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CrimeRe: I Was Given N200 After Been Raped - 15year Old Girl by quivah(f): 1:51pm On Feb 06, 2016
jstriker442:
since you cannot change a man's thoughts, why nt change wat he sees ?? Thats wat d guy meant
The rapist is nt justified, but ts easier to change my position than change that of another. There has to be a way my friend.
Read your post again and just imagine how stupid you and the other guy sound..
So those 2-5 years old being raped, it was due to their dressing abi??
So blaming the victims is the way out now?? Gosh!!
God!!! Are these the set of stupid men we now have in this countryhuh
FamilyRe: What Are The Weirdest Things You've Seen Your Kids Do? by quivah(f): 12:53pm On Feb 06, 2016
Lol, I was 5... In extra lesson then, my teacher wanted to gum her opened shoe.. The cobbler asked for n10 as his fee.. The teacher had no change and asked if any of us had n10.. Saying she will return it before we close.
Being a good girl, I gave her.. We were almost through with the lesson, I was sweating waiting for her to gimme my money.. We closed, still she no gimme my money.. I met with a class mate, we had to sit for a meeting, debating how I will ask her for my money.. Since I was shy and scared of asking my self..I will intentionally roam in her presence, do things to draw her attention to me..etc..

Class mate; say its your mum's change
I; abi its my night food money
Blah blah
She didn't give me that money o... And I remember, I dey swear for her for my mind till we finish that lesson for that term and she disappeared.. Chai, I hated her throughout that period..
FamilyRe: What Are The Weirdest Things You've Seen Your Kids Do? by quivah(f):
uplawal:
Your first story is epic lie jo.you cannever remember what happened at 4yrs,you had dash memory then.
Well, I dont think so..

I can vividly remember some incidences that happened to me when I was in pry1.. I was close 2 5years then.

The memories are still clear in my head..to mention a few;
1. I have a cousin I was older than with a year, on getting pri one, he was supposed to go to nursery two but instead his mum (being who she wasundecided) decided to promote her son to my class. I wasnt told this incidence, I remember it pretty much,how I cried saying how will my lil cousin be in the same class with me.
2. We were writing an exam pri 1, 2nd term, my cousin sat at my front while some other person sat beside me.. I forgot the spelling of a very simple word ..'let'.. Had to ask my cousin for it..and immediately he mentioned ' l' I remembered..
3. During extra lesson,a neighbor who happened to like me very much, organised a surprise birthday for me.. I clocked 5 den.. She sent my friend to call me from school lying that my mum wanted to travel..I was excused from the lesson.. Got home to meet a surprise.
4. In the same extra lesson, during that time, there was this balloon game, you pick a no and whatever size you get is yours.. I went with a mate(a guy).. I was lucky to pick a big balloon while he picked a very small one.. We got to the class(teacher wasn't around yet).. His balloon got busted, I was flaunting my own... He bullied me ,collected my balloon and gave me a wound with pencil on my left cheek (which is still visible till now).. The next day, my second bro beat the hell out of him
5. holiday coaching, nur 2 - pri 1.. My bro's age mate n class mate and I were alone in the class(every one had gone since we had close, I was waiting for my bro to come n take me home).. This guy will ask me to spell some words,if I got them he will put his hand on my chest.. I remember those exact words till this moment.. Cup,pot,boy, chair.. I couldn't spell pot and he slept me hard..

All these incidences and many more occurred between the age of 4-5 .. And the memories and exact pictures are still very clear..
The one I feel sad about the most was ;
We were preparing for end of the year party, some of us were picked to sing some songs (3 actually, I still remember two).. There was this girl, Shola, a pastor's child.. She has a wonderful voice than the rest of us..,and in fact she gave us two out of the three songs. so she was the lead.. I envied her,no doubt.. We were in class one day and the class teacher asked her a question which she failed..I swear, I didn't know when these words came out of my mouth (you can only sing you don't....) , the teacher heard and asked me to complete my words,I was ashamed to..and she completed it herself.. She however advised me..
FamilyRe: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 6:51am On Feb 03, 2016
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Actually,they do believe there are still some faithful men ..but they just feel unfortunate and bad that they do not fall among the good eggs.
So, anything to disregard the faithful men...is a go!
I think that makes them feel alright..
FamilyRe: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 7:16pm On Feb 02, 2016
Mindfulness:
Believe whatever you want to believe. I see wonderful men everywhere. Cheers!
No doubt you probably have seen 'billions' of wonderful.. You must have wonderful memories undecided.
Cheers madam!
FamilyRe: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 7:08pm On Feb 02, 2016
Mindfulness:
Yeah, out of the approximately 7,4 billion people of which about 50% are male only hundreds are good. This is very realistic.
At least more realistic than the hilarious 'billions'..
FamilyRe: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 7:08pm On Feb 02, 2016
Vyolet:
I never enter one chance o, my man happens to be one of those that still maintains marital sacredness, he has proven my thought about men wrong in most occasion but then maybe because we are still young, only time will tell.
At bold, if you hold on to that ..then you are digging a very shallow grave...you will just keep thinking he's cheating, whereas he might not ( or maybe he is).. Dont give yourself unnecessary headache.. Until he is caught, he's not cheating tongue

