Romance › Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(op): 11:47pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
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Education › Re: Men Accused Of Writing Exams For Girlfriends-Daily Trust by raayah(f): 9:59pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
sonofananimal: ALOT of FOOLISH men are willing to go the extra miles to make their WOMEN happy.
A REAL MEN WILL NEVER PLEASE A WOMAN BY DOING SOMETHING STVPID Lol.. You haven't met me yet, once I capture you under my spell ehn, you will be robbing banks for me! |
Education › Re: Men Accused Of Writing Exams For Girlfriends-Daily Trust by raayah(f): 8:38pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
True love is dangerous. A lot of men in love are willing to go the extra mile to make their women happy. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It A Sin For Not Going To Church? by raayah(f): 5:35pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
maryannah: it is a SIn, its stated in the 10 commandment that, remember to keep the Sabbath day holy, and you should keep it holy by attending mass/service and by not going to work/ business plc. According to the Calender. The first day of the week is Suunday while the seventh day is Saturday. Most orthodox jews worship the Lord on Saturday. Why are you going to church on Sunday instead of Saturday. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Smoking A Sin? by raayah(f): 5:32pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Smoking is not a sin. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 5:22pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
pongwa: can you recommend one other book as powerful and inspiring as the Bible? The Quran! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 5:21pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
pongwa: [size=15pt]is the 'pill' from a priest?[/size] as far as I'm concerned abortion is murder Mods, please close thread, As long as a priest induces abortion, It is not a big deal. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 5:15pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
pongwa: I did not see abortion in that passage u put up but something close like 'miscarriage' induce by a certain water. its left to you to link them together.
if you are a child of God and you have a personal relationship with Him. why dont you ask Him yourself instead of confusing people here. we want solution not complications If i take a pill that causes miscarriage, is it abortion? Induced miscarriage is abortion. Why are you guys denying it. I opened this thread asking a simple question, yet no coherent answer. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 5:13pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
jstriker442: that was'nt constructed like a question though. Jst read the whole of chap. 5 and u'd find der is a reason for that. Ts a curse for a suspected unfaithful wife. The bible doesn't support killing of any kind (innocent) What is the title of my post? I read a passage that seemed weird and I asked a question. Is it wrong to ask questions in Christianity? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 5:02pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
pongwa: your proof shows abortion is a curse so anybody that does it is already cursed......choice is yours That's not my question ooh. Does the Bible support abortion (Yes/no). |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 5:01pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
ogaprime: Madam op, if you want to quote bible passage, quote from KJV and other acknowledged translation and not NIV. Thank you.... In the picture I uploaded, there were five translations including KJV. The original Bible was written in Hebrew, so whether you read KJV or NIV. They were all translated by men. Please read up on the history of King James version Bible |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 4:57pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
jstriker442: Please get your facts right and stop deceiving people How dpes asking a question deceive people? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 3:19pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
chineloSA: Madame you are the one who is confused.
According to the bible there is no unmarried couple.
There is married and unmarried ( single) and divorced and widowed.
Cohabitation is not even supported by the bible. If one has a baby without being married ( single ) that's adultery even if you have money to support the child. In that way you are depriving the child the opportunity of having legal parents under one roof and caring for his/her other needs ( psychological,parental guidance etc ). Where does the bible disapprove of cohabitation? Is the bible definition of marriage wrong? How can people who are not married commit adultery. You are still talking about single parents not individual unmarried couples. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 3:17pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
at Naijadeyhia
If even then you remain hostile toward me and refuse to obey, I will inflict you with seven more disasters for your sins. I will release wild animals that will kill your children and destroy your cattle, so your numbers will dwindle and your roads will be deserted. (Leviticus 26:21-22 NLT)
From there Elisha went up to Bethel. While he was on his way, some small boys came out of the city and jeered at him. “Go up baldhead,” they shouted, “go up baldhead!” The prophet turned and saw them, and he cursed them in the name of the Lord. Then two shebears came out of the woods and tore forty two of the children to pieces. (2 Kings 2:23-24 NAB)
The execution of the Plague (Ex 12.29ff):
At midnight the Lord struck down all the firstborn in the land of Egypt, from the firstborn of Pharaoh who sat on his throne to the firstborn of the prisoner who was in the dungeon, and all the firstborn of the livestock. 30 Pharaoh arose in the night, he and all his officials and all the Egyptians; and there was a loud cry in Egypt, for there was not a house without someone dead ng”]. Isaiah chapter 13,
Anyone who is captured will be run through with a sword. Their little children will be dashed to death right before their eyes. Their homes will be sacked and their wives raped by the attacking hordes. For I will stir up the Medes against Babylon, and no amount of silver or gold will buy them off. The attacking armies will shoot down the young people with arrows. They will have no mercy on helpless babies and will show no compassion for the children.
