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isaiah4life:
when you want to apply for a graduate trainee position as a fresh graduate and they post age limit 22-23 then you will thank parents for rushing their kids.

We gather dey

colorsofrainbow:
My own na to see the comments for dis particular thread...
My co comment readers,una welcome!

Valkrie:
Person pay for something and on top dance in the public for your father, mother, family members and the general public for same thing and you still deny him...You think it's easy? This is yahoo yahoo...!! and even you madam would not accept it if same treatment is mented to you..!!

Very true

Pierced:
The road blockage caused inflation especially in Lagos.

Drivers of vehicles bringing goods from the north were scared of coming to Lagos because of the arson and looting.

People cheat because they want to, there is little or nothing you can do to stop someone who is determined to cheat.

It MAY not necessarily be about you. I know how painful it can be but don't hurt yourself, don't hate or blame yourself, put yourself together and move on.

Take care!

I quite agree

pozehnani:
So many flings will make you too picky and make it difficult to find someone appealing enough. Even when you do, that fling that has entered your blood might affect you.

Good luck though.

I wonder

eightsin:
Was there no goalkeeper at the post?

Case closed!

MOLOTOVcockTAIL:
Shey na for the masses ... The masses has rightfully received it. We should all be happy It got to the poor and hungry as intended. Case closed.

I am not disappointed, mtcheeeeew

I can't sleep, my heart is broken
May the souls of the fallen heroes rest in peace.

Very true

Newbielearner:
It's not like it's a big deal to see the pastor. But the way she said it is what I want to confirm. Did she say, "My pastor or no marriage"? If so, you're the one desperate to marry. You're the one who has seen something scarce and she's now aware. It means you were the one who introduced marriage in the relationship, not that she asked when you'd marry her.

Well, talk to her calmly and ask her who she loves more. You or the pastor. If she replied you in a dominant manner, your home would be ruled by what the pastor says. If she responds calmly and tries to convince you, it means she wants it too but seeing the pastor matters to her. Then you should go.

I believe in God sent and responsible pastors. But they shouldn't be the reason my wife (to be) would or wouldn't respect me...

czarr:
Find one fake actress very fine, single, young, big ass "sister" in the lord...and call her your spiritual mother, arrange to see her with your wife to be and make sure she is a subtle flirt, women notice this, always call her mama, and tell your fiance she is a prophet, after your first meeting with her and your fiance.....she would be worried, may even start to accuse you of sleeping with your "prophet".......but first go and see her pastor. women can only listen in situations where they feel cornered, she'll say she is not comfortable with your prophet and then you say the same about her pastor.... that's when you guys can reach a compromise.

Exactly

southniyikaye:
they just want to get the youths off the street..
This is another FG strategy to discontinue the Endsars endswat thingy...
They can't use force cos the whole world is watching

Mr. President, it is indeed time to lead. Our lives matter please

#endsars

May the soul of the departed rest in peace. This is so sad

It's okay!

True

Guyman02:
But APC miscreants led by Laurita Onochie claim that PMB has reconstructed all the dilapidated federal roads in the SE for which they are not appreciative and even called them ingrates.
I was on that road recently and it was a nightmare. The driver was fatigued from doing mental calculation of where to put his tyres so that the vehicle doesn't sink.

Many Igbos and other Nigerians from the SS regions don't travel home except for very important events because of the state of federal roads in that region, it's a shame that after 60 years of independence we can't connect the country effectively with good road networks.

You can't have National unity when a citizen in Zamfara cannot travel safely anytime to Enugu or Ogbomosho to understand the way of life of people on the other side.
Nigeria just celebrated the worst independence day in years it's because of failures like this

All the best!

OBelz:
Rema - Hit songs
Fire Boy - Hit songs
Joe Boy - Hit songs
Omah Ley - Hit songs
Lil Frosh - Hit woman

Lil frosh
Record label: DMW
Hit songs: 0
Awards: 0
Stage performance: 0
Quotable lines: 0
Domestic Violence: Oporr Ye Ye
He just ended his career before it even started

You dey mind them Clowns

SmartProf:
Maybe the next President of your neighborhood vigilante groups. Una dey brag about 2023 for 2020 like say na una be giver of life. If the Creator decides to off una mic, na there una go know how far say na mere dust una be.

I love this piece

tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/

Hambivert:
#1500?
for only that plate?

You are so going back to your father's house!

Congratulations David.
Baba God, it's my birth month. Please grant me pleasant surprises throughout this month and beyond.
Happy new month and happy independence day Nairalanders

Congratulations darling, shine on!

Nothing when we no go see for Naija

RIP to the dead. This is a sad news I must say

This is so terrible

Very true

Mindlog:
At his age, it is not right for the father to correct him through flogging. That your grandmother "dealt" with her married sons does not in any way justify such parenting style.

Flogging an adult child, regresses him/her, it hits negatively on their self-esteem.

Na WA o, I'm speechless

True

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Vyzz:




Marriage...

A lovely thing it is...

When u find the perfect one