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egbeman1: Well...I could shed tears after watching some movies.
What I mean by emotional is being clingy,tinking a lot abt the girl,always wanting to know her way abt and romancing too.Even tho I will alwas want to chase other girls,but my luv for the main one stil remains intack.
I alwas get jealous too,I keep comparing myself wit her exes,or any guy I sees around her.

lol- did you cry watching the titanic?

Well I think it depends on the person you are dating, alot of women do appreciate, pda, being called all the time, romantic gestures, thoughtful boyfriends. I doubt most women will say no to it. Its a puppy love thing you'd eventually grow out of it.

masterpiecer: Am not taking sides here but truth b told, women are the ones who do alot of details with their hair, facials, skin and all that, so its really annoying when u see that same woman with an unkempt feet, goes to show that whatever its is that might look nice on her is not a true reflection of who she is inside.

Most men feet are covered with socks virtually through out a whole day, that way their feet comes out looking neat(except those who have a problem changing their socks). so more women are guilty of negleting their feet than men

This is the reason why theres soo many fine women, but not enough fine men. We women need eye candy to, it's unfair to subject us to demonic looking men especially when we take the time to maintain out looks.Its a reflection that these men harbor the devil and they need to succumb to a good beauty regime to chase it out.

Many men need to learn to use cream, aftershave, a doorag, that gel for waves (whatsitcalled), perfume, deodorant, anti perspirant deodorant, face cream, hair cream, nail cream, toe nail cream, foot deodorants, dettol.

Men are more guilty of this, I havent met many women that can clear a room by simply taking off her shoes.

Da Mayor: Lol! you had better stay away from Mars o! no Brazilian or Indian hair there. Were going to be rebuilding and you know women dont like the building part. They like ready made. This time we will put up defences to prevent an overtake as you took us by surprise on earth.

There is no pornography there either! :p

In fact it's ok you can go, that was the masterplan, we wanted to use you men to build first and then send you away! oya go joor, your rocket awaits you!

Da Mayor: Oh!! How i miss the days when men were MEN. The days when a woman sees her "Hubby"bring in a fourth wife and wife No1,2 &3 join him to welcome her with a broad smile on their faces without asking questions. The days when men gave instructions without hearing the question "why". The days when "Solomon"could keep 300wives and 700 concubines and no human lawyer could raise objection etc.

Oops! I appear to be dreaming, Its now a womans world. lol! Guys abeg make we go colonize Mars start afresh. lol!

lol, mars is reserved for the female folks i'm afraid.

there is no space for you anywhere- maybe if you dream hard enough you will land back in 300bc (or whatever the era) when solomon was marrying his 1000 wives.

egbeman1: Am realy emotional to the core,and want to know what girls tink about us.
Do u realy tink being emotional is a good quality?
Do we alwas make a good n successful relationsp?

But what is emotional, what do you define as emotional?

We are all emotional beings, only robots have no emotion. It's emotion we use to reason, to carry out day to day activities, in fact it's probably emotion we use to live and breath. So of course, being in touch with your emotions is going to help you in relationships. You are going to go with gut intuition and make better decisions for yourself in terms of choosing a partner and how you handle your relationships. Anybody will find it easier being in a relationship with someone who is honest with himself and in touch with his emotions.

slimyem: she has a job.not a very good one but sustainable.
Why doesn't he do the cooking?
Babe,we are talking about a typical Nigerian man here!

how could i forget- nobody is beyond cooking for himself in my books lol, esp a jobless nigerian man :p

Well, if it's not important to them to get married they don't need to rush. The mother knows what she's doing, I've seen it happen before, smart woman.

Alot of people are bigger on sentiments than they are on planning, she needs to take a long hard look at the situation and decide if everything is right.

slimyem: she only gets to cook for him when she's there to spend weekends.
He's not as keen on marriage as his mum his.She's the mastermind!

the mum probably knows that her son is a loser and is looking for a woman to secure his future with.

Does your friend have a job?

even if its weekends or every other thursday, its his house why doesnt he do the cooking?

marriage should be the last thing on his mind if he doesnt have a job. Momsie is just looking for a slave for her son. So the girl parades over to the guys house to cook for him? Well done, lmfao, well done very much.

Rocktation: LMAO.
Queen, you own this thread! The thread actually started with your post.

lol- some feet will just make you start shouting 'Blood of Jesus'!!

Tobbylobar: Am a cool headed guy....

can i repost the first photo on another thread? We are looking for fine yoruba boys and having a hard time at it

the worse thing about it is they don't need to resort to that extent. You can find a nice young compatible female to date if you have the right credentials, even if you are picking them up from a dating site, if you look good, have a genuine interest in their culture and wot not, you have a job and a degree why wouldnt a young woman be interested?
Why do you have to LovePeddler yourself to disgusting women (unless you are into it). Kilode meeehn?