Who knows if he's probably doing it already but not to your face.. shocked
FamilyRe: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 7:01pm On Feb 02, 2016
Mindfulness:
Is your man cheating? Why the ranting? There are billions of wonderful men out there. How about looking this way?
Billionshuh cheesy cheesy

Anyone that believes that,is a joker.. Hundreds, is more realistic.

Billions?? Loool!
CelebritiesRe: Olumofin Brothers Asked To Leave Toolz & Tunde Demuren's Wedding; They Reply by quivah(f): 7:59pm On Jan 30, 2016
ideylaff:
Toolz did get involved ans was on Gbemiz side buy Social Media made sure that side wnet quiet

Toolz added faya to the gist by just a few comments

Anyway you started your post with the word dumb fool which I felt was very uncouth and sharp in a public forum

Next time clean up your words and dont use Panadol for anoda persons headache....

Allow the couple enjoy their life...
Abeg, sharrap!!!
The lady I quoted,her own words were ok for public view abi..?!
And if I take panadol for someone else's matter, how in the hell is it your fvcking businesshuh
Abeg,shift!
Let the girl I quoted talk to me Instead, and maybe you should direct your advice to her.. Shes the one trying to run another woman down,tell her to allow toolz enjoy her marriage..
CelebritiesRe: Olumofin Brothers Asked To Leave Toolz & Tunde Demuren's Wedding; They Reply by quivah(f): 7:25pm On Jan 30, 2016
ideylaff:
Calm down now,, ToolzDefender nor start #Toolzgate on here o

nor put anoda person faya for head oooo not worth it ooo


Yes the brothers went in too hard on Gbemi and i'm am sure they now regret it,

That aside Gbemis mouth is full of sharp razors, so if you cannot take dont give simple

That will be a low if Tolu and Tunde told their parents what happened.... a few days ago

Cos in the middle of planning a big day like this their folks wont be on blogs to read about it

Maybe na Toke go do big mouth

Short Noble Igwe....acting like a lady all his life.. woman wrapper he sure is...joining hands with Gbemi
So, how is gbemi = toluhuh
You just jump enter talk, , she condemned tolu and not gbemi who obviously started the wahala.
The girl first talk say she no know who tolu or the brothers dem b,but she quick point fingers at tolu..like say na she cause the fued,,now,that's a woman hating biatch right there..
CelebritiesRe: Olumofin Brothers Asked To Leave Toolz & Tunde Demuren's Wedding; They Reply by quivah(f): 6:18pm On Jan 30, 2016
estheremma:
I don't know this Toolz nor d Olumofin brothers. But I have come to dislike her for this action
She be beauty queen?what does she think she is?I pity d brothers sha.they should have stayed back.even d captain sef.who sabi am? I even heard this boyz are from a royal family.what a shame
Dumbfool... You hate her for what actionhuh Were you personally told she asked them to be bounced outhuh Do you even believe those brothers were bounced out, reallly?, but you just decided to spew trash about someone who obviously doesn't know u r breathing..
No, shes no beauty queen but she thinks she is very much better than you..and i think sge is..
You just jump enter thread ,drop stupid comment wey no follow at all..
You say u no know toolz but you suddenly hate her for this action, what action huh Trash!!
Shame on your head!
You hate the girl, but pity the brothers and you say u no know any of them.. How u kon conclude shes responsible for whatever action(which I dont believe to be even true!).
FamilyRe: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by quivah(f): 6:32pm On Jan 29, 2016
Adebowaletunji:
sharap! stop arguing senselessly
am a yoruba woman and we are thought that submission is not slavery...stop been clever by half....in your fake wisdom u are displaying stupidity
You are the dumbass here..
She asked questions, in your almighty wisdom, you should give her the answers if you deem it fit..and not come here to spew trash..
You were taught submission is not slavery in yorubaland,okk..be good enough to share your knowledge with someone who asked..
FamilyRe: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by quivah(f): 6:25pm On Jan 29, 2016
Angelberry:
You always misyarn take a chill pill dear
Menh, that girl enh...she dey try
RomanceRe: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by quivah(f): 9:50am On Jan 29, 2016
sickstars:
Let me explain myself better to u all