Hosea 9:16 Ephraim is smitten, their root is dried up, they shall bear no fruit: yea, though they bring forth, yet will I slay even the beloved fruit of their womb. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:59pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
chineloSA: Its clear that you didn't read my post. What the essence of asking me??
The whole act was to make the truth known. But not to kill a child. I don't think that they went through the whole Oath and drinking water act just to particularly kill the baby.
It was just to make all the parties know the truth.The husband be put at ease and also clear the woman's name of adultery.
In mordern days they do DNA test, is it meant to punish woman ??
Miscarriage according to wikipedia "Miscarriage, also known as spontaneous abortion and pregnancy loss, is the natural death of an embryo or fetus before it is able to survive independently."Forced miscarriage is abortion. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:57pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
chineloSA: Simple common sense. God provide through parents. Having two parents who are in a healthy marriage brings two incomes which when used wisely properly provide for the children's needs and sometimes wants. So single ( never married ) parents rarely ( though some are able ) are able to provide what married parents can. . I think you are mixing up single (individual ) parents and an unmarried couple. I am talking about unmarried couples not single parents. Besides the bible definition of marriage is that " This is why a man leaves his father and mother and bonds with his wife, and they become one flesh.". If a couple decides not to wear white wedding dress, are they not married according to the bible so far as they have left their parents? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:33pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
oyesjoy: Why twisting the word of God, it was clearly about adulterous woman? If this person that posted this, wants to do abortion, go ahead, why drag the name of God in the mud. I asked a simple yes/no question. Does the bible support abortion? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:28pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
chineloSA: Why have sex and when you know you may conceive a child that you know cant care for?? 
If you are married, you don't have to worry about the means, because God always provide. And he makes conception possible and also provide for it. If you are unmarried you have no business in having an act purposely meant for conception.  So God does not provide for kids with unmarried parents? The wicked go astray from the womb, they err from their birth, speaking lies. They have venom like the venom of a serpent. … Let them vanish like water that runs away, like grass let them be trodden down and wither. Let them be like the snail which dissolves into slime, like the untimely birth that never sees the sun. Psalms 58:3-8 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:27pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
abbey621: How does it equate to abortion? Are you saying all women who experience a miscarriage did an abortion? Or has the definition of abortion changed? No, the water caused her to have an abortion. A forced miscarriage with water/pills/injection is abortion. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:10pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:08pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
chineloSA:
Unfortunately for you madame you selected what you thought is the weakness of the verse. You did not read from the beginning of what transpired before it gets to verse 22-23.
Read the whole chapter please. If you are trying to confuse people may the Lord judge you. If you are questioning because you need understanding please read the whole Chapter. Here is Deutorocanonical version.
To me this was to prove the innocence of a woman suspected of adultery and carrying another mans child. They would make the woman swear under Oath, if the the woman was innocent, the pregnancy would stay and if the woman was guilty she would miscarry. Which is what some cultural villages do to prove innocence. This was in no way abortion.
Cases of Wives with Suspicious Husbands 11The Lord commanded Moses 12-14to give the Israelites the following instructions. It may happen that a man becomes suspicious that his wife is unfaithful to him and has defiled herself by having intercourse with another man. But the husband may not be certain, for his wife may have kept it secret — there was no witness, and she was not caught in the act. Or it may happen that a husband becomes suspicious of his wife, even though she has not been unfaithful. 15In either case the man shall take his wife to the priest. He shall also take the required offering of one kilogramme of barley flour, but he shall not pour any olive oil on it or put any incense on it, because it is an offering from a suspicious husband, made to bring the truth to light. 16The priest shall bring the woman forward and make her stand in front of the altar. 17He shall pour some holy water into a clay bowl and take some of the earth that is on the floor of the Tent of the Lord's presence and put it in the water to make it bitter. 18Then he shall loosen the woman's hair and put the offering of flour in her hands. In his hands the priest shall hold the bowl containing the bitter water that brings a curse. 19Then the priest shall make the woman agree to this oath spoken by the priest: “If you have not committed adultery, you will not be harmed by the curse that this water brings. 20But if you have committed adultery, 21may the Lord make your name a curse among your people. May he cause your genital organs to shrink and your stomach to swell up. 22May this water enter your stomach and cause it to swell up and your genital organs to shrink.” The woman shall respond, “I agree; may the Lord do so.” 23Then the priest shall write this curse down and wash the writing off into the bowl of bitter water. 24Before he makes the woman drink the water, which may then cause her bitter pain, 25the priest shall take the offering of flour out of the woman's hands, hold it out in dedication to the Lord, and present it on the altar. 26Then he shall take a handful of it as a token offering and burn it on the altar. Finally, he shall make the woman drink the water. 27If she has committed adultery, the water will cause bitter pain; her stomach will swell up and her genital organs will shrink. Her name will become a curse among her people. 28But if she is innocent, she will not be harmed and will be able to bear children. 29-30This is the law in cases where a man is jealous and becomes suspicious that his wife has committed adultery. The woman shall be made to stand in front of the altar, and the priest shall perform this ritual. 31The husband shall be free of guilt, but the woman, if guilty, must suffer the consequences. So a woman should forcefully have an abortion if she cheated? forceful miscarriage is abortion. Secondly, why didn't the man get punished for adultery? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 2:01pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