Just learn to speak english well enough for them to understand you, start reading good books, play sports, keep fit, learn to play an instrument women will flock you left and right joor. Its not that difficult.

but the op should at least know the size of his thing? What if he has a pencil kini?

[quote author=gree-die]im very picky, b4 i get down i must find out d state of d guys feet.once i enter a guy's room, d 1st tin i do is sniff his shoes, it gives me a good insight.... D bad news is: most tink d feet is jst 4 walking![/quote]good girl, tell him to remove his socks so you can inspect his feet. . . . . . . we cannot allow our sons to inherit crusty feet. Some peoples feet is going to stop them from getting into heaven because of all the demons they habor inside. shior!

slimyem: lmao @ op's post directed at women and other posters turning it around to men..
everyone loves clean feet...
But not everyone take care of theirs.

they know how to dish it but not how to take it, men should be even more careful with their feet. Socks cannot save you from the devil between your tonails! they should be soaking the feet in hot water every night and scrubbing it with sandpaper.

Idowuogbo: Ping ur dadas number abeg! Sexy toe nails

I pledge to b ur stepmoda

haha! abi- dont worry im filling your wife application now. Just remember me when those monthly wife allowance cheques come in

Billyonaire: I am not speaking for the government, and I am not speaking for the illegals, I am speaking from the legitimate businessmen point of view. The politicians keep their loot abroad because they are afraid of the anti-graft agencies. Government keep their funds in stable economic climes to avoid domestic economy inflationary forces. I am not in government, I cant elaborate that. But, a businessman, has the right, to keep his money where ever he finds stability and he can gamble with it using the foreign exchange firms, thats why you hear so much about forex.

yes of course i agree. A business man can do what he likes with his money. But a government should be obliged to be patriotic with everything. including the accounts they keep abroad. It should all strictly involve nigerians, nigerian banks nigerian businesses, nigerian consultants accountants cleaners sovereign experts wot not wot not. lol!

[quote author=gree-die]as a feet- fetish, i ve to agree wit u... Dirty, cracked, rough, unkempt feet is a total turn-off. I lyk a guy who religiously does his pedicure nd manicure[/quote]abi, if my dad can keep his hands and feet sexy, i don't see why young men cannot.

They all need to find themselves some dettol and foot deodorant to remove the devil they harbor in their feet! eurgh disgusting pigs.

foot fetish? really, how do you handle that with all these crusty feet men?

anonymous6: sorry I disagree, Ghanians don't show sensuality in their movies, maybe a few like a perfect picture but in some of their movies it is just porn(ex. Hot fork, 4play, kiss me if you can, heart of men, and etc is not sensuality). Nigerians don't do it for the most part because it is a more conservative society then ghanians. Lastly it is not only about the sexuality but in Ghanian movies their is more western flair then Ghanian flair in their movies compared to Nollywood.

i meant to say sexuality but i wasnt sure if it will be edited.

We don't have a conservative society, lets stop lying to ourselves. The std rates are sky high because nigerians are dem promiscuous.
Ghanaian embrace sex, i do not see anything wrong with that, they even have a porn industry. If you are sexual people whats wrong with expressing it? Nigerias larger problem stems from the facade. Just because we don't show it in the movies or play it in the songs doesnt mean it doesnt exist?

saxywale: Maybe they feel Nigerian banks could collapse, same reason why people keep money in Swiss banks. Safety first... ! you might also want to ask James Ibori

As if the american banks can't collapse, we are just recovering from their collapsing!

Lol that sorry case.

Billyonaire: Nigeria does not have sound investment banking, like brokerage and Money Market accounts where your money yields reasonable interests, instead, our banks keeps taking service charges and other hidden sundry charges. In US another advance economies, money yield great interest in MMA and brokerage account, then Time Account, and even certificate of deposit accounts, banks trades with the funds on certain specified tenures and pay excellent interests, its why people legitimately like the lodge their funds abroad, but trust America, when you wanna repartriate your funds bank, wahala don start, they introduce taxes that take your money away, and any attempt to use underground alternatives to get your cash out of their system, they call it Money laundering, and they freeze and seize your money. Bad people.

makes sense, then again how will Nigeria have sound investment banks when everybody is taking their money to wells fargo? Besides in a democracy should the government be gambling with the nations money? lol. Isn't there as much of a chance of losing your investment as there is yielding interest? The embassy's allowance should be intended for spending, not for saving, gambling and wot not, they can keep that money in Nigeria? No?

saxywale: They don't keep it there, they usually transfer it into the said account from Nigeria (PLACEMENT), then quickly withdraw it in cash bit by bit from the embassy's account, then it can be used in buying houses and luxury items (LAYERING). They can now sell this items by telling the buyer to pay the money into a personal account, then it would seems as if the money is gotten by legitimate means i.e sale of properties (INTEGRATION), thereby concealing the original source of the money.

