Why should I celebrate?
So much entitlement. You don't expect someone whose life is mess to be happy about your amazing life. It's an unrealistic bullshit. Tell the starving kid to be happy about your big bowl of chicken.
The sheer hypocrisy when I see some dumb wannabe fraudsters staying 'Wetin you wan do with another man downfall" all over social media. Coming from someone that earns a living off the downfall, tears and sweats of men.

The success of others can ginger you sometimes, unless na fvckboy wey cashout

michlins:
It's all good until you start raising kids when others are planning retirement.


Get married when you are young especially when you have the resources. Raising children is one hell of serious venture. You need all your skills and resources to be topnotch

true

kneehighbootz:
Sorry if this question is intrusive, but why haven't you left the country? With your skills and experience, you could migrate easily

Well they tend to place me on full-time remote than relocation , but can't complain, i enjoy the benefit

kneehighbootz:
Sorry if this question is intrusive, but why haven't you left the country? With your skills and experience, you could migrate easily

Bad luck and bad timing.

Oyiboman69:
The notion that women are doing men favour when they decides to stick around them for any reasons still beats my imagination....

Sticking around them and believing in someone are 2 different thing, you'd to be hardened man not to appreciate loyalty and moral support.

Shayron:
I have been on this forum for quite sometime, I have been a guest all this while but my friend is in desperate need of help so I figure out it would be better if I seek you guys opinion.

I have a friend who's uncle is a well to do man works in a big organization and can use is influence to secure jobs or loans for my freind.

My freind has been at his Mercy for quite some time now, she is very hard-working though but she has witnessed the man help those who ain't even family members secure jobs in great places.

This is someone she calls family and uncle. This is not the first time of seeing this, I have seen this quite a lot it's very common amongst our people here in the south.

My question is why do family members turn your backs on you even though they have the power to help you out of your current situation. Blood they say is Thicke than water if I can't help my cousin or nephew then why are we family. She has been begging this man, and this man clearly can work things out.
She has a work herself but it's not self sustaining coupled with the act that she has younger ones to look after.

I have told her to look elsewhere that sometimes our helpers are not close as we think? What kinda advie would you give her

Maybe your friend doesn't the skills for those great jobs, does she have a plan or an idea or just expecting the uncle to place her somehwhere.