mohammedmagnus: there's no compulsion in religion if you don't want to follow it don't!!!. simple, not that you come and start defiling someone's religion, because you don't believe in it. I am not defiling religion. I asked a very simple question. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 1:51pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
gamaliel121: That is why jesus came...and modified everything.. Praise his holly name So should we ignore the old testament? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 1:50pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
abbey621: How exactly does those verses support abortion? I don't get it! This looks like a classic case of reaching, no basis just emotional jargon. May this water that brings a curse enter your body so that your abdomen swells or your womb miscarries." "'Then the woman is to say, "Amen. So be it." |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by raayah(op): 1:49pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
neocortex: God changes whenever culture change. That seems to be the answer. In new testament, women who were adulterers were to be stoned to death while in the new testament Jesus refuted that law. |
Romance › Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(op): 1:35pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Xwayhandsom264: a moderator banned gab264 for don't THREATEN, advocate, or encourage violent acts against any person, tribe, race, animals, or group.. Ban expires at October 28, 2015 at 09:58:08 AM. This is good, break rules and get banned. |
Romance › Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(op): 1:34pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
DeeTus: Not only men, women do chat as well and can hide their dirty secrets more than the men.
The question should be focused more on men and women, not only men. I am sorry if its one-sided. I only focused on the men because the thread on frontpage was really based on that. However, I do acknowledge that men and women cheat. |
Romance › Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(op): 1:15pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
honeygirl17: You dey vex
You said men always cheat, even when they don't you have made up your mind. My man don't have the power to cheat on me, even if he does I don't really care. I will definitely forgive him so why do I have to stress my head over it?
Na in those days I dey mumu dey bother my head for man, I just don't have time. I still don't think a man who loves you will intentionally put you through emotional pain. |
Romance › Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(op): 12:54pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Harbosede02: Lolllllll
Bae,pple of romance ke??,romance section na country?? What should I call them? |
Romance › Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(op): 12:46pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Hi Romancelanders,
Can we talk about this cheating thing on the front-page? Various men and women of adult age have come together to agree that Men will always cheat in a relationship. They said men cannot control their urges (wtf). What is the benefit of marriage for the average nigerian woman, who is a stay-at-home mom, with a cheating and abusive husband?
Please someone should comment and tell me that these people were trolling.
Women of nairaland, are your partners currently cheating? If yes, do you just accept it as normal?
Some reasons why men cheat
1.He has unreasonable expectations. He believes that his spouse should meet his every sexual and emotional need, 24/7, without fail. In his narcissistic and self-focused way, he doesn’t understand that his spouse may be juggling multiple priorities (kids, work, home, finances) in addition to him and the relationship. When this spouse inevitably fails him (in his view), he feels entitled to seek intimate attention elsewhere.
2.He’s a liar. He never intended to be monogamous, despite his commitment. He doesn’t understand that his vow of fidelity is a sacrifice made to and for his relationship and the person he professes to love. This man views monogamy as something to be worked around rather than embraced.
3.He is insecure. Deep down, he feels that he is too young, too old, too fat, too thin, too poor, too stupid, or too whatever to be desirable. He uses flirtation, porn, and extramarital sex as a way to feel better about himself, to reassure himself that he is still desirable, worthwhile, and “good enough.”
4.He wants out. He is looking to end his current relationship and is using external sexual and romantic activities to give his wife or girlfriend “the message” without having to be direct. Or, if he is a man who doesn’t like being alone, period, then finding a new and “better” person before leaving a current relationship provides a safer and softer landing. |
Romance › Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by raayah(f): 12:21pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
dazzlingd: see u comparing men and women.... u like it or not, a man can have many wives and still seen as normal. A woman with two husbands is unheard. that's the society for you. even in your religious books, we had men and Kings with several wives but no no no no for the reverse
not an excuse to cheat anyway..... But your religious books condemns Adultery!!! I cannot believe that you would support cheating for a man but not a woman. The double standards is crazy. Lets agree to disagree. Let us just end it here. Don't mention me again. Thanks |
Romance › Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by raayah(f): 8:34am On Oct 25, 2015 |
dazzlingd: madam, are u married? wat do u know. btw was I referring to u. u need to take a lesson on minding your business.
op keep taking advices from these single ladies. Would you stay with your wife if she was shagging random men.? |