₦airaland Forum

you have to love these characters, you have to love them. This one and denrele, they are 2 funky characters!

Sweetlemon: From this thread, I can really see the kind of people parading Nairaland and it's such a pity! People have so much envy in their hearts...... it's no wonder why the world is such a wicked place!
FYI, Alaibe is a widower.
I'v been trying hard to see what's so ugly about him! BTW, have you seen a picture of Agbani lately? I can assure you that the scenerio here is not exactly that of beauty and the beast. Trust me

him being 20 years older than her is enough, arent there any 50 year old widows for him to marry? the pervert is old enough to be her father for chris sake!

the men are funny no doubt, they even deserve to be cheated on sef. its not as if theyre good for anything.

kilimanjaro: Obo na serious matter

you guys are nastay lol

CAMEROONPRIDE: future single woman ...old lady you don't do what? hummmmm change oohhhh marriage is not like that women are not slaves but know how to make our house happy can save you...i will finish by a cameroonian music that i will translate(i don't know if you will get it)...LADY PONCE:"man= the stomach and his joystick"

more billy goat talk,

Excelboi: See Me......

hmmm hmmm, that is alot of food!

and alot of meat!

ThiefOfHearts: Your comments dont make an iota of sense to me AT ALL.

and how is wearing makeup the same as bleaching? at the end of the day you can wash makeup off, can you UNDO bleaching? Like are you serious with such a comparison 

There's nothing "fashionable" about bleaching. Sorry.

Your comments about poverty and whatnot is obnoxious. So you're saying the only reason a person is dark is because they worked in the farm? should I ask Alex Wek what she did before she became a model? since she's dark, SHE MUST BE POOR, is that what you're implying?

you can't undo many things it doesnt mean you hate yourself? You can't undo ear piercings, tattoos or even permanent make up. Does that mean you hate yourself?
You might not find it fashionable- those that do find it fashionable. Just because white people don't do it doesnt mean it cant be fashionable. Tanning is fashionable and equally dangerous?
No i am saying it's common belief , being dark is associated with being poor if you were familiar with the hindu class system you will know this.

acidtalk: You are such a political thief.

lol

this is a big conundrum, i hope the op has resolved the issue. Money sure does cause alot of trouble!

manheem: @queensmith, yes you're right, and while i agree that is the most important question to be asked at this time, the question should be asked between the man and his girl, the answers should also be provided between the man and his girl, not his mother, or her family or her friends, while the friend could be privy into all going on in the relationship, i believe she wont be privy to some personal things except the girl getting married does not have a personal life at all, while many of us claim to be sufficient interms of finance before marriage , there are still loads of people getting one benefit or the other from parents if the finances is there.

i had a cousin who worked hard for over a yr before his marriage, but his accomodation and their first car was provided by his dad in his first yr of marriage, and he could channel his own funds into something else, maybe the guy in question is getting a huge break/loan from mama to grow whatever he is doing further we wont know, the only parallel we see is that he has no job , but getting married, in this same country guys earning a little above 50 thousand have wifes at home not to talk of someone who has a financial wall to rely on , he is even the only child, what if this marriage is an avenue to break the shackles of mama permannently and figure out what plans he can achieve himself?, the only thing i would be against is decision making from mama and trust me loads of married couple still run to parents for financial help and get to make the decisions in their marriage themselves.

you make sense- i guess its all about how you look at it. it even makes sense that a such a guy will be Better off with the monetary support. its not all about suffering! lol

what respect do you people keep making noise about? Don't you earn respect? If you deserved respect will you not be respected? Or you think the fact you was born with a penis commands respect?

Early in the morning this coonery is a bit too much.

That actually concludes it, looking like Halle Berry, Beyonce, Kelly Rowland or Agbani Darego isn't going to get you a good man. Better look like yourself get a job and quit stressing over nonsense.

you can get dumped for not calling now, life is getting serious! lmao

Goldieluks: You and this your ''ekiti'' nonsense.

lol.

manheem: i used to believe this forum was a representation of the lifestyle/character/attitude of people in the real world out there, but now i accept this is just an avenue to express our hypocritical nature of ourselves,

and that is all-

but you are right, if our mothers/fathers don't look after us who will. The question is if marriage is the right thing to be doing at this time?

MsDarkSkin: hmmm...is that so? well she's pretty.

she was doing all this for what? what were you doing? or did she have no work to do?

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]What's food got to do with hardworking?

Naija men go to work, so do Naija women. seriously, I can't differentiate naija women/ men from the "hardwork" they do. TBH, Naija women actually do more. Let's be honest here. They go to work for 8 hrs, come back to hungry lazy husband and hungry children.


What do Nigerian men do that Nigerian women don't? Why can't y'all assume some cooking responsibility too?[/quote]of course the women do more- esp carrying pregnancies for their slothful husbands (litgirl you have caused something!)

litgirl22: Lol....why are Nigerian men so obsessed with having everything done for them Slothful set of people.

Aside from going to work and coming back to the house after earning a measly paycheck, what do they have to offer?

Come and see how lazy they are sef here in Yankee. No work. Cannot even look after the kids or help out in the house. Na only to siddon for chair and chew toothpick while exposing their vile potbellies.

Wife will go to work, come back, bathe the kids, cook, clean, and still have to spread leg for the two-minute husband who happens to be loud snorer.

I've heard enough horror stories to stay far away from Nigerian mumus. Ghana stays winning jor.

lmao!! love it!!

ayox2003: What about the kids, the inlaws, friends and so on. U're an "illusionsmith"!

what happened to the inlaws?

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]same here, at age 9-10, I already knew how to make stew. My 11 years old sister cooks for herself and her younger siblings. Her brother is already learning too.

Tired of these lazy Naija men coming to the kitchen table with their dry mouth as if food will drop from heaven.[/quote]lol!

CAMEROONPRIDE: you said your husband are going to look each other until the hungriest go find what to cook....i'm wondering about what the kids will do ......? will ask to 2yo boy to cook?

of course not, whoever is in the mood to cook will cook, I don't actually like cooking so eventually my man will get used to it. esp the picky eating type that doesn't eat african food or spicy food or wot not wot not, its difficult adjusting to these oyibo dietary requirements.

Everything that needs doing in the house is going to be done by the both of us, i'm not taking up any duties on the mere fact that im a woman.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]If I love him, yes I would and I answered your question when I stated that my husband isn't good at many things but I still married him.

It wasn't what you wanted to hear...but that's my final answer! [/quote]she asked a good question, now can or should a woman get married to a dude that is bad in bed.

My answer is, god will not allow me to see bad thing,he can be bad at life but he shouldnt be bad in bed. That wouldnt be good at all at all.

shymex: How do you think I've survive the last 5 years living by myself?

I get busy in the kitchen... I just made some pasta, and beef soup.

and the first thing you did when you arrived in the country was to grow your hair abi? well done!

pasta and beef soup? Well done for that also.

CAMEROONPRIDE: how about the kids?

what happened to the kids? Every body is going to have his/her role in the house. Nobody is slaving for anybody, once my kids are old enough to stand they are doing their own bit.

sexkillz:

lol, what?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Queensmith

When talking to traditional men....you have to talk with your dick in order for them to understand your message. Sad but it is true.[/quote]lol abi- the trick is to avoid the ones full of nonsense.

lol- i keep having to remind people, that not all men are like the billygoat husbands of Nigeria!