Op stated some points as those are the points that qualifies a lady for marriage and to her and in her own words only a working class lady can provide such points qualified for marriage and all my argument is that any lady can posses op's poing even if she is not a working class lady

If a working class lady can defend her own why cant i defend my own!
You should defend on your own by telling us why you think shes wrong..not by abusing her..
Make a thread to demerit working class women and give students and non working class ladies some Push ups..
However, dont waste your sweat, it all boils down to individual choices..
RomanceRe: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by quivah(f): 9:48am On Jan 29, 2016
sickstars:
M nt pained o

Am angry at op points

So cos am nt workin i cant b all d points she stated?

Did u read her points m nt pained o

Biko am nt a fan of marriage from d onset bt dont say cos am nt working i cant b all op's point dats my argument
Since you know are a student and still , you are all she listed..then why should you be angry??
Her opinion isn't absolute.. It depends on individuals..
C'mon, you made it seem as tho she is right by attaching maturity to 'working class women' the way you jumped at her..
RomanceRe: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by quivah(f): 9:45am On Jan 29, 2016
sickstars:
Ur business all i kno is

No f*cking lady is superior dan me cos she is working

Cos wen i get d same job i wud do better

did u read her points any girl can do all d points op listed whether with a job or not!

I am judgin based on d stup*d points she gave did u read her points atall?
Ok dear ... Take it slowly and listen to what we are saying, we all can't be wrong at the same time..dont you thinkhuh

No one is superior than the other,, being a working class lady has its merit, being a student has its own merit..she gave hers , give yours.

I prefer slim men doesn't mean they are better than fat men... I prefer a guy that can cook,doesn't mean he's better than one who can't.
If I give my reasons for meriting slim men, I dont expect a fat man to come here screaming me down..
Yes , slim , fat men can basically perform manly duties, if I at some point dig up advantages of marrying slim men, its because of my preference that I decided to check for slim men.
You should either debunk my claim or counter it with your own merit of referring a fat man..
For instance;
I love slim women cause chances are they won't blown up after giving birth
Your counter post; there are slim women who got fat after childbirth ..I think it all depends on the way a woman maintains herself.. Mercy Johnson isn't slim and she's looking wonderful after 3 kids,still..
There you get it!!
Instead, coming at me...telling me I hate fat women cause I'm a frustrated slim woman..
RomanceRe: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by quivah(f): 9:35am On Jan 29, 2016
Cammo:
I perfectly understand what you're saying. The problem you have here is comprehension. The Op never in any way condemned students, after all, the working class ladies were once students. But who would pick a student who's still a liability over a worker who'd be of much help?
Comprehension is indeed her problem..
Abi, all non working class women are students abi huh
I dont know why shes so defensive...
@bold, actually, there are guys who picked students over the working class.. It all boils than to taste, characters..
The op alighted the merits of marrying a working class woman, which isn't absolute..
There are many 'here' and 'there'
If sickstars was reasonable enough, maybe she would have understood better rather than being unnecessarily pained.
RomanceRe: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by quivah(f): 9:30am On Jan 29, 2016
sickstars:
Did op call u to come attack me Ok u one of d fustrated working class ladies too?

Cos did u read her post word for word!

By the way i understand ur plight work on ursef!!!!!!

So u blind with all d debunkin b*tch if op sent u am ready for u

Who is screaming now

Nonsense any ways grin u kno a fustrated b*tch wen u see one av the floor dummy
Sickstars plesse,enough of you humiliating students like myself..I'm an undergraduate too, but you are not making sense at all..
From your posts on this thread, we both know the person dying of frustration..
Just chill biko, no give yourself hypertension over someone's opinion..
Just keep shut and earn a brain..
RomanceRe: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by quivah(f): 9:25am On Jan 29, 2016
sickstars:
M not full of hate dont judge a womans standard with working or with a job

Its a disgrace to womanhood

Both working class nd students gat flaws

But op is painting students black!
You are the frustrated dumb bit.ch here!!!
She only gave the merits of working class ladies, she didn't under rate the students, why you so full of hatred!!
You would have made more sense if you countered her opinions instead you are barking, making a fool out of your 'undergraduate' self. . maybe she was right after all, maturity is far from you..
Where did she paint students badhuh
What is the disgrace to womanhood?? Geez! Just calm down biko.