It's not common to use embassies to launder money but trust Nigerians to be very creative when it comes to fraud. The US authorities have done a good job by beaming their search light on embassies. Only God knows how much would have been laundered through this means before it was discovered.

lol- but i mean the funds in general. Even if it wasn't used for illegitimate purposes. Doesn't it make more sense to keep the money in a nigerian bank, why are they keeping the money with all these big names that have nothing to do with us?

The penis of the elected never softens? Really? I mean really? Is that not a very odd thing for a soo called god to say? Do muslims believe they were created for everlasting boners? I see why the men follow it, now i dont really understand the women. . . . . . . .

meanwhile islam must be bliss for the men, cycles of orgasm. . .hell yea! Ha, he even provides the beds for you to do it! Is this a god or a love-vendor? dayuum!

lol- why did they keep the money in foreign banks? Shouldnt they be supporting Nigerian banks? Arent there any nigerian banks in america?

2 things, no1 what makes the op thinks she deserves a role in a nolly wood movie?

no2 erm its nollywood not hollywood, there isn't even going to be a part for you in any of them.

Unless youll be playing a prostitute or summin, its unlikely therell be up to 3 roles in a year sef.

I'm actually jealous do you know you can make him do all sorts! lol all sorts of perverted stuff! haha. he wouldnt know what is what, take your time and plan that wedding night veeeery carefully.

its true- eurgh its disgusting when you see men and their herculean feet. Looking all scaly and dry, when they take off the shoes the whole house will stink like rotten cheese.
I cannot take it, a man has to have sexy feet. He has to take care of his feet and do regular manicures and pedicures 2ce a week.
He is even meant to use polish, and a file to cover all the nasty marks he might have on his toes nails. So at least when your both curled up in bed it won't feel as if someone is scratching you with a toothpick.

Men need to take care of their feet! hmph!

brentkruge: See how these deluded guys are recruited?
…the man) will have sexual organ that does not bend down during sexual intercourse (perpetual erection). (Sunan Ibn-e- Majah 5. 547. 4337)
“Each time we sleep with a Houri we find her virgin. Besides, the pe.nis of the Elected never softens. The erection is eternal; the sensation that you feel each time you make love is utterly delicious and out of this world and were you to experience it in this world you would faint. …” (Al-Itqan fi Ulum al-Qur‟an, p. 351)


Abu „Umama (Allah be pleased with him) reported that Allah‟s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Allah will not admit anyone in the Paradise but Allah, the Mighty and glorious will marry him with 72 wives, two will be from virgin (haurine) with big eyes and seventy will be his inheritance from the people of the Hell-Fire. “Every one of them will have a pleasant va.gina and he (the man) will have sexual organ that does not bend down during sexual intercourse (perpetual erection). (Ibn-e- Majah 5. 547. 4337)


“Therein gardens will be fair wives good and beautiful; Then which of the Blessings of your Lord will you deny? Houris restrained in pavilions; Then which of the Blessings of your Lord will you deny? Whom no man has opened their hymens with sexual intercourse before. Then which of the Blessings of your Lord will you deny? Reclining on green cushions and rich beautiful mattresses. Then which of the Blessings of your Lord will you deny?” (Sura 55:70-77)


This is what it comes down to folks!

This is disgusting, smh

lol- the op is beggin it.

maryini: the bolded part of ur statement is why most marriages fail today IMHO, what happens when ur feelings of wanting to be with that person dies off...because it wud surely do...if ur not open to the fact that marriage is more than just feelings, it is a great RESPONSIBILITY and not all fun you will surely get divorced...so as the OP said if some ppl r not ready to see it as that they shud save their time and keep on hopping from one bed to the another....afterall it is not by force to marry

I don't believe you for one minute- Nigerians cannot collectively be that sad.

Theres no incentive to get married if responsibility is the key reason, who the hell wants to be responsible, I don't give a hoot for responsibility I only care for living life to the fullest.

I'm guessing thats another reason why alot of Nigerian women marry men they don't like, it's rather pathetic if you ask me, and it doesn't lead them to lasting happiness. So again I ask, what motivation will one have to get married with no feelings and no enjoyment?
This suffering and smiling thing is taken very seriously by our people.

you dont really make marriage sound encouraging, especially with the talk of institution, responsibility, family man. What is wrong with meeting the woman of your dreams and wanting to be with her forever.

Its understandable the way you see things anyway, our culture makes a skeptic of us all. Yet we shouldn't deny the decent ladies and gentlemen out there who are blessed with good attitudes and have fulfilling relationships. Its easier when we focus on whats important in life rather than view marriage as an opportunity to seem responsible or conform with others expectations of our lives.

Hey and quit bashing the smokers the clubbers, the bar crawlers and the hip hoppers! It doesn't make you irresponsible if you enjoy life.