Ordinary comprehension you no fit, if you think undergraduates are better, talk your own

You didn't debunk her claims, neither did you merit your stance..just screaming all over the thread.
LiteratureRe: Tell Us About Your Favourite Book by quivah(f):
Adaeze003:
Like I actually read books... grin

I'm a movie person although school slowed that down.

In secondary school tho I did a lot of goosebumps, fear street and animorphs... lame rii? grin grin

I recently read a book about the life of Smith Wigglesworth... apart from that I'm going to say my fav book is the Bible... grin

Cc mizmycoli kachisbarbie mystique quivah sickstars misspicy estharfabian... ya'll sound like you read books no??
Send me no flowers grin
The pregnancy or whatever... But it was quite an Interesting read, read it like 7years ago but it was amazing.
Breaking dawn embarassed its a mighty voluminous book undecided tho interesting but iv been on it for close two 6weeks now.. 754pages,huh When I start,I dont wanna stop but you know I have about other 15textbooks to read too.

But overall favorite is 'the pregnancy' .. Its just bad I can't remember the name,but its something along that line..abi motherhoodhuh

It was basically about a couple who dunno have children yet, it worked for few years but there came the mistake.. She doesn't want an abortion, he doesn't want a baby...yet!
It created a crack, they separated tho they still love one another but none wanted to compromise.
Well,they tried at some point but their wants were parallel..
So, they went their separate ways.
She went through her pregnancy days alone in the first 7months..,in sadness,sorrow and all sort of pains but in all, the coming child gave her a reason to smile.
She met some guy when she was about 7months gone and after some series of meetings, they kinda clicked(at least the dude thought)..
But all she wanted was for Sean, I think that's his name, to realise there's nothing more important than being a parent.
Sean, on the other hand, wanted nothing less than just the two of them,at least for now. He hated children,maybe! Maybe not, but he doesn't want any of those attention seeking creatures now.
You know, his beliefs about parenthood were quite different from everyone. He felt having kids, working to provide for them,protecting,nurturing them while having little time for himself and maybe his wife, was the most stupid thing in the world..cause he felt those kids will grow up one day, meet some one else,fall in love,create a family which will become their first priority.. While he,the father will be left at their mercy..
Son; grandpa (sean) is coming for the holiday
Grandson; *crying* no, grandpa is weak,lazy,dirty,not cool,not funny, and old school. He's wicked,strict and wants things done his own way, he wants people to help him do virtually everything.. I dont like grandpa, he shouts, he's old and that's not cool
Son; grandpa is old, he needs someone to look after him sometimes, so, he's coming so he could spend some time with his family
Grandson/wife/granddaughter; why not get a nanny to look after grandpahuh
Son; ok ok ok

Such shits scare Sean, he kept thinking about it..growing up, getting old, begging to be loved, to visit, to be understood.. By his kid/s and their kids.

But this is my seed...my wife is carrying my seed, my son/daughter.. she(wife) needs me now ,more than ever. Fool, weak, selfish, crazy ..blah blah blah
But still, Sean didn't go home to his wife and their baby..

Until,...
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HealthRe: Ladies Stop Pushing Your Stomach To Your Bum (photo) by quivah(f): 8:24pm On Jan 27, 2016
raayah:
Difference is that the image is false... Misinformation is bad.
Just like waist trainers are bad..
In this case, one is more bad than the other.
However, I agree.
HealthRe: Ladies Stop Pushing Your Stomach To Your Bum (photo) by quivah(f): 8:18pm On Jan 27, 2016
raayah:
Fake illustrations.

Prolonged usage of waist trainers are bad but OP's image is false.
Well, what different does it make??
Waist trainers are bad...
Maybe the op's illustration will scare the sense into their brains..
HealthRe: Ladies Stop Pushing Your Stomach To Your Bum (photo) by quivah(f): 8:16pm On Jan 27, 2016
dovelike:
That's what you guys want
And the girls have to be stu.pid enough to kill themselves while trying to give some guys(who obviously dont give a damn about them) what they want??

Nothing is more foolish..
FamilyRe: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by quivah(f): 5:18pm On Jan 27, 2016
shalomm:
mind your business then. Trying to avoid something pls understand and do the same.. Thanks
Ok, you are confused..
I said 'other businesses'.. Which means,trying to show you your silly mistake is part some of my other businesses too.
You really should follow your own advise too, avoid insulting people who dont have the same opinion as you,cause it actually do make one look stu.pid..I was only helping you 'find yourself' when you called another person mumu.
Have fun dear,peace!
FamilyRe: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by quivah(f): 4:57pm On Jan 27, 2016
shalomm:
Thanks. P.S. Never put your twitter ID in a forum where you also claimed to be a ghost... Once again nice meeting you and thanks for the correction.
I didn't claim to be a 'ghost'..you claimed that ,and I only followed up your word.. Ever wondered that I replied back in your own wordshuh
And, who knows I might be here for businesses other than calling someone mumu. Hence,my ID.
You welcome. Just be a good boy smiley
FamilyRe: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by quivah(f): 4:42pm On Jan 27, 2016
shalomm:
grin
That's why you should check my conversation with him. I never insulted him. Anyway thanks. Nice meeting you. Shey e don finish.
Seriously?? You thought he was a woman and went ahead to call whatever husband she has mumu..

You wouldn't have corrected yourself if that poster was actually a woman
.. Anyways, cool!
FamilyRe: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by quivah(f): 4:24pm On Jan 27, 2016
shalomm:
Feminist, u can be logical. "Him say em don marry xo chance no dey 4 u. Check em reply and check yours." We are all ghost here ma'm, i was talking to ya.
Actually you should mind the way to address people,since we are all 'ghost' here..Just cause he didn't say something to boast your ego, you had to insult him..and that actually made you the mumu.
So,I only tried to make you see the real mumu..
And,you should start following your advice... I should be logical, cool..I will, but dont you think you are not only illogical but also dumb to assume I'm looking for a chance to marry him..
You even called me a feminist smiley because I no shiver call you foolhuh. Well,that's not an insult btw
FamilyRe: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by quivah(f): 1:29pm On Jan 27, 2016
misgab:
fear of God, a good conscience,being married to your friend mutual trust and respect.don't try to be smart with your man.is not all you see you talk about look for the right moment after a long time to discuss the matter i.e. after you must have prayed bout it.
Na wah o... A woman should wait after a long time to discuss a matter with her husbandhuh
He he he he

I'm sorry, what does this proveshuh
I thought the way she tabled 'whatever issue' should be the advice.. So, she needs to wait a while before she can discuss with her husband.. How long does the husband waits to discuss matters with his wife.. After he must have prayed about it,definitelyhuh
FamilyRe: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by quivah(f): 1:24pm On Jan 27, 2016
Op, are you advising us based on your true life storyhuh
Why should a woman subject , I though the bible mentioned submit..
Are you by any chance into a master-slave relationshiphuh

And, now women are the problems in many failed marriages ok,.. Your reasoning is not only biased but faulty!
In one post you mentioned women's inability to subject is the cause of breakups, in another tone you said a woman should take it to prayer if after subjecting , the man still does her wrong..
What's thishuh!

You only made few sense in your writeup... There are many reasons marriages fail ; infidelity, abuse, irresponsibility, lack of respect, 3rd party,lack of love etc..but to you, I believe only women are guilty..
FamilyRe: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by quivah(f): 1:16pm On Jan 27, 2016
shalomm:
i pity the mumu wer go marry u.
You are the fool here, stop mocking yourself.
FamilyRe: I Am Dating A Married Man Who Is About Divorcing His Wife by quivah(f): 8:20am On Jan 24, 2016
Eketem:
Lmao @ he is leaving his wife Hahahahahaaa married man standard lie.

Poster you must be young and lazy he is a good spender and you are a lazy shameless sex for money babe whose hands and brain is for decoration.

Keep hanging around, I predict you will be back to open a thread, " I am pregnant for my married lover and he still hasn't divorced his wife"


Hang on jare
Confirm!!! @the bold..
That's their usual lie..
The op is just so much in love with the money cheesy
FamilyRe: 14yr Old Stepdaughter Likes To Sleep In Our Bed by quivah(f):
crackhaus:
You both don't seem to get it yet, a 14year old sleeping on the same bed as her dad and mom or step-mommy is definitely not a normal routine.

The issue here is how one should go about treating the situation - check the first page and see the moronic excuses people were coming up with as to why it's bad, some even came off so aggressive life they already have a bad experience with daughters sleeping on the same bed as their dads. huh

And to think a sexual connotation is being ascribed to it while others were mentioning menses...like seriously? gringrin
Yeah, I saw the comments on the first page... However, it was the guys that started with the aggressive method, while the first few ladies brought up the 'talk to the dad' solution,I don't see how that's aggressive.. It's cause she's a step mum in this case,,if she were the mother,she would have scolded her not wait to have any chit chat with the dad... And,nobody called the dudes wicked btw..
Since other people's opinions on the thread do not make sense to you.,, why do you think a 14yr old girl sleeping on the same bed as dad n mum is not a normal routinehuh

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